Narcissists Want to Force Single People Into “Toxic-Codependency” #npd #narcissist #narcabuse #swb

Hey guys, Spiritual Whistleblower here. It's been a while. Happy New Year. Hi everybody. How is everybody doing? Yes, I miss you too. Oh my goodness. How is everybody's New Year going? How is January? We're mid-January. Before we get started, if you don't have my brand new book, it's right here. My Family Can Kiss My Ass, How to Deal with Toxic, Messy, Narcissistic Family members available on Amazon and Kindle. Holla. For those of you asking, this is a series. There are more to come in this series. I have a lot of stuff I'm working on right now. If you know anything about me and what I have revealed in this YouTube community is I am consistent. If I say I'm going to do something, it's done. If I say I'm going to be somewhere, if I'm going to hold a support group or retreat it's done okay so I'm a woman of my word so when I tell you there's more amazing content coming more books I have a children's book coming man just get ready um the latest thing oh real quickly I am still doing phone coaching even though I've been laying low off of YouTube um I am taking phone coaching uh consultations 15 minute 30 minute one hour I do in person as well and international, I will post the link down below. Now, of course, you guys know my latest project. It's not the book. I surprised you guys on New Year's Day with a brand new website. It's called Narc Facts. It's a website that allows women specifically, I'll get to the later but right now it's for the ladies because as an african-american woman you know just in my community alone black women are being murdered by black men every six hours it's that bad there is an epidemic where black men are harming us and it's embarrassing i hate to say it but right now um and they're they're killing women in front of their children they're heartless they will harm children or they will murder the mother in front of her children so right now um focus i have a domestic violence project that i'm working on and i just built this website a lot of work went into putting this website up see i just don't be on youtube by the way y'all please stop inboxing me and sending me videos of bullshit that other youtube content creators on here i don't care about the haters. I don't care about the gossip, the drama. They're doing what they're supposed to. You understand their job is to promote me. That's all they're doing when they bash me and make these stupid ass videos. In all actuality, they're basically promoting me. They're not doing anything productive with their time. Spiritual whistleblower is always productive. Okay. If I'm not making videos I'm working on something for the community because I'm really about saving people's lives and helping people heal instead of mudslinging okay a lot of these people that are in this YouTube community that have their own channels they smear me because they're mad that they can't latch on to me they can't they can't clout chase they can hashtag my motherfucking name all the **** they want trying to float off my ******* videos they still will never be on my ******* level they still will never be blessed with the opportunities that fall into my lap they still cannot deliver the message like I can deliver it so what if I come off angry these stupid fucks don't even know like either you listen either you use your platform to vent the way that you want to vent or you go to jail because you and I both know dealing with a narcissist as much as they gaslight you are bound to snap and black out and it's either going to end you know you're going to either end up in jail this is all we got all we have is our platforms in your platform you have a right to vent the way that you want you have a right to deliver your message the way that you want you don't have to be like anybody else so what a lot of content creators talk with a very mild soft voice that's their right they can they can speak in the tone that they want to I prefer to cuss and carry on. And if it comes off abrasive and harsh and just loud mouth, who ******* cares? Black women always come across as angry. I don't give a **** how I come across. No one's going to silence me. No one's going to ******* tell me what I can and cannot say or cannot do. I deliver the ---- the way that I ******* want to. the people love it if the people love it if the people like it I love it that's all the ******* matters my haters can kiss my goddamn ass they stay studying me I'm super creative I come up with all types of creative concepts motherfuckers stay copying my slang a bitch starts writing on a whiteboard now everybody wants to write on a whiteboard I stay 10 steps ahead all they can do is copy from behind so please do not bring me any videos you're behaving like a flying monkey when you do I don't give a ---- about what a hater gotta say okay y'all all have seen me dolled up and glammed up I posted a beautiful video for New Year's Day in an all white pantsuit that's a tuxedo so $400 white tuxedo pantsuit okay don't let the t-shirts and the turbans fool you because bitch when I clean up I shits on bitches I will ---- on every ************ there is no competition honey okay we all act like you know when spiritual whistleblower cleans the **** up i am drop dead gorgeous don't play with me don't play with my designer clothes and shoes because if i bring it out i'm gonna ---- on bitches and i'm gonna hurt some feelings that's why i dress down i can wear a motherfucking trash bag and hurt feelings and break hearts okay that's why a lot of these bitches let me tell y'all something over the last year when I did my support group meetups I met a lot of amazing people but let me tell you something I also met some bad people a few females that were coverts the pick me's we call them pick me's and dusty honors they're the covert female narcissists a few of them sprinkled in they snuck into my support group meetups and tried to play like they were empaths they tried to play it off and I caught every last one of them and cut them the **** off a lot of them are closeted lesbians that want to eat me out and they big mad that I'm not gay. I'm not even bisexual bitch. So don't bring me no videos. I don't care to hear