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The 8 greatest shortcomings of human life overcome the evil is a successful person The difference between a great man and a normal person is that a great man usually only needs a small spiritual encouragement can also take courage know how to focus your energy to do a good job that normal people spend their energy to go to do a lot of work the result is not good The problem is that in a colorful life everyone has shortcomings and people are better at their own to improve themselves Ancient people have combined the 8 shortcomings of human life in the following four verses Talent is not enough to cultivate awareness is not enough to worry a lot Knowledge is not enough to be angry character is not enough to say a lot Courage is not enough to immerse oneself Self is not enough to observe Reason is not enough to fight a lot Love is not enough to take care of Everyone has a few shortcomings The important thing is that we are aware of the problem and have the appropriate improvement method 1 Talent is not enough to calculate a lot Every time something happens that we have to waste our time thinking considering, calculating means our knowledge is not enough our ability is limited In work, too we often encounter problems that we don't know how to deal with Then, either give up or put up with the problem This situation happens a lot especially in young people Because when they have free time they are either lazy or enjoy life just worry about eating and sleeping but don't think about reading or add more knowledge to themselves so when they have a problem they immediately worry and confused have no way to solve So, instead of dealing with the negative why don't you try to use your wisdom and face all difficulties with a calm and positive attitude Remember that only by learning, reasoning, and never stop developing yourself can we have enough confidence to face the problem When we need to be decisive we can be decisive and be optimistic and face any situation we can adapt and solve 2 If you don't understand enough, think and worry a lot Knowledge is the result of learning The accumulation of experience is also the expression of a broad view and predictions for the future The vague realization of the future like a thin net originates from the uneasiness in thinking and the self-circulation with a lot of knowledge the way to see the limit In fact, if you have enough knowledge and an open mind you will understand that the future is not just a long time you only need to focus on living for the good of the present you will eliminate all worries Suspicion or the other Worries uneasiness in life are not affected from the outside but caused by our knowledge To change this situation you have to raise your IQ have a broad view and the best way is to study hard and love reading 3 If you don't have enough, you get angry a lot Sometimes you get angry because you feel that others don't respect you so you use extreme means to attract others' attention The more angry you are the more you show that you lack wisdom and kindness This is a sign of not being self-confident The less powerful you are the easier it is to get angry and the more often you lose your temper Once they face failure and adversity they easily get angry and angry and the more angry and angry the easier it is for others to criticize and hate The less powerful you are the easier it is for you to fail On the other hand those who are compassionate calm and calm when faced with difficulties will calmly accept and find a way to solve until they achieve the desired result Such people will receive sincere respect from others Hope comes from virtue The strength of morality can conquer everyone So instead of being angry all the time and creating negative emotions please cultivate yourself to become a role model and be respected and cherished by those around you 4. Not enough words The ancients used to say those who have virtue have few words and those who lack virtue are confused Those who cultivate simple and concise words are not as good as those who talk Those who are impatient and hasty their words are endless They also like to talk about baseless things A gentleman who is well-educated who is well-known who speaks carefully who is selfless is a good person The Three Flowers are only for those who are not talented who have to use their good mouth to apply wisdom If you believe in yourself believe in your achievements and the relationships you have then let it naturally happen as it is instead of making up lies with your tongue Once you have the word people are not afraid of being misunderstood or have a negative view of themselves And once you no longer feel afraid people will not have to be busy to explain themselves to the whole world 5. Not enough courage to be humble Those who do not have the courage to work are always afraid timid and indecisive can only do the daily work that is intended to be a normal life Those who are really courageous are those who have an inner courage there is a spirit courage just a little encouragement is self-recommendation immediately a spirit of ambition to make a great success a small thing but a great achievement The difference between a great man and a normal person is the great man usually only needs a small encouragement can also get the courage know how to focus his energy to do a good thing that ordinary people divide their energy to go and do a lot of things, the result of which should not be anything. Five months of going without hiding, waiting for people to get bored, instead of staying forever with the method of doing a lot but getting less of a normal, quiet life, it is better to focus your energy, try to get the courage to do a good thing and achieve great success. Our ancestors used to say, the most artistic, the most noble, is to teach people to put effort into a big thing. Concentrate on doing a good thing, then the result will naturally come back, even if you face failure, you will not regret it. Sixth, do not judge a book by its cover. In the process of working, there are often a lot of jobs that make us dizzy, but this is the expression of not judging a book by its cover, not being clear about everything, but also expressing the level of wisdom. A smart person, everything is shown in small details such as, let's fix everything we say wrong into right, should not easily deny others. First of all, affirm the other person's point of view, and then give your own opinions. You can joke with your friends, but you must not make fun of their hobbies. The first time you meet, be sure to try to remember the other person's name. Many people say that they can't remember the other person's name, it's not that they can't remember, it's because they don't care. No matter how angry you are, you should not say anything that hurts the other person, even if you are a close friend. You look bad, but you don't need to say it, please leave a way for others. 7. If the logic is not enough, argue a lot. The Confucius once said, God does not like to speak, but four seasons still run as usual, hundreds of animals still grow as usual, God does not say anything. Those who understand logic, do not need much argument, time will prove their logic is correct. On the contrary, those who are unreasonable, do not understand the essence of logic, and still use a lot of clever words, fancy words, and strange things to cover up their empty nature. These people usually have too many memories, their ideas are too big, if their careers do not succeed, they will lose their reputation. The eight realms themselves are blind, just like a big box of glue. But there are people who choose to hide their talents, not to show that they have excellent talent, but to be silent, waiting for the opportunity to come and do it, when it comes out, it will definitely succeed. 8. If the love is not enough, argue a lot. Arguing is just the rules of relationship between people, the stranger the person, the more rituals must be used to treat, in modern society, sometimes gifts are like personal objects of the giver, if you do not want to be rude, and take the time to write a note to the receiver, then the gift will be thrown up. That just shows that your love for the receiver is still very hostile, a bit harsh. And those who have a deep love for each other, they use sincere love to deal with each other, no need to argue. This is not only in the scope of work, relationship with the boss, but also in the whole family relationship. Sometimes you are willing to give your parents a gift of tens of millions of VND, but you can't give them a conversation, a 30-minute long meeting. Arguing, no time, is one of the many reasons given. But take a closer look at yourself, must it be because you yourself do not have enough care, respect for them? Rituals, gifts, are replaced by feelings, try to ask, will that relationship last long, until you want to take care of your parents, will they still be in this life? Those who deserve to be convinced, it is when they realize their shortcomings, then they will try to change, try to find a way to add to it, thanks to that, which can become the advantage of themselves. Rain, cold, clear sky, is the desire to achieve higher achievements in life. This life is not perfect, however, it is not because of that that we have lost the balance of fate. Once you dare to admit your shortcomings, and make up for your shortcomings through your own efforts, people can go much further.