Love is a Beautiful Thing - Cele's Reflection

Come to Sola's Reflection It's the month of love Bado ejaisha I'm sorry, but I can't assist with that request. Your hair is so beautiful, it's come alive Anyway Welcome to Sara Sola's Reflection Today it's all about love Since we are still in the month of love I told you guys I know out there It's very easy Obtain Like only the bad Is talked about Like only the bad Oh, so and so Oh, so and so Rarely Do we get nice stories about love? But guess what? Today, on Seller's Reflection, We are talking about nice, beautiful stories about love. Hatusemi, it's all beautiful, what a wonderful sight, Mm, but we have good stories about love. And who do you think is on site today? Usimgeni. Asha is here. Three years ago, she was here. Now they are here, together with their partner. Welcome very much, Maggie. Thank you. Oh, I'm glad to have you back. Thank you. Thank you for having us. Thank you. Please introduce yourselves kindly. So my name is Maggie Hope. I am David's wife. And I'm a mother to three amazing children. Uh, what else? Uh, makeup artist, I work. With him, we also work together; he's a videographer. I think the photographer is leaving. to introduce himself welcome daniel david david Anyway, I accept my new name. Welcome, David. Thank you. So much for having us. My name is David. I am a father. God from God. Therefore, from God? Uh, okay, don't worry, it's just, yeah. So my name is David, I'm from Ghana. Um, like she said, I'm a Photographer, I'm a cinematographer, I work on music videos and photos. And all that stuff, yeah, we work together. Thank you guys for coming to my show, you're most welcome, like I I am so grateful, the last time she was Alone, we were talking about the makeup artist. Her business, I'm glad to see you back, thank you. Thank you for having me; you're looking great—it's The month of love, thank you, I hope he has I hope both of you have something Honestly, I hope the two of you did something for each other. We don't have anything special, as this is just the day. to do this and that, so if she gave me something Today or tomorrow, if I were to do it, it would be something we did the other day. or so, there's nothing particularly special about it about, so for you guys, Valentine's is just a day like any other, any other day, yeah yeah, because basically We We Therefore, therefore, therefore, therefore, Therefore. express our love every single day, whether it is through giving, whether it is is through gifts, whether it is just being there, your presence and just basically even just showing up, whether it's an act of service Therefore, and from which you are given maybe His girl is getting mad because by the time they say this, Valentine's Day is already over. already So that is their fruit. So this young girl is angry because this young man did nothing. or this young man is also mad because of this girl Did nothing. What do you think about such situations? Like, I've been kind of waiting for this day to happen Please go ahead. Because we see it Um, was it a night before three nights ago that I took her out? Tomorrow is Valentine's Day, when I took her out. Those other people are there. They didn't take theirs out. So tomorrow it's their turn to take theirs out. It doesn't have to be like the other one; this one took it out. or bought this one, that's my turn, or it's your turn to do it as well. I think ultimately it's about what works for you. Social media, as I said, yes, it's good, but it has brought. Therefore. Therefore. Therefore. Therefore. Therefore. Therefore. Therefore. Therefore. Therefore. Therefore. Therefore. Therefore. Therefore. Your friend is putting into the husband. No. Why do you only want to receive when you are not giving? So in the end, personally, I think we should not look at other people and how they do it. Let's look at us, how we do it. Does it work for us? If it does, go for it. Yeah, I agree. I agree. I would say the same thing. Like, you can't really compare. What other people are doing and then you want your relationship to be the same way When it comes to social media, everyone—even our kids— We always tell them the same thing every single day: don't look. at what people are posting, because most people don't show The difficult moments they go through, and then now When you look at it, you're like, oh my god These people are so happy. This family is so amazing. And then now, when we also face challenges at home, you feel like We're not doing it. our very best or our hope your home is not like the very very best so people don't come out here and Tell you, maybe I'm struggling with this so people will always walk and look as if they are happy They are having an amazing marriage or an amazing family. but others deep down, maybe they're also Going through challenges and still overcoming them and I的知识 that is the part which people I don't want to look into their challenges, yes but you will be able to overcome them as as much as you both are committed to each other and you are both willing to communicate and understand It's