about what a hater got to say. **** them. Y'all stay off their goddamn page to let them do their job and promote me. I get new clients from my haters promoting me while they talk and I'm over here winning and building ---- and being productive and successful. I live in New York. You know how many opportunities are here in New York at my fingertips do you know my credentials my background the people i'm connected to you don't worry about a ******* hater i'm trying to get this narcissistic abuse stuff to the next level y'all so let's work together um narc facts that back to the website narc facts will allow victims survivors of narcissistic abuse to submit an anonymous photo of your abusive ex and i did it so clever yes it's similar back in the day there was a website called don't date him girl.com and it was great but where they messed up they were posting actual photos of the abuser and releasing names and personal personal information you can't do that you can't because that's slander and defamation you know that's cyber bullying so what i have done is i've created a system where you can submit a picture of your abusive ex um I will put or my staff we will put the clown emoji over his face so he cannot be identified and then we will ask for little details then the initials of his first or last name his birth date not his year just a month and day of his birthday the city and state he lives in um the places he hangs out at come on now his occupation not where he works. We don't want to give up where he works. We just want to know his occupation. Is he a truck driver? Is he a FedEx delivery? Is he a pizza delivery boy, a taxi driver, police officer, just his occupation, not where he works. Okay. Then we're going to get all the details. Is he a woman beater? Did he ever give you STD? Does he owe child support? We get into the details and then we put it all in one post. Okay. And we will send it to you to look over, You pre-approve it and then we will we will post it to our Instagram and our TikTok and we have a national database, which means you can go to the website and you can click on any state. We're going to store these abusers in a state to state statewide directory on the website. So it's like it's similar to a background check, just in a like inadvertent way. I don't know. But this is a great way because women, we are the greatest investigators. We are better than the CIA and FBI combined. So we don't need we just need a few details and we can figure out who the abuser is. So this is really a genius way to help victims gain leverage. We're only mirroring. It's like holding up a mirror to the narcissist. We're mirroring their behavior right back to them. See, when they do the smear campaign on us and they destroy our reputation, they do it in a covert way. They sit up with their family and friends and destroy our reputation and talk ---- about us. So what what this Web site will allow victims to do, excuse me, survivors is we get to sit up and run a smear campaign, too. We get to exchange notes and photographs via email behind the scenes. We get to do things covertly, too. So this Web site platform will help survivors get leveraged. they get to vent you know i thank y'all for the support it's been well received i've already started posting and i do expect it to grow really fast this year and i will be expanding to canada and the united kingdom london so y'all thank y'all for supporting me before i wrap up this video i want to say to all my single people all my happily single people do you know you are being targeted right now. I need for you to stay single and happy. Do not allow any YouTube content creator. Do not allow any life coach. Do not allow any pastor, no relationship guru. Don't allow anyone to pressure you into thinking that you have to be married in order to be successful in life. Like that's the end goal. Okay. Toxic codependency is being force fed down the throats of women. okay when we should be learning how to be healthy happy and whole as single women okay a relationship is is is not it will we all like to be in healthy relationships and married sure but you got to learn how to be happy by yourself and when we're dealing with narcissists narcissists narcissists specifically love to shame us you can look at kevin samuels and his followers the red pill community, MGTOW and these toxic pick me ass women, these pick me's and dusty ass women that are pressuring us to stay with toxic men. That's not the way. No, this is why we get called miserable. We get called bitter. We, you know, they say things like, you know, you need to go heal. You need to go heal. You need to go to therapy. You're going to die alone. You're going to die miserable. They say things like that because it's a bully tactic to silence us from sharing our stories of abuse. They don't want us exposing the manipulation tactics. They don't want us helping other people to heal. So they do this thing. I call it single shaming. They shame single people into silence. I beg you do not silence yourself. And the other thing is narcissists deliberately target single people by ruining our lives, by getting into relationships with us. You notice for those of you that were totally single and you, you got into a relationship with a narcissist. What did you find out in the end that they were cheating with somebody they've been in a relationship with an ex baby mama, ex wife, um, another narcissist. So they never fully disconnect from their exes and those exes will help them cheat, but they target single people and they destroy our lives. They destroy our finances. They'll try to tie us down with a baby. Okay. The goal is to target single people, destroy our lives, control our money and leave us for dead cripple us before they run back to their ex-wife, ex-husband or whatever, to the person they were already entangled with and hid from us. This is deadly. Stay single, stay healthy, happy, save your money, travel the world, spoil yourself because they are jealous of our freedom. They're jealous of our independence. Okay. I want to say thank you guys for supporting me. I have a new Instagram. I love SWB, Facebook business page, spiritual whistleblower. I'm on TikTok spiritual the whistleblower. I love you all. Good night.