Beauty Pageant Contestant Defends Being A Sugar Baby

This beauty queen is going viral for taking a hard stance on sugar babies and sugar dating. And she's not against it. She's in support. Hey, man, don't go against Le Phong Thao, man. She said sugar dating. She didn't say sugar baby, man. It's different vocabulary. Oh, man. All right, guys. This is going viral. We got to talk about this. Le Phong Thao was runner up for Miss Vietnam Fitness, and she recently came under fire for her views on sugar babies. She said, and this is referring to younger, beautiful women who date older married men. She said sugar babies should be OK as long as they don't affect the marriage. And then people had backlash and were like, what? How can you say that? And then she came and doubled down on it. And she said, what did she say? She said, listen, if you choose to get married to men who don't possess the ability to take care of your family, then you will have to do two things at the same time. Give birth and make money. She said, I support dating older men as they have the ability to take care of women. Thanks to their financial and career accomplishments. I made it clear that I was against the idea of extramarital affairs since they are morally and legally wrong. So it could. Does that go with or against what she initially said? So she was saying extramarital would would. It's extramarital if not all the parties are on the same page. But I guess if the wife and the family is in on it and the husband's in on it and the sugar baby's in on it, then she said that's OK. And let's be honest. You see that sometimes in very rich, old, established families. Yes, I've heard of that. Yeah. Anyway, guys, make sure you like subscribe, turning your notifications. It sparked a ton of comments about the sanctity of marriage. Is this young generation just trying to use their looks to shortcut through life? Does marriage ever mean anything anymore? There's high divorce rates. There's high infidelity rates. First off, Andrew, we got to talk about lay phone town, man, because she kind of looks like Adriana Lima. A little bit of a Latina look a little bit, Andrew. But she might have like just been saying some crazy stuff to pop off. Because I'll tell you this. The girl who actually won don't to toy and she would never say stuff like that. She would she too proper. No, no. And also I would say this whole thing is just a very pretty person thing. Like you have to be very, very good looking. Essentially, to be a sugar baby. I'm not saying you have to be a model. But like, yeah, to get paid to be in a relationship with an older guy, you have to just be good looking like you're not just an average girl, depending on how the guy looks or what his desires are. Also, interestingly enough, Andrew, when T Fong Tao has a very similar name, Andrew is about to become the first Vietnamese woman to be a self-made billionaire in Vietnam off airlines. OK, but her airlines got huge valuations, but not completely because but in part because she's cool doing stuff like sexy stewardesses. Oh, huge valuations for that. Yeah, yeah. Yes. Amen. They bought the set. They know what men want, man. That's really interesting. Yeah. I mean, I also think that just you shouldn't take dating or marriage advice from someone who's famous for being good looking. I just don't think that's a good idea. That's the best person. No, that's just not a good. I'm against it. Um, yeah, clearly they value beauty queens, though, because Fong Tao, the beauty queen one, she actually lectures at colleges sometimes. And I think that that's why people were mad, man. Because let's be honest, Andrew, she's speaking of a dynamic that has probably existed for millennia. Right. But then, you know, women's rights and there's modern society and there's modern progressivism, there's capitalism, the development of the nuclear family. It seems like we've almost moved away from it. And is it making like a return back to the old mistress concubine harem days? I don't know. I don't I think that a lot of people don't like it because it feels like she's normalizing this behavior. Of course, this thing has happened and always kind of does happen low key. But JFK, I mean, American presidents, politicians want to talk about it and normalize it is kind of weird, I guess. So is it becoming more normalized? Andrew Faisal Roura was a famous dating show in China. There's a famous producing this quote. I would rather cry in the back of a BMW than smile on the back of a bicycle. And this went like hyper. All right. First of all, there's a pretty big gap between a bicycle and a BMW. And by the way, before we get in the comment section, I do want to be clear that there is a difference between sugar babies and sugar dating. Sugar babies can be in a relationship with an older guy who has a family. And that's common. That's a sugar baby. But it's sugar dating. She's referring to just dating for like a financially stable man and taking that into strong consideration. Right. There's probably a range is what she's referring to. Let's be honest. And I think she is referring to both that both should be OK, as long as all parties are known and educated and OK. I told you, man, she didn't say sugar baby. She just said sugary dating, like sprinkling a sprinkling a little bit of sugar crystals on a dating. She also referred to sugar babies. Somebody said all these high value men have age limits and she just has a financial requirement. Both are sort of unfair standards. But a lot of people have them. Right. Is it unfair standards if you have a look and age requirement for dating? Like a lot of like celebrities, Leonardo DiCaprio, they'll date younger. But then you're saying clout and money status, youth and beauty, blah, blah, blah. It's just a trans people, people just are all different metrics. Are they all shallow, unfair metrics? Somebody said as long as both parties are OK, then it's OK with me. Right. Um, yeah. I mean, that's a pretty she did quote. She did essentially say that she would not want to be a third party that's in a nonconsensual relationship, meaning like that she didn't know that she was the mistress. She would like to know. Everybody needs to know that there's a sugar baby. I do think in Asia, Andrew, sort of the financial fitment or the transactional like equation nature of relationships. It seems to be a lot more outspoken. Whereas in America, it's almost like it's weird. It's like people are supposed to be more blue pilled, I guess, when they're talking about the motivations behind marriage. Right, right, right. Yeah. Um, maybe it's because immigrants have always been in certain situations where somebody's like visas running out and they need to get married. You know what I mean? Like white people are just a heritage. Americans, they're not going to run into that situation where the where the green cards running out and people need to switch over to PR and all this stuff. Anyway, um, somebody said only in Americanized culture do they pick broke, tall looking guys that are Romeo Chads over the way, less good looking, less tall, richer guy. Uh, yeah. So I guess which world would you want to live in, David? An extremely look centric world or an extremely financially focused world. Now, I only say