When The setback was actually a SET UP they never saw coming

They be mad because I be calling them the demons that they are. It's okay. Part two. Let's go. Still going to thrive through this message. You heard. It's still winning warrior Wednesday. You heard. You dig. You mad demons. It's okay. Y'all don't stop. Y'all don't stop with nothing. If anything, now I'm even more pumped. Y'all pray for me. I need to. I need to. Good Lord, deliver me from exposing these ducks. Okay. i ain't gonna stop i don't care it is what it is they mad because i called them the devil y'all i told y'all they always cut me off but i'ma always come back the devil don't like it they mad because i called them the demons that they are it's okay it's okay me i just come back every time and do it again over and over over and over again anybody else on the internet makes them as mad as me but it's okay because this doesn't make sense to me they be mad they be mad they do not like they do not like what i'll be calling them but the more y'all do this the more i'm gonna call y'all what y'all are so cheers to that you know be mad die mad i don't care thank you for letting the show be even more more entertaining because every time i get cut off it just confirms the truth is being told and it's like whatever whatever let them die mad the truth hurts the target it's crazy y'all it's like dang i mean at this point i brace myself for it every time i go live i do i do it's like you know what this how y'all want to play okay okay y'all want to interrupt my lives and cause distraction that's that's literally what the devil do distract oh how pathetic you are eh you mad because i called you the devil you are this happens nowhere else on youtube i know i've never seen this happen to anybody i've seen a couple lives here and there i have never seen this and the frequency is just crazy to me at this point i know youtube is the one who hacks me yeah i said it youtube i said it the owner of youtube must hate me because he's a narcissist or something i don't know youtube google all y'all are narcs i don't i don't know but whatever I'm just gonna tell my truth y'all can just all die mad it is what it is it's still winning warrior Wednesday okay they can't stop that they can't stop that they can be mad all they want to y'all what they don't realize is I'm a warrior I just bounce back unapologetically I'ma do it and I'ma do it even harder every time so it's like y'all doing that don't do nothing but pump me up so I appreciate the pump up i do i do i must be that important little old me i didn't know i was that important y'all damn little old me i'm not even trying to be important i'm not trying tell my little truth and go to sleep who cares no narcissist formed against me shall prosper though, yep, chosen by God, you on point, no weapon formed against us shall prosper ever ever ever ever, they mad oh my God, it's okay, I'm gonna wait, I'm gonna let people, I'm gonna let people try to get back on, give them a moment, but it's all right though, the thing is they cut me off but they have the audacity to put the replay on the channel, so you're gonna catch the replay that's how I know it's intentional, because if it was cut off like not by them, it would have disappeared but it never disappears, they always let the replay replay, like make it make sense, they just, they just uh, poor little Tink Tink, for real, these are little demon babies with bald heads, it's okay, just tap them on for a little Tink Tink slap you on your shiny bald demon head, the show must go on man, it's all right, I ain't tripping, but um no for real though, so I'm gonna pick up where I left off, I was trying to go through the comments so I could catch what y'all were saying, thank y'all for the super chat, Dominic Morris says we back as we continue thriving always and forever, this is the Warriors Network man, you, you might bend us you might hurt us, but you can't break us over here, they're gonna be madder every time they try to put a sister down and she popped back up I'm worse than a cat with nine lives, I serve a living God, I serve a God who brought Jesus back from the dead, honey so every time they think they killed me keep seeing me again and again and again crucified who let me stop before they really get mad let me stop i'm gonna let me be a little i'm gonna i'm gonna spare them just a little bit this on target i appreciate you thank you so much i guess i'm that important because this is crazy to me it's like damn y'all be that mad i'm not even i ain't even talking about jesus christ today they get mad it don't matter what i could say i could just come sit up here and just fart all day and they'll cut my lives off damn narcissists are some haters y'all they are they are your biggest haters brother hi man i appreciate you i appreciate you what's up smooth jazz in the house how you doing jazz so good to see you tonight oh my god so okay i was talking about my love life wounds right one of the setbacks if you missed the list of the setbacks go back to part one of the live it got cut off but i named off a couple things um you know just referring to the setback that became a set up the setback that became a set up oh i love that chosen by god said i serve a god of war all right all right i'm gonna stop i'm gonna stop i'm gonna stop um here's the spiritual truth though about these love life wounds right sometimes you don't attract the same person again you you attract the same unmet need if you're listening carefully I'm connecting you the set the setback in a setup right I said oh man the setback going through toxic relationships meeting narc after narc dealing with narc this narc that and and and for me personally I'm gonna make a confession because I haven't always dated narcissists I've encountered many of them but it seemed like I always chose the narcissist because I had opportunities to date other type of men men in different class different statuses men with high degrees professional men but I always somehow went for the damn narcissist because just like I said the spiritual truth with the with the life wound here is that sometimes you don't attract the same person again just because you you attract the same unmet need there is something within us that needed to be dealt with and that's how