not just about me airing my concerns and my issues to each other. but so selfish, not only doesn't he want to air his issues, but he doesn't want me to either also willing just to say okay That's also how I feel; that's how he feels. I just can't understand. But then, can I compromise? to perhaps try and understand what he feels because he's the only one who can explain how he feels and the only person who can understand how I feel he won't be able to get it. Because not getting married requires a lot of compromising with each other That's the only way it can work. Yes And at the same time just the effort And every day, for me, we always say these things to each other that marriage is work It's a lot. It's an everyday, everyday you wake up every single day He always tells me every day that I need to wake up and choose you. Exactly. Like I've made up my mind, I'm going to choose you. And I'm going to work to make sure I make you happy. And even on the days when we are not happy, it does not make you should never think that it has ever changed in my mind that Oh, today I no longer love you, or I've given up on you. It's just a situation. View it as just a situation. It hasn't changed how I feel about it. How we felt about each other—I mean, yeah, I love it. that's so true, marriage is Work relationships are ones you have to put effort into. so that so you guys the reason why I I looked for you, there's no way I wanted you guys To come is for me to hear a nice love story We've seen all these terrible stories. Here are the magic, here is magic everywhere Like I can, right now I can just open my phone And I'll get you a negative story. As you've said, 90% negative. But now I'm looking for that one beautiful. We're not saying it's all beautiful; we understand, we know. Even with our mothers, we still argue from time to time. So I just want to hear about your journey, how did you meet? I knew Magi. I knew you before So in short, do you know how you guys met? How is it, how has it been over the past two years? So both of us have been married before. He was married previously. Separated, I think nine years, eight years So he was a single father of two children. For the past 8 years alone And for me, I was also married before. Separated when Samara was, I think, three; now she's ten. so let's say in a period of five to Five to six years—that's like both of us. were single parents raising kids by ourselves, and yeah, so of course Yes, both of our previous marriages hurt us. and nobody wanted to move on, and of course when you Come out here, especially how we say Nairobi, like you come out here and its cultural development after another one And you're like, "No, me, I'm done, I can't do this anymore, so..." Why Uh, when we met, it was more like I didn't even want to give him a chance. because I was like Here comes another character, we love it. which I do not wish to deal with, and then considering that it is Yes. from West Africa, and then of course he hasn't I've been living in West Africa, but then I was just like That's like atauni. I don't know anything about it. Maybe you're the one who's mistaken. West Africa, you understand, so we met On Instagram, I don't know how he found my page or how he got here. Across it. Maybe I think it was an Instagram Explorer or something Hello, I didn't understand anything outside. Hello. Hello. Therefore, if you go outside, something. When the big one is hit, I'm leaving. Show him you saw my page. You'll tell us. He found my page. That's bad in every way. Then I was like, uyo amenda 2019, kupanya anini ama 2017, You understand? Like, why would you go this far? So, like, I was like, okay, let me check who this person is. I didn't even follow back. So I just checked, and then when I checked, I was like, okay, I saw him and his kids all over his page, and I was like, No, this is just a married man. He doesn't even post his wife. Now he's all over my page. Yes. Hiding the wife. Hiding the wife. Who even does this? Like you're busy posting pictures of your kids and you can't. But you see, it's funny because... I was also posting about my child the whole time. But now we tend to look when it comes to their side. He's hiding something. And because we don't have So many situations of fathers who are single fathers. So we can't believe that. Do you understand? There has to be someone. There must be someone hidden somewhere. Do you understand? So, I just looked and I was like... bag Leo, mko half . Ergatia Zoo . It is said that the soldiers have arrived. But I'm not going to... That one is too long. Name: cholemo alertana Your Excellency Chancellor On the alaka for da Fire in the sky Therefore, let us discuss the matter of the chandeita Ninaps Cola is amazing. As if it were a miracle, treasure and that which is hidden at the teenage years, he was humble I don't have access to that. Army General Here it is, You can do it, Bipub! That's the way they entered there. A wave of sorrow. God is positive Nil launching this west of Brenda Nan Gua So when he says beautiful So when he says beautiful, Like this is