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Studying is getting harder and harder
but people don't think like that
Why can't you do well in 4th grade when you were good at 1st grade?
Why can't you do well in 4th grade when you were this good?
Studying is hard
But no one tells their kids that studying is hard
Bye for today
Yook Tae-yang Night
Hello
I'm Oh-an teacher, Oh-an, who is a curator at a problem house
and a math guide for my mom
I'm Oh-an teacher, Oh-an, who is a curator at a problem house
Nice to meet you
I'd like to ask how you spent your last summer vacation
I went on a one-month vacation with my kids
I went to Cebu
and had a good time
Can I ask what programs you participated in during the vacation?
I have a lot of resumes
I've been to international schools and language schools
I took my kids to experience a lot of things
We live in a well-off environment in foreign countries
But if you go on a one-month vacation, you have to live in a very bad condition
It's not enough, it's difficult, and it's dirty
My kids grew up to the point where they felt growing up
So I think that's why I go out often
I guess your kids are good at accepting that kind of environment
At first, I followed my mom without knowing
But now I know everything
I know I'm not good enough, I know I'm dirty
But I grew up to the point where I can say it's okay
I prepared my mom's heart
The heart to take care of your kids for a month
If my kid gets sick, I feel like it's my responsibility
If my kid gets hurt, I feel like it's my responsibility
I feel like that
After the one-month vacation, I came back home
and there were a lot of things that I didn't know
Because of the tension
So you always have to take your mind and health with you
I decided to live in Jeju Island for a month
So I looked for a place to stay
The owner of the accommodation didn't recommend a one-month vacation
Mom, it's so hard
He told me to think about it really well
He recommended 10 days a week
That's good enough
So I didn't have the courage after that
I think it's going to be a good experience because you told me today
You took a long walk in Pohang
Because the metropolitan area has a high rate of population density
I heard that the private education fever is very hot
It's a hot topic
I don't know if the private education fever is so hot in the region
Everyone thinks so
But I think the mother's heart for raising children is the same
So there aren't many private education academies in the region
I think it's right to raise children in the best situation
that each family can do
Because I think all the people who have a real mother's vote
live in the region
This time, the perfect score for the CSAT came from Pohang and Ulsan
During the COVID-19, the education environment has changed a little
As the world of Zoom opened, there were a lot of online academies
I think there are a lot of people who use that side
Since you taught math,
I think you must have done math for the mother's vote
I wonder where you put the most emphasis when studying math for children
First of all, my eldest son didn't do it as a mother's vote
My eldest son really
As I lived in a new city, I raised him in the field of private education
But now that I've done it, I realized that I can't even follow that private education
without my mother's help
My daughter really didn't go to an academy
since elementary school, but she's really doing it as a mother's vote
So now I'm raising him while comparing that
I think you'll feel the pros and cons so clearly
because the first and second methods are different
I think it would be nice if you could tell me
My eldest son went to all the places where good kids gathered
and studied
My second son couldn't do that
He's not a fast learner
He's a kid who I have to keep an eye on for a long time
So he studied at home with me for a long time
But now I don't think my second son is slow or bad
He may look slow at home right now,
but if he does it steadily with his mom every day,
he will become a good kid at some point
I think I'm proving that
Then, can you tell me a little bit about your son's math study method?
