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Hello everyone, welcome to Happy's YouTube channel. Today, I'm not going to talk about hair or beauty, but I'm going to talk more about some of the problems in Happy's life. I think that through my sharing, it will help everyone to have more willpower and faith in life. Because if Happy can do it, you can do it too. Today's topic is quite special, because I'm going to talk about why we need to try in this life. As you know, I'm currently a vlogger about hair. Most of the vloggers have good family conditions so that they can make beauty videos. Because if you don't have money, how can you buy beauty products, right? I'm going in a different direction, I'm going in a natural direction. Why am I going in a natural direction? Because I don't have money to buy products. Let me tell you a little bit about my background. My family is from Long Thanh, Dong Nai, near Truong Giang's house. My family consists of 4 brothers, me, my brother, and 2 sisters. My dad doesn't go to work because of health issues. My mom sells tofu. You know, a bowl of tofu costs from 2,000 to 3,000 VND. Now, it seems to have increased to 4,000 to 5,000 VND. Because it has been increasing for more than 10 years. Every morning, I help my mom push the car up. Or my brother will help my mom push the car up to the market to sell tofu. Or my dad will help my mom cook. From grade 8 to grade 12, my friends, for example, pass by and say, Happy sells tofu with mom. I think it's very normal. I'm not ashamed of my family. But I feel that my mom is very, very, very miserable. To raise 4 brothers, I went to school. At that time, Happy didn't study well. I studied very badly because I was very playful. I talk a lot. But when I talk a lot, I don't focus on studying. I was very playful. After a while, I felt that my mom was miserable. My dad was miserable. My family was miserable. My brothers were miserable. There was no house to build. The house had to be a brick house. Oh my God, guys. My mom took the soil, the soil, and then built it herself. My family had to go to the market to buy a bike. Then I went to school. I spent money to go to school. My family was too miserable. I had to go to school very well. I had to study hard. From the 8th grade to the 12th grade, I became a pro student. Before that, I was a teacher. I studied, I tried, I tried, I tried, I tried to study. You know, when I rode a bike from my house to the school, I only had 2,000 VND to send a bike. In the afternoon, I had to go to the temple to eat. Although my family was in Binh Dao, I had to go to the temple to eat. In Phuoc Loc Tho temple, there was often lunch for people to eat. Because when you don't have money, you don't have friends. For example, when people go to eat, they go down to the temple. People eat. Friends together, I will ask, Do you want to go eat? Do you want to buy this? Do you want to buy that? I don't have money, but I can afford it. I don't have rice to eat anymore. My family has to go to eat sugarcane. I have to eat sweet potatoes, eat corn. That's it. I felt that my family was so miserable, I had to try to go to college. After that, in a period of time, about the 12th grade, I had to try very hard to study well to get into college. From a very stupid student, and then I went to college. And when I found out that I got into college, my father didn't like it. My father kicked me out. My father felt that people my age, in my hometown, have a lot of jobs. While I went to school, my father kicked me out. He kicked me to Saigon. Then I had to live there. My mother only gave me 200,000 VND. That 200,000 VND, I had to buy a bike. I went to apply for a job. I did everything by myself. I only ate shrimp noodles. One day, I only saved 1,500 or 2,000 VND. I still remember that I bought 2-3 boxes of shrimp noodles. My friend even scolded me. I was very lucky to work at Highlands Coffee. Because I studied quite well. I studied English by myself. I studied very well. Then when I went to work, I liked to study English. So I went to Highlands Coffee to work at Saigon Trade Center. In Saigon, that building was very big. For me at that time, it was very big, very fancy. I did a lot of things. For example, I was a tour guide. Then I was a translator. Then I organized events for foreigners. I was a defector. I had to go to the noodle shop to wash dishes. I did a lot of things. I had money to buy a taxi to study English at that time. Do you think I have a very good background, but I really don't? I started from scratch. Sometimes I feel that life is not fair to me. Meanwhile, I really want to study English. But my mother didn't have money. At that time, I asked my mother why I couldn't study English. I couldn't study more. My family just didn't have money. Then I started to think like this. Those who follow the way to the top of Olympia, they are mostly very poor. If