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Welcome to the channel of life philosophy My dear friends Worrying for children is the instinct of parents The poet Che Lan Vien once said Although the child is still the child of the mother After all life, the mother's heart still follows the child But can we follow the child all the time? The answer is definitely no No one can follow the child all the time So let go early to let the child run away Spend time to enjoy happy days And don't try to do bad things later 1. Interfere too much in the life of children Children are always small and need to be taken care of So even though the child has grown up But many parents still try to hug and hug Try to take care of each and every one They voluntarily serve their children every bit of sleep Even when the child has his own family Parents still often care about their children Forget about their own life And the joys we need to enjoy when we get home The psychology has to take care of the child to the point Interfere in life when they have their own family Make many old people become heavy Step into adulthood The rest of the time is limited So focus on what you want to do And the person you want to care about Don't waste time and mind on things you shouldn't When the child grows up, he will have a world Have their own life and life Make parents care about their children Is not wrong But too much care Everything about the child If you want to control it, it's a nuisance for the child And force yourself At an old age, the child has grown up Let go of your hand for the child to grow up And only give advice to the child when necessary Second Give strength to raise children With the hope that the child will respond Many people still have the idea of giving birth to children Raising them to grow up Is for the child to nurture and respond With them Giving birth is just to have a place to rest when they get old Their thoughts have pushed them to tragedy The story of the woman after this It is not rare in this life To 65 years old Mrs. Hue still has to work hard to rent a market After endless arguments with her daughter-in-law Her husband died when her son was 5 years old So much love and hope She gave it all to her only son She is willing to borrow money to buy enough for her son Children who want to study to become talented She thinks that her husband died early Everyone has their own family So she only looks forward to her son She always thinks that when she grows up The child will pay for her sacrifice So when her son graduates from college She gives herself a vacation Although she is still working She spends time going out Participating in activities at old people's clubs Her son has to send her money every month However, since her son set up a family Everything started to change Her husband's salary was given to his wife The wife began to save money for her husband To save money to raise children and buy a house Her life became more and more difficult Then she decided to sell her house in her hometown To live with her son in the city Only after a short time More and more conflicts They quarreled often She volunteered to move out While having no money in her hand At an old age She started to apply for a job to make a living She went to work But because of illness, she had to quit Finally, she had to live in comfort And die alone In a dilapidated house This story is a lesson for all of us Don't think that children have to be responsible for raising you As you have raised your children Raising children is your responsibility But it doesn't mean that you have to be responsible for your children When you get old Therefore, no matter how little or how much Parents must save a little money To feel at ease at a young age Without preparation Depending on others It's really a tragedy The third thing Always looking for money There is no time to influence old age Think about the earliest retirement When you can and are satisfied with the current convenience Don't expect too much from your children Most children love their parents But they are too busy with work And other burdens Learn to trust your children Believe that they will take care of their own lives Children have their own happiness Don't be a stranger to them forever Learn to let go gradually The time you live happily in life Or to find a job By knowing how difficult it is Then it's time to end The old saying goes All things belong to the source Returning to the origin means awakening Awakening means returning to life Only by letting yourself rest We can restore the function of life Don't live too tired When old age comes Know how to let go of children's burdens Everyone has their own life Let go of negative emotions anytime Keep your heart happy Don't keep anything in your heart Only when you are no longer tired of your body and mind You can really rest for yourself Fourth Think too much With too much thinking Whatever others say, you put it in your head With lost feelings You often remember the old story You But not anyone else Making it difficult for themselves Making themselves depressed There is a saying Eat a lot, chew a lot There are too many things in the mind The natural spiritual soul Will be affected So why do you have to think too much To make yourself more miserable Living in everyday life No one can avoid being bothered Don't be afraid of yourself Don't be afraid of others However, some people will choose to forget quickly To enjoy life But there are people who stick to it Thinking about it day by day Makes your heart tired Think less To live more comfortably Understand yourself best Always only yourself Life can't always be sad Happy is also living through a day Late money is also living through a day So why not let yourself live happily every day Fifth Sell land for children And always sell the joy of old age