How God Wrote Our Love Story // waited to kiss till marriage

Hello my people! How are you? Welcome to another video. Welcome back to my channel. I have a visitor today. Hello! I have my husband joining us today. My husband is joining us today. You know what? We are going to tell you about our story. How we met. So introduce yourself. So my name is Mason. Are you sure it's not Major? She should tell you about that. I told her my name but she called me Major. I heard Major. I don't know why. But I actually thought she was just being because my last name is Minor. So some people would joke and instead of calling me Minor they would call me Major. So I thought she was just I was like okay cool. So that went on for about two weeks. I thought his name was Major and then one day I even called you Major and you're like didn't say anything. So I thought I was like cool you can call me whatever you want. So yeah that went on for about two weeks. But anyway my name is Mason and I am Miriam's wife or husband. Oh my gosh. Am I nervous or something? But no I'm a filmmaker and also have a podcast and yeah that's about it. You should go follow his page. Tell them what it's called. My podcast is called Clean Inside Podcast. It's really good. Really really good. So especially if you're like into deliverance and all of that I suggest you go follow his page. Quick little plug right there. Link it down so you guys can just click and go. So yeah. But anyway I guess since we are telling the love story first thing we need to get out the way is that she hit up my DMs first on Instagram. No no no. Mentiroso. Babe. What? Let's be real here. We're telling the truth right? Yeah we're telling the truth. She was all in my DMs talking about some hola papi No no no no. You know us girls that are like waiting on the Lord. Hello we don't do that right? Facts. So okay so I guess I'll start off since I did reach out first. No he slid into my DMs on Instagram. I did. I did. So we were listening to the same sermon and I had been working on cleaning up my Instagram and so I wanted to get a lot more Christian content and Christian people on there. So I would just go through and I was friending everybody and I ended up seeing her. I was like oh she's cute and okay she's Christian too. So I was like cool. I friended her and she ended up friending me back or following me back since we're on Instagram right? And so she follows me back and you know I actually started looking at her page at this point and I'm like oh okay. So then I hit her up and I'm like uh well you know how did you find me on Instagram? And she's like what did you say babe? I was like first of all I was super annoyed because I usually don't respond. I usually don't respond to anybody because I'm like I just don't you know and here's this cocky guy that's saying how did you find me when he was the one that friended me and I was just annoyed. I was like like he added me like what the heck. You're lucky I didn't go off on you. I guess so. I don't know. I was just trying to get some conversation started so but it worked you know it worked and so we just we just started conversating and you know we talked on Instagram for a little while and then one day I was making uh I wanted I've been wanting to make enchiladas and so I figured like hmm maybe I call her so um I'm not sure how I got her number um I'm not sure how that went about that happened either yeah but at some point I must have we must have exchanged numbers or something and so I ended up calling her and it's like hey I had a quick question for you I was wondering if you knew how to make enchiladas and so you know we didn't talk about enchiladas for long pretty quickly we were talking about all kind of other stuff and at first we were always talking about Jesus though yeah yeah no it was always it was always about Jesus all about Jesus yeah yeah like before we started talking testimony type stuff yeah yeah yeah we yeah we talked on Instagram for you know a good month or something like that probably um and uh yeah yeah so what happened after that yeah but at first I didn't really even see him like that I was just like you know I was like I would never date a black guy I was like no way I did I was just like no way I did not like I was just talking to you about Jesus and that was it yeah you know I was like but she thought I was cute I mean he was he was all right he was all right he was getting your cute I mean I was like yeah he's cute you know and then he was funny so I was like okay you know but yeah I was just I didn't really see him like that you know and then until the enchilada thing I was like okay I think it changed it after we started cooking enchiladas no it wasn't the enchiladas it was after like we're talking yeah yeah you know I was like okay yeah this guy's cool tell me why love can't always be what like I liked about him it was that he fasted oh I was fasting yeah I was doing like a 30-day fast see like me I always wanted a Hispanic man on fire so I didn't think Americans fasted I didn't think that I didn't think Americans were like serious about God and I wanted a spirit-filled man of God I wanted a man on fire for Jesus because I didn't want anything outside of him and the funny part about it was that for so many years I actually just it was like I was trying to control that part of my life and every year I would be like this is my year I'm getting married this year but I didn't say that this year well actually last year 2020 2022 and I actually surrendered that part of my life in April I came to the conclusion that I was like you know what Lord I am done like like take control in this area of my life too I want to I want you to find the one that's for me you know what's best for me and Daphne and it was good to let it go because if you're Hispanic and you know you know but whenever you go to all these like church events you're like where's my husband I mean I used to do that did you ever do that no no I never wanted a husband ever you