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There are 19 things every wise woman must know in life Welcome back to "Ngẫm Thế Gian " Dear ladies a smart and beautiful woman who does not know how to live for herself and does not know how to protect herself Blame the men beside you but don't say why life is full of tears And if one day you don't know these things women shouldn't expect to live happily First you have to make money You definitely have to make money even if it's just a little Women must definitely work Don't just stay home waiting for men to bring money home Life is dependent on men When in the mood many men flex their chests and proudly tell their wives You just need to stay home and look beautiful and I'll take care of everything A wise woman never believes in these words It may not be possible to earn a lot of money But what's important is that women must find the purpose and meaning of life Don't let men look down on you Even if he were her husband who would know that tomorrow he would be a civilian No matter how much pain a woman endures no matter how deeply she is wounded she must never neglect or destroy herself You must always be as beautiful as possible Don't let your husband think you're just a wife full of cooking smells and kitchen duties When beautiful a woman can confidently go with her husband to any luxurious banquet to any elegant living room Cozy kitchen or private bedroom Spouses are about loving each other loving each other through the whole of life Therefore women unless it's impossible to save the marriage Don't be foolish and let go if it's just for nothing Hold your husband's hand through the storms of life Don't harshly criticize him for a little failure and don't look down on him Don't let a single infatuation harden your heart forever unable to forgive and lose your family Wednesday Happiness or unhappiness is determined by one's own thoughts and choices Women should remember that happiness or unhappiness is determined by one's thoughts and choose your own path If you cannot be happy don't blame the man beside you but blame yourself for not being strong enough to protect yourself Smart beautiful and talented women no matter how much they shine will find the path to happiness very far if they don't know this truth by heart Thursday Put aside pride and self-respect If the husband is hot-tempered the wife will be less talkative and even a small amount of sticky rice will be bitter To have a harmonious family and a happy marriage Don't ever let women only care about their pride a little compromise won't kill anyone Only when a couple breaks up because of pride will they finally see clearly We could never find each other again Friday You can pick it up you can put it down Never blame anyone any situation or fate A woman should understand that once she has chosen this man she must endure whatever happiness or suffering comes with it If you can't bear it anymore let go and choose again Wise women only remember what they can hold and let go of when they are happy Don't cry and lament regret but be more lenient with yourself Everything in life changes nothing is eternal Marriage relationships are the same Who doesn't promise to choose life choose a destiny when they are in love But marriage is harsh there's nothing worth suffering and agony When seeing everything changes Don't be overly concerned when love and marriage are so different Everything changes and marital feelings are hard to be as they were before The important thing is to take care of each other and be patient with each other Saturday Women should remember that spouses must know how to be tolerant and understanding towards each other No one in this world is perfect If you only focus on the bad sides and never see the good sides of each other who would be able to live with each other in this world No marriage is perfect but only two people who are most suitable for each other Ninth Don't fight with your husband A wise woman who desires happiness should never argue with her husband A bowl may sometimes be knocked over let alone a couple living together sometimes getting angry and arguing Women can be silent can be skillful but absolutely do not speak words that hurt their husbands due to lack of thought Tenth Jealousy is the most pointless and foolish thing in life Wise women paint their faces foolish women fight jealousy No matter how much pain you have cry out and raise your head but don't quarrel with a third party If you end up with a cheating husband how can a woman waste her whole life fighting jealousy He would have someone else if not this one The issue is with my husband not with that girl Eleven Don't touch a man's pride Some wives receive messages from their husbands saying "I love you" while he is very cold- hearted Very few say sweet words Then he immediately showed a surprised expression and said "What's wrong with you today " Or suddenly one day My lazy husband is in the kitchen cooking don't act like the end of the world is here That's strange Don't ever touch a man's pride If you do he won't do it again Twelve If you like it say it Don't expect your husband to understand on his own No one is perfect for anyone Many women are really annoying always hinting at this and that And always making the husband guess He has to follow his own thoughts Oh Isn't the husband a psychic But to read all of one's thoughts and feelings Instead of being indirect women prefer to just say what they want So that their husbands know Even in matters of intimacy Whether you are satisfied or not tell your husband politely Don't beat around the bush The man is just a clumsy indifferent man Men are sometimes just big children who aren't smart enough to