Sie dürfen weniger werden und sogar nichts sein! | Sinn des Lebens | QS24 Gesundheitsfernsehen

Are you already on Wikisana? Welcome, dear viewers, to our show today on the search for the meaning of life. You don't always have to become more. One training drives the other on the search for happiness, for fulfillment or for success. But what if less is more? And how do we get to true inner happiness through an inner look without always having to search on the outside? And that's what I'm going to talk about today with our guest Stefan Meier. I am very happy that he is here. Stay tuned. Hello, dear Stefan. Hello, Corina. Nice to have you back. I always love the conversations with you. Yes, we also philosophize a bit today on this topic. Constant search, education, training. We know this from our generation or from our parents. We were also driven by the idea that you have to become something. The child needs a name. We all needed a diploma or a degree or a high school diploma. These were all parameters connected to success. And then you will have a happy life. Is that still the case today? Well, it's changing a lot. Everything you just listed are topics that are based on understanding. And that is changing today. We notice, more and more people notice, that there are other levels of understanding. There is a deeper level in me. And when you start to connect with it, you realize that what the mind generates, what it believes to have, what it believes where it has to take me, that this is not only often meaningless or not optimal, but is even in my way. So there are completely different dimensions in which I can live today. Except here in a focus on understanding, where I try to compensate for something. Because the understanding always comes with information from my far-reaching unconscious. And there are simply topics in there. Often topics like, I am not valuable, something is missing. And then I try to add something. And that is sometimes even exactly the wrong way. So exactly diametrically opposed to the true natural way. And that would be to look inside, to see what, where in me I have the feeling that something is missing. And when I solve that, I no longer have to be so super active on the outside. Can you still remember your transition? You have already told a story in your classic studies, how this inside look looked like to you. And how you really came across your happiness, where you say, I want to live that. I might also want to bring that out. So I had, as you said, this very classic way, completely based on understanding. I wanted to make a career, I wanted to be happy in my life. And my explanation for that was how I can be happy when I earn money. Because then I can buy things with it that I want, that I need, that make me happy. Then I tried to live as far as possible. That was then interrupted by my way of life, relatively clearly. And then I was forced to look inside. Because, as we have already discussed, I had pain that no doctor could solve. So I started, and the first impulses were to read a book. And the book told me, yes, feel inside. Look, there's a lot more going on inside of you than you know. And then I noticed that little by little. Then I solved topics inside of me. Then I saw, okay, there's an inner child, that doesn't feel good. Someone really wants to be seen there. Here I didn't feel seen by my father. I'm trying to compensate for that, to make myself great somehow. Or to accumulate something. And then I noticed on my way, that the more I let go of myself. Because we are a collection of different experiences, stories, convictions, beliefs. And if I let go of that little by little, then I become less and less. And that's also, you talked about a nice intro. That we may dare to be less and less. And that means, what I carry inside of me. Old stories, convictions, fears, worries. If I let go of that little by little, I notice that a space becomes free inside of me. And this space is so incredibly much bigger and nicer and more pleasant. Than what the mind can create. That I then noticed, what I used to think, what I need. Maybe a car, a trip, money for whatever people want to have. For clothes or whatever. That this is a maximum of 5 minutes, 3 hours, 2 weeks of satisfaction. After that it's flattened. And that there is something much deeper inside of me. And I noticed, the more I let go. The more space there is for this flow. And that's the title. Less is definitely more. What does letting go mean to you? Letting go of what? Letting go of thoughts or material things? Or titles? Everything. For me it started like this. That I let go of topics inside of me. For example, there was a part of me that was convinced. I have to make a career. Then I looked. Why does this part think that? Where does it come from? Yes, because a part of me feels worthless underneath. Why does he feel worthless? He was not seen by his father in his childhood. He took it from the family. So this feeling of not being quite valuable. And when I let go of that. This inner experience. Conviction. That's when I noticed. Wow, now something is really changing. So it started inside. And what happened inside. That also presents itself on the outside. That then reflects there again. And then I noticed that I don't need this. And I don't need that. And I