The Vietnamese always said Children are a big investment When you were young Parents spent all their love and money for their children Children are educated to grow up according to their parents' expectations They want their children to be successful Let them open their eyes And especially when they are old Parents have a place to nurture But the habit of giving everything to children blindly Will push many people into a family tragedy Remember the story of the big table The big table will be nurtured by the mother until she has enough hair and wings And then It will carry the child to the top of the mountain high and low Children who are willing to fly in the air and fly away Live and start a new life Children who can't fly by themselves Will fall down by themselves And fall down Nature's rules are like that And humans are part of nature So it's no exception Sixth Do things reluctantly Actually in life Even every day Each person has been reluctant to live with so many things To feel as hot as coal Not stable For three people Because of the reluctance to try to live meaningfully Through the day Sometimes it happens Want to change that way of life There is not enough time There is a saying like this Suffering is not because of the situation But because of too many wishes You try to force yourself to be like others It won't stay with you for long Because you don't want it Before learning how to love others Learn how to love yourself first Don't force yourself with things other than your ability and wishes Wishes make you unhappy So what do you expect in this life? No one in this life is perfect Don't force yourself too much Instead Accept your shortcomings Make time to fix it Even when you can't do anything It's best to work hard Not being reluctant with others It's also a way not to force yourself No matter what you do, it's up to you No one is perfect for you Meet all your requirements Only accept each other's shortcomings And develop strengths To solve the problem Don't say to yourself Things you don't want Don't do it with others Meet people you don't like You don't have to try to change them Because you can easily change your personality Stand in front of things you are not used to Wait and calculate whether it is beneficial or not You don't have to apply the rules from before Because there are thousands of things in the world There are thousands of different rules Try to find a way and get started A professor once said We can live as ourselves Live with our own identity Live a little bit more honestly That's the kindness And sincerity with yourself Life is short Five months is not long Instead of making yourself miserable Just let others be happy Just be calm Live honestly and confidently Ladies and gentlemen In life We have seen a lot of ups and downs Just like some people Have a lot of bad luck There are people who worry But life is smooth There is a saying There is virtue in eating It is not a joke But it has been a life-changing experience for many generations So instead of going to the temple To pray for good luck Just be kind to yourself By doing the simplest things That will bring you good luck Right in front of you The philosophy of life I invite you to listen and experience How to get rid of bad luck That everyone can do Follow me 1. Get rid of bad luck by controlling anger Anger is an instinct But it usually can't solve the problem It can also destroy relationships And cause the body to be damaged Want to keep good luck First of all, you have to control your temper Darwin once said Anger is one of the most despicable traits of humans If a person loses his temper It is equivalent to taking a step back on the ladder of progress Those who have the ability will not be angry But they know how to control their emotions And solve the problem in a rational and calm way Because they know clearly Decisions made in anger Often go beyond regret In life You will always meet people Even if you don't like something You will also meet people who don't understand you You will have to face injustice Even failure This is the normal state of life You don't need to be angry Control your emotions How much you can get rid of Success Countless facts have proven Only those who can control their emotions Finally Can get rid of happiness And good luck Second Learn from mistakes Humans live in this world No one doesn't make mistakes No matter how old they are If you want to avoid mistakes By not doing anything Then it is the biggest mistake in your life With those who worship personalism Who put themselves A diamond ring With the name too big They have a reflex to avoid mistakes Do not make a decision It's a shame Early 2016 In a press conference Nokia was bought by Microsoft Nokia's CEO Ended his speech with the sentence We didn't do anything wrong But somehow We lost Nokia used to be an empire For more than a decade And there was no competition for fame But now everything is just a memory Disappeared Just because you don't dare to make a decision Don't admit mistakes And forget to apologize It's a lesson for the founders Of this famous brand In interaction The conservative is often looked down upon By others On the contrary People with a humble spirit Always receive a lot of support From colleagues The fate of these two people is also different The conservative never blames himself For making a mistake And live a life with bad results And the smart people Always know how to correct mistakes To get rid of mistakes And make progress So it's easy to succeed So people with a humble spirit Cultivate the mind Not only have many good friends But luck will also improve Third Virtue from the way you dress People have a saying The more you dress up The more you look In fact, the way you look at first Will decide up to 80% of the success In the interaction A person who dresses up Will show a