realize anything Thirteen Never leave home Many women think that their worth is proven when they leave home and immediately their husband begs them to come back pleading and begging to return Get rid of this idea women The home is the place where women are stationed and cannot move So no matter what you must never leave home Because going away is easy but the path back is full of thorns Sometimes it's knowing the way back Fourteen A man would not want to return to a tidy house of pure gold Don't tell your husband he goes out to earn money You too You have the right to neglect the house Women may earn less money but they must definitely be the one who keeps the home warm Men of high rank and great prestige no matter how wealthy they are also want a wife who is always neat and clean Wait for him to return to a neat and tidy house No man can be happy at all When he returned home he found his first wife with dyed hair children with messy hair and a messy house This is a messy situation No matter how busy I am I have to arrange to move house Smart and beautiful women No matter how talented he is he must first be a wife who manages the household a mother who carefully takes care of her children 15 Never always think about money Think about ways to be happy Money is not everything Money can't buy health happiness Die and lie down in three handfuls of earth Who can take anything with them Therefore instead of constantly worrying and working hard all day to make money think about happiness 16 Treat your in-laws well Women should remember that your in-laws are also your parents Even if your in-laws You have to treat them well even if it's not going well Being kind to your in-laws doesn' t cost you anything Your in-laws will take a step back en I definitely have to take 20 steps to make up for it 17 Learn how to hold on to each other Many foolish women always scream on Facebook every time they argue with their husbands so that everyone can know Many people don't realize it's the stupidest thing to do If there are women around you don't mention that or the guys leave the house But not knowing that running out of the house was each step pushing her husband out of the family Smart and beautiful women are not enough But also know how to take two steps forward when he takes one step back Husband and wife are about learning how to Hold on to each other 19 Forgive me If a husband strays from the right path a wise wife is one who knows how to help her husband remember the way back If he does not want to He definitely won't force it But if he truly repents forgive him once and for all A saying goes: "Men fear marrying the wrong wife women fear marrying the wrong husband " Actually women fear marrying the wrong man Because for women all their happiness is invested in the man they love along with a marriage Huang Mei On the contrary if a man cannot marry a good wife his life later will not be successful and will only be an ordinary person When the son was preparing to find a wife the mother gave the advice she gave to her son Let's take a look Don't marry a woman who is disorderly in her conduct A disheveled woman is unsuitable for marriage because her behavior will affect the life of both people affecting more than the other The lifestyle habits of the next generation Therefore a woman with a chaotic lifestyle definitely cannot be married into the family Because a woman The type of person who is the master of the house will affect the habits of the descendants Therefore such a woman cannot be married The woman has a private and chaotic life Some women are not very concerned about their privacy and act very recklessly They think it's nothing not afraid of others talking They think it's their private matter Everyone has no They meddle Such women will not listen to anyone's advice and will do as they please They don't even care about your feelings They just want to think about themselves and make themselves happy Marrying a Such a woman would only cause you pain Therefore marriage is impossible A disrespectful woman A woman who is disrespectful to her parents must not be married To know whether a woman is filial or not one can observe her behavior See how she treats her parents If she has a bad attitude towards her parents she is disrespectful to them How can you rely on her to be filial to your parents Being with such a woman will only bring you trouble Pain for a lifetime Even so it can teach children to do bad things A woman who spends money without restraint We all know that Most of the time in marriage he is extroverted and she is introverted and the family has a woman who knows how to manage the household It is important Who would spend money without thinking causing the family to be in dire straits at any time Because In life at any time and anywhere one can encounter some difficulties If a woman spends recklessly All the money earned was spent When facing difficulties with no emergency funds it is enough to pull a family down So meeting a woman like that determined not to marry into the family A woman like that In marriage if a man marries a selfish woman then of course they will certainly It will only focus on its own interests and never care about family Other things will not be influenced by either family How can a selfish woman love someone else love their children love their husband eve Respect their husband's parents A man who marries a selfish woman brings lifelong suffering upon himself Therefore a woman like that should not get married Especially when it comes to love no matter who we love if there's even the slightest flaw on her body the person will Think carefully about whether the other party is suitable to be brought home don't let yourself get