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If you are crazy, don't help these 5 types of people to get into your body Welcome back to Tinh Hoa Triet Ly channel Dear everyone, In the past, we learned that only when we are in trouble can we understand people's heart In fact, life is like that Only when we are in trouble, we know Who is really a friend, is the one who is sincere to us However, not everyone can understand that simple logic For example, not many of you here have fallen into the situation of being ungrateful Seeing people in trouble, you go to the West to help However, not only are you not repaid, but also treated ungratefully through the bridge of judgment So, to avoid getting into your body, wasting your good heart You definitely have to help the right person, the right thing Especially for the next 5 types of people Even if they are in trouble, they should not help to get into your body First, those who think they are right Those who are arrogant, selfish, always think they know everything Perfect and do not need to change or improve anything In fact, many people in that number think that Others need to try to get better, of course not me They are arrogant and conservative when someone points out their shortcomings Will defend and defend These people don't want to change, always afraid of being imperfect And afraid to face the anxiety in their hearts People with such characteristics, the ancients called them stupid and arrogant They are usually not very capable, but they like to show that they are smarter than others They don't like to be advised by others, they want everything to be arranged in their own way At the same time, they don't use all their energy to study But the conservative people always think they are right, stupid and arrogant He said that he could not teach Because these people always think they are smart, don't want to listen to anyone It is very difficult to teach So if you want to help these people, you must consider carefully Because your advice, no matter how sincere it is For them, it can only be insults They definitely don't listen, but blame you Even think you don't understand Helping people like that, don't you have to be angry with yourself? The kind of people you shouldn't try to help are disloyal people And often lie They often live half open, half secret They try to lie and pull you to their side Or make a request that you can't really realize the purpose As the saying goes, knowing the face of a person is difficult to know the heart For disloyal people, it is very possible that you are just a tool to help them achieve their goal They are willing to lie, use all tricks to get your trust Maybe on the outside, they show you the good things A sincere person, but once they take off that mask The person who suffers the most loss may be you The world is easy to change, the personality is difficult to leave Lying and deception is a personality that is difficult to change So in the near future, if a friend thinks it is hard to trust Or has a past of often lying thanks to help Be sure of their purpose and then make a decision Because it is very possible that you will become their victim 3. The type of person who always thinks he is a victim A victim always lives negatively And believes that all their problems come from others They blindly believe that no matter what they do It can't help solve their problems So they feel completely powerless We may have to face this type of person every day Feel sympathy for them and want to help And even do not realize that they can take advantage of our sympathy For their purpose They like to show their power, reveal their hidden feelings And get empathy as well as help from you This will allow the victim to play with your feelings And manipulate you They can also make you feel guilty Because of what you did to them After being with them for a long time You will feel your patience, energy and feelings More and more sucked These people always find ways to cover up their bad behavior And no matter how hard you try to help them They will never change Because in your eyes, they are always innocent And as if the whole world is against them 4. People who do everything to achieve their goals A person who does everything when he has nothing to lose Can hurt you, but don't make a mistake These people are willing to do anything just to achieve their goals Even when they are behind their friends They do not respect your boundaries Abuse your vanity, time and energy They always ask others to support them, but never give in These people are also very selfless Take advantage of everyone's kindness to resist that person For them, your kindness and kindness Just a tool to help them achieve what they want If you see you can help They do not hesitate to serve, support To take advantage of you Even harm you to create a mark on the road Such people are not only not trustworthy But also have a soul and personality Instead of wasting time helping You should stay away from them 5. People who are greedy, lazy, afraid of difficulties, afraid of suffering Winter is coming, a poor man lives in the same village His father gave him a cow to help him plow the field His father was happy With this cow, if he worked hard By autumn, the poor man could escape poverty The poor man was also full of hope However, only a few days later He realized that people need to eat rice and cows need to eat grass Having a cow makes life more difficult He decided to sell the cow to buy some goats First, he will bring a goat to eat The other goats to raise But only after a few weeks He realized that he had run out of food The other goats also did not give birth Life became difficult He kept a goat Then, to improve the current difficulty