11 Câu Tuyệt Đối Không Nên Nói Nếu Không Muốn Phúc Khí Tiêu Tan - Đông Tây Kim Cổ

There are 11 things you should never say if you don't want your luck to be ruined. Be careful with what you say. So that your words don't become sharp knives, hurting, threatening, pitying or punishing others. Because that's when you're losing your own luck, which is not good. There is something very special. No matter what language the ethnic group is from, the words that describe negative emotions are always more than the words that describe positive emotions. A while ago, a magazine conducted a study and found that out of 7 basic human emotions, there are 6 words that describe negative emotions. Joy, fear, anger, sadness, boredom, shame and guilt. These days, the tendency to use negative words is increasing. In everyday life, you are using them in a way that you don't even know. 1. Irresponsibility Those who have been called irresponsible by their lucky parents can feel the deep damage of this word. In fact, in life, you should not use this word to avoid unwanted harm, unless you have a reason to prove that if you just want to use it to threaten the other person, then you should think again. 2. Ugliness Ugliness is a very harsh and biased word. Humans always have both good and bad sides. You just look at other people's bad points, which is also a kind of attack with a purpose. It is said that people are kind, people are born kind, evaluating a child is ugly can hurt their mind very badly. 3. Feeling ashamed I feel ashamed for you. Anyone who is told these words by others will actually feel very ashamed. Maybe that person made a mistake, but please forgive and forgive them. Think again, is there a better word to use enough for them to realize their mistakes without hurting them or not? 4. Hurt You hurt my job. This way of speaking also hurts other people's self-esteem. It will make the other person feel useless. If you don't mean that, change the other way of speaking. 5. Useless Most of the employees who hear this word feel very ashamed. But this is the word that the bosses like to use the most. Although their intention may be that they want the employees to work harder to reach their expectations. But in fact, these words rarely have a positive effect. If you mean someone who doesn't work hard, just tell them they don't try. If you mean someone who doesn't work hard, just tell them they don't work hard. If you say someone is useless, you are criticizing someone and praising yourself. 6. Disappointment I'm completely disappointed in you. It sounds very annoying, doesn't it? You should say this, maybe it will be better. I'm disappointed in your behavior. This means that you express your dissatisfaction about something or an action, but still have respect for the listener. 7. Unnecessary Sometimes this word has a beneficial effect, but using it frequently will make people uncomfortable. Focus on encouraging the other person to do what you want them to do. The effect will be better. 8. Wrong Sometimes it is obvious that you are wrong, but often say the other person is wrong or say the other person is wrong in a conspicuous way. It may be contradictory. Because that sentence gives the other person a feeling that only you understand, and they don't know anything. 9. Absolute Using absolute, absolute, absolute words is a way to express your strong feelings about something. But in this world, everything is black and white. It's hard for you to tell right away. So you shouldn't use these words unless you want to bully or hurt someone. 10. Funny If you think the idea or opinion of someone is very funny, that's what you're saying. Your idea is so bad, you don't even need to consider it anymore. So you will make the other person feel confused. I don't know what the next step will be. 11. I hate This word has a very strong effect. In fact, most people don't really want to convey the intention of hatred to the other person. But to show a strong, resolute attitude to make the other person angry, they often say that. In the US, there is a very famous film called Eliminate Hatred. The film is a story about an ex-member of a gang. Not being accepted by society due to racial discrimination, he was determined to erase all the tattoos on his face by all means. The main character in this film says that tattoos make people feel evil. And the deepest impression is a H A T E tattoo, which means hating, abandoning, hating on the finger. According to the Buddhist view, karma is the words that are unkind, malicious, aimed at others, causing harm to the mood, the mood of the person speaking. It is also one of the most common mistakes that people often make. Because there are a lot of people who are not careful. So, to avoid that karma, you should cultivate your mind well. And remember that don't judge anyone as good or bad. Because everyone has a different life, a different way of living. Don't hurt others. Because there will be times when you are the one who suffers. Please tolerate everything. The ancients said that the mouth can speak beautiful words like a rose. The mouth can also speak poisonous words like a ghost. Cultivating karma is cultivating good energy for yourself. It also means cultivating your own happiness. If you can do that, there is no fear of not being happy and lucky. Thank you for watching and subscribing to the Dong Tay Kim Co channel. If you like this topic, please leave a comment below so everyone knows. I wish you and your family good luck and peace. Goodbye and see you again in the next videos.