stuck in a situation where it's hard to escape Even suffering a lifetime The ancients often said that men fear choosing the wrong profession and women fear choosing the wrong husband One of the most fortunate things In a woman's life that is marrying a husband with good character and responsible living When women look for a marriage partner Don't just look at the superficial material aspects such as the context and conditions whether the family is good or not or whether he is handsome or not What matters most is how they view the dignity and value of their lives and their philosophy of life and actions Is it consistent or not That is the key factor determining the relationship between spouses in marriage A man who has the following five qualities Women who take their husband 's surname will be happy for life A man who strives is wise and is progressive The woman should not just focus on how economically stable the man is but more importantly she should consider whether they are the right person Being ambitious and knowing how to strive and make efforts in life A man with money and economic conditions It is likely that it is the inheritance left by their parents The money was not made by them but by their parents Provide Those who live in wealthy families who have lived in luxury since childhood who always live off their parents' money They will lack ambition no matter how much money the future has it will all be spent A woman who marries a good man He who takes responsibility will be happy all his life If a man always knows how to strive and fight has an enterprising spirit in his work and continuously learns to improve himself emselves no matter what the current economic situation is later when they encounter a good opportunity they will definitely take advantage of it And develop your abilities to achieve accomplishments in life The man always knows how to put himself in others' shoes and think for them Most women would be moved Generous and generous men None of them like to marry a selfish calculating and money-minded man If a man is only concerned with himself doesn't consider others and marries a selfish woman who always puts herself first They are the center ensuring their marital life will certainly face troubles living together will be extremely exhausting The secret to maintaining a happy marriage is to always understand be tolerant and think a lot about the other person Marriage is bound to have moments of conflict and friction between spouses In such times the husband should Lower your own bowl and think about your wife A wife needs to be more tolerant and listen to her husband Both sides showed consideration and goodwill pointing out each other' s shortcomings From this there will certainly be a peaceful resolution Good for both of them Getting a man who always knows how to think of others The wife will not feel tired Live a fulfilling married life in life A filial son respects his parents The ancients said "Among all virtues filial piety is the first " Being respectful to one's parents is the essence of being a good person That is the fundamental virtue of being a person The most balanced way to live as a human being If a man cannot consistently show respect and filial piety towards his parents Treating parents unfairly or badly even if they speak sweet words to their wife it's all just empty talk They who gave us life and struggled to raise us to be human If we do not show gratitude and respect towards them Being unkind and not loving others is nothing but hypocrisy A man who knows how to be filial to his parents After getting married they will also regard their wife's parents as their own parents Such a man is certainly a good man Marrying a man like that the woman will certainly be happy for life When you meet a man like that definitely don't miss your chance The man is responsible towards his family Nowadays there are many married men who are still not mature They often indulge in enjoyment Not being aware of one's responsibility towards the family If a man always sees himself as the center only concerned with his own matters Don't care or pay attention to family and relatives When the family faces any difficulties they only know to run away They lack the courage to bear responsibility and thus they will never accomplish anything in their lives A woman who marries such a man will suffer all her life A woman who wants to be happy all her life must definitely marry a man who is capable and able to take on family responsibilities No matter how difficult or what happens they will not avoid their responsibilities They can stand up to protect and take care of their family eir own family The cheerful man optimistic Some men have a very negative attitude towards life They spend their days complaining about everything Complaining about life being so bad the job is not good the friends are not good the marriage is not good The surrounding environment is not good Every day they feel depressed and discouraged A man like that After entering married life they will certainly not be happy A happy day is just a day and a sad day is also just a day Why don't we live happily If a man constantly complains and laments his fate often feels that everyone around him The world owes them a woman living with them will never be happy A man with a cheerful personality Optimistic always using a positive attitude and confidence when facing life Even when encountering adversity never losing heart Even when facing difficulties they do not retreat A woman who marries such a man will easily attain happiness Dear viewers A smart woman will not only pay attention to her outward appearance but also focus on nurturing her inner self With these four types of