Chia đất cho con, 2 câu chuyện, 2 nỗi nhục tuổi già

Welcome to the Chít Lý Cuộc Sống channel Ladies and gentlemen Many fathers and mothers have spent their whole life building luxury for their children And at the end of their life, they want to share their wealth with their children Their whole life is for their children But not many people go back to the sad and miserable life Because of the lack of creativity when sharing their wealth With meaningful children Families, brothers and sisters Loving each other, the legacy left by their parents is just a flower But for not a few people Because of the inherited wealth, they quarrel and quarrel Even push their parents into an old age Ladies and gentlemen, let's listen to the following stories The first story If you divide the land, now you live like a nomad Mrs. Huong is only 70 years old this year Her husband has been gone for nearly a decade Her husband gave birth to two sons Until now, he has been gone In the past, she was also one of those who had a hard time making a living Two good sons Mrs. Huong's family is the dream of many people When her husband had money, he knew how to look far and wide to make money He bought all the land In addition to taking care of each son's house Her husband also had a few pieces of land to make money In the past, every time he bought land to build a house, he worried about work He tried hard, so except for a few pieces of land He didn't have money to pay the rent, nor did he have a salary The young man worked hard for his son Because he tried to buy land, he got sick early Mrs. Huong's sad story After losing her husband for a while Mrs. Huong was also depressed and slightly depressed The chronic diseases of old age made her very difficult to go back Afraid of old age, I don't know when to go She talked to the children Divide for each child a few more pieces of land outside their homes With both sons Mrs. Huong decided to stay together, so she would give more However, both sons expressed their dissatisfaction The older son said that in the past he worked hard with his parents Now I have to raise my sick mother, but my mother gives too little The younger son was angry, because every child is a child But the mother gave too much to the older son In addition, the two daughters-in-law stood behind the husband and fought together For reasons, if she was difficult to go back, she could stay anywhere The eldest son and his wife took her to the highest floor of the house But actually it was convenient for their lives Every day they only gave her minimal things to use It was also difficult for them to visit each other So it was empty, which made Mrs. Huong very sad The second son was dissatisfied with the fact that his mother divided the land unfairly So he left his mother for him almost without asking After a few years of illness, pain, sickness, suffering, loneliness Mrs. Huong heard the words of the brothers in the house So she wanted to go to the nursing home The sad thing is that when she sold a piece of land to get money The eldest son and his wife strongly opposed They gave enough reasons, even if it was her land It was not difficult, she asked her acquaintance to sell That piece of land is very valuable And if sold, the money can feed a whole family for many years Not to mention only Mrs. Huong However, it is sad that the land is still in the name of her husband But she will not be able to sell if the children do not agree Because the law stipulates that the children are also heirs to the property of the father Hearing the advice of the lawyer, Mrs. Huong cried in helplessness, in regret One more thing she may not be able to measure Even after she died, the internal battle between the children with a pile of property From the sweat, tears, from the illness of their parents Will continue for a long time Because of a rule, Mrs. Huong only divided the land for them by mouth The paper is still on her husband's side Ladies and gentlemen Perhaps the main cause of the dispute over the inheritance property It was because the parents had the idea Is to make a whole life for the children Create a strong belief for them that I always have milk to breastfeed When I'm hungry, I go home to my parents, I will be full That is a very wrong view Leads to the situation of children fighting for property Abandoned or burdened with the responsibility of taking care of their parents when they return home Being a father is a mother Sharing love and materiality with children Need to be done in a fair and clear way If the family has two children Create a self-reliant spiritual motivation for the child to rise up with life Do not make the child have a psychological doubt about himself If you give the property Choose when they have enough management and development So what? Do not be emotional In addition Being emotional also needs to be unified There is a clear paper Avoid later conflicts, disputes, disputes Difficult to resolve The second story I have an acquaintance Dozens of years of hard work to raise children In addition to 60 years old Just bought a house a few meters on the street Make a place to earn money Although old But my husband and wife still have to wake up early to pay off the debt Because a few years ago I even borrowed more to buy a piece of land next to the house for my children Two boys If there is a piece of land on the street What does one get later? Life is too hard So I just want them not to be like that Think like that So my husband and wife work hard Even though the disease is sick Save enough money to buy land for the big guy Then give me money to build a house Let it be separate That husband and wife have a house for parents to take care of Just accept it But do it I wonder Why are you two so miserable? Missing old What to eat What if you are sick? I live for my children When is the debt over? You two are healthy How old are you? At that time, each person lives with one guy I love him He must love me If the disease is mild, they have to worry If the disease is severe, if it costs money Stop it The case of you two is not rare In fact, how many parents Sacrifice everything for their children And don't save a little for yourself With them What can you do? What can you take care of your children? Even if you have to exchange for mental health They are also compassionate But I have no doubt With the future results of that sacrifice Because when you get old Sickness, illness, pain Money doesn't do anything for you How will you take care of yourself? Can a child take care of Sacrifice everything for parents As parents did for them? In my house I also have a sister In the past, the poor had to carry two children To build an economy Forever in the South East The rich raised each other The child also grew up to marry After many years of desolation The biggest asset is 2 hectares of forest land I think the child has grown up I share 1 hectare for each child To work But with any couple Only a few days Is tension, collision, conflict I have to clean up the small patch In the corner Every day I go to work to earn a living My body is old and white With tuberculosis in the forest Really, nothing hurts as much A few