Kit Harington and Peter Dinklage haven’t seen each other since the final season of ‘Game of Thrones’ aired. They reunite in the Actors on Actors chairs to catch up on everything they’ve been up to since. Harington discusses his return to TV in ‘Industry’ and his period of personal growth since ‘Thrones’ ended. Meanwhile, Dinklage talks acting alongside his long time friend Ethan Hawke in ‘The Lowdown.’ The two also bond over their love of theater and why Harington seems to be taking a lot of roles that require nudity lately.
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Kit Harington and Peter Dinklage reunite to reflect on their time filming *Game of Thrones* and their subsequent career paths. They discuss the challenges of sudden global fame, the importance of mental health, the transition into directing and producing, and their enduring passion for theater and authentic ensemble acting.
The first thing I did while the show was airing was go to rehab.
If Tyrion's so smart, why is he wearing these clothing in this heat?
I'm weirdly doing a lot of nudity at the moment and sex scenes.
The more I do it, the more I think, I think I should stop.
Are we filming?
Yes.
This is the show.
This is it.
Hi Kit Harington.
Hi Peter Dinklage.
Those are our names.
Just so you know, we haven't seen each other in about seven years.
This might get awkward.
How have you been?
Good.
You look good.
Shocking.
You look no different from when I last saw you.
A lot of work.
It has been.
I was saying before this, this was...
Pucks.
This is where we can figure out how much we've changed.
Okay, let's go through it.
I don't remember much back then.
It was a fog.
Here's something.
Oh boy.
This is going to be painful for you.
Let's embarrass the **** out of each other.
I am now the age...
Oh ****, I hate this.
I am now the age that you were when I first met you.
Wow.
I thought you were going to say,
I am now the age where Liam Cunningham first started.
I love you Liam.
Grandad.
No one knows what age Liam Cunningham is.
No, he's Irish age.
I love Ireland.
Yeah, that's so crazy to think about.
Because that show, it's a show called Game of Thrones.
If anybody ever remembers.
There were like the really young people,
like Isaac and Maisie and Soph.
These guys in their 20s, fresh out of drama school.
My era, which was like 40s.
And then the old timers.
And it was such a great dynamic
between all those different sort of stages of life.
Yeah.
And now, sadly, we've lost a few of the old timers.
That's how long it's been
and how elderly they were at the time.
But it's bizarre for me being...
I'm 39 now and I remember...
God.
I know.
That's crazy.
I'm 39 now and I remember
like one of my first sort of memories of anything
was David Benioff's 40th birthday party.
Yeah.
So it feels like a bizarre place
talking to you, seeing David recently
and knowing I'm kind of now in the place
where I came in.
Yeah.
Meeting you guys.
Yeah.
And knowing the place you were
when that whole journey started.
Yeah, I was around your age.
Damn.
It's also odd because it's that thing of...
I don't know how it is for you,
but your group, as it were,
if we can put them in groups,
you, David, Dan, Lina, Hedy,
Nikolaj Costa-Walder,
you were like the established,
older, like...
In the thick of it.
Not resting on our laurels yet,
but like still working actors, yeah.
Who'd done ----.
Yes, which was such a cool balance
with everything going around us,
with all you guys.
First of all, for you guys,
you and Amelia and Richard and Alfie,
at that age, dealing with a show like that,
fresh out of the gates,
none of us had that.
We were like scrapping along,
doing indie films,
theater here in New York.
That would have blown my brain off
going into straight out of like
being new to it all professionally
into that.
Although at the beginning,
we had no idea.
No.
It felt really like,
is anybody gonna watch this show?
We knew there was a fan base
for the books,
but there wasn't like an awareness
that I think there is now
of this is gonna be a huge show
before it even airs.
There wasn't a feeling.
There was just like a,
the trailers were kinda junky
and we were in the middle
of the woods,
and it was a really,
really well-written show.
That's why we were all there.
But there was no feeling
that this is gonna be as huge
as it was going to be.
Maybe more for us
because we had already been
through all those things.
I remember back in the day
there was something called
pilot season,
which you go to L.A.
and you read for these TV shows,
and then you're going like,
I'm a movie actor.
I don't wanna be on a TV show
because that was always,
back in my time,
that was like something
that was like B-level,
but that has all changed
because all the great writers
are going to television
like Dave and Dan,
so there's no stigma
for it anymore.
So that was a weird sort of
entry point for people
my generation
going into a TV show,
especially far from home.
You were a year out
of drama school?
Practically, yeah.
I'd done one play.
I did War Horse
for a year straight
out of drama school
and then got the pilot
of Game of Thrones.
And my first ever scene
on camera was with you.
Right.
I remember.
Sorry about that.
No, no, but I remember.
Do you know what
I remember from that?
I remember thinking,
I've just gotta be really still.
Like that's acting for cameras,
to be as still as I possibly
can be and then say my lines
and then go back to stillness.
Still not stiff.
Yeah.
No, I watched that.
I think I watched that
straight back.
It was very cold,
so it was like hard thought.
Like in my head,
I'm like,
why is that guy moving so much?
Like he's moving.
Overacting.
Bad acting.
Being a ham.
And then I realised,
no, you're just so much
more experienced,
you know,
just to be on camera
as I was like,
right, just freeze.
If you freeze,
nothing can go wrong.
Well in your defence,
Jon Snow can be
sort of a frozen character.
It took me about four years.
He's a bit more fun
than Mr Killjoy.
Exactly.
And Mr Do The Right Thing.
Brings every scene down
just by his mere presence.
No, but for me,
it was like,
I had no idea
what huge was.
I didn't know
what pilot season was.
I didn't know
what the Emmys were.
I didn't know anything.
I knew the letters HBO
because I knew the Sopranos
and I knew I was in a pilot
for an American TV show
and that was enough.
Like that was huge.
Like for me at that point,
I was like,
I've hit gold dust
just being employed.
It was an alarming realisation
when it started
to be a success.