spiritual essences a woman will be lively and elegant no matter where she is First spiritual energy Spiritual energy is the shining point in a woman's life It does not depend on the age big or small It does not depend on high status it does not depend on maturity It is a type of spiritual energy born from the body itself of a woman who radiates In other words original spiritual energy is within in feeling and sensuality it is an expression outward of instinct in the subconscious of a woman The radiance of spiritual energy must necessarily have a foundation in truth Smart women won't spend the whole day showing off how good they are and how talented they are They know clearly Humility and caution are the enduring principles Most women have a rich inner spirit Their world is incredibly rich Their eyes can shine the movements of their bodies are full of vitality and is attractive to others Second Backbone Smart women must have backbone otherwise they are not useful people Depend on others not evil in the hearts of others but an independent person These women Have a proper attitude in life not arrogant not fawning not easily giving up one's dreams The woman who faces power without flattery who is not intimidated and who has a loyal heart is precious TuesdayTalent A smart woman must have talent Talent does not necessarily mean reading all kinds of books but the important thing is the attitude towards life Beauty fades easily but talent endures Moreover using beauty will all follow the passage of time but gradually fade away while the talent within can continue to improve with time The longer it lasts the more it emits fragrance Wednesday Great Qi The magnetic personality has a captivating charm They understand that fashion is about fleeting things New quality is eternal The more they understand between self-respect and vanity between self-worth and self-strengthening So always maintain an optimistic mindset and look forward They do not lose heart because of difficulties and hardships nor because of failure They certainly do not grieve over the signs of aging There are certain types of people who will definitely bring trouble to their couples making marriage a burden So those looking for a life partner should know to stay away Marriage is a major matter in life Whoever marries the wrong type of man among the three types below and the two types of women listed here will surely suffer for life or ruining a relationship Irresponsible men Talking about responsibility everyone must have it not just men or women A person lacking responsibility will always be He is not trustworthy with any matter big or small But responsibility speaks to a person's ability and composure That is why a man must definitely He must have this quality Honestly speaking a man who does not take responsibility for his actions is a coward Taking such a person as a spouse You might one day change But he said when you were born you have to take care of yourself Moreover irresponsible It is the manifestation of petty and mean people who in everything they do always try to blame others A man with a sense of responsibility About the things you do you will know how to love be faithful to your wife wholeheartedly build the family and be resistant to temptation and falling astray Because he understood that the first responsibility of marriage was to make his wife and children happy Stay away from this man is not practical but realistic A man no matter how good he is who does not know how to take care of his future career But you shouldn't dismiss him Love truly doesn't need money but if you want to have the strength to keep loving you need money Take a lazy man who only knows how to be content and you will gradually become bored with both of you The only thing that remains stuck in place the children are not well cared for A man who truly loves you will certainly think about the future How many times a day do you eat rice do you live in a house or a thatched hut I love you a little he doesn't want you to suffer So they will try to get food and money A man without ethics is forever lost One who dares to break even the rules of ethics what more can he do But his conscience doesn't allow it Taking someone like this is no different from dragging your own life down yourself The deeper you go into the mud the more you sink A person without ethics is untrustworthy not even worth being a friend Let alone taking him as a husband A husband like this will eventually bring misfortune to his own family After that even if he has children he can't teach them to be good people And the most terrifying thing is that he might behave unethically towards his own wife Most people in the world always dream of being rich and powerful Therefore they work hard and pursue money and status But in the end how many people achieve their wishes Not many are truly blessed with both longevity and happiness Who is responsible for our success and the joys and sorrows in our lives Here are two stories The book "Ancient Moral Education" can inspire you First to be at ease in youth second it is difficult to attain wealth in old age When Mr Phuong Nha was young one evening he was studying and took some firewood to warm his feet Grandfather sang bài hát and upon seeing this he scolded Because the child was still young he needed to learn the spirit of diligence to be patient and persevering It's not just in studying But also in self-cultivation in one's own living conditions Why can't you stand a little cold You must know that Although they were important in the court during the cold winter when snow fell before five o'clock they had to line up Wait for the emperor's opinion It is certainly going to be cold If a child enjoys the