He sold the goat and bought a chicken With the hope that the chicken will help him make money faster Over time The number of chickens he bought was only one Because he wanted to eat chicken all the time Money can't make it Life is getting more and more difficult Unable to bear the loss He decided to sell the remaining chicken And buy a bottle of wine to drink later Winter passed From a cow, only a bottle of white wine was left Spring came He happily brought seeds to the poor man's house With the intention of giving for the upcoming season When he got there, he was sad Looking at the poor man's house Still very poor as before The cow was also not in the house He was confused Then quietly returned There is always a type of person in life Like a poor person in such a story Greedy, lazy But always complain that he is poor People like that Often people who can't bear the pain Again extremely lazy They just sit there and think about the poor But never do anything to change People say Give people a fish You will eat it all in one day But if you teach people how to fish People will be able to eat fish for the rest of their lives However, for lazy people Whether you need or give fish Can't help Because they don't have hands to do it Helping the lazy is never enough The more you help, the more useless it is For the middle class You can help them But you must be careful And never trust them 100% Because these people are not straightforward Maybe in front of you They look kind or pitiful But behind the back Very likely Smiling for taking advantage of you So don't because of a few sweet words Or see them as pitiful But waste your good heart Dear friends Besides bad people There are still many good people Ready to lend a hand to help us When we are in trouble Maybe they don't say sweet words The way they show it is also vulgar But for sure Their heart is true People like that Used to be called noble And if you meet them Although they may be rude to you Don't mind But respect and be kind to them Because no one can do that So specifically What kind of person is that? I invite you to continue listening Three types of people Thought to be cruel But it is the cause of your life First People who are ready to pour cold water When you shout When you fail You tend to be boring However When you succeed You certainly have a shout Excitement In life People easily give up After achieving results in work From here They ignore other people's suggestions Because I'm good enough And no need to learn from people around They gradually immerse themselves in their own halo Created by themselves Without paying attention to what others say This is what Makes their next journey Have to fail easily Therefore At this time If there is a person next to the bell And pour cold water on your friend Surely You will have bad thoughts about him In fact If you look back They are the ones who help you wake up In the play The hero is a talented talent Created very carefully However Just because he is arrogant Arrogant Show off Unable to create But give to the dead In life Hiding is teaching Hiding is smart People need to learn how to cover up their flaws Real talent and wisdom Is to know things that you don't know From there Don't stop learning And improve more and more In this era Many people are impatient Show off Desperate to be recognized by others So When you have just achieved a bit of success In a hurry Regret others In this life Only those who are talented But shy Have work But know to respect Achieve But humble Then it is a real talent So Those who are willing to stop When you show arrogance With a little success Really Is a talent Second People give you a chance to practice Not a temporary solution If you observe You will see there are two types of parents One is parents see their children fall Immediately run to help and comfort Or parents stand aside Encourage children to stand up Look at you Also know How parents are better for their children In adult life Also When facing difficulties in business And need help Maybe you will meet two types of benefactors One is People are willing to lend you money To solve difficulties immediately Two is People only make mistakes You have to Lead to this consequence And never stop encouraging Efforts to recover Maybe Many people will express gratitude To the person who lent money In fact It is true that we should be grateful To those who help us On the other hand Cold people Point out your shortcomings And motivate you To correct your mistakes Which is really the cause of your life So from now on You will look at your shortcomings To recover And avoid later Instead of making money To rescue But then You may repeat that mistake Third People always prefer to lose to you Everyone appears in your life All have a reason Like the opponent appears Always competing and prefer to lose Not that they come to help you Or pull you down Think positively They appear As motivation for you to try After all Humans are born No one wants to lose to others It is the blood For the opponent to appear Help you never stop trying Never stop creating To achieve the best results Opponents help us Don't sleep on victory Because you just need to stop The opponent can overcome Anytime So The appearance of the opponent Can be considered as The cause of your career In a more violent way Not Is a soft encouragement Dear friends In life We all want Everything to be smooth Smooth as the wind But not many people understand That the fate of luck Is not created by chance In the Dharma Buddha taught When the Dharma is born The karma is eliminated It means that the Dharma That is born Is also eliminated Whether it is by chance Or by accident It is not beyond that principle The ancients also said If you want