Looking back,
I think it was like
this runaway train
that was like,
oh, okay,
this is good
but it's getting
a bit scary now.
Yeah.
I think.
As soon as we left Belfast,
you started to feel
it a lot more.
Yeah.
Like when we go to Spain,
Croatia,
these sort of exotic locations
in the warm weather.
I'm sorry,
exotic location.
I didn't leave Belfast.
Oh right,
sorry.
Well,
when the rest of us
except for Kit
got to go to the south
of Spain and Croatia,
that got a bit more
warm weather crazy
with the fans.
Well,
I experienced that
when we went to Spain
in the last season.
Yeah,
the final season
when they let you
out of the cold cage.
Yeah.
I was like,
wow,
this is chaos over here.
Yeah,
hard to sort of stay
close to the material
when that is going on
around you
and the awareness
of that
and not letting that
mess it up.
You and that
crew of actors
and creatives
in the slightly
more mature bracket
of like,
right,
you're having kids,
you're in your 40s.
Like,
for me,
you're always
in that bracket.
It's like,
I still have that
teacher scenario
of like,
it's Peter
or it's David.
It's like when I see
old college friends
of mine on the street,
they look so old
because you
compartmentalise them
as young forever.
Yeah.
It's like the musicians
who die young.
You just
always have them
be young.
I worked with Sophie again.
Yeah,
I heard.
How was that?
I've heard you
have a love scene
with Sophie.
Yeah,
she sent me the script
and was like,
do you want to do this?
And I read it
and I was like,
Sophie,
there's a lot of
us getting it on
and she hadn't seen that.
She'd just go,
yeah,
Kit would be good
for this part.
But for me,
obviously,
I've known her
since being a child,
so I'm like,
she feels like my
younger sister.
I'm like,
this is weird.
But we did it
and it was gross
but it was fine.
It was gross
but it was fine.
It was gross.
Yeah,
that's how I summed that up.
It was gross
but it was fine.
She's an amazing actor.
I know we all know that
but like,
she was a child
when she came out.
She is phenomenal.
Maybe I just say this
because we had so much
stuff together
with Tyria
and Sansa stuff.
I sort of would look
around the room
going,
this is like
the greatest actress
I think on this
******* show
because what she was
giving me was so still
and she was always
so prepared.
She was so fun
to play across.
She was so there.
Yeah.
But I use that word
still
because
the camera's on you.
You don't have to do
anything for the
camera's attention.
The camera's on you.
You don't have to move.
And she just had that
sort of,
and that's a difficult
part.
Yeah.
It's such a hard part.
Yeah.
I mean,
to go from like this
uptight,
prissy,
no fun sister
to like,
yeah,
she was incredible.
But did you feel
more prepared for it?
I guess it's impossible
to say.
like you just said,
my daughter was born,
my first kid was born
like the end
of the second season.
It was also so much
of my life,
my life changing
at that time.
She went to school
in Ireland half the year,
had an Irish accent.
Yeah.
So while the young ones
were off going around,
I was getting up
and getting her to school
in the morning in Ireland.
So it was such
a homebody existence
for me in Belfast.
My daughter is still
in touch with her friends
from there that she
grew up with.
So I had a very
different reality.
I wasn't going back
to London on my days off
like a lot of you guys were.
But I don't regret that
at all, obviously,
the birth of my child.
But that idea of like
really immersing in that town
Dave and Dan were
immersed in it too.
And so I got to spend
a lot of time with them
because they had,
their kids were young
at the time.
So I really, that really
changed my experience
because I was nervous
about going away to Ireland
for a long period of time
away from my wife
and my family
and all that stuff.
Locations are amazing
because you get
to compartmentalize
the experience
of making the movie
and not weave it together
with your home life.
You get to make it separate.
Like doing a movie
for a month in Budapest
or something,
you just get to
fully embrace your work,
the experience,
and then you go home.
And my kids now
are used to it
and they're great with it.
But combining the two
can be tricky
because you just want
to live in that
sort of fantasy
of what you're making.
But with that show,
it wasn't really,
it was just so combined
with my life
that they're hard
to extricate each other
from one from the other.
For me, obviously,
in my 20s,
we were just tearing up.
Yeah.
We were tearing up a lot.
Everything's so exciting.
Everything's electric.
And on top of that,
you have this added
special source
of being in this thing,
and it just goes nuclear.
Yeah.
And the reins
came off at times.
Yeah, for sure,
which is understandable.
Yeah.
In my 20s,
and a lot of actors my age,
I have a couple
actor friends
who were famous
young like yourself,
and we just sort of
got into New York City Club
and lived with them for free
because they were famous
and we just were
on their coattails.
But for a lot of us,
we were struggling still,
and money was always,
living in New York,
living in London,
always an issue.
I can't imagine
having that burden lifted
because 20s are also about
making mistakes,
breaking hearts,
getting your heart broken,
and ******* up.
Yeah.
I feel like that's the decade
you're an adult,
but you're still allowed
to figure,
and I think mistakes
are really important in life.
Everybody's really focused
on success,
but with you guys,
you were sort of,
all your mistakes
were public knowledge.
And with a bag of cash.
And also,
we are paying you
a lot of money,
so kind of make less,
a few less mistakes
while you're at it.
Yeah.
To have that going on
must be hard at that age
because that's not
really natural.
I think the further
I get away from it,
the more I realize
it was a kind of
weird way of life.
Because you're still
growing up in your 20s.
Yeah.
Very much so.
That's like the most
you're growing up,
I think.
I think we were
very protected,
and I think we were
protected in that place,
and I'm thankful
I was in Belfast
for a lot of it.
Yeah.
No kidding.
Me too.
I love that place.
What was the first thing
you did when the show
was over?
Because that's an abyss
to look into.
Not in a negative,
like, potential.
Now what?
The first thing I did
while the show was airing
was go to rehab.
That was my first
port of call.