i ended up that's how i ended up transmuting this pain into purpose because what was intended to set me back which was those love lives those pathetic narcissistic relationships ended up becoming a set up for me to learn how to love myself value myself okay that was a big set up a setup for growth a setup for involvement smooth jazz thank you so much send a laughing disco i appreciate the gift you guys are hilarious but no like real real real it was a setup so i said all i listed all these things about the setback because i just want to give you an idea of what I mean when I say look, actually at the end of the day these setbacks that you have as a result of dealing with narcissistic fools end up being a setup, the kind that nobody saw coming especially you, especially you, okay now I'm gonna stop analyzing and I'm gonna start translating a little bit, every setback can become a setup when you ask the right question, okay I'm gonna ask a couple questions, well I'm gonna start with one the questions that change everything, that take some of the questions that that kind of started hitting, started hitting my spirit that transmuted the setback to a setup. One of them was, what is this teaching me that I can finally use for my freedom? That might've went over somebody's head. What is this teaching me that I can finally use for my freedom? So let's go back to that mental fog. Fog forces you to slow down and rebuild your thinking. The setback was the mental fog. Yeah, the confusion. But at some point, all of that fog forced you to slow down and rebuild your thinking instead of trusting someone else's reality you start to build your own so the setback is now becoming a setup, are you get, are you getting this I'm gonna give somebody something they need to practice, I want you to make a mini list just just make a small list, facts I know for sure versus things I feel unsure about, somebody needs to do that little practice for their self because clarity is the antidote to gaslighting. If you are still dealing with narcissistic fools situations, the trauma bond, whatever it is, and you're still having issues with gaining clarity, you need to start making certain little lists. You need to start writing certain things down. And one of those things is you need to differentiate what's the facts and what's the truth. What's the reality and what am I believing that I was told is a fact or that I was told was the truth, if I write it down and I look at it on paper, I should be able to identify what was set up by a narcissist because it was lies. They poisoned me to believe this versus what is the reality, what I know to be true. Because you need to start reframing your mind, reprogramming the way you think. Because that mental fog is intended to set you back mentally. It's intended to fill you with confusion. It's intended to distort your thoughts. mess with your reasoning but it's also a setup for you to gain clarity being a warrior eventually all that mental fog it becomes so frustrating so tiring and so draining that you start to rebuild the way you think a lot of y'all started rebuilding the way you think that's why you ended up in this type of a community you had enough of the mental fog you were like you know what i'm so sick and tired of being confused i'm so sick and tired of feeling like i'm crazy that i i gotta figure this thing out and you got the getting on google you got you you done jumped on youtube and then here comes mommy so true i mean so true you're like who the hell is this girl and clarity just started kicking in let me know if i'm lying the warrior inside of you started started forcing you to rebuild your thinking you started looking at the situation so differently you started looking at it so differently that you gained enough clarity to gain strength to finally walk away let me know if i'm lying because gaslighting tried to make your brain a flip-flop now you're giving it solid ground ain't no more flipping around like a like a cheap ass sandal from from dollar tree when you started rebuilding your thinking you gave your brain solid ground now everything they were doing all their tactics became obvious now they became predictable to the point where you are now the warrior sitting back laughing at the clown show because you see it as a clown show now everything they convinced you to believe they were good at and better than and uh and and you know they held things above your head now now it's a clown show now you realize oh wow wow i get it this person is a whole joke they were performing they are performing they are masterful at what they do oh i get it this is when you stopped reacting because you realize that they enjoyed sitting back watching you act all crazy emotionally break down yelling fussing going back and forth having text wars these psychopaths love that they love when you waste your energy your breath your time trying to make sense of their their confused chaotic world that's why a lot of y'all have become their their nightmare you're a walking nightmare to a narcissist because they cannot get you to ever react how they used how they were used to you reacting what a loser now let's talk about because now so right now we're talking about the setups part one we were into the setbacks now we're talking about the setups so we just talked about the setup of the mental fog how it went from being a set a setback to a setup yeah i was so i was so mentally fogged out that now yeah right I see right through that you ain't about to confuse me with y'all tactics because guess what I'm educated I know exactly what you're doing and what you're not doing ain't no mental fog over here you're not about to confuse me about nothing so let me jump into number two before they cut us off again because y'all know they be hating let me see I got a super chat from Fatty Benz 1379 she said I walk away for for another continent but emotionally it was so hard to cut off still working on myself it's okay you took a major step by moving away far far away she said another continent i went to a whole nother part of the world goddamn that's a big deal matter of fact i'm clapping for you warrior oh i ain't even got no oh girl i got so thick my muscles is gone lord hey okay let me stop oh lord okay set set up number two self-doubt