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It's useful for many people, but it's different from other people. So, what's the point of being a doctor? No. An engineer? No. The point is, it's useful for other people. How did you get the desire to go to a medical school? When I was in high school, I was studying until late at night. One day, I was on my way to school, and I met a guy. He said, An, An, when you grow up, what do you want to be? I said, I want to be a nuclear engineer. He said, why do you want to kill people? Find a job that can help many people. I said, if that's the case, I'll make a ranking. The first one is a doctor. If I can't be a doctor, I'll be a teacher. If I can't be a teacher, I'll be a nurse. Alhamdulillah, now I've got all three. Thank you. There are still many questions. How did you get the desire to go to a medical school? Where did you get the money from? When I went to medical school, I lied to my parents. Because my parents knew that I wanted to go to medical school, but they didn't allow me. At that time, because my high school was in PAL, I could go anywhere. I just asked for 500 rupiah to apply for a faculty. I went to medical school. My parents didn't know. But after I graduated, my parents got a little angry. Why did you go to medical school? Because I was told not to. You were afraid because the tuition was expensive. I said, sir, this time I ask for money. I asked for 33,000 rupiah for the tuition and 33,000 rupiah for the faculty. 32,000 rupiah for a year's tuition. 1,000 rupiah for a year's faculty tuition. Now, it's called PEMA. I asked for money from my parents only once. But after that, there will be other costs. Where did you get the money from? I gave private lessons. I gave lessons to high school students. Oh, did you earn your own money? Yes, I earned my own money. I heard that you sold photocopies. Oh, that was when I was a student. I always made a group of questions. And it was sold among students. Alhamdulillah, there was also money. From there, you paid for your own college. Your parents didn't help you anymore? No. Now, you are known as a weird doctor in Medan. Where is the weirdness? First, from your appearance. Because of my appearance, I was criticized. Oh, why? I was accused of being an extremist before I went to Australia. Then, what happened? After three years, I waited to be rehabilitated. Because of your appearance? Yes. Because even though you are a professor, doctor, PhD, SP, FK, that's in the background. What did the people there call you? They didn't see me as a professor. They called me Buya. Oh, so you are more known as Buya? Yes. Okay, let's continue, Buya. You were called weird. Not because of your appearance. It's more because of what you do in your doctor's practice. It's unusual. Not in your actions, but in your payment. First, what is considered weird is that you don't use your first name. Even though almost all doctors, even those who haven't practiced, use their first name first. You have practiced until today, but you don't use your first name? That's right. Why is that? Because after I came back from Australia, I actually didn't intend to practice. But I met an old patient, and they said, our doctor is back, our doctor is back. So, one by one, they appeared. They stopped me in the middle of the road, and all that. Whether I want it or not, I have to serve them. And then? Until now, it's like that. But now, how many patients do you have per day? Minimum 30. But it can reach up to 153. If you don't use your first name, it doesn't mean that this is an out-of-practice practice, right? Oh, no. I'm just guessing. Then, you are considered weird because of the payment method. First, you don't set a tariff, right? You can't. You can't? Yes. Who doesn't allow it? The lesson I've learned is that there are three professions where you can't ask for money from your colleagues. The first one is, if a student wants to learn from us. So, the profession of a teacher actually doesn't allow you to set a tariff. The second one is, if someone comes and asks for advice. We have a problem like this. As a lawyer, you can't set a tariff. And the third one is, if someone comes and asks for advice. You can't set a tariff. But if someone gives you advice, you accept it. This is a new knowledge for me. It's been a long time, sir. Who is helping you in this practice? The one who helps is my wife. The one who participates in this practice has a lot of doctoral students who learn in this practice. The one who helps you, right? Yes. Next, this is related to the payment. Although you said that there are three professions, teacher, lecturer, and doctor, which actually don't allow you to set a tariff. Yes. Interesting. Because almost all professions that we know set a tariff. Yes. The one who makes you feel weird is the payment system with Amplop. I heard that someone even gives Amplop and it's empty. This is because of you. You're looking for trouble. That's the story. Let's take a break. Stay tuned on Kikandi. People already have one house. They want to have two, three, four. Because they have to work. I heard that your patients from lower to upper class, even people from outside Sumatera come to treat you. What I said earlier is related to the payment. You said that you don't set a tariff. Patients can pay as they like. What is the meaning of paying as they like? It's their sincerity. So, if I come to treat you, and I only have 5,000 rupiah, I'll give it to you, and you'll accept it. With pleasure. Because I don't know if you pay 5,000 rupiah or 1 million rupiah. I don't know. Why don't you know? I've never opened Amplop. So, all the payments, as shown in the picture, are given through Amplop. Yes. And then, in that way, don't you feel lost? Where's the loss? I'm still rich, right? I heard that even if someone asks, Doc, how much do I have to pay? You're angry. You spit. Why? Because he insulted me. But you've given your service, and I'm asking, how much do I have to pay for that service? If I can appreciate how much my rupiah is, other people will be able to buy me. I don't want to be like that. But, what is the reaction of children's wives with their father's or husband's behavior like this? Alhamdulillah, they accept it. They accept it? Yes. If they don't accept it, I'll slap them. Who asked you to be my wife? I heard that there are also people who still use Amplop, but the Amplop is empty. How do you react when you see that Amplop is empty? Alhamdulillah, I don't know who gave it to me. So, you can't be mad at that person? No. Because I will do the same. Whether he is a high-ranking official or not, if he should be mad at me, I will be mad at him. In fact, you have to pay for your family. How much money? More than enough. Because once you get the money, you can share it. There is a post. For how much zakat, for how many parents, for how much house savings. Because until now, I don't have a house. You don't have a house? Yes, I live with my in-laws. That's the result. This is what I mean. People already have one house. They want to have two, three, four. That's why they work and set a tariff. You don't have a house yet, but you don't want to set a tariff. Where is the happiness? The happiness is the money you get is enjoyed in other forms. One of them, Alhamdulillah, we have all performed hajj. My grandson is one year old, and he has already performed umrah. Every year, he goes abroad. What else do you need? Buya, maybe your lifestyle is strange for young people now who feel that materials are the measure of success. Maybe you have some advice for young people. The advice is easy. What do you look for in life? There was a movie called What are you looking for, Mr. Lupi? What is the context of your advice? Because, as you said, you already have one house. You want another house. Meanwhile, you only have one body. How can you be quiet in front of so many houses? How many rich people don't walk with their wives, but walk with their drivers? They are rich, but they never sleep in their mattresses. They sleep in guest rooms. So, what do they look for in their wealth? The important thing is to look for a blessed wealth. A blessed wealth that pleases us and others. So, if you have experienced it, Alhamdulillah, we are rich. Life without debt is number one. Alright. Thank you, Mr. Asnam. You're welcome. Today, you shared your story with us. You shared your philosophy of life with us. Especially for the young people. And especially for the doctors. Or the doctor candidates. Hopefully, what you said gives them confidence. Alhamdulillah. Once again, thank you. You're welcome. Thank you. Imagine what will happen if a child is amputated because of his parents' decision. When he wakes up from the anesthesia, he sees that his leg is gone. And what will happen? He might be angry with his parents for the rest of his life.