It was a very weird
experience, Peter.
I decided to go to rehab
as episode one was airing,
and I was there
for six weeks,
isolated,
without my phone.
That was a conscious decision.
Yeah.
I needed to go get sober.
I needed to get
my head on straight.
When it aired,
was that just serendipity?
It was just serendipity.
It just happened that way,
that it was airing.
And actually,
that was a big pull
to not go to rehab,
was like,
well, wait a minute,
there's loads of press
that needs to be done.
You need to be front and center.
And it was a good decision to go,
do you know what?
Actually, I'm checking out.
I can't do this.
Anything to get out of press.
As we say that
in front of cameras.
I know.
But actually,
it was a real relief.
And I got there,
and I was without my phone
or anything,
so I didn't see
the last season.
I wasn't there
throughout the whole thing.
And then I come out,
and I decide
to take a year out
of work
to get
sorted.
It was a very wise decision.
And then I'm like,
right,
I'm going to re-engage
with work
in a very kind of
considered way,
in a considered way,
and then COVID hit.
And so it was like,
it was this very strange period
after the show ended
of like,
these kind of
strange sort of
either
massive kind of...
------- COVID.
But I think looking back,
it's been really,
was very good for me
because
it allowed me
the time
post that show
finishing
to
figure out
in some ways,
not to be too wanky,
but like,
who I was.
Yeah, of course.
And whether I really
wanted to do this anymore.
Kind of like,
talking bluntly,
like,
do I love this still?
It's important
to ask yourself that
all the time,
especially with what we do.
Because a lot of it's like,
here's your call sheet,
show up.
So much work has been done
before you get there
that I'm producing now.
I know you are.
Just,
I think that is
in response to
where the last ones
to get to those sets.
you know.
So it is more
being in control
of actually
what you are
putting out there.
Well,
I'm glad you did that, man.
Yeah, yeah.
Thank you.
It's important to know
who you are
in order to know
who you are
as an actor.
I spent a lot of
Game of Thrones
working from a place
of pain.
Yeah.
And it's kind of
the character as well,
I think.
All those characters
have nothing but pain.
Yeah.
Which is the beauty
of their humor.
You, with Tyrion,
like brought so much
humor and pain
to the thing
that it was
incredible to watch.
I think
I'm very proud
of the work I did,
but I was pulling a lot
because of where
I was in my life,
purely from pain.
And actually,
one of the things
I've realized
since finishing
is looking at
what you were doing
so naturally
of pulling from
joy and pain
at the same time
and mixing those together
and that's a really
satisfying place
to work.
But it was that joy
I needed to discover
post Game of Thrones.
Yeah.
The scenes I haven't
seen you
since it finished,
what were the years
after like for you?
Being a dad,
my son was born
right before the last season,
so he was still a baby
when Thrones ended.
First thing I did,
which was very funny,
was summer theater
in Connecticut
because Erica, my wife,
directed a Cyrano production
and it was literally
like a week after
we got home from Belfast,
we went to Connecticut
to more weird theater housing
and did this play.
She kept apologizing to me,
but I was like,
you know what,
this is exactly
what I need right now,
a musical.
It was a musical
and it later led to
a movie version of it,
but it was
such the opposite,
just working
with out-of-town
New York theater actors
putting on a show
that was really organic
and in a tiny little theater
and it just felt
like the opposite
of what we had
just come from.
You start to try
and re-engineer things
to get yourself
out of the Tyrion box
because that's like
the greatest character
I've ever played,
but you don't want
to go right into
doing that more
and people want more.
People wanted probably
more of you doing
dragon shows and stuff
and not to rail
against our industry,
because I get in trouble
sometimes for railing
against it,
so I've got to
choose my words carefully,
but I think Tyrion really,
for someone my size,
opened people's eyes
a little bit more
to the humanity
in that fantasy genre.
Most often those characters
are not really
fully realized human beings,
but still once
Thrones ended,
I was still getting
the couple fantasy things
that were just not Tyrion,
just back to what it was
before that show,
and I thought we were out
to change things around
a little bit,
and my front row seat
didn't really do
a heck of a lot,
so I just went to,
I did a lot of smaller films
in terms of finances.
I did exactly what you did.
You just wonder,
do I want to keep
going with this?
Do I want to take some time?
But then you have a family
to support,
and reality creeps in,
and you need to work,
and I feel happy
when I'm working.
But yeah, I just started
trying to make
my own project
that started to find
its sea legs,
and I haven't done something
I didn't want to do since.
Before Thrones,
I was doing some stuff.
I was like...
There was a lot of good stuff,
but there was a lot of stuff
I wasn't too proud of,
and since Thrones,
so perhaps it's changed
some minds in terms of that.
I'm pretty proud
of everything I've done.
Even after Thrones,
there were still
obstacles there.
Yeah, yeah.
I didn't become an actor
to change the world.
I'm not a leader of any sort.
People put that on you
when you are an actor.
As soon as you say
anything political
or anything that's a bit,
even personal,
and from your own experience,
it can be misconstrued
as speaking for everybody,
and that's never my intention.
It's just from my own
personal vantage point.
I think looking back,
I spent a lot of time
during that kind of window
of Game of Thrones
terrified about saying anything
with the kind of
social anxiety I had.
But like being on camera so much
and being asked questions
that were complex
and difficult
and I had feelings about,
but not knowing how to,
whether what I was going to say
was okay.
I think as I've got older,
I'm like,
do you know what,
I think what I think
and I believe what I believe
and I'll say what I want to say.
It's also gone tomorrow.
It's really,
it's gone within an hour now.
Right, because everything
is being recorded
and everything,
so it's like you can do anything
because there's something else
to replace it.
There's nothing really,
I don't know.
In the political culture
we're living in now,
it's just,
so it's like,
what can't you do?
What can't you get away with
that's not going to be
forgotten about tomorrow?
So tell me about
your producing.