said husband well I mean did you do that like when it comes to I did that like I would be like man where's my husband like especially whenever I would go to Hispanic churches I mean like where's my husband no I don't think I worry about it no I wanted my wife though yeah I was looking for her but I mean like I don't know I think it's a girl thing you know where you're just like uh you just I don't know I because my sister does that too I know other girls out there they're like where's my husband but yeah like it was so good to just like surrender that part of my life to God and that was in April and we met like in June yeah so actually I wanted to come up to Missouri to see her and so here's what I did I was telling her because I had went to camp in Missouri actually I gave my life to Christ in Missouri in Branson Missouri at a camp called Kids Across America KAA you know so that was the thing we did over there so anyway the over there they have a uh I was going to they picked me to go speak at another camp called Canna Cook and so I would go over there and tell my testimony but on the way there they were like hey we're gonna stop and let you taste a thunder muffin and so we went to this place called uh Pemmington Farm or something like that or a Primson Farm I forget what it's called right now but it's a blueberry farm in Missouri and so I was like hey have you ever been there she hadn't been there so that was kind of my end I was like hey I've been wanting to go there for a long time so when I come up to Missouri you know hey we should go check out this blueberry farm so so that was that was the thing and I was going on a family vacation to Oklahoma uh we were just gonna spend some time with my sisters my mom my grandma we were all just gonna go and get a cabin in Oklahoma I remember you invited me and I did and I did invite her over because we had extra room so um I was like I am not gonna go to Oklahoma with a total stranger right you know I did ask though I was like hey you know my whole family would be there you know so it's you know it'd be safe and you're not gonna be just alone or anything so um so I just invited just to see and even though I knew it was gonna be a no since I was going to Oklahoma I'm like man I'm basically halfway to Missouri so I could just extend my vacation a little bit and I'd leave Oklahoma go to Missouri so I was trying to figure that whole thing out and my car breaks down so and everything is so different now as far as you know going on a train going on a plane everything's so much more expensive and so not only did my car break down I'm having to get a new car and then I have all these travel plans and so I'm like oh what am I gonna do I remember you said you're like shoot I'll take a bus if I have to yeah I was like because that's what I was like I could figure it out maybe I could take a taxi to here get a bus to here train to here you know I mean I was just trying to figure it out and so God worked it out and my mom she actually had a guy that had a a car lot and we were there and all of a sudden the car that he what he told us was oh man I never thought about selling this car until I talked to you guys and so he had this SUV family vehicle that you know he was willing to sell sell to me and I was able I was able to get I was able to get the car and I got in the car and as soon as I got in the car I wasn't thinking about her at all I was like great you know just I got a car I can you know do everything I need to do and I just hear the Holy Spirit say go get your woman I was like what I was like for real Lord and so that happened you know I just kind of you know you know sometimes you hear the Lord say stuff and you're like you know you just kind of wait to see what happens right so so you know I hear that and I'm like all right and before this I had kind of already I kind of knew you know I guess the Lord has just put stuff in your spirit you just kind of know stuff and so I kind of had a knowing that there was something deeper here and so I even you know told my sister I was like you know while we're at the cabin like I think she might be the one she loves the Lord she like we're on the same page when it comes to our faith like we're both like growing in the Lord so it was cool and so we do our trip in Oklahoma I go to Missouri and um yeah I come I come to her house and then what happened well let me go back see the whole time that this was going on and we were talking and stuff um I had peace about it I think like I had peace from the Lord about just talking to him because um I've never had that peace before I always had like doubts and just like you know I don't know it was just like I was there but whenever it came to you it was just like all this peace and I mean like before I even like you know accepted him coming over there I prayed about it because I was like she's letting complete strangers come over her house I know I was actually thinking about that before you you were like five minutes away and I started getting so nervous I mean my stomach I was getting all these butterflies and I was just like what the heck and I'm like I'm literally just having some strange guy come to my house and so before I used to be really kind of like I didn't like people knowing where I lived and um it was just kind of like a safety thing because we used to get followed and stuff and I was like I am literally about to have this stranger come to my house and I was like but no like I just had all this peace about him and stuff and and it was good like I just felt peace and everything God was so good so yeah he came up to my door and what happened I think she was like dang you fine no actually you know what the first thing in my mind I was like oh he's actually cute no I did I was like uh because he came in with this big old smile and I have this thing for smiles and he just came up and he was super tall and and yeah it was just like cool so we spent some time together that first day um I forget what I think I