to know the life before Just look at this life If you want to know the life after Look at this life created Fate is predestined What happens in this life Of a person Are all the results Caused by the previous life And the past in this life Therefore It can be said Fate is actually The law of cause and effect Whichever karma you have committed You will receive that fate Debt or debt Gratitude or gratitude Partly due to fate The rest Is caused by ourselves There are many people Often complain that The person next to you Does not treat you well This Can't blame others It is not that the sky is not fair But it is due to the karma Of your own Therefore If it is karma It can't be avoided If you are not lucky To meet the fortunate people Please accept these three words To eliminate hatred And become peace Dear friends First All karma Has been arranged Just do a good job The old saying Do a good job In the future It means just do a good job Ask about the future This sentence does not say Who does a good job Or do a good job In what conditions But the idea is that In every situation and situation We should all be good people This does not Relate to helping anyone Maintain rule But it is to show the human heart Only in this way Can we become peace The cause is also the creation of heaven and earth In the hope that they Naturally disappear That is not possible So Just argue with them To the end On the side of strength On the side of generosity Is that how it is produced? Of course not For the little man The best method is Do not accept them People often joke Being bitten by a dog Can not bite again That is also the reason When the little man is jealous If we do the same as them So we are no different Where is the little man As the saying goes Warriors do not fight with the little man Evil people All evil people The little man who is dangerous There is always someone who can punish them The little man who is cunning Also can not escape The law's coercion The violation of morality That's why there is a saying A dog with thick whiskers has sharp claws Love in life Which is controlled by the law of cause and effect Therefore Instead of being stubborn all day Joking with the little man Equal to yourself Do your job well Like the story is true About Tang Guofeng A famous patriotic thinker Of China Modern times The story goes that When Tang Guofeng Just got a job at the Hanlin Academy He is a subordinate of Zhaojie Once he got an opportunity His parents came to Beijing Zhaojie wanted to invite his colleagues To attend the party Tang Guofeng was not familiar With how to borrow this opportunity So he refused Zhaojie saw that He was very dissatisfied Later, Tang Guofeng was promoted To a higher position than Zhaojie Zhaojie was dissatisfied thousands of times But he could only keep it in his heart Later, Tang Guofeng Was harmed by others Forced to commit a crime Was even demoted And became a subordinate of Zhaojie Not only that Tang Guofeng was sick all his life At that time He was very sick Painful to the point He could not sit for a long time He immediately went to see the superior Asked for permission to stay at home for two days Zhaojie waited until the day There was a chance to revenge So of course It will not be easy to ignore He went to teach Tang Guofeng He had just been demoted for a few days Asked for permission again Is it an honor? His request Zhaojie did not agree Tang Guofeng was unworthy Had to be sick and work Since Tang Guofeng was demoted As long as there is a chance Zhaojie will teach Tang Guofeng Moreover He went all over the place Speak ill of him to his colleagues But Tang Guofeng did not fight back Later Tang Guofeng was promoted Should be promoted Zhaojie was afraid he would take revenge But on the contrary He treated everyone fairly Never mentioned the old story Tang Guofeng said There are three things that artists do not fight for That is Keep fighting with the military Keep fighting with the people And keep fighting with the earth Not afraid Will not let yourself fall into the fighting circle Not tired Because of the cheater Does not create many enemies Not afraid of being harmed by others Not afraid to save a lot of time Have enough energy to do what I want Because not afraid of everything Only one heart, one mind to work As a person, Tang Guofeng created a miracle In the middle of the square That is, only in 9 years He was promoted to 10 levels Finally become a god Be praised by people forever If bad luck is difficult to resolve Then just follow it How others treat you That is your cause and effect And how you treat others That is your practice So no matter how much pain others cause Hurt us Never have the idea Must return to the other party like that So live in life Learn not to be stubborn with anything Learn to let go Do not be angry with yourself Only in this way can life be better The second is the cause and effect of yourself Learn how to transform adversity into bliss If a person is selfish And has a strong fighting spirit Then it is very easy to have enemies When that person realizes There are too many enemies Then he will not know how to transform an enemy Into a friend Skill, sincerity and kindness Is the basis to become a person A pure heart filled with sincerity and kindness Has the ability to dispel all hatred In the world And easily turn enemies into friends There is a story like this In the past, there was a farmer and a butcher They were neighbors The butcher raised a dog Which was very fierce and hard to protect They often jumped over the fence And chased the farmer's goat The farmer reminded the neighbor To take care of the dog But it turned out Those words were left out One day The dog jumped over the fence again They chased away the goat