You're taking the reins
and not just being the guy
in front of the camera,
but being behind the camera
and taking control of creative
and putting those people together,
which is what I love the most.
I still don't even know
what producing is.
It's just putting really smart,
creative people together
in the same room.
My friend Dan West,
who's my friend
from drama school,
and best friend,
was the best man
at my wedding.
He's a writer-producer,
I produce with him.
We started that
while Thrones was still going on
with a show called Gunpowder,
and then we just produced
our second thing
something like 10 years on.
How long things take.
It's not easy.
People have no idea.
I've been attached to things
for 20 years.
I've outgrown,
I'm too old for the parts now.
I know,
and people don't want
to give their money away.
It's like,
just give us,
it's just a movie,
just give us $10 million.
It's not,
come on,
just give,
come on.
But like I was saying to you
before we sat down,
we have a terrible addiction
to trying to produce
period pieces of drama.
I don't know why
we keep doing it.
We've just produced
Tale of Two Cities,
and we're like,
it's impossible.
The thing you need
the most money for
is Margot Robbie.
Then you can do it.
We couldn't quite get
Margot Robbie.
The actor lists,
oh God.
I think I have restless legs,
I have restless feet,
I have restless brain,
so it's just another thing
for me to be doing.
And then recently
I went and directed
a short film,
and now I'm interested
in that.
I'm going to send it to you
actually.
I will,
I'll do that.
But I was really proud of that.
So I'm interested
in all aspects of it,
and Miguel Sapochnik
was brilliant,
has been brilliant with me.
Great,
what a mentor.
As a mentor.
Yeah.
He said something interesting.
He said that you are,
as a director,
and I guess this goes
for being a producer as well,
but he said,
as a director,
you are a fishing net.
You get all the best people
around you.
Yeah.
They throw ideas in,
and your job is to catch
those ideas
as they go through.
Yeah.
And I thought that was
a really humble way
of looking at it,
and a really accurate way
of looking at it.
Yeah.
Like you're not
the boss of anyone,
you're the person
to catch the good ideas.
Yeah.
So that was great.
And if you have too many notes
for an actor,
you got the wrong actor.
I know there's such
a time constraint,
and people stress out,
but all the great directors
that I've worked with
they also just love
what they do so much.
They don't let stress
enter into it at all,
but the time constraint.
Somebody else,
your first AD
can do that for them.
It's also how they are
with children.
I've been on sets
with directors
with child actors,
children,
and when they're
over-managing,
kids are the best actors.
Just let them be a child.
Yeah.
If you start to manage them,
you see them like
they're sphincters
tighten up,
and they're just like,
oh, now I'm scared
and I can't act anymore.
Just roll the camera.
Yeah, yeah.
It's just symbolic of how
a director should be,
because we're all children.
But maybe edit sphincter out,
maybe, that word,
especially having said a child.
Maybe that's, yeah.
Thank you.
There's a great quote,
Joaquin Creer,
the guy who did
Sentimental Value,
he said,
carrying what a critic
says about you
is like a lamppost
carrying about the dog
that's peeing on it.
The lamppost will just be,
I'm not saying it
the right way,
but I think it's
like the greatest quote,
and you can look it up,
it's a great quote about
you just have to be
that lamppost,
because everybody's
going to piss on you.
The lamppost,
it's going to happen,
but you're giving light
to the night.
One of my problems
when it comes to acting
and our work
is living in the end product.
Yeah.
Doing a play
and living in what
the critics are going to say
about it.
Doing a film and thinking,
is this going to get
nominated for something?
Doing in a, like,
constantly...
Because it's in your ear
too long.
It's a constant fight
against living
in the end product
rather than being
in the moment.
Again, a bit wanky.
Because all acting is
is being in the moment.
Do you have a method?
I mean, other than
trying not to do it.
My only tool seems to be
not being on social media
and just making
an extreme effort
to not do it,
but it's one of
my biggest vices.
I can't help but go,
what's this going to do?
a kind person,
and to not care
what people think,
I think that's not...
We're social creatures.
That's not true.
And if anybody,
they pretend they don't
care what people think.
We have to care
what people think
because we're also
sharing our soul
and putting on a show.
If you don't care
what people think,
truly, then maybe
you're not the kindest person.
So I care what my kids think.
Their opinion matters to me.
But the joy of getting older
is not caring anymore.
That every year that passes,
you care less.
I'm only speaking
for myself because
you're just settled into like,
not complacency,
but just like,
what are you going to do?
I have my friends.
I have my family.
I can't, if you're
pleasing everybody,
maybe you're doing
something wrong.
My favorite pieces of art,
movies, are things
that some people hate
and some people
are passionate about.
If it's a movie
that everybody's like,
yeah, okay,
then it's like,
that middle ground
is also like
a cesspool of like,
meh, entertainment.
And there's a lot of that.
You're incredible.
The people around you
know that.
So it's like,
everybody's going to be
a critic and troll
and be icky
on the social media.
Glad you're not on that.
Nobody is.
Nobody should be.
It's the wisest thing
I ever did.
Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah.
But it's a draw.
Every time I'm on my phone,
it's like,
I'd be on it for an hour
reading an article
that I don't need
to be reading.
Yeah, my kids
will start entering my,
because I'm doing more,
weirdly doing a lot
of nudity at the moment
in sex scenes.
And the more I do it,
the more I think,
I think I should stop.
I'm going to start
thinking about my kids.
Like, like,
why is Daddy
always naked on screen?
Like, I'm doing
a lot of nudity.
That's all right.
Nudity's good.
Kids are always
naked in the house.
Like, they're, they're,
you know,
we see enough of them.
You know, it's okay.
That'll be a conversation
for the therapist one day.
Conversation for,
yeah, they're going to
have to watch
me and their mum.
My kids just watched
Thrones this past year.
Because I guess
they were just like...
How was that?
Well, my eight-year-old son
was really into it.
Especially all the,
all the Baba.