I'm making a weekly schedule
When the monthly schedule is out,
he checks it himself
and focuses on doing that amount
I'm giving you a very detailed page
You're dividing it into three parts,
such as practice, revision, and revision
Rather than easy things,
one that suits your difficulty
One very easy thing
One difficult thing
Because if you solve only the easy things,
you always say the same thing when you get a difficult one
I don't know, I can't do this
So if I got some pleasure with the easy ones,
I go out at the same time
I learn what suits my level with the intermediate ones
and then I practice challenging myself with the difficult ones
All three
Some people think there are a lot of them
But when the area changes, there aren't that many
Math study methods are very diverse
There is a mother's school study, a learning site, and an academy
Actually, it's the most difficult part
to decide what to choose
The best way to choose
is that the mother knows herself
So I'm not regular
I can't do it consistently
I go to a lot of places on the fly
There are people like that
If someone asks me to hang out, I say, yes, I'll go
There's no consistency
Then I think it's important to study at least
and do it consistently even if it's a small amount
I'm sure there are mothers like me
who can't organize things
I'm really bad at organizing
But I had a hard time with the school
I'm a math teacher, but I had a hard time
organizing it again after studying with my child
Then a mother like me
can send her child to a math academy
Don't think hard
If you think you're sending what you can't do to an academy,
I think it'll be so comfortable
So if you're a smart person, you can study with your mom's vote
And if you have the courage to vote for your mom,
you can see a little more clearly what you can't do
I can't honestly say that I can vote for my mom
to everyone
If you're a working mom, it's too much
It's too hard
It's better to go to an academy once a week
than to hold on to your mom's vote
because she's too busy
I think it's definitely better than not doing anything
There are jobs that make math difficult
How do you give a lot of advice?
Because my mom knows my child so well,
there is a subject that I want to avoid
What if my child gets annoyed when she sees a serious problem like this?
You don't want to do a serious problem
But what if you keep avoiding this?
Then you can't do it
So it's up to my mom to give me the strength to endure it
That's a little bit since I was a kid
She always thinks studying is fun
Actually, studying is not always fun
The harder it gets, the harder it gets
We already know that it's going to be hard
Then I think we need to make the strength to endure it
So the top 5 is really hard
It's getting a lot harder
To prevent children from becoming spoilers
I think it's necessary to see something difficult from an early age
My child is in the 4th grade
She's studying math with her dad
She's studying, but she finds it so difficult
Is it right to hold on to it until you know it completely?
If you understand it to some extent, it's okay to move on
Because the multiplication is not the end here
It keeps coming out
If you wait for it to be perfect, you can completely miss the next one
If you understand it to some extent, it's okay to go out
And I always tell you
It's so hard to calculate
It's not middle school or high school, it's the elementary school process
Yes, so in elementary school, there are so many calculations that are too messy and difficult
If you just come out, you'll just fall down
I want you to understand a lot of children
It's so natural that it's hard to calculate now
I think it's natural because I'm a human being
So it's okay, sometimes my mom makes a mistake
If you say it's okay, math won't be too much
Did you actually have such a crisis?
Yes, I have
How did you get over it?
In the case of my son, subtraction
Subtracting three digits, subtracting three digits
If you do this, you and I can't do math anymore
To the point where I think like this
I'm so bad, really
But I didn't try to do it all
Just five problems today
Five problems in the morning, five problems at lunch, five problems at dinner
There's only as much as he can do like this
So I think I had my own know-how
Do you do other subjects in this way?
You don't just do math, elementary school students
You have to do English
If you can't do it, leave it to the outside
My mom can't do it all
Because my mom is not a superman
If you can't do it, I hope you always leave it to the academy
All the teachers are saying in common
Elementary school students can study based on textbooks
Mathematics is a review, a practice
I think I have to take care of all this
I thought it was a little difficult
That's right, this gap is too big
English is the same
Mathematics is the same
Elementary school is actually meaningless to evaluate
If you go to middle school, you evaluate
Because they evaluate the line
You have to divide the number of grades, cut it, and divide the percentage
You have to do these things, so the problem is getting more and more difficult
So come to middle school and solve the problem
If I tell you to solve something difficult, the kids will never get used to it
So since elementary school
Isn't it better to do it little by little?
If you think you're preparing it so you can see it from a distance
It would be much more comfortable
I'm not telling you to do well right now
You also recommended a time contest
These days, the grade evaluation is so easy
So it's not that the problem is easy, it's easy to win
The problem is difficult, everyone
It's not that the problem is really easy, it's difficult
Because the kids give the award according to the score
Problems from 20 to 25, 25, 20 to 30 are difficult
There's an easy part in front of it
It's not that hard for the kids to get 80 points
I made it all
So the kids get an award
Then it's not a big deal
Do I do well when I get an award?
