Quy tắc để phát triển suốt đời: Kể từ hôm nay cho tới 3 năm nữa bạn sẽ làm những gì để đạt được thành công?
Bạn muốn thành công như thế nào trong tương lai, quan trọng hơn việc, hiện tại bạn đang ra sao. Chỉ cần có mục tiêu, bạn sẽ có khả năng đạt được mọi thứ.
Trưởng thành, là bước tiến mà ai cũng sẽ trải qua, trong cuộc đời của mình, với một tâm thế tự hào và hạnh phúc. Tuy nhiên, khi mỗi chúng ta lớn lên, đều có những ước mơ vô cùng to lớn, nhưng lại không biết lập trình kế hoạch như thế nào cho đúng, để tiến tới thành công. Chính vì vậy, để có thể biến hoài bão của mình trở thành hiện thực, với một phiên bản mới của bản thân, tốt hơn so với quá khứ và hiện tại, bạn cần nắm rõ quy tắc phát triển suốt đời này.
Trong cuốn sách, ai, chứ không phải thế nào, của tác giả Dan Sullivan, đã từng đặt ra câu hỏi, giúp mọi người định hướng tương lai rằng. Xét trên phương diện cá nhân và sự nghiệp, nếu bạn và tôi gặp nhau ba năm trước đây, bản thân bạn, mong muốn điều gì xảy ra, sau khi gặp tôi? Và rồi, kể từ cuộc gặp gỡ ấy, bạn có thể coi 3 năm sau đó, là những năm thành công của bạn chứ?
Đương nhiên, điều bạn mong đợi, là tìm ra cách, để có nhiều kết quả đáng tự hào hơn trong hiện tại, và vượt qua những rào cản đã, đang kìm hãm bạn, trong quãng thời gian 3 năm qua. Tuy nhiên, khi nhìn lại câu hỏi, bạn sẽ nhận ra rằng, hành vi trong quá khứ của bạn, sẽ làm nên con người bạn ngày hôm nay. Và tương tự, nếu muốn định hình tương lai của mình một cách tốt hơn, bạn cần nâng cấp hành vi của bạn ở hiện tại.
Rules to develop throughout life
From today to 3 years later, what will you do to be considered a successful person?
How do you want to succeed in the future is more important than what you are doing now.
As long as you have a goal, you will be able to achieve everything.
1. What will you do to succeed in the next 3 years?
Growth is a step that everyone will go through in their life with a proud and happy attitude.
However, when we grow up, we all have huge dreams,
but we don't know how to plan properly to succeed.
Therefore, in order to turn your ambition into reality with a new version of yourself,
better than the past and present, you need to understand the rules of development throughout life.
In the book Who, but not how? by the author Giang Sullivan,
I once asked a question to help people plan for the future.
Based on personal experience and career,
if you and I met 3 years ago,
what do you want to happen after meeting me?
And then, from that meeting,
can you see 3 years later as your successful years?
Of course, what you expect is to find a way
to have more proud results in the present
and overcome the obstacles that have been holding you back for 3 years.
However, when you look back at the question,
you will realize that your behavior in the past will make you the person you are today.
And similarly, if you want to better shape your future,
you need to upgrade your behavior in the present.
Each of us has heard the famous saying of the physicist Einstein,
that is,
madness is doing the same thing over and over again and waiting for different results.
Therefore, if you are losing your direction and going the wrong way in life,
but the desire inside you always urges you to do something else,
then change your own direction.
The most successful people often focus on one thing they really want
and plan to achieve it.
Jopelis once said,
if you want to have different successes,
you have to be ready to give up things that are not important to your life.
You are the one who decides, controls what happens
and allocates time for every activity in a reasonable way.
When you start to achieve success in the future,
believe that what you are doing is a very good job
and try your best to connect with the great minds of the time
to become a better version of them.
As Paul Aden once said,
looking at your direction, your position and the person you want to become in the future
is the greatest asset you have.
2.
Building a path for a successful future plan is necessary to develop throughout life.
The past is a treasure trove of priceless experiences.
With all the valuable experiences you have experienced,
you will learn a lot of lessons to help you direct a better future.
However, when setting a goal for development,
you should take the initiative to move forward
and see the past as a tool of support,
not something you want to pull.
Therefore, from today,
be determined to take full responsibility for your life
and start taking action to achieve the goal you want.
In addition, what can help you become a version of your dream
is to change your way of thinking,
how to face problems in a way that suits your future goals.
Dr. Yodit Benya is an international lecturer,
researcher, and business consultant
who once mentioned the issue of change of thinking that
all creativity in life is based on self-thinking.
Or in the book of Anthony Robbins,
named Awakening the Extraordinary Human in You,
he also wrote that
you have to make clear decisions
to be able to make good commitments
to do what you want.
You must always be ready for big action.
You should continue to change your approach
until you achieve what you want on your path.
Change your way of thinking into action.
If everything does not go as you think,
do not hesitate to try again.
After those attempts, you will become better.
Therefore, from now on,
pay attention to adjusting your actions
based on the effects and efficiencies you can achieve to succeed.
We all always imagine a bigger and better future
than the present and the past.
However, there will always be a gap
between your present and your future.
Sometimes, taking a step back,
taking two steps forward,
will help you choose more careful actions
than trying to get tired step by step.
As long as you are always determined to improve yourself every day,
your decisions will bring you closer
to your better version in the future.
As Dr. Bernard Roth said,
experiencing life will help you change your thoughts
and your current person.
It will help you plan better
to achieve what you seriously want to do.
By adding more positive habits
and good behavior,
you will be able to grasp and control the course of your life.
Your best life is ahead.
Set a clear goal for what you want
and continue to aim for it.
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