6 WAYS To Make Your Crush Notice You (maybe obsessed over you)

our stories teach us about love potions magic spells and the hands of Fai humans have always dreamed up magical ways to make people obsess over us but in the absence of magic we can look at Psychology and human behavior to achieve the same goal these are the non-magical ways you can make your crush obsessed with you demonstrate your best attributes we typically like to surround ourselves with good people if you want someone to obsess over you showing your most honorable attributes is a good way for them to feel like they know you and to build a good reputation that can make you appear desirable just like how we seek out partners with positive physical attributes we also seek out partners with positive virtues even if you want to come across as little edgy and mysterious just remember there is a difference between being a bad boy and being just plain bad maintain a healthy lifestyle looking after your hygiene diet and fitness are all great ways to appear generally attractive to those around you but if you want to catch your crush's attention it isn't about having the biggest ABS or the firmest legs by maintaining a healthy lifestyle you're telling them that you value yourself have high standards and are committed to growing and improving be supportive we all could use support from time to time even if you think your crush is surrounded by supportive people you can and should still be supportive think of it as a test run for what your crush can expect if you were together psychologist Duncan Kramer found that couples who are emotionally supportive not only have better relationship satisfaction but also resolve conflict in healthier Ways by being supportive and reliable now you can cement yourself in the mind of your crush as someone they can rely on be mysterious you don't want them to know everything about you just yet mystery builds Intrigue between people by leaving some things up to the imagination your crush will become heavily invested in you as they yearn to uncover all of your Mysteries it's an exciting predicament to be in but don't let that fool you into thinking that being mysterious is enough don't mistake mystery for being completely closed off don't be forward there are few things less magical than someone who is blunt or pushy in the face of romance while we at psych to go believe in the value of communication spefic specifically in relationships being too open about the things that can wait might not be the strongest move right now if you want your crush to be obsessed with you don't try too hard pay attention to the previous points be the good person your crush needs you to be but don't expect anything in return don't play games psychological tips can be misconstrued as a strategy or a game if you really care about your crush you won't try to manipulate them or use any cheap tactics let's face it connections that are built upon manipulation and mind games are extremely unhealthy and Will Never Last playing hard to get neing or any other strategy that makes a rude person out of you will inevitably leave you worse off so if we can leave you with the closest thing to a magical solution it would be this be the best person you can be and the right person will see that that is the final ingredient to your ethical Love Potion so I hope you aspiring with es Wizards Sorcerers and magicians have all appreciated this lesson on how to make someone obsess over you remember that these things take time and no single point will work on its own don't expect to be nice to your crush once and they immediately fall hopelessly in love like I said in the beginning it isn't really magic if you learned something helpful today give the video a like and remember to subscribe to like to go for more tips we hope to see you next time and good luck