TƯ VẤN TÂM LÝ, MẬT MÃ GIẢI QUYẾT CÁC VẤN ĐỀ 5 phút giải quyết vấn đề nan giải 10 năm.
Chuỗi bài: Đào tạo Chuyên Gia Tư vấn Tâm lý
Chúng ta thường thấy các cánh cửa quan trọng cần một loại mật mã. Nếu dùng đúng mật mã, cánh cửa sẽ lập tức mở ra. TƯ VẤN TÂM LÝ đúng là MẬT MÃ để mọi người vượt qua vấn đề của mình theo cách đó.
Nhiều người chịu đựng các vấn đề nhiều năm, nửa đời người, (bạo hành,bất hòa, các thói quen xấu, mất ngủ... Vì sao họ mãi loay hoay với các vấn đề mà không thể giải quyết.
Một bác sĩ đã chữa khỏi hàng ngàn ca, lại không chữa khỏi cho họ. Vì sao? Vì họ có vấn đề gốc rễ ở tâm lý chưa giải quyết. Ngoài việc tìm một Bác sĩ Đông Y, Tây Y…, họ cần một chuyên gia tư vấn tâm lý để “đào tận gốc, trốc tận rễ” các căn nguyên tâm lý.
Bé N.H, 9 - 10 tuổi mà vẫn tè dầm. Nhiều phụ huynh nghĩ việc con vẫn mặc bỉm khi đã sắp dậy thì là đơn giản, nhưng không phải vậy. Như thế, con chỉ trưởng thành về thể chất, tâm lý vẫn là đứa trẻ bỉm sữa, bởi vậy, bé đang giải quyết các vấn đề từ góc nhìn của một đứa trẻ bỉm sữa. Nó sẽ là MỘT CON HỔ CÓ LÁ GAN CHUỘT NHẮT. "Bản lĩnh" của một chú chuột nhắt thì không thể vận hành thân thể tráng kiện của Chúa Sơn Lâm.. Hậu quả, học hành chậm tiến bộ, to xác nhất nhì lớp nhưng vẫn bị bắt nạt là phiền muộn thực sự của con, có thể tổn thương tâm lý con lâu dài.
Mẹ đã đưa con đi khám, rồi thông báo “không thể dùng liệu pháp tâm lý được, phải đưa con đi trị liệu thận yếu”. Dẫu vậy, một vấn đề thể chất có tới 70% nguyên nhân là tinh thần, nên KIMBA vẫn quyết định giúp.
Trước giờ đi ngủ, KIMBA dành 5 phút để trò chuyện với con. Chỉ 5 phút thôi, chàng trai 9 – 10 tuổi đã nói không với bỉm sau gần 10 năm gắn bó không rời, ngủ một giấc ngon lành đến sáng và gia đình hết nỗi lo về “anh chàng yếu thận”.
Khi đối diện các vấn đề, thể chất, mối quan hệ, thói quen xấu... hãy tìm MẬT MÃ của vấn đề nhờ chuyên gia tư vấn tâm lý!
Hello everyone, today I'm going to share with you a very good topic, which is the power of psychological counseling.
For me, this topic is like a key to open a lot of doors and go through a lot of my psychological problems.
First of all, I would like to share a little bit about my psychological counseling channel on the Kang Ching World platform.
My psychological counseling helps people to love life and overcome psychological problems based on three core values,
the East, the West, and the experience.
Back to the topic, the mission of psychological counseling, I want to tell a story.
A few years ago, a friend in Hanoi wanted me to help her son,
a 9-10-year-old boy, to overcome the problem of autism.
He was a very tall boy at that time, because he had a very good personality, so he was quite tall,
but at that age, he still had to wear a mask and still had autism, so his family also had certain problems.
However, from the perspective of a psychological counselor, I saw that the problem was more serious.
When I went out to talk to my son, I found out that this boy was often bullied by his friends.
He was a pretty tall boy in class, but he was often bullied by younger friends.
Why? Do you remember the story of the tiger and the rat?
A tiger has the body of Mr. Son Lam, but it is still afraid of a cat if its psychology is only that of a rat,
so does this boy.
If you think about the psychology of a boy with autism, you will still be bullied,
because when you face other people, they think you are 9-10 years old,
but you always think you are at the age of autism.
Therefore, helping your child overcome autism is not essentially helping your child overcome autism,
but it is helping your child grow in terms of behavioral control ability suitable for the age group.
When Kimba was about to fly, his mother told him,
Honey, now I can't take care of you with my psychological methods anymore,
because I was waiting for you so long that I took my son to the doctor,
and the doctors told me that this was a physical problem, this was a weak child,
so the family will help you take care of it, not use psychological methods.
As a psychologist, Kimba understands the power of psychological counseling,
Kimba also understands that psychology plays an important role in physical issues.
In the book, The Transition of the Law, by Ambassador Lee Hong Chi,
Kimba is very interested in the part where people talk about the influence of psychological counseling on physical issues.
People say that 70% of the causes come from psychological influences on physical issues.
Likewise, for many years, Kimba has been able to treat chronic diseases,
but Kimba has been able to treat them in a very short time,
and has not used many simple drugs such as salt water, etc.
So why can Kimba treat these diseases?
Because Kimba understands the power in the body and in the mind of each person.
Later, Kimba will talk more about this issue, but now back to the case of a child.
When my mother said that, Kimba understood that even if this is a physical problem,
even if the family will take care of the child,
just like the request of a psychiatrist,
Kimba thinks that the key is to solve psychological problems for the child.
So that night, Kimba stayed and talked to me.
People know that this is a problem that the family has had to endure for many years.
This child, from small to large, was 90 years old at that time, still in bed, right?
And a problem that Kimba has spent so many years to help the child deal with,
that is the power of psychological counseling.
5 minutes?
Just 5 minutes, Kimba helped me become a child,
grown up to the right age,
become a child who no longer thinks the way I am a baby,
but thinks that I am a grown-up, strong and brave child,
like my peers, who can do what others can do.
Yes, just after 5 minutes of talking, that day I gave up,
I couldn't fall asleep, and the next day I woke up with a wonderful feeling,
a very new feeling about myself.
And that is the important thing.
No matter how physically strong you are,
first of all, we must have a good mind, a good state of mind,
a good ability to control the mind,
and even if we want to treat any physical problem,
Kimba hopes that everyone will find the cause of health in the mind,
and focus on dealing with psychological problems first.
So it can have a very big effect.
Maybe everyone, like this child, will not have to spend a day,
a penny for methods, treatments on the physical side,
but can immediately overcome their psychological problems,
overcome their physical problems,
just with 5 minutes of working with psychological counseling.
I hope that Kimba's psychological counseling
will help everyone have a secret,
a secret to open the doors,
overcome their psychological problems, and maximize their life.
I really hope everyone will take the time to share Kimba's clip to friends,
if you find Kimba's sharing useful.
Thank you everyone for listening,
and I hope everyone will like, share Kimba's psychological counseling channel
on the Kanching World platform.
See you in the next sharing.