Cả đời quần quật, cuối đời ta được gì? - Triết Lý Cuộc Sống

What do we get in the end of the world? My dear friends, the human life is short, a hundred years like a ball through the window. On each tick of the clock, each part of life has passed. Round and round, we have counted how many times. 60, 70, 80 or 100 years, I don't know how many times is enough for a human life. A whole life of struggling, struggling, until old age, have you ever asked yourself what you got? Looking back at your whole life, are you satisfied or regretful that when the time comes, you will think differently and live differently? Let's go through life to find the answer in today's video. First, at the end of life, we get a saving. Money is necessary in this life. If we don't have money, how hard it is to live. That is why when we are young, we always try to devote ourselves to work, to career, to change our life to be free and peaceful when we get old, so that we can have a self-sustaining money when there is no luck, the wind blows. Money is the strength of old age. With money, you can eat whatever you like, travel to wherever you want, don't have to look at your children's attitude to live. If you want to enjoy your free old age, don't have to take care of your children or open the door for your children, you can completely spend money to support your children in these things. With money, if you can't even serve yourself, you can hire someone to take care of you or choose the best care services. It's not wrong to say that your old age will be much more free and happy if you have money. However, money also has two sides, both black and shiny. Don't forget this so that you can run and run forever in the struggle to make money until the end of your life, only to receive pain and also to suffer. There is a very good story about the love of man before the power of money. I would like to tell you as follows. There was a poor boy who always dreamed of making a lot of money. One day, on his way home from school, he passed by a river that was starting to freeze in winter. Suddenly, he saw a merchant drop a coin into the river. The boy was excited and rushed to pick it up. Unfortunately, the new layer of ice on the river was not strong enough to withstand his weight. So, before he could pick up the coin, it fell down to the ground. The story is short, but it gives us a valuable lesson that money has a great power of attraction. Standing in front of its brilliance, anyone who is not determined enough will risk his life to catch it. What will happen in the end? A hot-tempered, uncalm and not even serious about making money will suffer pain. Perhaps, there are a lot of real stories around us that show the effect of being rich makes you crazy. There are people who spend their youth, time and health to work to make money until they get sick and then regret that they are not good enough for their own health. Or there are people who for the sake of money, they try everything to get it with illegal money, but in the end, they end up in jail. It's really sad. That's not all. Sometimes, your old property, money to save for your own health, accidentally become a source of money for conflicts in the family like siblings in the house because they fought for their parents' property and ended up fighting each other. Even, there are people who beat their relatives to death just because they fought for a few square meters of land. So, we work hard to save money for our own health. However, don't have too much property to share with your children so that you have to live completely dependent on your children when you get old. When you are young, don't let greed for money lead you to lose yourself. Earn money in your own ability but not for money regardless of the bigger values in life such as health, love, happiness. Ladies and gentlemen. Second, at the end of life, we have children. What makes you proud when you get old? Is it a big house, a big car, or children who grow up and have a happy life? I believe that spending the rest of your life spending your youth to fight is not to build a house or a car to have money in your pocket but to try to have achievements for the next life. Now, the biggest desire of parents when they get old is to see their children grow up smart, mature, have a peaceful family life. Many children when they grow up start to fly away and try to hang around in the new markets to earn a lot of money. But they forget that their parents have also worked hard like that just to get some money for their children in the future. And then, when they get old, they are like their parents now who are hiding in a hospital every day looking for their children. But a mistake that many people make when they are young is to try to earn money for their children's future but they don't have time to spend for their children. So, some families even though they are rich but their children are not sure if they are healthy or even if they are stupid make their parents upset. Earning money is very important for adults but it is not the most important thing for children. What children need the most is their parents' care and proper education. Don't just earn money and forget to educate your children because if you don't when you get old you will regret because of that. But it's too late. Third At the end of life we have a friend who is always with us. After the years when we were young we struggled and counted who would be by our side until the end of life. We always respect, understand, trust, tolerate and walk with him everywhere and face the rain and the wind for a lifetime and share all the happiness and sadness with each other. That is our friend. As the saying goes a man has no wife he is not rich a woman has no husband he has no place to live and he is not a hero so at the end of life if the husband still can live with the wife without being separated then you should always respect the father-in-law and the father-in-law because the husband has to live with the wife for a 100 years and a thousand years to be with the wife. Old love is not sweet like the old days the happiness of the life are all in the rice the oil the fish But it's humiliating to raise such a smart child. But all of that will pass over time. Husband and wife can still be together, and take care of each other when they get old. That is the greatest happiness. Husband is the permanent shoulder of the wife. The wife will become the support to help the husband go through the rest of the months together. Therefore, at the end of life, wanting to have the happiness and place of old age like that, right from the age of youth, you should respect your life partner. When you are young, because you treat her well, she will always be by your side. When you are young, because you treat him sincerely, he will love you wholeheartedly. Don't lose your wife, the one who always loves you the most. Also, don't lose the man who loves you the most. Because in the end, they are the one who will be with you the longest in this life. Ladies and gentlemen, whether life is happy or not, happy or sad, it's mostly because of our way of thinking and living. Live healthy, optimistic, happy, independent, take care of yourself, know how to leave peace, harmony in nature, not worry about death when it hasn't come. That is one of our ways of living happiness when we get old. First, health is the top priority. When we live more than half of our life, many people break up. Health is the most precious thing. The money you give is just a few drops of water. A lifetime is only more than 30,000 