What it’s like to Date a Social Media Influencer #influencer

As someone who is a huge social media influencer, this is my advice if you're going to get out here and date. My advice is don't. I don't waste my time because it's like, it's a no-win situation. That's all I will say. I personally, if I go out on a date, I don't like to tell my date that I am big i'm famous on social media i don't tell them that because once you once you tell somebody that they they will want to look you up and number two they'll start treating you differently and they'll also assume this is this is the crazy ---- right here they'll assume that you will talk about them on your social media you will tell all y'all personal business about them on your social media and in my case that hasn't been no now I'll speak about an experience but I'll speak about it in a way that I won't expose who the person was in that experience I'll keep the person anonymous but I'll talk about the experience that's different now if I get on here and I start naming names and calling out ---- and and this that and the third okay but I've been doing this content stuff for like seven eight years I don't release names I don't release names I'll talk about an experience but bitch I will never allow you the opportunity to clout chase off my motherfucking name and in terms of you ever did me dirty or you didn't treat me right you mishandled me whether I was in a relationship with you or I was on a first date with you you mishandled me you had me in the palm of your hands and you ******* mishandled me I will never give you an opportunity to shine, to shine or clout off my name. I will not mention your name or expose who you are. You're not worth it. It is very hard to date when you are a huge social media influencer because the person that you want to, you know, hopefully find, they have to be very secure within themselves. They have to trust you. They have to understand that you are literally a public figure. I don't want to say celebrity. I don't like the word celebrity. You are a massive public figure. I have a global fan base, which means I can go to Europe. I can go to Asia. I can go anywhere in the world. And I have fans. I have supporters. I don't like the word fans, supporters. I have people that love and support me. People that have bought my books from Australia to Japan he has to be secure knowing that you have a global fan base another thing he has to be secure about is that yeah men are going to be in your dms especially if you're attractive you're beautiful I don't like to brag about myself but hey I'm naturally beautiful without makeup yes the men are in the dms 100 i'd be ******* lying if i said they were not however it's not an issue of how many men are dming me and trying to get with me the issue is am i entertaining these men am i replying to their inbox their dms i'm not replying i simply block I go down and block all of them. But this is hard to explain to a man that's insecure. He's not going to see it that way. He's going to be like, oh, you a big time social media influencer. You got all these niggas trying to holler at you. No, honey, I don't entertain. There's a difference. It's one thing for a man to try to get at me. It doesn't mean I have to entertain him. I don't have to give out my phone number. I don't have to agree to anything. I don't have to respond to him. somehow this is hard to explain to men who want to date you it really it's so challenging i i've done i've been through this before and i'm just like i'm exhausted explaining this if you were secure i would hand you my phone i would give you my passcode and let you go through my inbox so you could see you could block the niggas for me but again i've not met somebody secure enough to put themselves in that position you know but a secure dude wouldn't even want to touch your phone he would just trust you that's that's all I'm saying it shouldn't even get to that extent where you have to turn over your phone and your passcode that's too much that's doing too much but my word should be enough and then you got to deal with the people from your past especially your exes because they they you know when you was with your exes you wasn't this big time social media influencer and they took you for granted they treated you like a regular joe schmo they cheated on you and did you dirty now that you broke up with them it it hurts their ego to know that it took you breaking up with them to level up that that hurts their ego so they're sitting there watching you like damn this bitch blew the **** up after she left me what does that say about me i was holding her back from being her best self her higher self i gotta get her back because if i get if I'm able to get her back I'm gonna **** all her ---- up so that I could be on top again no you never entertain your exes I don't believe if you cheated on me you'll never get a second chance I do not you cheat on me and I find out you had unprotected sex you kissed you dated you went out with somebody behind my back baby it's over you will never get a second chance to spin the block on me ever so as a social media influencer you're gonna have to deal with your exes. And, you know, if you're going to seek out a new relationship, a new experience and date somebody new, whoever he is, he's got to be incredibly secure. And not just that you and him got to be locked in because if he never accept a situation ship, I will never. And to the men watching my page, don't ever try to offer me that ----. I don't care how much I like you, how much i'm into you i don't care how great we can have an amazing first date you propose to me a situationship bitch i will block you without blinking matter of fact if you treat me special on the first date let's just say we even have sex i give you the opportunity to hit it and then the next day it takes you seven eight hours to text me what's up how you doing love bitch you're blocked You switched your energy because before I gave you the time of day before I even agreed to dating you or sleeping with you, your energy was different. You was blowing up my FaceTime. You was blowing up my text messages. Then you want to switch up afterwards. Blocked. OK, so I don't know. Like, like dating is hard, but as a big time social media influencer, it's even harder. if you want somebody really genuine somebody that's going to hold you down somebody that's secure they ain't worried about all these niggas out here trying to get with you somebody you can get money with oh my god I want somebody that I can make money he's in my corner helping me the stuff that I've built on my own because I've built an empire by myself but I want somebody that's going to help me flip it so that we can make double and quadruple he ain't worried about niggas trying to get with me because I'm already his and we're locked in we're together every day of the week I'm secure I can be soft and feminine because he's being a leader he's a planner he's a leader he's planning the dates he's he's he's being a masculine man and taking charge and I just feel like so soft and and I don't gotta worry about ---- when I'm with him I'm laid back he got everything taken care of that's all it is but you can't do that when a nigga is insecure the moment a man gives you a red flag that you know don't let him mistreat you don't let you know he's texting and facetiming you and he's he's on top of things and then the moment you date him or start sleeping with him he switches up block him he's not for you the the moment that he starts acting insecure about other niggas potentially DMing you or already DMing you, block him because that comes with being a content creator. The men are going to be on you. It's whether or not you're entertaining them he should be worried about and you know it's just it's just hard y'all. It's better to stay single and get your money because men complicate things for you. You know you want some you want somebody that's going to make things easier for you in your entire situation so that you could keep making money and growing up and doing better, not the opposite.