took her out to eat we went to go eat and we were just talking and stuff like that and um you know and that was that for the first day and then the second day I forget what we did I think we went to the muffin place oh yeah we we did end up going to the blueberry farm see I wasn't I wasn't just bluffing so it was funny because I ended up living not too far from there yeah we were about 45 minutes yeah so it was dope had a great time at the blueberry farm and that was that was really fun Devin he loved it oh yeah another thing okay about the third day oh yeah I remember the third day okay so back in April so okay there is this place that is called top of the rock I have been trying to go to top of the rock for like three years and every single time I would try to go there something would happen when she means try to go there somebody was trying to take her on a date yeah but then like things didn't happen I would always pray about it and God would be like no or I would always like have that I would always have so many questions and I would always like be have fear that's when you know whenever with him it was like it was different because there was so much peace about it and any other time I was just like no you know and then I would end up not going I even tried to go with like all these it was like a woman's prayer group and we were all gonna go and then I was like super excited because I was gonna end up going there and then they ended up canceling and I was like okay I am done trying to go to top of the rock I said this in April and I was like okay Lord you know what like whenever I end up going to top of the rock I want to go there with my husband and this was just like a you know a thing that I told the Lord so he actually ended up taking me to top of the rock like did I tell you that I tell you about that she mentioned it in some of our conversations she had just mentioned this place top of the rock and she was like oh yeah it's a place I had always wanted to go or whatever and so I just kind of tucked that in my back pocket and I was like okay you know yeah so I don't think you know that I had told the Lord that no I didn't I didn't know that yeah like the whole time we were driving there like it was just in my mind I was like like is this really happening and I was like kind of waiting for something to happen because I was like if this isn't my husband we're about to get a flat tire or something's gonna happen like we're not gonna make it there you know and then like it was so crazy like I'm not even mad that have a new car too got a flat tire yeah but I mean God had to just like do his thing you know so it was it was so cool like just being there and I was like the whole time I was just like oh my gosh could this be my husband you know I was like I think this is my husband and they have like this whole chapel there and I was like I was like um so would you want to get married do you think you want to get married inside or outside and you said I don't know whatever we like and I was like santo I told you I kind of I kind of knew you know yeah yeah but it was so cool like I had a really good time yeah while you were there getting to know you and stuff it was cool I didn't want him to leave but I had to act cool you know I was like all right whatever well I didn't even leave that day we had went to church the next day and uh they had they had some really good prices on boat rentals and so I rented a boat and we got on the boat and we hung out on a boat for the rest of that day yeah and uh so before it so I was about to leave and go back I'm a bad night driver sometimes so I was like can I you know can I just stay and just take a nap for a you know yeah and when we held hands no you oh I was about to go to my room when you're like no stay here yeah and I was like say no more yeah right so she stayed and we were just on the living room couch or whatever and uh uh yeah we ended up holding hands and like I don't get many visions but I got this vision of our hands like coming together and apparently I started shaking he started shaking freaked me out I mean I have this guy in my living room that starts shaking I'm like is he ODing or something you know we didn't take no drugs I promise and uh yeah so I seen this vision of us it was just a dark you know environment and our hands like came together you know like boom and I just felt like this surge of like just love just fall over me you know and it wasn't like it wasn't like God's love you know it wasn't like the presence of God but it was just like the most the earthly love like like man if you could just love anybody like this much like this is what it feels like and so I was just overflowing with love in that moment and it was just like ah and uh and I was like whoa so I think I ended up kind of telling her that vision at that moment I think I did yeah you did because I was freaked out because you were shaking yeah and I was like are you okay yeah so so that was also weird so yeah that was that and then so I came home and you know we kept talking and stuff and there may be some days where things don't go exactly how we planned so now the Lord also she didn't mention this the Lord also had been dealing with her about moving to Dallas oh that's what I was going to go back to yeah so okay there for like I think it was two weeks in before I even knew he existed I had a vision about moving to Dallas I don't know anybody in Dallas I don't know like one person that lives there and so I have this vision and I you know I was seeking the Lord about it so after I got my fourth confirmation about moving to Texas that's when he slides into my dms and what was so shocking to me was that he was from Texas like I was blown away because I mean I had just gotten my fourth confirmation and the next day that's when he reached out to me and he asked me where I was from and I asked him where he was from and he was from Dallas Texas and I was just blown away I was just like what in the world like it was