have a job today. Where I work in workshops with many people. And I like to say it again and again. I don't have a title for this job. I just applied the work for myself. Regularly in the field of consciousness. Which I also teach there. Show. And yes. That's just a big difference for me. So I have much less than most. But this gives you an incredibly free space. And that's where things just happen. And thus much more vibrant. Than I could have worked with my mind before. Yes, if you look at the topic. If we really educate ourselves. In this educational system. Then the framework becomes. Yes, more and more narrow. That means. If you then have the doctor. Then you have a very clear line. To which you have to stick. That's also with every alternative. Thinking doctor. Where I speak. He says. I have to be careful. I can't do it the same way. Basically. We limit ourselves. Both through the titles. And this. New professions. Find new professions. Of course I also observe. That many children. Or generations. These 2000s. Which are now around 20. And the younger ones. Not so interested anymore. At these school graduates. There are still the two camps. But there is definitely one. Part that says. I don't need. I can do something else. There is no title for that. And I think that's why we're sitting here today. To say that. To confirm that it really is. There are many professions in the system. And if I want to participate in it. Then I need the adequate training for it. Then I have to be able to show this note. That I did that. Anyone who comes out of it. What is not quite. System. Is based. He may dare. To go his own way. Because you can open a restaurant. Without a cooking training. Simply because you can cook damn well. Because you feel what fits together. And that's just one example. Of many. And it will be more and more. That you no longer need this and that. It's all about feeling. What is really the basis. Either the work I want to do. Or a healthy life. Now we've talked a lot about work. The second part. Which is very important in life. How do I feel? What does my private life do? What does all my daily energy do? And even there I don't necessarily need. Still this training. Still the seminar. Still that. The most important thing is. That I bring myself into the flow here. And then to feel. What is the next push for it. And not always to think. What else could you have. That's the big difference. Thinking always tries to compensate. Trying to do more. Because more helps more. And through feeling. Then I take out the things that suit me. Life works like this. There are a lot of things coming to me. Through feeling. Then I get exactly that out of a hundred different possibilities. What resonates with me. And then one is enough. This thinking. To remove this pattern. I sometimes have the feeling. I feel the same way. There is this story. You come to the spiritual teacher. And he gives you the glass. With water. And it runs over and over and over. And you notice. My head is empty. Because you have so many approaches. And spirituality. And then you read the books here. And then you have Buddhism. Then you have Quantenfeld. We are completely overloaded. With different approaches. To become happy. One says you need goals. The other says. You don't need any goals at all. Take the flow in the here and now. The third says. You are already sitting. Where I think. What exactly is the way? In my opinion. The way is always. And for everyone. The feeling. Because through the feeling. I realize. What do I resonate with? For one it is sitting. For the other it is standing. The next needs goals on his way. Because he works out of his liturgy. And at some point. When he has reached the first goals. Then comes the next phase. And he realizes. Now it's about letting go of the goals. Nobody is the same. So feel. What is the next step? And don't be afraid to do things. So actively say. There is this training. Maybe I could be even better as a coach. And now. Take a step back. Let go for two days. And then feel. Do I really need that? Or is there another way? And that often makes. If you are not so deeply connected. With the feeling. A certain concern. If I don't do that now. Maybe I'm not that good. And on this way. To support the feeling. My way is the field of consciousness. I have such a great experience. And if I don't dare. Not to do something. Then I ask. What is the cause? And solve that. And come into a space. I'm just in me. In a connection. Where I'm not afraid anymore. That I could miss something. Because I feel in me. That I can't miss anything at all. And even if I am today. Just as an example. If I let go. Because I didn't touch her. Then she comes back. Or similar. So we can't miss anything. And the one who dares. To let go. That's the big topic in spirituality. Let go. Especially of what you think. What must be. And if you let go. Things come much more to the river. Sometimes it takes a bit. Not to do this unit there. Or this training. But with time. It happens for sure. Because I have experienced it several times. I experience it again and again with me. You do less. You are less. You let go of yourself. You let go of these thoughts. You let go that you have to structure your life. That it has this and that way. And the room opens. It starts to flow. The