blessings of old age before its time it certainly will not live to grow old If one lacks wealth they long for a life of ease In the end they still cannot attain wealth and status The Palace of the Public and the Respectful He learned from his grandfather and eventually became a high-ranking official in the court Second Fu and Shou They were both disciples of the sage and the virtuous Long ago there were two disciples named Chau one named Ngoc Chau and the other named Hoang Chau They were born in the same hour same day same month same year They passed the provincial exam in the same year and were elected to official positions On the same day he was appointed as a professor in Hoang Chau Soon after Professor Hoang Chau passed away Professor Ngoc Chau was extremely frightened They believe they were born on the same day same month same year same hour same destiny Sometimes their death hours are also similar so they have already made arrangements Prepare for the funeral and await death Therefore he prepared a sacrificial ceremony and went to Professor Hoang Chau To express his condolences Professor Ngoc Chau before seeing Professor Hoang Chau die cried and said We were born at the same time we came from the same origin but you died before me I am still alive now That means I am seven days behind you If you are a spirit please let me know the reason in a dream That night Professor Ngạc Châu really dreamed that Professor Hoàng Châu came to tell him "I was born into a wealthy family " You have already enjoyed wealth and honor so I should die first You were born into a poor family yet you have not yet experienced good fortune So you are still alive It can be seen that there are certain blessings for each person Then Professor Ngạc Châu He was promoted to the position of district magistrate This may be the result of listening to Professor Hoang Chau and becoming vigilant Live fully and accumulate merit Who controls the reform and the joys and sorrows of our lives it is not fate That is us Therefore we should set aside some time for ourselves A person can be tolerant Many blessings in life are the result of hard work from a previous life Therefore while others We are spending our blessings and money so we must also strive to be frugal and continue doing good and carry out our work honestly so that there will still be days in the future Ancient people often compared women to water Water can lift a boat and it can also capsize a boat A kind and virtuous woman It is the appearance of a woman who brings prosperity to her husband and benefits her children The life of a woman is good or bad entirely depends on Whether their virtues are good or not Traditional women noble in their modesty gentle and refined create cultivation We all know that The virtue and morality of a woma If all the women of that entire family could be considered as the modesty and composure is beauty They speak recklessly vanity is a bad thing using delicacy purity and clarity to restrain oneself If so it can be affirmed that the dishonorable men of that nation will appear less often The traditional woman of the past They highly value softness gentleness and tenderness Women must learn to be humble and yielding When encountering good deeds let others go ahead and you step back Doing good deeds yourself should not be boasted about When making mistakes you should not shift blame You must focus on yourself to improve every day A woman who can truly do three things: be humble to people endure hardship inherit and perform rituals Then the bad reputation will not reach them The great Dao has yin and yang and people are divided into men and women The female writer said that yin and yang have different characteristics Men and women have different virtues Yang takes strength as its master Yin takes gentleness as its master Men are valued for their firm virtue Beautiful women are modest If a couple is not harmonious they will no longer have affection and morality A husband who does not display virtue Then he cannot lead his wife If the wife is not obedient then she cannot support her husband If the husband cannot discipline his wife he loses his authority If a wife does not serve her husband she will lose her sense of righteousness Honesty is the fundamental virtue Compliance is the quality of a woman Having these two qualities is enough for a harmonious family Ancient people often compared women to water Water can lift a boat and it can also capsize a boat A virtuous and kind woman is the appearance of a woman who benefits her husband and children The life of a woman is good or bad They completely decide whether their character is good or not There is a kind of pure and clean water a gentle and kind spirit It can purify and nurture spiritual emotions There is also a type of dirty water that is scarce and unfeeling which can cloud the stream Dirtying and harming the family The proud woman only vents her anger on others Anyone who meets Liu Shui Dong always thinks that She speaks softly and is considerate of others' needs first gentle and kind But she was not like that before She was the ruler of the family Her husband was the one she took out her anger on As for the children She is a strict tiger mother The neighbors often say she is beautiful but her temper is terrible She is a strong-willed person but suffers from depression However thanks to a newspaper and a book she was reborn She is no longer losing her composure and has recovered from many of her ailments The most important thing for her now is She has become a happy person Liu Shuidong is the only daughter in the family and was spoiled from a young age After getting married Both her husband and her father-in-law are very indulgent Her