just shocking to me because I didn't know anybody and I already knew I was moving there and there's this handsome dark chocolate chocolate that like reaches out to me and he happens to me be from Dallas and the crazy thing about it too was that after he came back to Texas I started going to like my normal prayer meetings and I started getting all these prophecies about my husband even one of the ladies was like she came up to me and she was like um I mean they already knew I was moving they're like oh I think that's where your husband is do you know who he is yet and I was like I was shook you know I was just like and then like he came to my mind whenever she asked me that so it was like I just kind of knew but then I still didn't want to just like be kind of like oh you know he's my husband I still had to pray about it more I had to just seek the Lord about it but I don't know I just kind of knew and um we got along pretty well like I don't know it was cool just everything was just lining up like we as far as you know I had recently you know had some major breakthroughs in my life spiritually and you know I was to the point where I didn't want to kiss a woman until I was married you know so you know I when I told her that or she had told me first I can't remember which order it went in but we were both like yeah we didn't want to kiss until we get married yeah I actually watched the testimony which I love that testimony um about a couple that didn't kiss till they were married and it really inspired me I was like how beautiful how beautiful is it for a guy to respect you to wait on you you know even to like kiss I mean that really just inspired me a lot so I was like I want that I want somebody that will wait for me you know to kiss and I I think I told you about it and I was like so listen here I kind of knew that not everybody would wait but I knew that the one would wait so I just knew that so I was like hey I don't kiss till marriage and we hadn't even met at this point when we got into this conversation either and we were just talking about relationship stuff yeah and he was like I don't either like just when he told me that I was shook I was like oh snap is this my husband oh you thought that even then too yeah because I was like like nobody does that right like everybody wants to kiss and just it and I was like I was just going to test you know you know test those tires out you know that's what everyone's yeah I mean yeah that's what it is but yeah yeah so we actually waited till marriage to kiss and it was so cool yeah it was crazy oh with everything I am just tell me so we actually ended up meeting like in June yeah and then we were engaged on September 11th and then we got married December 13th yeah did you know no November 13th November 13th yeah November 13th yeah so hey when God moves he moves fast right he moves fast you know yeah yeah I think that just comes from just waiting and being patient and both of us actually because probably around the same time that she you know said that she surrendered her just thoughts about marriage and relationship I did the same thing around I think it was around February March and I did the same thing you know I ended a relationship recently and also I was just like man God even if you just don't want me to be married you know whatever just whatever your will is for me I just I just surrendered even the desire to be married to you so I just let everything go it was just like you know I'm here you know what do you need me to do Lord how can I benefit the kingdom so yeah yeah and then I end up meeting her and I just was just a pursuit I just felt like I needed to take so yeah yeah yeah so you know it's so crazy because like now I actually talk to my single friends and they're like everybody shook how fast it happened but you know I told him I'm like it actually took me to like surrender it but like really surrender it because it's so easy to just like say okay I surrender this to you Lord but then you pick it back up like you know you'll go to the next church service and be like where's my husband no let it go just let walk in that freedom and it's just like so um how do you say like it's just you start walking in like yeah liberating yeah it's like you can just breathe and just not have to worry about it why because like the Lord is in control let him be in control of your life not just like just little bits and parts pieces of your life let him be the God of your whole life you know so yeah so yeah we were married that's our love story yeah that is our love story and how we met and yeah it was actually really awesome and you know what I am just so glad I waited it is so easy to just like sometimes I you know when people hit your up your dms ladies you know with their olas you know it's so easy to just be like could this be my husband you know but let me tell you if you don't have that peace that comes from the Lord it is not even worth it you know like you're just opening doors to uh sit back you're what the Lord has for you and who he has for you so just wait and just wait on the Lord wait on the Lord yeah is there anything else you want nope I think that's it our wedding was so awesome too it was yeah yeah it was definitely more than what I ever imagined it was just like I don't know everything it was just like just everything it was way more than what I ever imagined and like God really knows what you need like he really does like I don't know he's just really awesome and you're awesome too I like that to have prayer in our household that's just like that just gets me every time I'm just like oh Lord you know and yeah it's pretty cool I'm glad I waited it was so worth it so yeah yeah that's our love story I love you babe love you that is our love story so ladies just wait on your love story the one that the Lord wants to write for you seems to stand still when you're standing near me I spent my whole life second-guessing everything but now I'm sure it's you that I've been waiting