You think like this
I think there's a point to it
So when you're in high school, it doesn't work
Because self-objectivity starts to work so well
But that's not the time for that grade
When we say, you're good
When you do this
You can use it as an objective indicator
From the child's point of view
I don't pay much for the grade evaluation
I can see it online these days, so I don't feel burdened
I want you to see it at least once
It's not a medal, but if you win a medal with math
The kids are really happy
Grandmothers and grandfathers are so happy
I think it's good to do something that makes you feel accomplished
Because there aren't many exams at school these days
It's a situation where children can't feel accomplished
So we have to find it personally
I think this grade evaluation is so good in that case
From my point of view
I think we need to do some math work before entering elementary school
I think we need to look at the basic physical strength
You talked about the importance of writing, Korean, and Chinese characters
Please explain why
I always emphasize Korean
The reason I emphasize Korean is
When I teach kids
The kids say, teacher, I don't know this problem
Why can't you speak Korean?
If we think of it as a series of math, we can go out endlessly
Math is not like that
After all, it's a process of thinking
Then you have to express the process of thinking
I can't go to that thought
Because I don't understand this word
And the kids fall apart from the first time
Then what should I do?
At least let's start with the text
I focused on that
What do children have to do to do Korean and math?
You have to write
But these days, the trend of math is changing
The number of exams has increased
There was a number of exams
In our time, it was a short answer
You just have to write the answer
Because there is a number of exams
If you want to write according to the number of exams
In the end, the number of exams comes out from the first grade
If there is no writing ability
The kids can't write anything there and come back
Even if you write the correct preprocess
If you write this in a mess
I can't show you this
There are so many kids who can't write
It's a good thing if you write a poem
There are a lot of kids who can't even write a poem
So if you start after you have some writing ability
You can progress faster than we thought
So my mom worries about that
There's always a sense of uneasiness about not starting early
Rather than starting early
Starting in a ready state
I can do more things
That's what I'm talking about
So early is not important
If we start with basic things like Korean or writing ability
Not only math, but also English, math, and Korean
Anything can fly
I think
If you add Chinese characters here, it will be a flash
Chinese characters are not for now
Chinese characters only know the meaning of Chinese characters when they are ignorant
Even if you do that, you can guess
Then you don't have to memorize the definition
You can study
In the case of Do-young, triangle
But even if you don't memorize it as Do-young with three angles
You can know if you just listen to the triangle
Then those who understand the triangle
I don't think you can understand the octagonal and octagonal
Just like that
It's good to have Chinese characters for those points
If you said you were ignorant
You're talking about Chinese characters before you go to elementary school
But if you can't take out Korean, you can't start
If you take out Korean and have a little bit of English ability
When you have time left, you can start together
It's best to start Chinese characters at a time that can last a long time rather than starting early
I think it's not bad to go to middle school and use it for four years from the second grade
I think the degree of good behavior will be determined depending on the student's learning ability
There are children with fast learning ability
There are children who only have learning motivation
There are children who don't have the motivation to study
I think we need to approach math study according to the level of these children
I'd like you to explain it one by one
First of all, a child who is very fast at learning
A friend who is fast at learning
Actually, those friends are doing well
Because it's not easy to go fast
It doesn't get as fast as I want
My biggest concern is a friend who only has motivation
I think I'm worried about that friend the most from my mom's point of view
I'm just saying I'm going to do something, but I'm not doing it
I have a will
But there are a lot of times when those kids don't know what to do
If we tell them how
Because that friend is greedy
If we fill that greed a little bit
You can do better than anyone else
If you ask, they all answer
Those kids are greedy
Mom, I want to win first place in something
To do that, we need to explain what we should do
I'm starting
There's a hard time on the way
These kids can't stand the hard times
You have to get over it with your mom
There are a lot of moments when you have to get over the hurdle
It comes a lot in elementary school
You have to help that moment
If you don't help me, try it
It's hard if you just push it like this
So a friend with high motivation
If my mom gets over that difficult moment with me
I'll be really good
How did you get over it?
First of all, you have to praise the kids the most
I'm doing well
And what moms think is the most difficult
How can I push this?
You have to empathize rather than push
Studying is hard
But no one tells the kids that studying is hard
Studying is fun
I did this much when I was a kid
Why can't you do it?