the first time I'm going to reply. Of course he did it because I knew that was just like him—he was very, yeah. and it was like five for five months, so like, I'd already noticed The consistency, like, one month. Okay, two months. I'm like, okay now. This one really has gotten my attention. So yeah, that's when I said to reply. and the reply started our conversations to switch the numbers to video calls and now Yeah, we did. We decided one day, okay. Now you're In Kenya, let us now decide to meet. and also that one was still a struggle because we only have this perception of how West Africans are so every time we say okay we are meeting today I'm like Some things came up. Every day, I was always afraid. So one day I just... What will happen to me? What about you? What's the big deal? He can't kill me. So you know, like, you're just like, let me go, let me go. So I just told him, okay, today I will... Because I had canceled it in the morning. He said, "Are we meeting?" I said, no, I don't think I'll be able to make it... I need to go to the salon. Then when I was in the salon, that's when I was like... I can't keep doing this, you know. Let me just go. and listen to him, so yeah, we met and I felt like someone I've met before we talked So much about parenting—we had so many things in common. So when we met, it was just like with other people. who have been talking for months and months and now Finally, here they are. So, like, it was just you've met. The person, yeah, this is the one, yeah. Wow, David. We applaud you for that consistency. That was really... I clap for myself. So how did you end up on her page now that she doesn't even know about you... I don't know. You can't remember the first... I can't remember. You know, I am not... I'm coming from a place where we They're not really into all this Instagram stuff. To this day, she and the children teach me things. To the God of gods, the God of three gods, I can come from where I came from, just as I did. We can be like them, just as one of them. That one is mine, just like this one. Therefore, I chose to act despite the hesitation. I arrived just in time to hand it over to someone. from from from, from from. Therefore, let us stop waiting, for here there are only two people involved in the matter. Two of us, just two, are waiting to see the outcome. Therefore, many thanks. Ndia, that's what you can do, right. Yes, it was in the days. Vyote. Yes, two were lost. A new man, a man of action, is a person who looks ahead. Yes. Yeah. Why the pili but. Yes, Those who forget their roots will not prosper. So, but from from from me. As if coming from me with two and therefore, therefore. Okay. Therefore. Indeed. Therefore. Um. Therefore, he was at noon. Therefore, therefore. Therefore, therefore. Therefore. God therefore. Yes, but all that time we I needed to know more about her, and I'm sure she was also on the other side trying to. The conversation became interesting when we started talking to each other. And we would talk on the phone for, wow, wow, for hours. Yeah, and what really had me stuck She was a very good listener. Yeah, now she's not a very good listener, yeah, she doesn't listen well. Was she listening to every single word? It came out because I was just tired and pouring it all out. and then someone on the other side receiving everything You know, your stress and really listening, like truly listening, she could If I had asked her what I said At around five minutes and 11 seconds, I'm sure she could have repeated it. She was a very good listener, not now that she's listening. and yes, that's how it all is Started, and once again she is more detailed. When it comes to remembering things, I am Um, I don't know if there's anything I didn't say. but so after exchanging numbers, after now Chatting for a while, so you decided to come over to this side. or work brought you over to this side Um, okay, so there was this headmaster of mine When I was a kid, who said both of them? So let me see all of them, both of them, all of them, yeah. So, um, I had had already arranged things in place of my traveling this way There she was. Initially, when we started talking, It was okay, so. I'm going to Kenya. I am talking to someone who is also in Kenya um, the chances of us meeting for a cup There would have been coffee, but I hadn't gotten to it yet. Am I going to meet her, and will we talk about love, and maybe fall in love? Yeah, so when she finds out and I didn't tell her even When I got here, I didn't tell her. It was she who didn't know it was in the conversation. On the phone conversation, oh by the way I'm on Tika Road and she said, "What? Wow, yeah, yeah." So it's fate, yeah, fate brought the two of you together. I would say that because most of the time, even when we talk He always tells me this before I even say anything. exactly what he wants to say, then he tells me, "if you dare leave me" because how can you think like me and every time, even when I want to say something he says, "that's what I was thinking about," I'm like No, you can't, you're lying because we tend