That's his name for,
no, that's when he was little.
He loved it.
Because he, he's,
he loves all the dark arts.
He loves to,
to like read all,
like, he writes scary stories.
He's like a future Stephen King.
But were you diving
in and out of the room?
you were like,
ah, I don't want to...
I watch your scenes.
I was like, yeah,
I couldn't, you know.
Although it did bring up
a lot of memories,
which was that I had
totally forgotten about.
And to see it
through their eyes,
they were fans.
Yeah, it was wild.
They both were.
Like, I'm going to go do
this new alien TV show
in London this fall,
and it's my son's
favorite show.
And that's one of the reasons
why I said yes
to Noah Hawley,
who's a genius writer,
creator, showrunner.
But it's a really good show.
It's my son's favorite show.
Yeah.
And Noah wanted me to do it,
and I was like,
oh, yes.
My hero dad.
I'm going to be
such a hero in his eyes.
I'm doing,
I'm going to be
in his favorite show.
And he can go and sub,
and yeah.
I told him,
and he was like, what?
Like upset with me.
Like, kind of like,
don't **** up
my favorite show, dad.
Because it's going to
take him out of it,
which is like,
I didn't think about that.
I'm going to be
a bit of reality,
his reality,
in his escape.
I was like, ----.
I thought it was
going to go a different way.
That'll last a near moment,
though,
and then he'll realize
he gets to go on set.
Yeah, yeah.
Come on.
How long are you going
to be in London?
Alien creator,
xenomorphs,
whatever they're called.
I better start
learning their terms.
About five months.
It'll be like a throne shoot.
I'm not the only one
to say this, though.
As an actor,
like, maybe we're
pampered too much,
but the sweet spot
is having a job,
knowing it,
but not starting it yet.
I'm in the sweet zone
of like the month
before I start.
Yeah.
I don't have to,
I have a gig,
job security,
but I don't have to
get up at 4 o'clock
in the morning
just quite yet.
laughs
Because people do think
that sets are glamorous
places to be on.
Yeah.
And people who come
visit sets,
like my mother
or whoever it is,
they quickly realize,
wow, how boring it can be.
It's within 15 minutes
they get bored.
Within 15.
I remember years ago
when my grandmother
was still alive,
I was shooting a scene,
she came to the set,
I think it was
a year in New York,
and I heard,
like way by the monitors,
in the middle of the scene,
I'm bored, let's go!
laughs
Let's go!
And it kind of echoed
throughout wherever we were.
I'm bored, let's go!
She didn't realize,
I think maybe
she had the headphones on
so she couldn't hear
how loud she was.
My kids came to set
in Cardiff last year,
but I stepped off set
and I was like,
hello darling,
and my boy went,
Were you naked?
No, no I wasn't,
not that day.
I was like,
and he was like,
daddy, daddy,
and I went yes,
and he went daddy,
and I went yes,
and he went daddy,
daddy,
and I went yes,
darling, what?
Daddy, this woman here,
daddy,
pointed at the runner,
says I can have
whatever I like.
It was a little moment
of going,
yeah that's pretty cool
actually,
there's a box of snacks,
and I can have
whatever,
he didn't give a toss
about the product,
like me, anything,
the box of snacks,
I can have
whatever I like.
Yeah, Swedish Fish,
for endless amounts
of Swedish Fish,
yeah,
like anybody,
why is this out
in the open?
Why is this for,
what really?
It's like,
I've also found
something weird
about parenting,
which is that
I used to hate
being infantilized on set,
like treated
like a child,
I felt like as an actor
I was treated
like a little child
wrapped in cotton wool,
I ******* love it now,
because you go
from looking after
the kids at home,
and you're like
their servant,
like just carrying
things,
is this fine for you sir?
And then you get to set
and someone goes,
would you like
a cup of tea?
And you almost cry,
you're like yes,
you're asking me,
can I get you
dressed now,
yes please,
thank you,
oh you're going
to tie my shoelaces
for me,
thank you,
thank you.
I told you,
we weren't supposed
to leave him alone,
but you did it anyway,
and you're going
to hurt Francis
the same selfish way.
So I watched
The Lowdown.
You did?
Yes, I did.
You know,
I have not seen
the industry.
No,
don't worry,
you don't have to
go into it,
but I want to,
I want to say
one thing.
Industry,
not the industry.
I want to talk
about industry,
I want to talk
about The Lowdown,
which is one thing
that struck me
when I watched
you on that,
and I'll pay you
a compliment,
so prepare to blush.
I realise what it is
I love about what
you do,
which is,
you were in that
show for one episode,
but within that episode,
I entirely,
from the moment
you walked onto
camera,
to the moment
you left,
I entirely bought
and believed
your entire history
as that character.
I don't know
whether you,
is to do with
a huge amount
of preparation
on your part,
whether it's something
you just intrinsically
have as an actor,
but whenever I've
watched you,
I buy the entire
history of the character,
rather than just
this being a day
in the life of,
it's like,
I know this person's
whole story,
and I think that's
something that you
have in spades,
and I think it's just,
I'm not sure
you can teach,
actually,
I think it's amazing.
Thank you.
Um,
I definitely
don't prepare.
I think with that gig,
which was really fun,
I just went to Tulsa
for a week,
and came in
to a show
that was already going
for six months,
and you come in,
and everybody
knows each other,
but I had a safety net
with that one,
because Macon Blair,
my good friend
who I've worked with
many times before,
was directing that episode.
He's on the show as well.
I've done several movies
with him.
I've known him
for many years.
Sterling Harjo's writing
is so good
and so real
and naturalistic,
and he's there every day
and allows you
the freedom
to explore
whatever works
and whatever
isn't working.
You know,
he's not precious.
And Ethan Hawke,
who I had known
for 35 years,
he was one of the people
who was famous
when we were first
in New York.
I met him right
out of college.
Actually,
I was still in college.
He came up to visit
up in Vermont.
He'd just done
Dead Poets Society.