days. Who knows, before tomorrow wakes up, we can still see the light of tomorrow. This life is really precious. So, cherish every second, every minute. When we are young, we always think that the gods, death and diseases will come to other people's homes, not us. We often think that we are still young, but we bring health to fight against external objects. Before 55 years old, we use health to make money. After 60 years old, we use money to fight against health. Everyone needs to know how to cherish and maintain their own health. Because only you, not anyone else, have to take responsibility for yourself. The most precious thing in life is what we have now. A healthy body means a happy life. Life is full of ups and downs, sometimes sunny, sometimes rainy. Everyone should know how to maintain their health and a calm attitude to accept fate. Being a human being, just don't swear with your heart, is already perfect. To live a healthy and peaceful life is already a precious happiness that nothing can compare. Second, sincerity is the most precious thing. In life, the most difficult thing is to hope that people are sincere with themselves. In more than 300,000 days, there are thousands of faces in our lives. They come and go, but how many people are sincere with themselves? When you meet someone who is sincere with himself, it is a blessing in disguise. There are two things that you should not betray, which are love and sincerity. Don't be cold-blooded to leave someone who is really good to you. Because when you have something you don't keep, don't look for it even if you lose it. If you can find it again, it's hard to be as good as before. Money is not there, you can go and earn it. But sincerity is no longer useless. If someone is kind to you, don't forget it. No one has the duty to help you. Life is too short, but love is too deep. So don't be a kind and helpful person. Don't betray someone who is good to you. Third, live a free and independent life. People see flowers blooming and withering, but their hearts are not bothered by sadness. People see the sky full of clouds, but their hearts are not afraid of thoughts. They are free and independent in life. People who have lived a life will not be happy because they have, not sad because they have lost. They don't attach their happiness to an ordinary life. They have a way to enjoy their life. A life of prosperity, just fall down and get up again to go forward. That is an ideal way of life for people. Don't be selfish because of money, don't be annoyed because of things, don't make yourself suffer to be stubborn with memories. Why can't we treat ourselves better? We don't need to pay attention to the eyes of life or admire people too much. If you understand yourself and understand people, you will see how peaceful and light this life is. When you meet someone you hate, you can also smile at them. Faced with small words, you will be yourself. At that time, you will not be disappointed about this world anymore. You will look further and more relaxed, live a more luxurious life. Even if you have to go through ups and downs, as long as you understand, you will still be able to let go of your sadness. Open your heart and live fully in every moment, whether you are young or old, for 5 months. Ladies and gentlemen, At the end of life, many people have just realized the truth. The biggest mistake of human life is to exchange health for external objects. The biggest suffering of human life is to use happiness to exchange for trouble. The most wasteful of human life is to use time to solve the troubles created by oneself. And all of these things all come from your thoughts and spirit. Therefore, in the world, there is nothing more precious than a healthy body and a strong spirit. Always remember this in your life so that when you get old, you don't have to regret and say, like, ladies and gentlemen. Ladies and gentlemen, have we ever been impatient to exchange for trouble with our parents? I think many of us have been like that. Let's listen to the story of the bird at the end of today's video. I hope that after listening to the story, we will know how to change our attitude and how to treat our parents' love and tolerance with the memories of our parents. A quiet afternoon, the sun shines on the yard. On the chair, a couple of father and son sit next to each other. The son with a face of a fool is reading a newspaper, and the old man is quietly sitting next to him. Suddenly, a sparrow flies down the grass nearby. The father asks, what is it? The son hears the father asking and looks down at the green grass. It's a sparrow. Then, he continues to look down at the newspaper. The father looks at the sparrow. Then, he looks at the grass on the grass, and asks, what is it? The son nods, but it's hard for him to answer. Dad, I just told you, it's a sparrow. After saying that, the son holds the newspaper in his hand and continues to read. The sparrow flies up, then flies down, and then stops at the grass not far away. The father looks at it. Looking at the sparrow, the father looks curiously and asks, what is it? The son looks at the newspaper again. He is a little dissatisfied. It's a sparrow. Dad, it's a sparrow. Then, the father points at the sparrow, and says each word. The son looks angry, and looks at the father. The father doesn't look at his son, but looks at the sparrow, and asks, what is it? At this time, the son can't calm down anymore. What do you want to do? I've told you many times. It's a sparrow. I don't understand. The father stands up, and doesn't say a word. The son can't understand and asks, where are you going? The father shakes his hand, telling the son not to follow, and walks into the room alone. The sparrow flies away. The sun is still shining, and the wine is sweet and warm. The son is angry, and throws the newspaper away, and breathes alone. After a while, the father comes back, holding a notebook in his hand. He sits down and turns the page. Then, he gives it back to his son. He points to a paragraph and says, read it, son. In the paragraph, it says, Today, I and my 3-year-old son played in the park. A sparrow landed next to us. My son asked me 21 times, what is it, dad? I answered him 21 times, it's a sparrow. My son sighed again. I hugged him and smiled happily. I patiently answered, and explained to him. I didn't feel uncomfortable at all. Oh, my dear son, you are so lovely. After reading it, the son quickly rolls up his sleeve, feeling very ashamed, trying to keep his tears from falling. He opened his arms wide, and hugged the old man next to him. It turned out, the old man didn't go to the park, because, when he saw the sparrow, the old man remembered the beautiful memories of his little son, so he tried to ask the question again and again. The little son in that diary, now grown up, no longer curious and curious about strange things like when he was a child, no longer asking his father 1,001 questions about the world around him. Now, the little son only knows how to read newspapers, no longer care and rely on the father next to him, like when he was a child. Time can make our parents old. The black hair turns white, the eyes are open, the legs are slow, the brain remembers and forgets, there is not much strength left to protect the child like when we were young. But there is one thing that cannot be replaced, which is the love and sacrifice of parents for their children. No matter how the children are, they always love, tolerate and endure all their lives. Thank you for listening. Goodbye and see you in the next videos.