I say this the most
Studying is getting harder and harder
You don't keep thinking like that
I was good in the first grade
Why can't I do it in the fourth grade?
You keep thinking like this
No, math is getting harder
Math is still difficult
First of all, you have to empathize
When the kids study next to you
It's not why you can't do it
It's okay, you can do it
You're doing well
I'm proud of you
How do kids who are less motivated to study
Should they study math?
I need some courage
Friends who are less motivated
I can't help it
We have to use a little bit of courage
It's different for each child
Usually, friends who are less motivated to study
There are a lot of cases where they like YouTube or games
Those friends
We have to catch them by the hair
We can't help it
I do that, too
If you don't finish your homework these days
I can't even do the iPad
I can't help it
You have to do something basic
We're not trying to be very good at studying
You have to follow the basics
There are so many kids who don't do that these days
I'm going to the basics
I hope you think it's a little bitter
It was a realistic answer
Really
It's the most realistic
I can't talk about catching clouds
I'm raising a child
It doesn't work, anything
Kids these days have too many things
Because I have so many things
I don't have a goal and I don't have much greed
So I'm going to give them some intentional deficiency
If you want to make them study well
Don't do it all
I'm telling you that
But kids these days
There are kids who don't even eat their own food
But if you do that, you can't study well
If you study math
Now, when you do a lot of mom votes
I get angry a lot
But I have to have a good sense of math
I don't think I should be angry
Without hurting the relationship with the children
I think there will be a conversation method that can give confidence so that I can do math well
I always tell you three things
It could be, it could be wrong, it could be wrong
It could be
We don't want our kids to study
It could be
I hate to work at home too
It could be
Right, there are days like that
I understand my mom so much
I know you don't want to study
But there are things we have to do every day
If you tell your kids that, they nod again
Kids don't rebel like that
Then the kids get the problem wrong
And I don't want to do it
I don't know
You're talking about this
I don't know
I don't even read it
Then my mom gets angry again
No, read it
You know Korean
I'm starting with this
Then don't do that
Yeah, I don't know
It's our first time learning
Of course I don't know
If you don't know, I'll read it
I just want you to be a little flexible like that
We have to study perfectly now
It's not the end of the game
You have to look at it for a long time
So don't do it like you can't do it perfectly today
Don't do this
You just don't know
I don't know
I'll help you
Try it alone next time
Learning is really important
While telling me this
Then she solves it again
She solves it hard, but she gets it wrong
Then my mom gets angry first
It's wrong and wrong again
Yeah, it's wrong and wrong again
I'm angry
But now I'm angry
Don't be so angry
The wrong kid is more upset
Actually, you guys think I'm the most upset
The kids just don't express it
Because my mom is upset or afraid to get angry
There are many cases where they hide their emotions
The kids are the most upset
Yeah, so when the kid gets it wrong
It can be wrong
It's okay
You can learn again
And what you don't know is the signal to learn
How good
If we learn again, we'll be perfect
Wouldn't it be much better if you told me this?
Open your heart a little
I'll put this in
What's so important about getting 100 points now?
The essence of education is exactly
If you work hard steadily, you can be anything
So work hard steadily
When you decide the essence of education,
I think it's very important to be consistent
The biggest reason for holding sincerity and consistency as a motto
It's because not many people do
Yeah, so after a while
There's only one year left and everyone's out
So if the one who stays until the end wins the fight
I don't do this much every day
Even if it's this much, you can do it steadily
Because I don't give up
We go slowly for a long time
I think I'm studying with this kind of mind
And I don't know if the entrance exam will end at the age of 20
I think studying is really forever
So if you want to grow in an attitude of studying for the rest of your life
I think I have to have a habit of studying every day
I heard that you are appearing on our channel today
Please say hello to our readers who came running
God can't be with everyone
I made my mom
So my mom is God's substitute, not God
But now this frame that I give to my mom is so powerful
Mothers try to take responsibility for everything
Don't take responsibility
Rather than just making a perfect child
I hope you live a perfect today
Don't be too responsible
Yes, that's what I want to say
As you told us, we are steadily making a baby
I hope to see you again
Thank you
Thank you for your hard work