He was the first
sort of famous person
my age that I knew
and became friends with,
and he's obviously
the lead of that show,
and we had never acted
on screen together before.
How'd you know?
Was that the first time?
That was the first time, yeah.
I think what you're seeing
is that history reflected
for him and I.
And now we're older now,
parents,
and that whole episode
was all about our past,
about a mutual friend of ours,
and so we already had that,
you know, built in.
Whether the cameras
were rolling or not,
we were just continuing
what you and I
are doing right now.
Whether the cameras
are rolling,
it felt like so natural
and easygoing,
and the set that Sterling
and Macon sets up there
is just so not precious
and easygoing.
It feels like
my favorite filmmakers
at Cassavetes
and just friends
getting together
and making a movie,
which has become rare.
Did you bring Frances?
Yeah.
She's the best part
about you, man.
Yeah.
I'm about to do
a short film
that my wife's gonna direct,
and we're just gonna use
our house upstate
with another actor,
and she went,
uh-oh, do we need
a SAG waiver?
Because nobody's getting paid.
It's just like a short,
it's like a 15-minute film,
and I was like,
I don't know.
So you have to go through
all these protocols
for things that
back in the day
you would just get together
and make movies with friends
like Cassavetes used to do
and all these.
I don't know if anybody
filled out any paperwork
for those seminal films
back in the day.
I don't think so,
but now there seems to be
like such a real sort of
professional,
unionized thing
to everything
that you gotta be careful,
which is great
because our union
is the greatest union there is,
and it's important, obviously.
I think my point is
on that set in Tulsa,
it felt like it did
back in the old days,
like really low budget.
Even though it's playing on TV
for millions of people,
it's like the early
days of Thrones.
It just doesn't,
it didn't feel that way,
and I think that reflects
in what you're putting
on the screen.
The environment is bonding.
We bonded on
Game of Thrones.
I think a lot of it
had to do with us
being out there
in the rain together,
not in a studio.
The longer I get to do this,
the more I realize
the thing that I love
about this work,
and it's very much
about the ensemble,
and it's very much
about the green room,
and it's being in a tent
in the middle of nowhere,
and it's chatting ----,
and it's taking the piss
out of each other,
and it's that bonding
that I think is so essential
that when you get onto set,
it's all there.
The history is there,
just like you and Ethan.
It's like the things
that I've done
that haven't worked
are when people
separate themselves.
Yes.
They're not doing that,
which doesn't feel like work,
and it's the best work there is
because it doesn't
feel like work.
Right.
That work offset
that's about getting
to know each other
that is a rehearsal room,
essentially.
It's the closest you get
to a rehearsal room
for a film thing.
Yeah, especially
like on location
where all you have
is each other.
Yeah.
Because you don't know,
you're in the middle of
wherever country you're in,
and so you stick together
like you're on
an artistic sort of iceberg
together,
just like clinging
to each other.
I mean,
we had the luxury
of a decade together.
Yeah.
So that changes everything.
But it was so strong
on Thrones.
Yeah.
It was so crafted,
curated,
allowed to happen.
Yeah.
At the time,
we were like,
this is the cheapest show
as far as looking
after actors you get.
Yeah.
A tent with a heater,
one heater,
and everyone's freezing.
But now looking back,
it's exactly that
that made it
what it was, I think.
We didn't have
like a separate tent
for one through ten
on the call sheet.
We were just all in there
with all those extras,
like just,
hey, how you doing, man?
You speak English?
Like, what?
It's like,
there was no pecking order
at all.
Every set I'm on,
if you can smell
the pecking order,
come on.
Yeah.
Come on.
That is a problem.
I don't know.
It just feels weird
and I don't know.
You didn't account
for one thing.
My place.
And what I think
of this
******* embarrassment.
Industry,
did you think
you were going to do
another TV show
after Thrones?
How did that come about?
I decided I didn't want
to do any other TV
characters for a while
and then I turned around
and said,
I feel like I'm ready
to take on a character
arc again.
I miss it.
Yeah.
That's the joy of it.
Yeah.
And Industry is one
that I've been watching
and the writers,
when I met them,
reminded me a lot
of David and Dan.
It's like breaking up
with a girl
and your next girlfriend
is like,
you remind me a lot
of my ex.
Yeah.
How does that feel for them?
But they are.
I mean,
I've said it to them
and something about that
and again,
what we were just
discussing,
the ensemble nature
of it,
they wrote me
this character
which,
they write me
this character,
sorry,
I came in
and played this character
that had the ingredients
of like,
there's a lot of pain there
but there's a lot of humor.
It's a very tragic
comic character.
I was like,
oh,
this is the kind of thing
I've been looking for
in the shape
I've been looking for it.
Yeah.
And that was very satisfying
and then that led
to another season of it
and I've enjoyed it.
Comedy's a bit addictive,
like doing the comedic
bent on everything.
Yeah.
I do it as a defense
mechanism in life,
you know,
you have to,
whether it's my insecurity
of getting people,
warming up to them,
them warming up to me,
that's been my go-to
and I always,
I can't relate
to a character
that I play without
a bit of humor to it.
Yeah.
Which is addictive though
because then you rely
on it too much.
It's something about
liking the character.
Yeah.
Finding the humor in it.
Yeah.
Finding the bit
that you like
about the guy
you're playing.
Yeah.
Is the humorous part.
Yeah.
You know,
the trouble I think,
I mean,
with Jon Snow,
he wasn't allowed
to be lighter.
It was the heavy cloak.
Heavy cloak.
It was the heaviness
of the cloak.
Nothing worse than
an actor complaining.
But Spain was very hot.
Yeah.
And I often would raise
my hand going,
if Mike,
if Tyrion's so smart,
why is he wearing
these clothing
in this heat,
in this 100 degree weather?
We're very smart characters.
This isn't smart.
This is,
this is chain mail
and we're dying.
We had those cold vests.
