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Hello New Era Friends nice to see you again I hope you are always healthy In this episode New Era will address the topic of a husband and wife's life story If you are a husband please convey this to your wife perhaps it will then have a profound effect If you are a wife then keep this video well because you will come to love your husband more deeply If you're still single whether you're male or female save this video because there's a lot of real meaning about life in this story There is a phenomenon among middle-aged people Why do men die faster than women When entering old age regardless of your age and physical condition you will never feel lonely or miserable as long as you are always accompanied by your husband Many people believe that men are stronger than women especially in terms of physical strength However why do many elderly couples have husbands who tend to live shorter lives than their wives Actually men are not as strong as they are imagined to be They are also human they can feel sad lonely depressed and the burden of life but they keep all of it hidden in their hearts Why do men tend to drink more alcohol or smoke more This is because women tend to better at handling stress such as confiding in parents siblings close friends crying and so on In social norms women seem to have no problem showing their vulnerable side compared to men It is natural for a woman to cry and she should be given attention but a man is ashamed to shed tears Especially after getting married the pressure on men becomes even greater As the head of the household he must always appear as a strong husband and father in front of his wife and children A woman even after getting married can still share her heart with her husband her parents her close friend or even cry Their emotions are easier to express which makes women live longer than men Then how can a husband also live a long life Is there a way to ease the burden or stress he carries Yes First try to create a warm family environment so that when the husband comes home from work he can relieve his fatigue and rest comfortably Don't quarrel over household chores As long as there is good division of labor it won't be a problem Second when a husband is having difficulties the mood outside is bad even though he doesn't say anything when he comes home as a wife try to give him attention For example cook his favorite dish amuse him with a funny story change his bad mood or at the least don't look grumpy Once she feels better you can discuss what the problem is and find a solution Even if she doesn't want to say it or doesn't want to bring up the issues she's facing keep trying to comfort her until she's ready to talk At the very least as a wife she should help ease her husband's burden Care and tenderness of a wife are the best medicine for a husband If your husband makes a mistake don't use anger or a sharp tone because it will end up in an argument The thing you can do is be patient and forgive him for the sake of feelings and family harmony It's safe to say that the most frustrating issues are always about money and work Otherwise there might be conflicts with friends or other people and so on If what you want is a happy life with your husband until old age the most important thing is actually not how rich or powerful your husband is But the most important thing is health Health is the most valuable treasure Health can be sought but a healthy body cannot be bought with a mountain of wealth Third persuade your husband to stop smoking or drinking alcohol Make him aware of the importance of health If he doesn't think about himself at least think about the family especially the children If you don't want to separate from your family sooner and add to your life's burdens stop smoking Fourth if you have to live with your in-laws try to maintain a harmonious and peaceful relationship with them Because if a quarrel happens your husband will suffer the most Because he would definitely be caught between a rock and a hard place On one side his wife on the other his parents he didn't know whom to defend because both were important people in his life He was definitely very stressed because of that If you can do the four points above the following will be easier If you love your husband don't let him eat fried foods Cook soup or something similar By eating healthy you will realize that it was the husband who used to fall asleep often Feeling sleepy sluggish then suddenly becoming more energetic and enthusiastic Invite your husband to exercise together such as running walking cycling and so on You can also occasionally take him anywhere you like From small things like this your husband will realize that you truly love him He will take better care of his health and work harder to make you happy He will be very grateful to you because you did not add to or create a burden for him On the contrary it actually helped reduce his burden As a wife you must also be aware that those who will accompany you until the end of your life are not your parents or children but your husband The one who will accompany you throughout life until your hair turns white your face is wrinkled your steps are unsteady and your hands tremble When we live to be 70 80 or 90 years old there is still a partner by our side so we certainly won't feel lonely Our children may already be married have their own lives and it's impossible for them to always stay by our side That is when we will all realize that no amount of wealth or success can replace a sincere husband who loves you and accompanies you until the end of your days When someone carries so much burden it will eventually explode one day But don't forget to take care of your own health Healthy and happy spouses are the key to a long and harmonious family life That's all for today's topic thank you for your attention