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Hot topic this morning, Christy Sarah and her husband Desmond are getting a divorce. According to TMZ, she is filing for the divorce due to his infidelity. Are we surprised? Well, I'll speak for myself. I'm not shocked. I'm not surprised. I didn't follow these two. I was not a big fan. I've seen their videos. They're quite entertaining. but I'm going to give you my take, what my discernment says about this couple and why they're headed for divorce. And I, you know, I'm going to try to give a different explanation because everybody's saying the same thing over and over again, but you know, me, when I, when I break down things, it's always through a spiritual lens. And, um, it's a refreshing take on why we should not idolize these celebrity couples. Okay. The first thing that stood out to me when I got the backstory is both of them are Jehovah Witnesses, red flag, red flag. So if they both are Jehovah Witnesses, it means they come from families that are highly religious and highly religious families mom dad grandparents aunts uncles means a cult and where there is a cult there is a flock of narcissists so both of these young people um come from highly narcissistic families that pressured them to get married at a young age my understanding is they've been together they're like high school sweethearts so you know like Steph Curry I I should have ben did a video on Steph and Ayesha Curry it's the same thing Steph Curry and his his family and Ayesha's family they pressured them they they both have religious families they pressured Steph Steph on to uh marry her at a very young age they go all the way back i think to high school but when whenever i hear stories of people being born into these highly religious families that act like a cult all types of abuses going down behind closed doors so both these people i believe were bred into narcissistic families and also taught to carry the tradition and he's definitely giving narc dl vibes okay and it's alleged I'm hearing rumors that she caught him cheating with another man not a woman I don't know how true that is but that's what the streets are saying she caught him with a man so the first red flag is them being Jehovah Witnesses it says to me that their families are cult-like and they pressured them into marriage when you when you get married that young you don't have a chance to live life you don't have a chance to experience life she you know my understanding is she was a stay-at-home mom you know she had is it two children, one or two children. So, you know, what happens TikTok and social media happens and she starts to create stay at home mom content. Now he's a chef. He's a very good chef. I don't know who he's employed by. If it's a talent agency, she definitely probably is employed by a talent agency. Her numbers outnumber his, she has like 16 million followers on TikTok to his 1 million. And I bet he got that 1 million off of her. What I see here is a man jealous of his wife, a wife who was never supposed to outperform him, a wife who was never supposed to be more popular than him. He is a handsome guy, but you know, she's gorgeous and she's built a brand off of social media. So I'm sure the brand deals are coming in. The money is coming in. She's making more than him. So what I see here is a man that is highly insecure and feels emasculated by his wife's beauty her success the fact that she started out as a stay-at-home mom that is her role and she was never supposed to blow up and be this big and you know he had to humble her in the worst way this is what Papoose is doing to Remy do y'all see a pattern in these marriages these celebrity marriages when the wife outshines the husband he feels emasculated and then he turns the marriage into a competition because he's a narcissist okay so but he has to put on a front that he's a supportive husband he did the same thing with Christy we saw videos of him he'll play along with her he was a part of her skits he we thought he was a supportive husband whole time he was hating on her Papoose did it with Remy we thought Papoose was this good husband supportive husband loving and loyal whole time he was cheating on Remy putting his hands on Remy and then people are like oh my god not Papoose yes Papoose this is what a covert narcissist does in a marriage they put on a front that they're the world the world's best husband greatest husband supportive but they start abusing their wives behind closed doors because wifey is outshining him she's not doing it deliberately she loves her family she loves her husband if her husband falls on hard times she will carry the weight of her family on her back to support her husband until he gets on his feet but in his mind he's jealous and envious of that he doesn't see it that way he feels emasculated and he will begin to bully and punish his wife for outshining and outperforming him that's what i believe happened in this scenario she said this according to TMZ there is no chance you know no reconciliation it's an absolute no I'm getting a divorce which means it had to be really bad that's why I said he he was cheating on the DL with a man allegedly that's what the streets are saying and I don't blame her honey because you're not about to come home with no doo-doo on your peepee and then you're gonna put it in my hole and he's probably been doing it for a long time you know and she she she probably you know how you have a feeling but you just don't have the evidence but she finally got some real evidence and said uh-uh divorce okay this is narcissistic behavior we're going to see a pattern of this happening more and more stop idolizing relationships these happy families that put on for the for the social media they be fighting and carrying on the whole time behind closed doors and the new hustle is these stay-at-home moms are making content and getting paid because you gotta listen listen now a stay-at-home mom is is is next to a man's mother that's why these men mistreat their wives when their wives are stay-at-home moms he's looking at his wife more so as his mama he loses sexual and romantic attraction for his wife because she takes on the role of his mother okay subconsciously his wife becomes his mother that's why he goes in the streets and he cheats he lives a double lifestyle and he romanticizes and he he treats the side chick like wifey he gives the the side chick all this special treatment and romanticizes her and downplays the wife because his wife has taken on the role of his biological mother who abused him. I guarantee you his his family is abusive and so is hers. Her family groomed her to be with an abusive man and his family groomed him to be an abusive man, an abusive husband and to keep it all within the family. That's what Jehovah Witnesses do. And I, you know, it's not to be, you know, offend y'all. But that's the truth. That's the history. Every person that I know who came to me for life coaching, And, and was a part of like Jehovah witnesses or, um, a similar like seven day, uh, Adventist Pentecostal, those really religious, you know, families that are cult like this is what happens. This is what happens is she's not going to do the subservient wife role anymore. She said enough, this is a non-negotiable. I can't, I can't, I can't divorce. So that's my two cents. This is another Papoose, Remy Ma type situation where the wife emasculates the husband by default and he has to find a way to humble her so he cheats on her.