TREAT YOUR 1ST DATE LIKE A JOB INTERVIEW #narcissist #narcabuse #npd

Hey guys, Spiritual Whistleblower here with a quick video. I'm only doing this video because I wasn't. This is a response or follow-up video to the one I posted last night on how to spot a predator on the first date. Now, I went through the comment section and I saw, you know, I got good feedback, but there was, you know, as expected, many of y'all were triggered. And the people that are triggered are trolls so i felt the need you know number one that's a tiktok video that i made and you only have a certain amount of time three minutes or less to jam pack as much info into that video so i could not elaborate on certain things i just tried to jam in there as much as i could but i'm about to elaborate here to shut you motherfucking trolls down because i know by putting this information out there to help women to help women it's going to piss off the manipulators it's going to piss off the messy female narcissists who who enjoy watching good women get destroyed by toxic abusive men it's going to trigger those who who uh um enjoy playing people enjoy stealing and robbing innocent people enjoy you know some of some of these men is raping women on first dates beating women on first dates so I stand 10 toes down on everything I said in that video and I'm gonna give a thorough explanation right now especially to women um one of the things that triggered the toxic trolls in the comment section is oh that's it's an interrogation on the first date you can't even enjoy the date shut the **** up shut the **** up because this is a problem ladies we don't carry ourselves like queens like a prize number one if a man is trying to pursue you and he asks you out on a date you have to always remember and carry yourself like a prize like a queen period point blank he wants you to take time out of your busy schedule time where you could be making money or doing something productive with your life he wants to take time out of your busy schedule for a date. Okay. So as a queen should, why should I, what makes you so special? You know, before we even get to a second date, um, you know, why, why, what makes you so special? You better, you better utilize this coffee date and make it count because I'm screening you. I'm picking you apart. I'm watching your body language. I'm listening to the consistency of your stories. I'm listening to see if you bad mouth your exes. Okay. I'm not worried about how well you're dressed. I'm not worried about your salary, what you do for a living. I'm, I'm, I'm picking the mental apart because I need to know if you're psycho, psychopath, sociopath, if you're a womanizer, a user abuser, master manipulator. So yeah, ladies, let me tell you something. You have to set the tone from day one. I don't care how uncomfortable it is. You set the tone from day one that you're going to be difficult, that you have strict boundaries, that you are determined to protect your peace. And you're not going to let anyone, not even the person you're dating, destroy your boundaries or, or destroy your peace. You need to set that tone up front. remember he's he's asking you for for a chance uh um to to sell himself he's got to pitch himself you know he interrupted your day he interrupted your life so you make him yeah you question him why should i even move forward with with you know giving you an opportunity uh to to gain some of my time and attention i'm a queen i got better things to do what makes you what makes you so but you, yes, you interrogate him because let me tell you something, the right guy, if he's a gentleman, he's a good dude. He has nothing to hide. He, um, he likes to go to therapy or he has gone to therapy. He's he's, you know, he doesn't hide anything about his past. Um, he's, he's gone. Like, as a matter of fact, he has remained single. He's not, you know, he's not a rebounder. Like he knows that, that being single is a part of healing and, um, learning to love self and learning oneself before he even jumps into a relationship, he will not mind. I'm telling you, he will not mind you interrogating him only to be triggered toxic motherfuckers, the narcissistic motherfuckers, the players, the master manipulators are going to have a problem, an issue with an interrogation. Yeah, I got a lot of negative feedback. Let me tell you something. it for those of you that got played manipulated in a relationship or marriage if you could do it all over again what would have you what would you have done on that first date you wouldn't have overlooked the red flags and you would have interrogated the **** out of them so I also seen in the comments who would go on a coffee date for a first date you know you must have low standards shut the **** up shut the **** up again we're talking about protecting women from potential date rape and and being beat up and being followed after the first date the reason I said cup of coffee coffee implies morning afternoon daytime hours where where there's pure daylight where you know you go to a diner or Starbucks there's video cameras okay dinner dates dinner dates usually implies you owe me something after this date. Now you may not give me sex, but I at least want a kiss on the lips. I want something. I'm sorry. You know, that's how men think. Nighttime implies I want something more. I took you to dinner. I treated you to dinner. I at least want a kiss. Can I walk you to your house so I know where you live? So we don't, we don't even want to get into the dinnertime theme. We don't want to, we don't want to get into that space. You don't know this man you don't know if this man is a pedophile you don't know if this man has raped a woman before dinner time is night time night time implies sexual sexual time and I'm sorry it having a cup of coffee on a first date does not mean you have low standards it means I need to pre-screen this ************ to make sure they're not psychotic and I need to be able to leave very quickly if I detect any any signs of foolishness you know a cup of coffee is quick if I detect any red flags i'm out of there i'm not about to sit here and have dinner uh with a lunatic so that let me let me let me just clarify that having a cup of coffee on the first date does not mean you have low standards some of y'all are so motherfucking ignorant i'm out here trying to save lives and that's all you can your petty ass can think of and another thing y'all was saying oh a narcissist is never going to admit to being a narcissist no they're not but you can you know there are things that you can say. You can gaslight a narcissist and make them uncomfortable. You, you can, you can say certain phrases. You can get them to, to explain themselves and tell on themselves. You can watch their body language. No, they're not going to admit to being a narcissist, but