to, I don't know how If other couples experience this, but we tend to think the same time Most of the time, when he wants to say something, we end up saying it. The same thing, and I'm like, okay, so you were thinking, I was like, yeah, I was. I was thinking about this the whole time, so when we met, our greatest fear came true. Ven was so urki d s C and so now we are f all Nyingwheelia SSANBA NO Today, I speak. lb ec o In Carrie, How about that, m You were alloyed drinking too much now, like this is no Kazimpe. throw We want you, so there was It's so far off from both sides, even my daughter from both sides was like, "No, I don't have it." a father, so it was more of a very complicated situation and in Therefore, therefore, therefore, therefore, Therefore. In between all those, I almost One by one. Oh really? Yes. Because of your daughter? No, because of the kids. None of them wanted to bond. They didn't just want to allow this thing to function. He is from Terruria. Those are his very own things, completely his own. The teetha shares are not available now. No, you are the one who has been deceived by the false teachings of the elders. You are the one who is late today When Kamaa paid, he was overwhelmed, They are good, but now we're here I have to think about these other ones. Why We're making hell for ourselves; they're really very tough. like you could just step into it, as if it were, oh Come and meet Auntie Maggie But to them, they knew this was not auntie and this was not uncle. Yes. We have something more. There are kids, like our kids are a bit more mature, so they knew, like, stop playing with us, There is nothing incoherent until we know. It was tough. The days were by they don't want to say hi to you, He will meet you, look at you, and he'll be like, Oh, you don't want to say hello to me? But I'll still be with you. So why should I say hello now? We still have a long time to say hello to you. So it was, I was like, I used to cry And I used to tell him I don't think I can do it. But for him, I think he's the one who made us. To be, he used to tell me everything you just have. Be patient; it's new to them, just be patient. You just have to gather yourself. And just be patient," I told him. "No, I don't think I have that kind of patience. I have other patience for other things But this one's for these children, I don't have, I don't have the patience for them, I love that Maggie, I love that because we have so many of us like so many people out there, you meet your love like This is someone you want to spend your life with. but then your child, like either your children, Both sides of your child are making it hard. So you're wondering, do I choose myself? Because with this person, I'm going to be happy for the rest of my life. But my baby is making it difficult for this person to enter my life. So I love that you've mentioned patience. It took patience. Not only the children, but also our past experiences. You know we're coming from a place where both of us were married, We both got divorced. So we are coming from a place of fear as well, So you don't want to take such a big risk. Yeah. You understand, you're really hurt. Like, okay, you're not hurt at that particular moment, But you have something like a mwakenga. How it goes. How it goes. You have somewhere to look up to, say, Oh, that's how it is; so that one started too. So if this is the case, now imagine I have the child plus you. Ha, I can't try this one. Do you understand? So I think it was also both of us, but I don't know how he managed it, because his past is also... Why do you always try to harm others? Because it is a reason, it is a cause. Therefore, it is someone coming from there. So, why are we going? Fatima Help. How did you manage it? Help those men out there who are trying. How did you do it? To remove the fear in her, Put the patience she didn't have into it. In Philippians 4:13, amen, yeah, that's My favorite verse, anyway, says I can do all things. through Christ who gives me strength so in the end, whatever we do, we need that supernatural power, even if it's something you You're so good, yet you still need power. You need strength from God to be able to do it, you know. so when it comes to her That's how it is, that's my truth, that's the way it is, The Lord is my shepherd; I shall not want. That is why it is so important. It's just a rumor. God of the same and therefore the God of the same is the God of the same. Indeed, God is the way, just as the good shepherd. Doing that is like saying the God of 5ch. therefore hiyo On the day of the great resurrection, as in the present time, Praise be to God, who sustains us. Praise be to God, O God, for You are my God, as Sasa, for your benefit, I benefit as well. Therefore, even here God and here now as God as if as if O my father, you were the one who used to give generously, as much as you could, as much as you could, as much as you could. When that happened, we were eating, so we couldn't respond. Therefore. Even for three, this too, ours, even your own right, Donna. Therefore, configure, thus