And injured many animals The farmer couldn't take it anymore He ran to the butcher to report The butcher listened to the story And said I can punish the butcher And force him to take the dog back But he will lose a friend And another enemy What do you want more? A friend or a neighbor? The farmer replied I want to have a friend The butcher listened and said Okay, I will teach you a way To protect the goat And keep a friend When he got home The farmer tried to do What the butcher had taught him He took his three most beautiful goats And gave them to the neighbors The neighbors were very happy And played with the goats To protect the new toys The butcher made a strong stick To tie the dog Since then The dog never chased the goat Of the farmer He was grateful to the farmer For his children The butcher often brought Goods that he could sell To the neighbors The farmer also gave Goat meat and milk In a short time The two neighbors became good friends Through this story We can see The best way to resolve a relationship Is to be generous To treat others If the farmer Didn't choose to be generous Then the butcher Would be arrested And surely The enmity between them Would get worse Maybe that Made the farmer Very angry But in the long run He would have to live in fear And guard his neighbors In the Buddha's Sutra If the butcher Was afraid of the bad karma The karma of the Buddha The Buddha taught his disciples When they heard the son's scene from the teacher They simply thought the son is very ambitious And so, when he was 18 He applied for the university And was admitted to a related university When he graduated His parents still had many expectations for him But after being protected from his childhood They constantly thought of him He completely lost the ability to independently Not only did he not want to find a job, he was 40 years old at the time, but he stayed at home all day and used the living expenses he received from his parents to invest in electronic games. It is worth mentioning that once his mother advised him not to play games all day, he suddenly quarreled and broke his brother's mother's arm. Now, although his parents regretted that they had spoiled him to the point that the behavior of the child was changed, everything was too late. The product of the spoiling from the parents not only caused trouble for the children, but also made the parents extremely sad. So never say that sacrificing a father's life to save a child's life. In the past, there was a saying, whatever is too much is not good. I still know that the love of parents is vast, but sometimes you need to know how to let go so that the child can stand on his own two feet. I can't be with you forever, so give them what they need. Teach them how to fish instead of bringing fish to the children. Moreover, if you give your children too much, you can't save a little for yourself when you get old. At that time, at a young age, you will become their burden. That is, not to mention when you are sick. You have to understand that money is not everything, but saving money is the strength of old age. Making money and saving money are both important. Regardless of whether you are young or old, having money means that you can take care of yourself. Parents love their children because when they get old, they don't have to rely on their children to raise them. That's really a good parent. Second, selling your health to get money is a lesson. Have you ever asked yourself, in the end, what is the most important thing in your life? Is it money, prosperity, or a career? Is it family, friends, or a perfect life? It's hard to say, because people always want to chase everything to the end. They want to be rich and powerful, but they still want to be greedy and greedy. They know a lot of nonsense. Even if the month is long, they are still healthy. But regardless of everything, to get into the money circle, they want to have a lot of money. We can say that the most priceless thing in our lives is time and health. But not everyone understands that. Many people answer the question, for you, what is the most important thing right now? That is money. Because they think that having money is having everything. With money, their lives will be prosperous and rich. And with money, they can buy everything. But there are things that money can never buy. Although money is very powerful, it also has its own limits and limits. Maybe you will feel happier, more relaxed, when you hold a lot of money in your hand. But do you feel happy when you don't have health? Definitely not. Because only health creates money. Money can never create health. When we come to this world, no one can decide. When we have to go away, no one in this world can pull it. The most important thing is the process of living and existing between those two times. Only by living well and respecting yourself can we achieve happiness and relaxation from deep in the soul. Nowadays, we are always chasing a successful path and ready to give up time, family, and the most dangerous thing is to give up health. Reaching the peak of success without health, full of suffering, is also just meaningless success. We don't even have a moment to enjoy the achievements we achieve from that success. Remember that the Buddha did not exclude anyone. Regardless of whether you are rich or poor, high or low, if you are lucky enough to have a good health, it means that you are close to success in all areas. Anything is fine, except for illness. Nothing is fine, except for not having money. Anything is fine, except for lack of health. Health is not everything. But without health, there will be nothing. Third, building a big house is like this. A big house is always the pride of any family. However, not