father-in-law never lets her do any repairs Whether it's a bowl or a pair of chopsticks He also set up a chain of children's clothing stores for her to run Most importantly her first child was a son This made her father- in-law dote on her even more Therefore her temper became even worse The more arrogant and unpredictable she became When business was not going well she threw things around She got a little angry at her husband even tearing up their wedding photo when they argued On a cold winter night Rain and wind she married him He drove for nearly three hours to buy her meat buns If not she would not have let He is sleeping She is truly very unreasonable She forced her three children to study diligently even requiring them to memorize English vocabulary She just used the bathroom She'll hit them in the ass if they score lower than a certain level She makes sure her daughter is at elementary school on time she arranges to pick up her daughter after school and waits only Within 10 minutes after the school bell rang A teacher of the girl kept the students after class She had to talk to them her daughter cried and told the teacher about her mother's hot temper The whole class was terrified And she was known for being fierce in her daughter's class She was also not nice to the neighbors occasionally Hurt their feelings Once a neighbor parked in front of her house and she shouted out the license plate number On the street She looked very confused but she didn't care Her neighbors said she was beautiful but mean-spirited A life-changing book despite being a strong woman Liu Shuidong was not happy especially It was a period of five or six years after getting married Her mother had cancer and passed away which was a heavy blow For her every day was a day of crying Five years of suffering passed and she became weak and fragile feeling that life was truly tragic and beginning to seek answers in Buddhism She studied Buddhism for 10 years bu She was still confused so she started practicing qigong However her health continued to decline as usual A regular customer of her store is in worse health than she is They used to tell each other about the doctor they visited But a year later that customer suddenly appeared overflowing with energy When asked how the customer was able to do that She was told that the customer was practicing qigong This customer gave Miss Liu a newspaper She didn't even bother to look at it Until she received the third one and was drawn to the stories in it She had read a post about a student's experience Her health has improved How a sentence about finding her way home touched her and made her eager to She practices qigong She had been looking forward to meeting this customer again Finally the customer appeared and guided her Practicing qigong The surprise is that before practicing she had severe calcification in the neck and upper back area They were pressing on Her nerve The right side of her body was paralyzed and she often had trouble sleeping She went for treatment for three months but got little improvement Yet three months later after she practiced qigong her hands and feet were no longer numb and after half a year the symptoms had disappeared Her calcification has disappeared She has fully recovered from the pains of her illness and is now at ease One day she got shingles on her neck and by the third day it had spread to half of her neck She still diligently practiced qigong On the fourth day the acne-prone skin began to shrink and healed within a week The proud woman became gentle Her husband Liu received the book that had completely changed him Previously she was tense and submissive and everyone had to endure it She now speaks gently and puts others' needs before her own A day after her father-in-law left Mrs Luu started washing the dishes She felt a bit troubled and became slightly impatient He just scolded her a little and said "Why are you so stupid " She used to find faults with him and flew into a rage But this time she said I'm sorry I will improve I hope it doesn't bother you She said that she could do that because after studying qigong she realized that each practitioner must rise up But she did not change immediately When she was on the edge of losing control she would recall What the master taught me is patience and endurance Patience in action endurance in action She kept repeating that sentence over and over Until his anger passed and only when his mind was calm and peaceful Gradually she managed to control her temper Everyone around her knew that the great law was good and that other relationships had gradually improved Her daughter Once I told her "Mom you used to put a lot of pressure on me but since you changed I've been happy " We have already become friends Her daughter now wants to talk to her no matter what happens Ms Liu said that Everyone asked her Did you do something Your demeanor is different and you look very kind What are you practicing Even her breath is different now She said she used to be arrogant and very stubborn She would do anything to achieve her goals After practicing qigong she changed her views Previously she often spoke quickly rudely and irrationally Now she will think carefully and follow the principle of sincerity kindness and patience When facing disappointment in her career and family She will be able to get through them quickly Life is much better now Life changes when we change When we realize our mistakes take a moment to pause and reflect on ourselves Keep a calm and peaceful mind It will look at everything more simply and all difficulties big or small will eventually pass At this point the video leng Today I would like to conclude Thank you for taking the time to watch Goodbye