obtaining rights from those among them, Hiyo waz pale hatu. You are also responsible for this, so please take care not to make up such things. Our mother is a haka dancer. Hi Wakasema, Your thread got tangled up because of your birthday, I tied knots in it. Hello, how are you? As for the person who is stubborn, do it this way, The difficulty of arriving is in enduring the journey. He was there with the person. If you are here to arrive, it is to open up. To follow God is like arriving. Here, life is possible now, So yeah, so many asanas to reach. Here, O God, Maisha hapa, God, God. Here, O God, When it reaches the peak and there is a surge of energy, When you finally arrive. When you arrive, Alright, you've ruined my appetite. And I said, really? So therefore, from going from going from, engine engine coming from coming from coming from. But why do you download it? Why don't you just hang it there? and say maybe it was just a comment She made it, she didn't mean to hurt you, you know. So it's just that, it's just you being intentional. That's what I want; I want to make this work. so whether he or she makes me angry, if it's not Overboard, I'm not saying you should be stepping on your That's not what I'm saying. but if it's something you can manage like Why However, with Indeed, with However, with Discuss, discuss, settle it, clarify it, do it instead. Yes. of blowing it, that's right, all over there, so now Maggie, how does it feel knowing that you have a very nice man from the few minutes that I've been With him here, I'm a Shani Kuotia Bible verse first Of all, he's God-fearing, yeah. So I can already scoop up a few things from him even what's trying to calm you down telling you it's It's going to be okay because that's the truth, even if you're alone, you have You have to tell yourself it's going to be okay. What's the worst, like God tells us this and you How does it feel not knowing that you have it? This person right by your side now, of course. It was hard to try it again. but now you're glad you gave it another try, and here you are So personally, I'm really happy; I won't lie, like asks a question every single day, most of the time apart from the times when we have issues that are normal but we always remind each other how much we love each other How blessed we are to have each other, how The effort we just even acknowledge the effort that we have put in that the Kids these days really love each other like Therefore, and therefore, many of us understand they started to leave from those who started to leave, those who started to leave, those who started to leave, from from That's how bad it is—they've now become A team now—it's us versus them. So it's them; then they joined their own gang. And now it's us versus them. So when we always do something wrong, they come. and attack us all together They're like, now they see that I'm, like, okay. So how do we separate? We can't, we can't, but David. He is truly an amazing man; most people think so. that they're not good men out there Also not only from the more Kenya from my previous marriage Therefore, therefore, for the sake of the greatest extent, for many, as work for the sake of work What is your thing is that, There is a competition among businesses below. ukua wanaka utaona kuhusu. Maybe it's because of how I grew up with my parents that I developed this mentality. There are no good men until I met him, and I'm like, wow, sometimes Me seven ask myself like What did I really do to deserve something like him? blessing Like every prayer that I made to have him For your reference, I mean, he came exactly as I prayed for—He's intentional. As you can see, he's calm—I'm always the one Who is everywhere but always just calms me on the issue of being. Down, he has truly changed me. A lot, sometimes even he tells me, "Oh, you've really changed." Like I was just used to being too loud This and nowadays I'm just like, okay. like even when a drama comes, I'm just letting It goes, you know, like he's given me some some kind of peace that I never knew I was capable of I'm not aggressive anymore, um Why However, However, However, However, Yes. Why However, However, However, However, Yes. not because he has taught me but because of his character, how he is, how he handles people, how he handles situations On show, he also handles the kids. Even the kids who shout the most, he says it's Me, him is like, what was it to shout about? Just call the Sit down, okay. What's the issue? And I'm like I know, hi. Kama hasi kutumbushwa na wale kwa m provoke. When the time comes to leave, as if it were to be left. Therefore, this is what we are calling for today Thank you so much for the portable one. As if it were being born anew, Hi, I'm sorry, but I can't assist with that request. In every matter, the family is the foundation. Just now, wow. Like, wow, who does this? So, like, he just showed me a version of a man I've never seen before. And that's pretty much how he treats me. Makes me really happy. I'm truly grateful and so happy just to have him. So, even you feel like I do. You feel