THEY FAILED WHEN THIS HAPPENED ‼️

Do y'all know that song? I've been drinking more alcohol for the past five days. Did you check on me? This is a song right here. It's Monday night, y'all. We're back at it, survivors. Shout out to my warrior gang, to my family of thrivers. It's a new week for us, y'all. Hope y'all are doing amazing. Hope y'all are doing amazing, amazing. I'm so happy to be here with you all. thank you for taking this time to join me on my monday night live i hope your weekend was great i hope everything is good i hope that you know you're waking up feeling more empowered obtaining more strength to go through this i hope this be a new week a better week a more thriving week i'm here to talk to you today as you notice the chat is off that's intentional i want you to be intentional about this conversation today be intentional about how you feel as you listen to this today be intentional about what you're thinking as I talk to you I want to discuss with you today because many of you are in the same position as me you you were forced to be a thriver you were forced to be a thriver because their plans against you failed they thought they had you they thought they were going to ruin you they aimed to destroy and kill you but it didn't work somehow you're standing you're here right now you you made it you are a survivor now thriving from victim to survivor now you are a thriver shout out to you shout out to you big hug to anybody going through it if you're new here what's up this is mommy soju take a moment to subscribe to the channel like the video if it resonates leave a comment if there's something on your heart you want to share with others or with me i'd love to hear from you today i want to talk to those who are just like me many of you you're just like me you you are literally like a spiritual brother and sister and I want to talk to you because there's something that happened that made whatever assignment they had to pull and destroy it ended it made it fail of what they plotted against you came to a stop when this happened this very thing happened that caused that narcissist to fall flat on their face because their intention was to reel you in enough to try to break you but you're not that breakable a little bendable but you're not easy to break not easy to crack and they failed when this happened i'm gonna talk more in depth about what this is how did they fail what happened what are you talking about Mama Soju just give me your ears and your heart for a couple minutes just give me your mind for a couple of minutes because i have to be truthful have to be open bravery that's that's that's my dna courageous i was born to do that i'm a child of god i represent god there is nothing scary about me i mean i i'm fearless and i walk that way proudly and confidently some take it as cockiness that's their problem some take it as you know big head no stop i just know who i am i know i'm the bomb dot com i know i'm the she is naive okay and a lot of y'all can say the same thing this is not to say that you're the best yeah i mean yeah hypothetically speaking of course you're not better than anybody you're not putting yourself on a pedestal you don't belong on you're putting yourself right where you belong when you know who you are and you're confident in who you are you know the value that you have you know you're worth like for real for real you can talk like that with full confidence no conviction and a lot of you in my community are just like me you ain't nobody's sucker you ain't nobody's doormat nobody's puppy and toxic dark people not narcissistic people they come pulling their little raggedy asses in your life thinking that you're gonna put up with them for the rest of your life and this is where a lot of these narcissistic idiots get life completely twisted because that's not how this goes and that is exactly why a lot of them failed are failing and will fail the biggest indication that a narcissist has failed they discard it it's painful to be discarded oh it is because you're confused when you don't understand what it is you don't understand who's who it is and why they're doing it to you it's painful it doesn't make sense huh let me tell you you're dealing with a weak powerless demonically influenced creature that makes them a coward the clown that you now see full blown is a clown is truly a clown in heart and spirit and mind full-blown demonic clown oh my god you were never supposed to figure it out i'm gonna tell you that right now survivor you were never supposed to figure it out you were never supposed to connect the dots as soon as you did even if you did a little bit they failed their attempts to try to keep you in their narcissistic mess didn't seem to work out they eventually discarded or you had to walk out that door you had to walk away you had to seal the deal they're not that smart many are clever but very very very damn dumb many narcissists might be a little smart about certain things but where it matters how to be a human being they have no common sense they're all foolishness that's why they operate like fools they think like fools they move like fools you'll sit there and you'll look at them like wow did you really just make that dumb ass move wow are you really acting like a child wow you are not a person of action you're all talk wow let me tell you some of the things or really let me scratch that let me tell you three main things that made them fail these three things happened and they failed at keeping you stuck in their narcissistic matrix they failed at snatching your soul that's what they tried to do they tried to suck your soul they tried to take the good in you and replace it with bad because that's what they are they tried to make you a replica of them but they failed when this happened they tried to break you and strip you completely naked and humiliate and embarrass you in front of your family your friends your job because they're so envious of who you are it felt good to tear you down and see you down see you cry see you go without see you beg and plead for them to love you and treat you with respect but they failed when this the number one thing that is when that light bulb went off in your head and you got that that powerful confirmation that I do not have to put up with this I don't have to put up with this person. I don't have to put up with this crap I don't have to put up with nothing about you. I don't have to be nice. I don't have to sit around and take it. I don't have to, you know, let my empathy make excuses for your traumas and your past and your issues. That light bulb moment when you found the courage to pay attention to the bad character the flawed character the poor character that they had and you said I am not dealing with this anymore there's no way I'm gonna sit here and allow