they study well like that, if they can do it, I can do it. Because of that, other people try to be number one. I have to try from 2 to 3 to 5 times. Double, triple, five times is normal. Sometimes I feel lonely. I don't have friends. I don't have people who care about me. But I feel that at that time, I will be much bigger in the fact that I ran into life. There are things like you think about the story that my mother wants me to go to school, but my father doesn't want me to go to school. My father beat me and kicked me out of the house. When I went to university, my father scolded me very harshly and didn't allow my mother to send money. There are many things when you want to do something that the whole society is against you. People say that you can't do it. You can never do it. Even your family doesn't support you. At that time, you will feel that you are very strong. When I went to university, my father always scolded me why I went to university, why I didn't go to work, why I didn't send money. The fact that I lost weight, I became beautiful, I grew my hair to influence everyone and even people said I rode a bike on the street, the sky was very white. I went to the post office for a long time. I washed 500-600 bowls of noodles. I lived in a small room without a window. There was no toilet. It was very dirty and smelly. I was so sick. There were days when I went outside to watch people burning flowers with my family. I was very sad. Why can't I do it? I tried day and night to learn well. I did a lot to get what I wanted in the future. Why can't I do it? If I did a little bit, I could do it. Sometimes, you want to do something that you think is good for yourself and your family. But the result is not what you want. You have grown up. For example, sometimes I feel that I can't forgive my father because he treated me like that before. Everyone makes mistakes. People who don't make mistakes will make mistakes in other things. I just move on. I feel that my father made a mistake. I used to keep it in my heart. I was jealous of my father. Now I forgive him. Sometimes I feel grateful to God because I was born in a poor family with no help from anyone. I feel grateful to God for giving me what I have now. Sometimes, you feel like you can't do it and you just give up. It's not a big deal. How can you be happy for 10 years? Now I have two doctors, a good job, I can speak English, I have IELTS, I have a stable job. I live in Australia, a very developed country. Not only about studying, but also about communication skills, English skills, and even my appearance. It's not just about focusing on one thing. I have to distribute many things in my life to be balanced not only inside but also outside. If you feel like life is unfair to you, if you do things you want to do but you can't, if you feel like you are left behind, lonely, then remember to be happy. Don't turn your back. No friends, no family support, nothing to be happy for 10 years. Be happy now. I used to listen to English music and watch movies because I thought I was abroad. When you think you are abroad, you will forget how hard life is. Some people say I'm crazy because I always listen to English and talk to myself in English. Some people say I'm crazy but I don't care because I know what I'm doing. I know what I'm doing will bring me benefits. That's why I look older than others. People around me are the same age as me but they think I'm a baby while I look like an adult. Because I have to distribute many things to be balanced and when you don't have money or beauty, don't ask society to be fair to you. If you are not beautiful, you have to make yourself beautiful. Don't think you are happy because of cosmetic surgery. There is cosmetic surgery, but only after this. You have to lose weight, grow your hair, look good, and learn a lot of things. You have to sign up for training to improve your communication skills and learn English. You don't have to be born as you are now or as good as you are now. No, no. There is no such thing. That's why I said in the end, you have to try 2, 3, 5, 10 times because life is very short. You don't know if you live now, you will die tomorrow. Right? There are so many things in this life. Whatever you can do for yourself, just do it. Whatever you can do for your family, just do it. This society, just do it. Because people live here and die tomorrow. So that when you are still alive, you will look back at your past without regretting Just like now, I am very proud of myself. I have never been proud that I can do this or that. I am just proud that I used to have a little happy. A happy without money. A poor happy. How did I try? How did I cry day and night to get to where I am today? It's hard. It's long. But I will give you very sweet results. Just try. One day you will realize that your efforts will be rewarded in a very fair way when you try. Remember!