biggest challenge. If I imagine. That maybe everyone has such an inner deep desire. That can be a woman. Who really wants a child. Where the framework conditions are not right. Because the right partner is not there. Or there is. What do I know. The man who really wants the soul mate. Just to get there. And maybe you have. The feeling inside. That this life still has to come. It can't be. That I go through life without children. And there is. Such a deep longing. For some people. Where I sometimes think. Is it on your way. And it still comes. And shows itself as an intense desire. And when then. People come and say. You have to let go. That's so hard. Such an inner longing. There. And how should I let go. When I think that I absolutely. Now let's take the topic. I want to have children. It's about the explanation. It is relatively easy to explain. How I can let go. By an intensive connection. With myself. With what I really am. Because this strong desire. Is a compensation. Otherwise. It would not be so strong. Something in me. Tries to express itself. If I am connected with myself. If I really. Also connected with life. And you can do that. You don't have to live in a cave. You don't have to be supra-spiritual. I learned it through the connection. To what I call the field of consciousness. To this room. And it has become wider and bigger in me. All these wishes. Are a compensation of something. That something is missing. And in the moment. Where you come into contact with yourself. And you can't really say. What is this I? Or if I let go of the I. What is this room? The divine or the unnameable. But it can still be there. That is suitable for everyday life. And if I connect more with myself. Then it is possible. Only many people are not at this point. And say. No, that's also true. I feel this wish. I have it every morning. And I say. Yes, I absolutely respect that. I know a lot of these stories. But I also know a lot. Where it is not fulfilled after inner work. Some say. I just have to let go of this and that. So that I can find the partner. And that works with the child's wish. It is their task to recognize. That they looked there. But there. Is the topic. Is their life. Is their task. And yes. Such a child's wish. It can also result from an earlier life. Because things have happened. Where I really try to find someone. To meet again. Where something from an earlier life is still hanging. What could be resolved. Or. There is a certain reference to femininity. Which has been completely lost. Or a reference to humanity. To the earth. And then there is an attempt. To compensate this over a child. And if you deal with it. And yes. It certainly takes 2, 3, 4, 5 months. Where you look intensively. No matter what the topic is. This strong desire. And then the first topic is solved. Now it's coming. Now I'm able. Now it's not so tight anymore. Now I could almost let go. And that works. That works with every topic. It's just not that easy. So if I imagine it in practice. If I'm at your seminar now. And I really do such an inner query. Could I imagine it that way. That I then say okay. The child's wish is there. What is fulfilled when I have a child? So what do I think? What then happens in my life? And then I could imagine. Then I'm there for someone. Then someone finally loves me. That can be such a topic. And then on this inner journey. I could also ask. Who didn't love me? And then I come to these inner child topics. So that I basically. Take this desire for something. As a channel. To see. That I interpret in this desire. Which emotions are then fulfilled in me. To be seen. To be needed. To be loved. To be there for someone. Everyone has their own. And then pictures show up. Or inner processes or ways. Exactly. Pictures. Words come. There are feelings there. That is very clear. And then you start to understand. Why is this topic there? Because there is not only the reason. That it is a compensation. It could also be. That it is a real desire. Which is not fulfilled. Because on the way there. I solve and learn a lot. It was similar to me. I had pain in the legs. Out of nowhere. And then of course it was my wish. To solve that. And on this way. I had to look at so many topics. Until it was gone. That life set a goal for me. I saw the goal. And then I started. And that was a way up and down. And when I was done with it. I learned so much. I was ready to be there for people. So that can also be. There are different reasons. But in any case. As I see it. And then we are back to the topic. To become less. And not to think. I always have to get something. This change of thought. Can take place. We are today. Or I like to take the picture. This is a bit very simple. Very placid. Also a spiritual picture. We are a divine being. We are everything and luminous. And then we are connected with everything. And then we are in the separation. And on the way to the separation. We load things up. We build walls. So that we no longer perceive everything. No longer connected with everything. No longer use all abilities. Walls, borders, worries, fears. And there we separate. We split up. And in this gap. We put a wall in. So that the gap remains. And today is not the time. I prefer to dissolve this wall. Because then this gap that I have in me. Comes together again. So