your job is to, to stir the pot so that they get the, they get to talking and telling on themselves and projecting. Okay. So like I said, your job is to sit there and listen, monitor, and you're supposed to be taking mental notes. And if any sort of craziness pops up, like I said, it's a, it's a cup of coffee. Excuse me. I got to go. I got a meeting. It was so nice talking to you. And I want to say another thing too, you know, prior to this first date, you should be screening their behavior through phone calls. If y'all are talking through phone and texting you should be monitoring and pre-screening their behavior of course if they're a covert narcissist they're going to have the game down pat this is why i'm saying you you know you you have to meet people in person to really study their their their body language and you know they're if they're nervous their tone when they speak those are things that you need to see because over a cell phone and over a text conversation they lie they can they can present themselves to be wonderful via text message and via phone call okay so this ain't about me being an unhealed person teaching people you know you know out of scarcity out of a scarcity mindset y'all are and i don't mean all of y'all because i know some of y'all in the comment section agree women need to vet men properly you need to interrogate the **** out of them only an abusive asshole will have a problem with you interrogate, uh, interrogating him. And my, let me, let me just say this to ladies, these men that are complaining and these female narcissists that are in the comments, trolling and complaining. When you go on a job interview, let me, let me, let me talk to black. I'm gonna use black men as an example. I don't give a **** who gets mad. A black man goes on a job interview. He sits in front of a white man. The white man is getting ready to interview him for the next 45 minutes to an hour. That white man is going to drill the **** out of him with interview questions. And you know what that black man's going to do? He's going to sit there yes sir, no sir, yes sir, no sir, because he wants the job really badly. And what this white man's going to do during the interview when he's interrogating him, because that's what a ******* job interview is. It's an interrogation into your background, your job history. They're going to check your criminal they want to know your credit score they're going to check all your references and that's just the first interview because if the if the company the employer feels that you're a potential candidate they're going to screen you for a second interview that's right you're going to come you're not just going to get the job that easy you got to come back for round two and they're going to grill you and drill you some more and that black man gonna sit there yes sir no sir Yes. Because he wants the job bad enough. And the employer, what the employer is doing is vetting, vetting this black man to see if he if he's worthy of being a part of the company. We got to vet you properly to make sure you have integrity, a good work ethic. We want to check your references. We got to check you out. You're not going to get this job that easy. So you see where I'm going with this. Women have to have the same mindset. Stop letting these men in so easily interrogate. I promise if he's a good guy, I promise you if he has nothing to hide. I promise you if he really likes you, I promise you if he's dating or, you know, if he's intentional, if he's intentional with his dating and he's dating with purpose he will not mind being interrogated by you like I said only a toxic ************ will complain about being interrogated because he don't want you picking him apart but he got the nerve to ask you out on a date why should I know you you're interrupting my day sir so if you're going to interrupt my day and you want my time and attention it's going to cost you with an interrogation I want to know why should I give you another opportunity to see me in the future you don't like it step goodbye and like I said for my single mothers stop telling these men that you you're a mother delete those pictures of your children off your Facebook a lot of these men will look at your Facebook look at your Instagram see your pictures of your children and they will already have their story and game together when they approach you because they know you're a single mother and they assume that single mothers are weak they assume that single mothers are looking for a daddy to help raise their kids they assume single mothers are on section eight getting food stamps and they'll use you up for that they just assume single mothers are ******* weak so i make my videos to make women smarten up level up on your mindset and your game plan because these master manipulators they got the game down pat because they done played hundreds of women so i don't care you can pre-screen him in the beginning on the phone and text message he will lie you need to see that ************ in person screen his body language you know you gotta you gotta observe everything and you also gotta set the tone that you cannot be toyed with played with he's got to get that type of energy from you ************ i'ma check your background i'ma run a criminal background check i'ma check everything and if it makes him uncomfortable he's gonna flee and that's exactly what you want that's the trash taking itself out now y'all have a good day and if the trolls want to start their ---- They're going to get deleted and blocked. I said what I said. Ladies, start vetting these men. Don't you know, too many of y'all are getting raped, beaten. The ************ want to follow you home. They become obsessed. How you become obsessed. And we just met each other. This is dangerous out here, ladies. They even murder women. So I don't I don't make these videos, you know, because because something's wrong with me. I'm unhealed and I have a scarcity mindset. I'm out here saving lives. and for those of you that say oh mental health is not a topic of discussion uh for a first date yes the **** it is because i don't know where the **** you've been hiding underneath a rock but between youtube tiktok instagram narcissism is a hot topic it is trending right now narcissistic personality disorder look at kanye west kanye west is textbook narcissistic sociopath that's topic of discussion that can lead to mental health quit trying to ******* play with me don't downplay my content because I know what the **** I'm talking about talk about it don't be afraid to have these discussions on the first date ladies it'll save you a lot of time heartbreak and money down the line if he gets uncomfortable good good riddance get out of here you're not worthy of a second date I said what I said I love you guys have a blessed day spiritual whistleblower