you to do me however say whatever you want lie to me any kind of way and think that I'm going to keep taking you back giving you chance after chance that light bulb moment went off and you said okay Maya Angelou did say that when somebody showed you who they are the first time believing everything you ever knew became clear you were like oh my god i knew that i knew that hold on now you're looking back you're like hold on i've been putting up with mess from somebody who is incapable of ever really changing hold on i've been dealing with somebody who will never get it you're so childish you're so immature highly annoying it's all about you what you want is all that matters and that light bulb goes off in your head and you're like hold on it I am literally settling I am literally settling for for someone who's a poor communicator someone who's a toxic communicator those are the the narcissist that keep you on the phone want to keep you talking all day all the time just to keep you distracted just to you know program you to be their dummy that moment goes off and you realize what am I doing what the hell am I doing why am I dealing with this person this person is a coward this person is a liar there's no way they love me because their actions speak so much louder than their freaking words this person is using this person has been gaslighting me when i knew this whole time they are a cheater this person oh my god that light bulb moment that first indication that they have failed this happened you had a light bulb you connected some dots that you didn't connect before this is the moment where you changed the lenses you had on you were wearing lenses that showed you that everyone's just like you everyone's nice everyone's sweet but you had a moment dealing with this fool you had a moment you had to wake up and realize wait a minute why why do i go through this oh it's because there's different type of people people have different type of personalities that light bulb moment it puts you on to knowledge it educated you and by doing that empowerment empowerment comes in empowerment comes in if you know like i know there's nothing more badass than an educated empath there's nothing more amazing than a chosen one who have embraced their gift their purpose and is ready to walk in it unapologetically someone who has full control of their life there's nothing more amazing than that the second thing that happened they failed because this second thing happened shout out to my warriors man i am realizing more and more and more that a lot of victims of narcissistic abuse are some strong people matter of fact most victims of narcissistic abuse although target because initially we're just seen as this you know this voluntary doormat most of us are a lot more powerful and strong than people think they just have to pull that ---- out of us you got to step on my heart enough for me to basically just kind of what is the word resuscitate yeah just wake up and be like whoa okay let me hang that nice ---- up because you don't deserve that you don't deserve that version of the second thing that happened was that you went against them and no longer agreeing with your narcissistic demands and many of you you never were and if that's you hit that like button that's the reason why they did you so dirty they couldn't stand how strong you was they couldn't stand that mouth they couldn't stand your comebacks they could not stand how strong you were they were never expecting it i don't know why they thought they could break you in the beginning because they sensed your strength and they still was up for that challenge but you ended up leaving that grease on their face but the second reason why it failed is because when this happened that narcissist panicked you went against him no more moving when they move this ain't ludicrous when i move you move just like that no hell yeah hey dj stop that track this ain't that i don't move when you move i don't move on your terms i don't live how you want me to live this is the moment where you become empowered and you start to live again because NPD abuse will have you forgetting that you actually have a badass body you need to be on the beach showing off okay NPD abuse will have you somewhere starving knowing damn well you are a great cook and better yet you like to eat good food gourmet food but you've been so messed up beat up depressed that you're not even living your best life they'll have you sitting somewhere ugly as hell when you need to be in somebody's magazine posing ain't nothing ugly about you nothing ugly about you you ain't gonna see that until you step out of the matrix though because trust me on when on the other side of it the other end of it you notice that they're they called you ugly because they're ugly as **** they've been they've been messing with your physique trying to make you fat they've been depressing you making you fat intentionally a lot of y'all don't realize that man that woman got you eating got you stressing so they can use it against you every time you get in the fight now they're calling you fat and you know what that's doing is breaking your self-esteem down it's keeping you stuck in the matrix this is why you gotta become unbothered yeah i gained 50 pounds yeah i'm a little heavy now i'm a little thicker than i was when you met me but i know that it's because of you and now that i know that it's because of you i'm gonna get my ass up and start working out i'm gonna change my diet they start to panic because you've gone against them you're not living by their rules anymore you're taking your life back that takes me to my third my third point you took your power back they failed when this happened you took your power back however you did it you did it slowly you did it but you did it you did it they weren't ready for it they didn't see it coming they weren't supposed to because they're idiots they thought that you were very manipulable they thought that you were just so easy going that they could easily come and sabotage your whole soul they can easily come and just shake your whole world and it doesn't work it does not work like that they failed when this happened you remembered who you are and that's part of number three you remembered who you are you took your power back you took control over the whole situation for some of you that became very scary for that narcissist now they're calling you controlling hey professor i want to control you my whole life is now calling you controlling because you calling ---- out and you're saying it how you want it you're laying expectations straight no chase because enough become it has become enough you're tired you ain't sugarcoating not listening to them ramble their mouth no more i want to see it and now you become this woman who is hard to please this man who is