WHEN YOUR FAMILY CYBERSTALKS YOU, DO THIS… #narcissist #narcissisticabuse

My family will not stop cyber stalking me. They know I don't **** with them, but yet I catch them lurking all over my TikTok from fake accounts. I catch them on my Instagram. I catch them on my YouTube channel. Why won't my family stop cyber stalking me? I mean, they call me crazy. They call me mentally ill, unhinged. Why would you want to watch someone you deem mentally ill? Why would you stalk them all day? I'll tell you why. I have so many clients and people, you know, they come to me for advice about their toxic family members, their toxic relatives. And, you know, especially those that are trying to build a business. You know, if you're a small business owner, an entrepreneur, and you're trying to build up your business page, whether it's on facebook you might be a social media content creator like myself and you know um on your journey to you know building your small business and and all your dreams and goals your family turned their back they didn't support ---- along your journey when you was in college them motherfuckers they they they didn't go to your graduation they didn't care okay and some of y'all got children and they jumped ship when you needed support with your children and you ended up raising your children all by yourself you know and and and somehow you pulled yourself up out of the hole despite all the challenges in life despite all the road maps um the obstacles goals you persevered you did it without the help of your family god made a way you talking to somebody who's been there honey i have been homeless and pulled myself up sleeping in homeless shelters a homeless shelter right around the corner from where my mother lived in albany new york my mother used to live on 88 clinton avenue and i stayed in a women's home and homeless shelter right around the corner from my mother's house she didn't give a **** she put me out I was in between college young 20 something year old I think I was barely 20 evil ass bitch put me out in the streets just because just because she enjoyed seeing me suffer she enjoyed seeing me struggle didn't like the fact that I even got accepted to a black college and while I was in college I bought a car she hated the fact that I had a car and then when I fell fell behind on my payments she called the car company and had them repossess the car she didn't help me with the payments but she made sure to let them people know hey this is where you can find my daughter she could take her car from her while I was in college that's the type of ---- I'm talking about that woman did everything in her power to cripple me if she couldn't control me she wanted to see me down and out and in the streets. I stayed in a women's homeless shelter right around the corner from my mother's apartment in Albany, New York. And let me tell y'all something. I didn't ask her or beg her for ----. I got up out that shelter. I got my very first apartment. I got a state government job that I have held on to for 25 years. And I bought a car and I put myself through college. She's pissed. Bitch never showed up to my college graduations. I have two degrees. I have a bachelor's and a master's. Bitch didn't show up, didn't so much send a card or nothing. She was mad that I persevered and made it despite her attempts to sabotage my life. And I did it with a baby. that's even the the if you have a child your family you know act like they happy see my daughter was the first grandbaby it was oh my goodness I'm going to be a grandmother oh my goodness I can't wait to do the baby shower acting all happy and fake and phony but once the baby got here it was time to sabotage Chanel it was time to sit back and watch Chanel break her neck being a single mother. Let's take the support away from her. I want to control her and the grandbaby, but if my, if Chanel chooses to go against my control, my authority, I'm going to cripple her while she is trying to take care of my grandchild. I will turn my back on her and my grandchild. I will call child protective services to make her life a living hell. I will do everything to sabotage my daughter so folks you let me tell y'all something it had you know it took me many many attempts to figure this ---- out I said when I involve my family into my life I don't succeed I struggle but the moment I cut my family off I elevate even with a child as a struggling single mother I got more accomplished after I cut my family off I finished school got my bachelor's and master's they didn't show up I sent an invite out and they said what they did they sent one family member and she showed up two hours late to my graduation gave me a card here congratulations here's this on behalf of family okay bet I bet you I won't invite y'all motherfuckers to nothing else the important thing was my little girl my daughter was at both my graduations that's all that mattered to me is that my daughter could look up to her mother and see her mother is not a failure her mother with all the challenges presented against me she she could see that mom pushed through mom got her degree mom ignored all the haters you know even though family turned their backs mom still kept going. My daughter knows her mother ain't no punk ass bitch. And my daughter knows that I'm more successful than my mother and sister combined. They both did not finish school. They both sit up and they talk so trashy about people like they're better than, but they're not more successful than me. And now my daughter is a young adult and she can see the truth for what it is and how bad my mother and sister attempted to sabotage me wanted me to fail now they're stalking now they're stalking and here's where i'm going to help you okay if you're going to be on social media building a business or if you're going to be a social media content creator and you are constantly worried about what your family thinks of you if they're stalking you if they're you know um passing judgment on the things that you post, if they're talking about how you look, what your hair look like, your skin, all that, you're not built for it. Don't even do it. Don't even do it. If you're not ready for criticism from your family, don't jump in the game. You're not built for it. You need to say, you need to keep a low profile and go to therapy and work on your self-esteem issues until you get strong enough to put yourself out there. Let me tell you something. If you cannot take criticism off your family, how are you gonna take criticism from total strangers? You don't think I've been cyber bullied by total strangers, men and women? You don't think I've had people make all types of horrible threats against my life and my daughter's life? Yeah, but you know what? It's because I survived my family that I built up a thick skin And I can handle that type of ----. I can handle a stranger coming for me on, on, you know, the internet. I can handle cyber bullies. I can handle cyber stalkers. I'm a beast. I end up bullying the motherfuckers that try to bully me and I make them feel like crap. I make them regret ******* with me. You can't bully me. I will out bully you bitch and send you underneath a ******* rock. And thanks to my family, they were my first bullies. That's where I got the boot camp training from. So let me tell you something. Who cares if they stalking you? Don't bother blocking. You block them, they're going to keep making fake pages. All you got to do is keep being successful. Keep building your followers, your community. Keep glowing up. They will see it. Then they'll sit back. You know, they'll be the ones to promote you. You got to utilize your hate-ass family. They're going to give you free promotion or free marketing. They're going to be the ones out here spreading the gossip about you. And all it's going to do is work in your favor to promote you. You understand me? So let them lurk. Let them stalk. You are a mirror and they hate you because you are reflecting back to them their toxic traits and they don't want to work on themselves. Shit on them. Shit on them. Ignore them. If you ain't built for it, stay out the ******* way. and stay in therapy till you are ready.