years ago, the land increased The child sold 1 hectare of land To pay off his debt Then go to another place to work The new owner built his house But still love Let me stay In the corner of the garden Sometimes they come to visit Standing in the corner More than the house of her sister-in-law Look at her poor body Both love and angry Dear friends Many people think Today, morality is downgraded The red soil pulls the greed of humans Everywhere From the city to the countryside Mountain forest There is always a conflict Because of the division of land For the children This is also true However It happens all the time It's a little different today It is easier to know Because of the age of mass media So the old people still teach Young people don't worry Old people will suffer Or parents raise their children I raise my parents Monthly, daily Parents die, teachers die Only know Is to live But no matter how talented Can't know before the future Parents give birth But can't understand all Children Sacrifices for children Divide all the property land for children Then at the end of life, the children will know And take care of the nursery But how is that That's when the stories happen The story of heartache for the land Divide the property Because of the land that the children pushed their parents into There is no way back When old The third story Free old age When you know how to take care of yourself Mr. Han has 12 children 8 boys and 4 girls His house is only in the alley in Ho Chi Minh City But the land is large The day before The old man built 18 rooms Keep 4 outside To sell, cultivate, raise children The rest is for rent Then years later Successful children Some go to the US to settle Some move Also buy their own house Get married, be a soldier, police Divide the house Some are too poor Should always take a room To live As soon as there is prosperity No matter if it's a boy or a girl It's Viet Kieu or Xeo Om Each one has a room There are 2 other rooms The old man gave his son Later, worship the ancestors And the youngest son is the sickest The rest are 4 rooms Outside The old man kept it clean Just to live Just to let people rent Get monthly living expenses This part does not contribute to any child Now the old man is almost 90 years old Although no longer bright But still have a comfortable life Not dependent on anything and children Or lead that house Now the children There are also poor children who do not take And leave it to someone who has a job Near to take care of parents There are also poor children who still live There is someone to name for the brothers Someone to rent However, everyone is happy And feel that the parents' house is really A safe place With her husband In fact, the children are very filial Taking care of each other But her husband still never needs money Or have to go home For them to live The life of the elderly is very free Comfortable, not busy with anything Dear friends The elderly have money Do not bother the children Many cases we have met somewhere In life also affirms this There are old parents House, paper, money Give it all to the son and daughter-in-law Then become a commoner in your house Until the meal With a little food Sitting on the stairs While the son and daughter-in-law And the children happily eat Life is bitter Hard to believe But very true So the old man has money Is able to take care of himself The reason why parents love their children Is that when they get old They don't have to ask their children to raise them If you are sick But the children are too busy Can't take care If you have money, you can hire someone to take care Today there is a service to take care of the elderly And the sick They are professionally trained They may take better care of the children So when you get old Money is the strength of old age So If parents have a lot of property Just take care of yourself first Calculate to save enough Let yourself live comfortably when you get old How much is left Then set aside a little bit for the children The division should also be fair Or give some children more Also need to discuss Unified exchange between children Avoid the birth of this one More than the other Because of the conflict Not worth it I said The highest power of the elderly Is property Deeply See the truth So let's prepare To get old right from when you are young And also need to be bright In the division of property for children Don't get old If you don't have time Continue to create a career For the children To bring unjustice to themselves The purpose of today's program Invite you and your friends to find out How to eat flowers To not increase blood pressure For people with diabetes Diabetes is one of the common diseases In the elderly Many people have diabetes Because they are afraid that the sugar in the fruit Will increase the blood sugar Which removes the flowers out of the mouth But this is completely wrong There are only a few flowers Containing a large amount of sugar And here are the types of fruit You should limit use When you have diabetes The first is durian There is a lot of sugar The amount of sugar in durian and jackfruit Equals the amount of sugar in a can of coca cola Or a bowl of white rice The second is ripe pineapple Ripe pineapple has a high amount of sugar Should not eat too much However, this fruit has many benefits Such as vitamin oil And vitamins It also has good anti-inflammatory properties Therefore, people with diabetes can eat But eat with a small amount The third is ripe mango Ripe mango is a good fruit for health Because in the green mango peel There is a substance that helps Insulin to work more effectively But ripe mango Contains a higher amount of sugar And increases blood pressure The fourth is ripe banana This is the type of fruit The patient should limit eating Because the amount of sugar in the banana Especially the ripe banana is very high And the fifth is jackfruit Jackfruit and ripe jackfruit Contains a fairly high amount of sugar And little fiber Therefore, people with diabetes Should only eat a few But need to eat fresh fruit And eat in meals Or later Next is some notes On how to eat fruit To not increase blood pressure People with diabetes should only eat fresh fruit But absolutely should not use dried fruit Because the amount of sugar in dried fruit Has been set When deciding to use dried fruit Or dried fruit You should check the food list To see how much sugar is in the food Please note that Sugar in dried fruit will have many different names It includes sugar Sugar Sweetness And Fruit juice Will be advised by doctors To limit using Because in fact, 1 in 3 to 1 in 2 Drinking fruit juice Contains about 15 grams of carbohydrates Fruit juice will increase the risk Of type 2 diabetes The body absorbs fruit faster Leading to higher blood sugar Fruit processing Also eliminates or reduces The level of some important nutrients Including vitamins and fiber Therefore, people with diabetes Should eat fresh food Limit packaged food with sugar Process for a long time And juice Fruit juice Contains a high amount of sugar And is absorbed faster Leading to increased blood sugar Thank you for listening Goodbye and see you again