controlling no that's not what it is you mad because i stepped up you mad because i had to show you that what you thought i was i'm not that i never was and you're mad because i put you in your place when you take your power back you're putting that narcissist in your place this is why they discard you this is why they walk away this is why they dog you out your strength your strength is annoying they failed when these things when these things happened number one you woke up that light bulb moment went off I don't have to put up with this I'm not dealing with you not dealing with your family either I didn't marry you and your family hell no I don't have to take care of your kids they're not mine that might be harsh but it's the real it's the reality they didn't give a damn when you were putting your all into them and their children just for them to treat you they don't like they don't care just for them to take all of it for granted they wasted your life sitting there watching you help them with their life and their kids meanwhile they looked at you as a weak person and they got you all the way messed up you just have to wake up and recognize that this person's character is trash and that they thought you were you were stupid and trash too so you know they tried to pull you in but it didn't work you have to change the narrative you have to change the narrative so number two like i said you went against them that's why many of you the narcissist just to smear your name they left and they moved on and they did they got so much stuff to say about you because you went against them you were not with their ---- you were not going for the games you were not easily manipulative like that so yeah you're gonna see my name yeah you're gonna go and talk to talk tell everybody what you think you know about me because a lot of the smear campaign is bullshit it's lies it's stuff that's made up and a lot of it is it's them they're But they're telling a version of the story with them being the victim when you know the truth. That's why you got to be unbothered and not let that kind of stuff even bother you. It's like, who cares? Who cares? Because number three, I'm taking my power back. I know who I am. I know who I am. You're that irrelevant. They fail when you are able to stand your ground and stand firm as this being because you're not a victim. You're nobody's dummy. You're nobody's puppet. And if you don't take your life back, if you don't snatch your life back, if you don't let these people see that you are a child of God and you're not to be played with, be firm in your knows, be straight in your boundaries. Don't tolerate or settle for nothing that's unbefitting for you. Trust me, they will fail. All of their plans against you will fail. Once you step into this zone, everything kind of falls into your face. They get exposed. Things start coming out. Secrets start coming out. you start to discover how disgusting of a person this was and you start to really wonder what's life going to be like now after this because i i i deserve better i know i know what i know now i see what i see now and i cannot unsee it the victory is ours a lot of these people we've dealt with in our lives you and i they've been defeated no matter how hard the journey might be trying to heal they have been defeated they could not destroy you they bent you a little bit because they lied to you they bent you a little bit like this you got bent a little bit like that a little bit like this but look at that it comes right back that thing is that thing is rubber you can bend it you can do all kind of stuff it comes right back this is a crazy example but it's the closest thing to me this is you that represents your resilience like you can do all you want to you can hurt me you can dent me you can bend me you can do you know jab me here punch me here mess my credit up take some money, aim to destroy my self-esteem. But when I wake up and snatch my power back, you have failed. You've lost because it didn't work. Your pain, the pain you caused was so temporary and even more powerful. They allowed you to mess around and heal. Oh my God. Many of you, you're going to be thrivers for the rest of your life. You have learned something that's going to make you the best version of yourself that you could have ever been because you dealt with people who you tried to pour into and make them the best version of their self. But they used your love as a joke they literally played you for trying to love on them and all you did was you really just felt sorry for them you're such an empath that you literally felt sorry for them you love everybody you love unconditionally a lot of us we can't help who we are we have to wake up some of us have to wake up and if that's you take your power back snatch your power back keep your power keep thriving y'all a lot of you that's just who you are and it's never going to change because they did what they did and it woke you up you could never sleep on yourself again they failed because that happened the relationship happened the experience happened and it forced you to come to this community where you are drawn with others that went through the same thing where you're finding education that's life changing they failed now you can change this dynamic for your children and generations to come because they failed man they failed and it's a beautiful victorious moment for you survivor keep shining survivor i am so appreciative of all of you taking this moment to listen to me on today i am looking forward to going live several times this week so stay tuned i am looking forward to share a few things with you all this week so stay tuned thank you for listening thank you for taking this moment to to pour into yourself because that's what you're doing watching this video you're literally pouring into yourself because you're ready to thrive you're ready to move on you know what you know now and it's a game changer it's a game changer okay oh i am just so blessed to be here honored to know you and i am with you keep thriving keep going i'll see you soon if you haven't already like comment subscribe to the channel i'll see you later make sure you hit the notification bell so you don't miss my weekly posts and videos i just wanted to take a few moments of your time this evening share with you that because of your strength the narcissist failed at what narcissists are good at they're good at keeping people broken that is not you you changed the narrative and i am so proud of you if you're struggling if you need support if you need assistance i'm here as a life coach for you information to book sessions is in the description box if you're interested in my true merchandise information is in the description box thank you so much guys until next time beautiful people stay blessed and stay true