Yeah,
the tubes that ran through.
And an ice thing
and you plug in.
We were all plugged in.
Yeah.
For like a week,
I was like,
I'm going to suffer.
And then at the end
I was like,
**** that,
no way,
because everybody else
was sort of nodding off.
They felt so comfortable.
Yeah.
Rory especially.
Oh, I remember, yeah.
Jesus Christ.
Yeah.
He was under a lot of stuff.
What you said about
that sort of arc
in doing TV,
really fascinating.
When you do a movie
after you do
a long-running show,
I always feel like
you have to cram
too much in
in too limited time
and you got
just the slow burn
of what we got to do
on that show.
Yes, that's what inspires me
to do another TV show
because I miss that,
the character
starting from A
to going to Z
and they're like
a completely different character.
Yeah.
I mean,
Dave and Dan and George Martin,
to have a character
push a little kid
out the window
and then later on
you love him.
Mm.
It's just fascinating to me.
Yeah.
The Nicolai's character.
Yeah.
That's like the epitome
of our show.
He tries to kill a kid
and then you love him,
he's a hero later.
It's like,
that's how complicated
narrative can be.
With industry,
the thing that it afforded me
to do was come in
for one season
and play a really
comedic character
and then the next season
really understand him
and play
and get deeper
and play tragicomic.
Right.
Which is really interesting
but the trouble I had
with the other arc
on Thrones,
not the trouble,
it was a glorious thing
but I didn't have to
push the kid
out the window.
Yeah.
I had the,
he's good for more go.
Yeah.
It's less of a kind
of up and down.
You wore that burden.
The character
wore that burden.
You wore that burden.
It was his burden.
Yeah.
Goodness was his burden.
Yeah.
And you wore that
really well.
Yeah, thank you.
And that's not easy
to do for whatever
15,000 days of shooting.
But also lovely.
Yeah.
The rest of us
got to howl at the moon
a bit more
than Jon Snow did.
laughs
The dislocation you feel
isn't going anywhere.
Normal people
don't feel like this.
Ignore it,
numb it,
drown it out.
What about theater?
Because the London theater scene
I've always admired
and the risks they take,
just New York theater
is incredible.
I always dreamed of just
moving to New York
and doing theater.
Growing up in New Jersey,
I never saw beyond,
like movies and TV
is what other people do.
The greats like Arthur Miller
and Chekhov and all these guys,
they're like legends.
But like when I first got
into theater,
like Sam Shepard actually,
even for a kid from New Jersey,
this cowboy was speaking to me.
It felt more,
you can smell
the gasoline on it.
You've done Shepard.
It's like as a man,
it just felt like,
it just really was easier
to access than some things
as a young man.
So I just came to New York
wanting to blow ---- up
on a stage
and swear and drink
and knock furniture over.
And that's all we were doing
back in the day
in the early 90s after school
and in school.
When you were in drama school,
did you just see theater
on the horizon
or were you in a different time
than us?
Because again,
there wasn't all of this
back when I graduated school.
My aim was spear carrier
at the RSC.
That was it.
The RSC is a good place to be.
Yeah, that's the best place
to be.
You're going to carry a spear.
You do it at the RSC.
That was the aim.
And I went straight
into the National Theater
in the lead role
in a show called War Horse.
------- hell.
Everything was handed to you.
It was.
War Horse and Game of Thrones.
Yeah.
I've never jumped higher.
When I got that role
in War Horse,
it was like all my dreams
come true.
I'm still chasing that moment
in some ways.
You hadn't been on Thrones yet.
When you do a thing
like Thrones,
and then you go back
to the theater,
there's a different perspective
on you,
which I have found.
I was doing theater
for a decade here in New York,
various productions.
Then I got into films and TV.
But now if I go and do it,
they can't help but go,
oh, TV actors
trying to do theater.
There's a little,
a little,
even if they like
something I do,
they can't help themselves.
Critics will be critics.
We need them,
but they can't help.
And it's like they didn't
do the research.
I come from the theaters.
I'm not like slumming it here.
You know what I mean?
This is what I really love
to do as well.
I made myself a pact early,
and it was I don't let
three years go by
without doing a play.
If you're fortunate enough
to be in the world
of TV and film,
even more fortunate
to be being offered things,
you can easily
park the theater bus,
and it can go by for years
without you doing something
unless you commit early,
early next year,
like I am right now actually.
Early next year,
I'm doing a play.
It doesn't matter
what comes along.
I'm doing that play,
and I'm committing to it
before those offers come in.
I do that,
and I have done that since.
Because our lawyers
love when we do a play.
Hear him silently crying.
I have to admit,
like the first play
I did, War Horse,
I was upstaged
by a puppet horse
for a year.
Everybody was
who did that play.
I'm now very happy
to be upstaged by puppets.
To not be upstaged
by puppets.
You did a play,
I missed the production,
forgive me,
but you did a play,
speaking of Sam Shepard,
that was my real inspiration
to become the truest.
And I think,
and I speak for a lot of guys
my age,
the John Malkovich,
Gary Sinise,
I don't know if you saw
the televised production
of that.
I didn't.
You can find it somewhere.
For my generation of actors,
that was holy ----.
John Malkovich.
Did they switch?
No, no,
that was John C. Reilly
and Phil Hoffman
many years later.
But the original
was Malkovich and Sinise.
Did Malkovich play Austin?
No, Lee.
He played Lee.
Malkovich, I mean,
he was our god back then.
Still.
Just the way he talked,
the way he,
the humor.
Getting back to the humor
of that piece.
That play is so funny.
You played Austin, right?
I played Austin,
so I got to do the toasters.
Yeah.
But I have to say,
true words.
That's the reason
I'm an actor, that play.
Seeing John Malkovich
and Gary Sinise do that.
And PBS, the video,
Channel 13.
It was, I mean,
it's the most fun
I've had on stage.
I also did it.
I didn't realize
you could do that.
Directly before going to rehab.
