DOES ASHANTI HAVE AN EATING DISORDER? #ashanti #nelly

Does Ashanti have an eating disorder? And before y'all get mad and say somebody is bullying Ashanti, this video is for educational purposes to teach women about the insidious and covert abuse of a narcissistic man. I believe Ashanti is in an abusive relationship and she uses two coping mechanisms to deal with the stress of it all. One of those coping mechanisms is she laughs a lot. she laughs at everything and honestly I don't think anything is that much funny but when she's sitting with Nelly or she's sitting with her mama you can see the micro expressions in her face when she's uncomfortable but she will laugh she will laugh her way through whatever is making her feel uncomfortable or uneasy that is a coping mechanism and the other coping mechanism I believe is emotional eating. I do believe she's an emotional eater. And the fact that Nelly told her that he prefers her with a little extra weight, the weight that she gained from her pregnancy and post pregnancy, he told her he likes, you know, the extra weight on her. Let me tell y'all something that is a red flag of a controlling narcissistic man. Whenever a man tries to change your appearance aesthetically. And I said this in my video yesterday, when I was speaking about a man who tries to stop you from wearing makeup, once you get in a relationship with him, he's a narcissist. Only narcissistic men will try to dim your light, water you down, downplay your beauty because he's insecure. He doesn't want other men to want you. First of all, he wants to keep you isolated from your lifestyle, the things that you enjoy doing, your hobbies, your girlfriends going out, all that, the things that make you who you are, your bubbly personality. Once you get into a relationship with an abusive, narcissistic man, he will stop all that ----, honey. So if you love wearing makeup and weave and nails, he'll stop you from wearing that, but he'll disguise it as concerned baby I love you and I just feel that you look more beautiful natural no honey he's insecure and he's in competition with you number one he knows you'll get more attention than him and he doesn't like the attention you get that's also signs of a DL man by the way hint hint but back to the emotional eating and I speak on this ladies I used to be married and now I'm divorced and you know I've been with a couple of narcissistic sociopathic men they all have the same pattern of behavior they all stopped me from dressing pretty and wearing makeup and as a result because I too am a emotional eater I was eating food because I was stressed out by the relationship but I was protecting that man and his image because I didn't want everybody in my personal business. I didn't want my family and friends to know that I was being abused behind closed doors. So the only thing that I could do to cope was to eat food and drink alcohol. Some women might smoke marijuana or pop pills, but a lot of black women, we eat, we are emotional eaters. And that comes from childhood, putting up with an abusive mother or abusive father, children who are helpless. they will eat. I always look at the children with eating disorders as a result of bad parenting and the parent being abusive. We carry that from childhood into our adulthood. So there are two people that I feel are stressing Ashanti. The first person is her mama. I think her mama is super controlling. Her mama is obsessed with managing Ashanti's life and booking concerts and shows and events because mama wants the money her mother is money hungry if you notice as soon as Ashanti gave birth to the baby she hasn't really had a chance to rest and enjoy motherhood she's back touring and doing shows with a baby even Beyonce took a ******* time out Beyonce took a couple years off Beyonce wasn't back out here and she's a hard-working woman but Beyonce took time off to enjoy her newborn babies Ashanti's mother is pimping her the **** out and working her like a mule after after the baby tell me if I'm lying mama is obsessed with getting that coin you understand so I think Ashanti is scared to set boundaries with her controlling narcissistic mother she's scared to piss her mama off she's scared of breaking the family up or what have you she knows that the family is depending on her they're riding on her back so Ashanti has this toxic loyalty to her mama and her mama stresses her out she will not call her mama out or put her mama in check or cut her mama off because she too is narcissistic and deeply codependent so I think Ashanti is an emotional eater which explains the weight gain the other person who is stressing Ashanti out is Nelly and like I said they think it's cute he's sitting up to sit he's sitting up there saying that he likes her with the extra weight no he don't he know when Ashanti broke up with him she leveled up and she was seen on the beach with a badass body in a bikini she was living her life on her terms looking good every ******* man wanted her Nelly knows that So what Nelly did, Nelly circled back around. He locked her down with marriage and a baby because she desperately wanted that. However, now he's convinced her that the extra weight gain looks good on her. No, no. Nelly don't want her back looking good. He don't want no other man to want her. And he wants to break her self-esteem. You could just tell in the interviews that he's a big child. He is a ******* man child. He doesn't want to take care of the baby. you know the baby's crying he already said it in the interview he's jealous of the ******* baby he stresses Ashanti out but again Ashanti laughs to prevent herself from crying and I do believe she's an emotional eater because emotional eating helps to disguise the pain it comforts you when you are stressed or in pain now like I said this video is not to bully Ashanti it's actually to educate women on what the early signs the red flags are of dealing with a narcissistic man don't get yourself locked down into something and trapped and then be stuck miserable and allow this man to dim your light and break your spirit and the same goes for your abusive controlling parents when your parents are narcissistic and you won't cut them off they will they will bring you down as well I will end this by saying when I got the courage to cut my mother and father and family members off and I stopped dealing with men and I used to be 300 pounds ladies listen to me the moment that I removed every abusive toxic family member and lover friend I cleared house and got rid of everybody I was able to focus and get my ass in the gym and get my body looking right I'm healthy I look good I feel amazing you cannot do any of this when you are surrounded by abusers family parents lovers friends you cannot because you are distracted by their toxicity pray for Ashanti I said what I said