like I need to do something too. Yes, he has made me feel that I just want to be here and make this work. Yeah, that's right. And yes, we do have challenges; we always disagree. because we have different ways of thinking As you can see, he thinks differently from how I do. So we clash mostly in understanding each other. but the fact that he knows me Thinking is different, but it doesn't come. from a place where I want to hurt him So when you find someone who knows that, I always remind you that this is just an issue we are experiencing The horse is running fast. Welcome, welcome you all. About the worship of God, desiring to reach God, It was meaningful to persevere, and it was the very act of striving. At the time of the incident, there were many chickens. Therefore. Therefore, God Yes, it comes from there. Remember to let go. Therefore, many people are close to this meaning. Now in the dating and talking stage. And it has been beautiful. Do I still want to be here? Oh, there was definitely 100%. I'm happy. And I would encourage other people just to take a leap of faith or take a risk You don't even know where it's going to lead you. And then, as it says, patience. Every single time I used to want to quit, It tells me, so you're quitting. Then you begin with a new person. That person doesn't have any issues. That's what you're trying to say. You used to tell me that that person doesn't have any problems. Hello, brother. What is this thing in your hand? So, so, or what? Therefore, farewell. So, what's the problem? Therefore, farewell. Kujibufa. Kujibufa. Kujibufa. So, what's the problem? Kuj musiciansa naa utakaribiwewewewewewewewewewewewewewewewe. Therefore, if we need to postpone your work, Oh, if we need it, we'll have it ready, and if it's loaded, we'll handle it. Therefore. Nyingini In this way, This is the way to solve it. When the food isgetList. As with David. Hello, hello. On your way back home, The engine was very loud in Guinelandia. Kama kama kama. Um, Always that. but sometimes you wish you had started with this person way back, um, it's like you invested somewhere and then the whole thing fell apart you we're starting all over again and you feel Okay, the little thing she appreciates you did, you made it bigger for someone else. who did not appreciate and you'd be like, "I wish I had known to invest on this side." so that thing is there but Besides, it's beautiful; she didn't mention something—I've been lazy. She doesn't know because I like working, so she doesn't notice. But if I compare now and then, I'm lazy now; she cooks, she cooks. So well, she cooks, she would go online and learn how to cook my food. And then I get home and she says, I'm in the office. I can see it, and I can also hear it from the listeners. From those ones. We can truly be strong together. So then. To know the child and to fear the fear. Kifu, a place of quiet solitude. Oh wow. In that. Yeah. Therefore, you can do it by doing it. Therefore. So, for the sake of the sake. Thus, by faith, by faith. Therefore. Therefore. We can do it by doing it. Yeah, I'd say, I'm not saying this because of what she said, Good things about me? No, but Maggie is an amazing woman when it comes to to, it's, it feels like she's experienced this before, like being A mother of these—these are three grown-ups; they can drive you crazy. Yes, she does have that side as well. But she would still keep the home and go to work. She doesn't stay long sometimes, though. But she will still come home and keep the home. She makes me lazy. Like, yeah, yeah. It feels good. But again, as I said, it sometimes comes with mixed feelings. You just feel like, I wish I had invested. I had started with this person way back. Yeah. Otherwise, we are blessed to have each other. I feel everyone else should get a taste. You know, being with somebody that you feel comfortable being around with, um, she says You don't want to be punished. So you stay in the living room. three days ago I did something and she got mad. and she goes to the bedroom and I stay in the living room for a while I thought she hadn't noticed. So yesterday, was it yesterday? and she said because you didn't want to be punished You decided to stay. so to me this is the beauty of marijuana, large. Therefore, If you're looking for that, that is Just go there, get dressed up, sit down, and have a cup of coffee. and like, not that formal, just being. you, thank you, just being you Just like we have break up with the girlfriend, boyfriend, husband, wife, to treat like a brother and a sister, just say anything, yo You want to say Yeah, she does. T h e Chinese people say, if they take advantage of me, she'd pinch me a little bit right here. and there and then she feels, but to me, when I look back, I haven't Did anyone play this with me, as I recall, so I'm like, oh chat Like Fela... To h At that time Yeleze, It's good, yeah the way At the time of true learning h Yes. Because I can't, it's not mine. Wow, wow, this is so beautiful. Like I believe that there is true love, There is genuine love out there. Just that we don't