lack of neatness A person who dresses in style The price of clothes rises The price of pants falls There is nothing to guarantee For a well-off personality A man who is too flamboyant For the appearance Dress up neatly and historically First of all, it is self-respect Then it is respected by others The first bridge of connection Is built in the form of a human appearance Many dangers Also come from the way you dress For those who are full of hope When they see a flamboyant dresser There is no difference between cat and fat So instead of dressing up To lure disaster Then choose a form Suitable for each situation To instill respect and love From others At the same time Ensure safety for yourself Dress up It is also a way to accumulate virtue Create good luck Fourth Acquire virtue from humility There is a saying One step back Ten steps forward Living in this life Suffering is not bad Because it can help you The more precious the smell of peace Full enough Patience is what you need Because life sometimes needs to wait Without silence It will be difficult to explode Normally Nothing is bad It can help us feel the good and luck Flowing through every day Patience is nothing bad Forgiving others It is forgiving yourself Failure Nothing is not good It does not destroy you It just makes you stronger Stupid people use their mouths Intelligent people use their hearts Small people fight Selfish people do not fight Struggling in life You can only make yourself lonely Learn to tolerate Forgive What you receive will be priceless A humble person does not lose everything Self-esteem In front of their eyes Will keep the heart Fifth Acquire virtue from humility According to the law January 17, 2021 A woman often posts photos Online sales Leading to bad guys When sleeping Then rape Ask for 100 billion In fact, life shows Not only that All show off Does not bring anything good Showing off a girl on the Internet Will push the girl into the dangerous circle Of the money-grubbers Showing off the beauty Easy to touch the heart of others Showing off the smoothness in work Will be a source of water For those who are having a hard time And make their way Encounter many obstacles In the past, many rich people To test other people's hearts So that you can find a sincere friend At the same time, it is also a way To ensure the safety of life And your own property People with humility Have a spirit of never-stopping learning Have a long-term will Have a high self-esteem Pushing yourself to move forward Humility is the essential factor Help you succeed in life It is one of the ways Virtue creates happiness for yourself Sixth, virtue From saving money The rich are very important In saving money They never buy a lot of money Based on feelings The billionaire Warren Buffet once said If you buy what you don't need You will soon have to sell what you need When we are young Don't waste money Learn how to save yourself some money To guard against all the storms of life Or to save that money To seize the opportunity to change your life Inventory Equipment Performance and savings After a while You will get a worthy result When you have money to save Life will be safe Remember not to be unlucky when sick Or when you have work to do You can still take the initiative Human life has many opportunities to invest And from there, change your life But if you don't have If you don't have money to save That opportunity will not come true At the same time You can only stand and watch The wealth of others in the snow Seventh, virtue From saving time There is a saying Time is gold is silver Successful people know how to use time To create gold Failure to make gold disappear in vain And when it snows It's too late So Using time to work and study Scientifically will help each person Increase the quality of life Effective work From there, you will achieve the big goals of your life At the same time, there is a future still gold Many people dream That is also the most effective way Virtue Eighth Virtue from generosity Ancient people thought Generosity People who know generosity have a true heart Like the ocean Can collect water from thousands of rivers They help others Originated from kindness Without asking for reward Gratitude But finally received the blessing Help others in need When you meet difficulties It will definitely benefit peace There is a saying Plant a coconut, plant a bean That's it Ninth Virtue from laughter Laughter helps you improve your health Cheerful, pain-free Prevent many diseases And especially help increase the age Compared to people who are economically disadvantaged Because of illness Then just laughing every day Also helps you save some money Not small but life again A famous supermodel I seem to be not very kind With a classmate Because I am a person Should often look at her With a sharp eye One time She answered me with a smile Like a flower It made me uncomfortable In my heart And I noticed Who looks uncomfortable When looking at her When I received that beautiful smile Many guesses I am impressed Then she became My best friend Later I grew up I also understood a secret Laughter is also a strategy Of the business Employees at Fastfood Extremely comfortable and funny That's why the store is always crowded Supermarket employees are also encouraged Laugh to customers For business to be profitable Laughter not only helps save money To become rich Laugh to customers For business to be profitable That's how to laugh easily Anyone can do Ladies and gentlemen There are people Tired to know how to laugh Wrong to know how to think of regret Suffering to know How to understand happiness Injured to learn And gain strength Why do we have to Choose expensive tea for lessons But do not choose to do No loss of happiness Like 10 simple things In the channel Just life Thank you for listening Goodbye and see you again