I clean up. I throw out lovingly. And it is so similar. Also in the new jobs. In the new jobs. This classic. As you said earlier. I put myself in a frame. By doing this and that training. Because then I can only act this way. Or I have to make an effort again. This is what I learned. This does not have to be anymore. Currently it is still so that it is connected. People have learned a framework. Now comes the width. The inner width. The spirituality. And in the future it will be so. That the children just start jobs. Because they just can. And while they start. Learn it even further. And thus get better and better. A big challenge is of course. To find out. What do I want to live? What do I want to bring into the world? You often hear that. That people say. I feel. I am now here in the office as a bookkeeper. That does not satisfy me now. That is clear to me. But I feel that I want to live something. But I do not know what. The absolute classic. And here too. It is relatively simple. Life brings the topics then. When you are ready. And that means. I basically have to prepare for it. Or put myself in the position. Put in the energy. That what really resonates with me. The high-pitched. So the pleasant. That this can come. And that means. I bring myself into a higher vibration. And that is among other things. Most people who listen to you. They already know that. That we carry a lot of topics in us. Of which we do not know a lot. But they still work. It's as if I live in a house. Of which I do not know two thirds of the rooms. And do not know what's in there at all. And now I start. And open this room. That means I feel inside. And start the inner rooms. The unconscious. Or what the school psychology calls subconsciousness. That goes through questions. To the field of consciousness. Then I ask. Which topic limits me? What bothers me? And then I see that too. And then I start. This old limitation. Sometimes there is a sentence from the grandmother. Child. Life is difficult and exhausting. You really have to move forward all the time. Otherwise nothing works. Very simple. And if you do that for half a year. With different topics. Until you are energetically completely different. Swing differently. And resonate with other topics. And at some point. Either the boss throws you out. Or you realize. Now it's time to go. Or you already see how life makes you a new offer. And that works 100%. So as long as that is not there yet. What you want. Free yourself. What life brings. When you are ready. And often there are inner images. Where it is often not so easy. To interpret them. I can still remember. Probably 10 years ago. We were also in such a group. And have exactly this field of consciousness. What comes into my life? And then somehow came. Stage. A lot of people. And the medicine snake. Do you still want to study medicine? Or why is there a TV? And I say. I do not go to the TV. Why should I go to the TV? The field has shown me the pictures. But I have not checked at all. What should happen there. And then I first informed myself. Whether I should study medicine. But that didn't work at all. And then I thought. I don't want to study that. I know that's not so optimal. I also found it exciting. How do you deal with it? When people get such key images. How do I deal with it? Do I let it flow? Do I deal with it? Do I pay attention to the signs? When something happens to me. In that direction. I would deal with it very relaxed. Just don't look. Where is it? When does it start? Do I miss something? That is usually the case. That it comes from somewhere. Where we didn't expect it. When such information comes. I had it too. 13 years ago. When I learned to read. In the very first reading. Someone gave me information. It was explained. What I do today. And I had no idea about it. And it was in such pictures. I recommend letting go. To feel these pictures on one side. To say. I carry them in me. And I am grateful that they have shown themselves. But I never expect. When and where. I have them in me. I carry them in me. But I am detached from it. And as it is written. Don't expect when, how, what, where. Because it comes when it's your turn. But if it shows itself. There are many people. It happened to both of us. And it showed itself afterwards. So be happy. When such pictures come. But please don't go into the tension. That it should be next week. Rather than in five years. Yes. That would be so easy. But that's why you're always there. And I'm happy. Because the interviews with you. It's always a bit like a reminder. To the essence. And of course I'm happy. If we have a few more interviews together. And on other topics with you. If someone wants to learn the field of consciousness. For themselves. That's the nice thing. You don't need anyone from the outside. You learn with yourself. To get into a good connection. You can inform yourself a bit. Read in. Yes, that's the nice thing. You can learn it. I have nothing else in my life. Just take a look at my page. www.das-bewusstseinsfeld.de Everything is there. Great. Thank you very much, Stefan. Thank you, Corinna. Dear viewers. I hope you are also inspired. To let go of things. It's always a challenge. But I hope it will be easier for us in the future. To open up. For the happiness in us. Thank you for watching.