this as the two examples because there's always an argument because there's a lot of guys on the internet who are like, ah, women just care about looks. They want to chat a good looking guy. That's all they care about. But then they go, maybe they're become a passport, bro. Go to a different country where their money goes further. And then they become the rich guy in that country. And then they get to use that to, to, to get women, right. Or to date women. Right, right, right. You're saying they get to become the Romeo of that land. Yeah. So then are both systems unfair or not? Because I'll say this, like, for example, in India, where they do have quite a few still arranged marriages. You don't think that those two families who are arranging the marriage aren't talking about financials? Yeah. I mean, that's, that's, that's almost just fundamental matchmaking too, right? Um, this is a bunch of comments against her. I can't believe this. Woman is lecturing this garbage out of university. This explains everything about how many young women are seen to behave around foreign men. And someone said, listen to your rubbish, man. And date financial. You think that women want to listen to you and date old men on old motorbikes? Yeah, no, that's true. Because a lot of people ride motorbikes in Vietnam. But if you're, you're, uh, Fong Tao, you're probably in a whip. Yeah. This comment said something interesting was like, yeah, sure. You might get more money from that old bloke. But you won't appreciate your relationship and your connection as much because you won't be satisfied with that relationship. No, she said you won't be satisfying the soul in a relationship with an oldie. You guys didn't even grow up in the same era. Yeah. I think there's something to that. That makes sense. Um, another comment was like, uh, from apparently a woman that said, uh, it's 2023. And I hope women would have higher standards for themselves. She is promoting an Asian stereotype, especially for older men. Somebody said, what are you talking about? All women around the world are capitalizing online for donations, gifts, only fans, only plans, all types of things nowadays. What is going on? Even the Christians are getting divorced, man. What's going on in America? I got to say that I could not date a woman. Seriously. If she was ever a sugar baby, that would be super weird to me. And I would rather date a woman who was hustling as a streamer, or maybe even had her own OF page than a woman who was a sugar baby. I don't know. It just seems like a weird, uh, judgment of character. What if she was a sugar baby? They just had conversations. You don't know what was going on. Somebody said my mom worked and brought up three children. She still does. What's going on with just our values nowadays? What just everybody wants entitlement. Everybody just wants a rich life to be what they don't even want to be a rich wife anymore because being a wife is too hard. They just want to be a rich mistress. What is going on? Yeah, that is weird. I think that there, uh, and this is, uh, to kind of wrap up the video. I, I think there's a couple of problems. I think there's a lot of people who don't want to work, but I understand that women, you know, they have kids, they have to take care of kids too. So I get that. Why the stay at home as, as the stay at home mom idea has decreased. I feel like it's kind of making a comeback because it's, it is a lot of work to be a mother or a wife. Well, what you end up doing is like either asking your parents to take care of your kid while you're at work or you hire a nanny, which is like unbelievably expensive due to labor costs and just the structure of everything in America. But then also I just think people are just being so caught up in just lifestyle. You mean their own life? Yeah. Just lifestyle about how pleasant material things. Yeah. I think it does matter a rural to city split because in the city you see a lot more materialism because a lot more materialism is sort of like shot at you through the stimulus of just everywhere. Yeah. You know what I mean? So it's like, it's very prevalent in big cities. I'm sure Fong Tai was referring to a situation that would occur more in Ho Chi Minh City, Saigon or Hanoi than, than just like the countryside. Yeah. Also, I mean, at the end of the day, who really loses out, David, it's the, it's the average and below average dude, man, that who doesn't have a lot of money or doesn't have all the looks they're losing out. And that's why a lot of the comments are concerned about the future because they feel like if this attitude continues to grow and spread, then where does that leave regular men? And by the way, guys, I don't think this is a majority of people. I think it's just a growing niche of people. You could say like society used to be like that in the dynastic imperial, like king, queen days. And it almost like went away from it. It's almost like circling back around right now. But yeah, I mean, I think I like, I went to Canada. I saw a lot of people still in some really like structural middle-class relationships. Maybe there needs to be a comeback to a more of a simple laugh. You know, man, these people out here, they, they just trying to complicate things. They want so many things out of life. Do you want everything out of life? You know, the reason that I brought up that, uh, Fong Tao, Lei Fong Tao, the beauty queen is that so at odds with Fong Tao, the self-made billionaire through Vietnam air. It's almost like, do you think it's almost like nowadays, obviously it seems more achievable to be Lei Fong Tao than to be Win T Fong Tao, the woman who started the airline, right? It's easier to just use your looks and get something quickly out of it versus work your ass off, invest for like 20 years, uh, do a bunch of work, find, uh, create a company and then become rich. Right? Yeah. I mean, I've seen a lot more beauty pageant contestants then obviously just billionaires. And at the end of the day, listen, this is a pretty person thing to do. Whether you're a sugar baby and you're a guy or a sugar baby and you're a girl, essentially you have to be pretty good looking. And like the average looking woman doesn't even have this opportunity. Right. So it's, it's just all these things are catering towards like beauty and beautiful women, but that's also a man's fault too, for buying into it. But then where does that leave average women where they're like, well, I want to look good too so that my life is easier. So then everybody just focus more on those. Well, average women are getting denied right now. The opportunity to be a sugar baby. Yeah. But, but then, but then I don't know if that's true because then there's a, there's a variety of different sugar daddies too. Like the cooler looking ones probably, I don't know, guys, guys, man, let us know what you think in the comments section below. I would say she's speaking the unspoken, but I can see as somebody who's like in a position of power, you're like not supposed to speak the unspoken, even though there's some like harsh reality of like raw human nature behind it. Let us know what you guys think in the comments section below. It's society doomed. Keep it civil. 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