every family has enough economic conditions to build a big house. Many people even try to build a big house with their family's financial resources and then have to pay off their debts. However, that is really not right. However, some people build a big house not because they want to use it or because they have a lot of money, but because they want to show off. For example, the story of an audience sent to the program after this. Both my wife and I were born in Bac Giang. I worked for a transportation company, earning about 20 million VND per month. My wife earned about 15 million VND per month. After a few years of working in the capital, my husband also earned about 700 million VND, plus 300 million VND selling our parents' land in the countryside. The two of us agreed to buy a piece of land in Ngoai Thanh and then build a house there. Because of our collective income, it has now become too tight and it is difficult for the three of us, plus my grandmother, to sometimes help take care of the grandchildren. Moreover, most of my wife's colleagues have houses. Sometimes when I meet my old friend, I feel very ashamed when I say that I still rent a house. So we bought all 700 million VND of land. The remaining 300 million VND, we mortgaged the land and the bank added 200 million VND to build a house. At first, my wife and I only intended to build a two-story small house with a cost of about 400 million VND. More than 100 million VND is used to live on the basic interior. Knowing that my husband and I were planning to build a house, my parents in the countryside called me to tell me that I had only built a house once in my life, so I had to build it for myself. At least I have to do three floors because it is beautiful and later our children will have a comfortable and spacious place. Then sometimes, neighbors from Hanoi came to visit. They also saw that my husband's wife had a spacious house. Anyway, in my hometown, there is also a rumor that it is a place to eat and study. Then there is a stable job in the capital. Hearing my parents analyze, it makes sense, so I talked to my wife to try to build another floor. At first, my wife did not agree because if she wanted to build, she had to go and borrow more money. But later, I saw that I was determined, so my wife did not stop me anymore. I have a friend who runs a construction and interior material business, so we took all of his materials. My friend told me to take the good ones, try a little bit, and then stay for the rest of my life. So my wife and I just tried a little bit more. The interior of the house, from the bridge, bathroom, washbasin, kitchen, to the table, chair, wardrobe, are all good. Because both husbands are managers, they do not have time to supervise, so there are many places that the construction company does not agree, I asked them to demolish and rebuild. Such times also generate more costs. Finally, the cost of building the house doubled compared to the initial budget. I had to borrow another 500 million from the bank to pay for the construction cost. So after the house was built, we owed about 700 million VND in debt. Not to mention the amount of money that my acquaintance borrowed, not returned, was about a few tens of millions more. After the house was built for a few months, my wife thought of having a second child. During that time, the income of the family was significantly reduced, but the cost of birth was very high, because I had to take care of both children, and I had to worry about paying the debt, making my husband and I look like a pinwheel. Meanwhile, the money in the bank still had to be paid evenly like a picture. The two husbands encouraged each other to try to turn this place over and over again. Several times, we had to heat up a lot in order to pay the debt in time. Sometimes, the pressure of debt really made me regret. If only I had not been too arrogant. If only I had known the amount of building suitable for the money bag, then perhaps my family would be happy now. I feel ashamed and guilty to my wife and children because I was the one who indirectly pushed them into this miserable situation. Through the story, we can see that it is agreed that there must be a proper house, but not too much. Let's ask, what time do you have to stay at home every day? When staying at home, most of the time is when I close my eyes. Therefore, big or small house, ugly or beautiful, don't be too important. The important thing is the warm and peaceful atmosphere of the family. You have to remember that the real meaning of a house is a place to shelter from the rain and wind, is a place to be surrounded by loved ones, not something to show off. A smart person should never pay attention to gossip or follow public opinion. Don't overestimate other people's evaluation that affects the future of wealth. The ancients said that when the sky is high, sleeping at night is not more than 2 meters, the garden is good, the meal is not more than 3 meals. People live in life, the most important moment is to know how to be satisfied. Don't praise yourself but push yourself into the same situation as you. Dear friends, in fact, life is full of difficulties and challenges. There are very simple principles, but not everyone can understand. But life is only once to always live in peace and happiness. So never forget the three most important things that a smart person should never do. Thank you for listening to the old-fashioned conversations on the channel. If you find it interesting, please support by clicking like and subscribing to the channel so that our team has the motivation to create more valuable videos for you. Have a safe and happy day. Goodbye and see you in the following videos on the channel.