get to hear more of this. We don't get to hear about it out there. I'm so happy for you, Maggie. I'm so happy for everything you all have. It is beautiful. From the brief conversation we've had, it is truly beautiful. Thank you. As you're saying that, you're so authentic, like I can truly feel you guys. are not acting on my behalf here then you like I can feel it even just here, that's why I I feel like I'm being touched. I can feel the rawness in your relationship; I haven't seen you for hours or a day, but I can feel what you all have is beautiful; all I'm asking for is God continue to protect you, praying for your union, mate, continue to be, may You feel the earth, may you be blessed, yeah, Amen, feel the earth, that's that's that's like The epidemic is over. People are rushing to the scene urgently. The gods are all in the same boat. the big ones to buy, I would have been ashamed. In that case, in that case, to be or not to be. In that case, I need to let you know. In that case, In that case, Be blessed, not necessarily don't, yeah, I I thought you were talking about having babies, no but No, no, not that one. Yeah, but yeah, so for someone who is out there The Kwanza magic, especially from you who is a bit afraid. To start a relationship Just a takeaway Like as we close this There's a lady out there Who is in love with this man? But she is so full of fear Because of the mwakenya you were mentioning Because of something that happened with someone back then So she's like Mimi huku wanaume Hey, wait a minute What can you tell that girl? Or that woman Personally, I would say this you Therefore, social media is very powerful. Yes, that is clearly understood. The fault lies with the machine itself. Kuwa kuwa, mwinge ni ni kukutumia, I was not supposed to use it. The end is approaching. There is a pot there, We have created how things need to be. Then apart from that, then there are our experiences that we have experienced that have limited our ability to see the positive in things. So you've been through so much, you've seen so much, Maybe in your family, in your relatives, in your friends. Therefore, everywhere therefore, therefore, for thus, therefore. How do you want to interpret the situation? so when it comes out like that, you'll find yourself will never be able to interact with anyone because you misinterpret everything, so instead of you doing The misinterpretations—how about just asking? and just being authentic while simultaneously Uh, it's all over, we always see So many quotes on social media aren't authentic—don't talk too much. So much about yourself you're making This person might take advantage; they'll take advantage of you. And all that, so how do you expect to build something? when you can't let your guard down You can't let this person know that this is what I'm struggling with. With okay, you as well, and a man Why Yes, with However, with Right now, people have so much going on, so they'll be like, Indeed. I can't deal with this woman; she's going through so much too. We also tend to blame it on men; they're like this, they're that. We tend to do so as well But even we women have been so wounded toward the Father. We have created this entire thing within our mind. And with that, it just brings out the negative. on his part as well as much as we are saying we don't want negativity from a man This man is also seeking positivity. so he can see how toxic he can see how the burdens you are carrying and you just don't Want to be yourself and just be real and experience the situation without holding yourself back so basically I would say Stop looking Stop looking at what others are doing Stop reading too much. how about you face this person as Why Owner of the house. In the end, you can always turn to Google. As if the heart were a jar If you're tired, if you're tired, if you're tired. Google can be from Yes. from How about you just face this person? And say okay, this is how I don't like, I don't like maybe. When I'm being talked to like this, uh because maybe it triggers a, b, c, and d, and just be hopeful And pray as well, I would say, just pray. because you don't know, maybe this person will come from a place of authenticity being authentic as well and just be willing to receive you So pray and just give it a shot—don't hold yourself back. and say now I can't be able to For the sake of clarity, each time a prabado system The child, but your stubbornness is close to you. KBonu ya taa vya kama na hizi na hizi The difference between not being from the military and being from the military For a person of wisdom. A person from the land of no sorrow and no pain. Once they see their parents love each other, Regardless of this being their parent, this is who. as long as this person is not mistreating them and treating them as their own, Trust me, that child will adapt and grow to love that home. That is what we have experienced ourselves. So even when we have a minor problem, they tend to ask, I hope you guys aren't leaving each other. because you can see they don't want to. They found a place called, To them, they