So I was playing Austin,
the alcoholic,
whilst being entirely
an alcoholic.
So it was one of the few
moments in my career
where life literally met art.
Like I was going insane
whilst playing an insane person.
Right.
And it was very kind of weird.
I had a weird experience
doing it.
Yeah.
Because I wasn't sleeping
and I was going on stage
and then the whole,
it was quite trippy.
One of the greatest performances,
alcoholic drug addict,
I had all the performances
of all time,
was Richard E. Grant
in With No Knife.
When I heard he had never
had a drop of alcohol
in his life,
and you can do
that performance.
Yeah.
Well, he speaks about
his parents were alcoholics.
Right, right, right.
And that's where he got
that performance from.
I've never seen
anything more realistic.
When I first saw the movie,
I thought, oh, they're really,
With No Knife was the thing
that made me want to act.
It was one of the things
we watched at drama school
and I was like,
that's, I want to do that.
Yeah, I could put that on
anytime, anytime of day
and I'll just watch
the rest of it.
No matter if I see it
somewhere, I'll just,
I can't put it down.
Yeah.
It's great actors
playing actors
who are struggling,
so it just spoke to us.
Unlike you,
who were very successful
at a very early age,
right at the Game of Thrones
after drama school.
I mean, I would hate me.
I went...
I loved you.
I would hate me.
I went National Theatre lead,
Game of Thrones.
Yeah.
And that's,
it's a bizarre trajectory, that.
I'm happy.
We're all happy for you.
laughs
I've often said like,
there's no such thing
as overnight success.
Oh, wait.
laughs
Yeah.
What's that Steve Soderbergh,
I use it all the time.
Talent plus perseverance
equals luck.
Yeah.
It's got to be talented.
You wouldn't have come
out of the gate so strong
if you didn't have
a ---- ton of talent.
Thank you.
And it takes
a lot of perseverance
to see,
you can get the gig,
but see it through.
Be smart about it
and do the right thing with it
and ask questions
and not think you've got it
in the bag.
And all you guys,
all the younger people
on that show,
you were so self-assured
from where I was staring,
but you were so collaborative
and so sort of learning
and open,
like wearing it
on your sleeve,
just how open you were
and admiring
of these great actors
that you got to work with.
I'm talking about
Charlie Dance
and all these people
that were just
legends in our eyes.
We felt we got very lucky
with the young'uns.
I was trying to define
with Rose,
I was like,
what makes an actor an actor?
In some ways,
because I do think
there are people
who are actors,
they might be
really good actors,
they might be
not so good actors
depending on whether
you like what they do,
and there are people
who are not actors.
And I think there is
a clearly defined line
I call them entertainers.
Yes.
It's incredible
what they can do,
but sometimes
it's acting,
I don't know.
But they plucked,
Sophie and Maisie
were clearly actors.
When they were so young,
you wouldn't necessarily know,
and I think it's something
about that tormented thing.
I think it's that thing
of like there's something
tormented in them
that needs to get out.
It's amazing
that they could have just
plucked people
who weren't actors,
but they ended up
choosing these
wonderful actresses.
I can't imagine
the process
of finding those two.
I know Nina and Company
had their work
cut out for them.
With every
You Got the Gig,
there's like a thousand
You Don't Got the Gig.
That must be
so heartbreaking.
You're breaking
a lot of hearts.
You're making
one heart really happy,
but whoa.
God, I hope all those kids
are okay now.
Yeah.
All my favorite actors
just didn't approach it
to what was on the page
in the traditional sense
at all.
There's a bit of mischievousness
to it.
Malkovich,
Christopher Walken,
all those guys
have a common denominator
of like, it doesn't say
I dance here,
but I don't feel like
I want to dance here,
or without it
being gratuitous.
Because there's a bit
of wink to it as well.
All the great actors
are just, they just,
and they're just so present.
They're so,
they're listening.
And on that show,
we had the good fortune
of like having
great scene partners
where it was fun
to listen to them,
fun to listen to you
and Sophie
and everybody else.
We just make
each other better.
But I still don't know
what acting is.
No idea.
It's obviously good looks,
but it's a lot more
than that too.
But I'm still figuring out,
figure out if I want to
even do it or not anymore.
But you know,
I love movies, so
what else am I going to do?
I'm really bad at math.
I think all actors
are just bad at math.
That's why we're actors.
Done?
Been a pleasure.
It's been so nice, man.
I think we're done.
Yeah.
Do you get to keep
this plant or do I?
I think that's yours.
That's my plant?
Yeah.
The table's yours.
These chairs are nice.
I've been sort of
snuggled up in here
like a grandma
the whole interview.
It's been really nice, Peter.
Let's not let it be long.
Another ten years,
another seven years.
Yeah.
Do you keep in touch?
With many of the cast?
With many of the cast.
With Amelia, yes,
because she's just
down the road.
But I think there's
an element of school
leavers to it.
It's like we finish the thing,
the magic was gone
and everyone like
actually has to separate.
We needed to, yeah.
I do.
I text John
and I text Richard
and I'm still
in touch with them.
I should try harder.
It's on me
because I've been told
in the past sometimes
by friends like
text me more, man.
I don't know.
Be a better friend
a little bit.
You know,
especially with family
and kids and stuff
you sort of
let time go by.
We're all quite desperate
because we just had
to get on with life.
Yeah.
And we had so much
time together.
I know.
We still have all those
AI photos online
of all of us
still together
at barbecues.
There's some weird
things out there.
Apparently
an alternate version
of the universe of us
are all having barbecues.
There's all these photos.
It's very upsetting.
I'm going to send you
AI pictures of fun.
Yeah.
And I'm engaged to
Chabelle I think
in one of them.
Okay.
I didn't know that
but okay.
It's just because
they love the show.
Yeah.
They want an alternate
reality
for us
to be happy
at a barbecue.
Good to see you, man.
Good to see you.
In this natural environment.