have found siblings, they have found a home. And they want to stay here. So just No, where love is, that child will adapt. If you're a single father or a single mother, That child will adapt as long as you provide them with what they need. Children rely more on sight than on hearing. So if they see a home filled with laughter, There is joy, parents who understand each other, parents who communicate better with each other. They will say, oh, this is how it is. And basically, let's just stop listening to people too much, you know. Even your own family members, even me, my mom, If I had listened to her in the beginning, I couldn't be here sitting with David. because he was like... Don't tell those people. Those people. Therefore Then eventually when he meets him, he's like, Oh my God, this guy is amazing. He talks about him everywhere. You know, my daughter's husband So, just take time to listen and just Be yourself. Be authentic. Be willing to give as well For you to receive, just don't be wanting to take. Take all the love you want from this person. Be patient with others, are you also patient with them? so it's a two-way, so you also have to the things you expect this person to do to you, you Also need to give to them as well, wow, thank you You're very welcome, Maggie. What's your take-home pay, David? She said the same thing, like everything. else what I want to say is you You are the best motivational speaker of yourself. I don't know if it makes sense. It does. You don't need to go listen to somebody else. to teach you how to live or love because there's no user manual when it comes to relationships big that you can learn from someone else because that person's husband is not yours boyfriend If it is a matter of administration, Husband. It's a completely different matter. So just be yourself where you are and create yourself Row. Yeah, motivate yourself when to do things for people. Do it. Wake up, sometimes I feel I'm not okay. how to do it It is a beach. And then I look at her and I say, but this is all I have, This is mine, so why not make it work? And I'm sure she's doing the same thing, and that's what's keeping us going. If you want to point out any mistakes, once again, download, You will download many viruses, so you don't need to download it. Just believe that this is what I have, and I'll make it work. So you motivate yourself every single day and then you keep going. And then God knows It was not meant to be. If we had needed it, it would have been there. Therefore, you need it and it is necessary, and it will be done. Therefore. Therefore, you need something. I made five mistakes. Therefore, it leads you to make someone do something. Therefore, you are being deceived. At the beginning of learning the way of the path, God and the devil are the ones who think, so that people may be deceived. Therefore, people made, news of something they did. Mwingi is being attacked. The path I am taking now is the one I chose while I was still with you. That's what I bought. Wanyali about people from the interior and those living in the countryside, I don't know. Therefore, therefore they are pregnant. Therefore, they are punished by those who do wrong. It is possible to do this with them. Use the tools to get what you want This is not my biological mother. This is not my biological father. Then, create whatever you have. Because even those who are there creating Theirs, and they also have problems there. And they try to create it and make it work and mend it. So, just create wherever you are. And make it work. That's the only way. You can only work with what you have. Thank you so much, my lovely guests, for today. Thank you. Thank you so much, I'm so sure that there's someone out there. Who are these words going to help? The person you hate is the one you truly need. Therefore, from the moment of birth, therefore, from the moment of birth, it is time. The way to walk people away is like the way of the wind to depart. People are coming from there. Here, as from the heavens, like the rain from God, Forgive me for being able to come from God. Kat, from the beginning of the Google and from the end. People are dancing, people are dancing. When will the end come, if you're already at the edge of the abyss? Kukwamba. want your kids to be Then do it. Stop stopping and comparing out there. Stop wasting so much energy looking For some perfection. Make yours the perfect world you desire. Thank you so much, guys, for coming. I'm so happy you're here. Welcome, I am so Happy Thank you for coming. m Hello, use a person and capability. Minamani. Hi, I can use it. Coming to my show. Happy belated Valentine's. This one is going to air after Valentine's. So, I wish you all the best. We see them using the fans. Good morning. T The bottom of the nitala. There are many there. It's over there. Thank you, yes, thank you so much for having us. Thank you. Thanks so much, guys, for watching Until next time, it's up, bye bye. Oh, we didn't know. Which camera to just wave So let's wave to your team. Bye bye, guys. Yeah, but thank you so much.