y'all remember we talked about the the setback of the self-doubt right the self the set the setup of self-doubt becomes a setup for self-trust warriors from self-doubt to self-trust do you know a narcissist don't want nothing to do with somebody who trusts they self they can't even get in they can't even get in how you gonna get in if i trust myself because if i trusted myself to begin with i would have never married a narcissist because the moment i laid eyes on them i knew something was off and i still messed with the fool they would have never even got my damn phone number they would have never pulled me in no courthouse if i was to trust my so the setback was the self-doubt even before the narc because i told you raised by narcissistic families so guess what i i had i had a a deep install of self-doubt questioning myself doubting myself doubting what i felt doubting my intuition how dare I doubt what the Holy Spirit is trying to tell me and trying to lead me but I did that was the setback having a narcissistic parent taught me how to not love myself how to not trust myself that's why it was easy for a narcissist to come in wiggle their way through but all that self-doubt even through the narcissistic relationship the self-doubt that was that was formed it turned into self-trust when I woke up and tapped into my warrior mode see self-doubt is evidence you were trained to question yourself so now your healing mission is rebuilding self-trust how many of my thrivers out there had to rebuild self-trust how many out there is trying to work on that now it's okay whatever side of the fence you are on it's okay you're still loved you're still a warrior a warrior still got to go through some kind of training. Self-trust. I'm going to add another exercise for those of you who want it. Just a one-minute exercise. Try the three-question reset. The first question is, what do I feel in my body? This is you practicing how to self-trust again. What do I feel in my body? The second question is, what facts support my decision? We're talking about self-trust. The third is, if I trust myself, what would I do next? When you have moments of self-doubt, ask yourself these questions. start training yourself to self-trust again because with the with these type of exercises what you're doing is you're not ignoring your feelings you're leading them you're leading them sometimes we think our feelings don't matter and that leads to self-doubt sometimes what you feel matters so much it can save your life like i said your intuition that's a guide some of y'all don't even understand the beauty of the gift you have you're you're so intuitive you're not just some empath you are you are a gift your intuition is a guide god is literally your main lead he is ordering your steps the spirit speaks to you all day all night and you're around people who can't stand your intuitive ass and they keep trying to distract and confuse you and make you doubt yourself some of y'all you're so gifted that when you don't listen to yourself it leads you to problems it leads you to trouble it leads you into the hands of narcissists or narcissistic mess and chaos and then you sit back and you're like i knew i shouldn't have done that or i knew i should have did this let's go into setup number three you remember the setback of feeling behind now that becomes a setup for your timeline oh let me talk about that just a little bit here feeling behind feeling behind becomes a setup when you stop measuring your life with somebody else's calendar that was a big part of healing for me instead of feeling like oh my god I've missed out on all these years and I'm I'm this age I should be here I'm that age I should be there by this time I should be doing this trying to be so you know perfectly planned and and looking at A lot of it had to do with my upbringing, too, because I've been criticized and and kind of taught and conditioned that I have to live my life a certain way. And so healing was learning how to create a life for me and not worrying so much about what what they wanted, what they expected, their expectations of me. because a lot of times what what narcissists in your life expect from you is what you set up to be your own expectation and that should not be how you think and move for yourself you're putting too much pressure on yourself for no reason you weren't falling behind you didn't fall behind you were going through a certain phase in your life and that phase in your life set you up to finally open your eyes to your own timeline that's why a big part of healing is learning to live for you you tap into freedom and you start to fall into alignment for you you start to move how you want to move you start to flow peacefully in your life you set up life the way you want it feeling behind becomes a setup when you stop measuring your life with somebody else's calendar your nervous system heals at its own pace somebody needs to learn how to have grace and compassion for themselves as someone who's been abused by a narcissist. You got to stop beating yourself up because you feel like you missed out on this and you missed out on that and you missed out on this and you missed out on that. What about living in the now? What about working with what you have now? What about going ahead and doing what you can do now? Your nervous system heals at its own pace and your life grows at the pace of safety. You were in an unsafe environment. You were entangled and intertwined and enmeshed with a bunch of unsafe people you weren't gonna grow i'm sorry there's no growth when you're when you're dealing with narcissists there's no growth when you're still around and still in these situations shits you will not grow because you're dealing with narcissists they're blessing blockers they're stagnators because why they're stunted their growth is stunted they don't grow and when they're in your life what they're not gonna allow is for you to evolve. What they're not going to allow is for you to be your best self. So it wasn't that you missed out on things because you wanted to miss out on things. You missed out on things because you were around people who made sure you missed out on things. Your life is only going to grow when you're at, when you're in a place of safety. So here's an affirmation for somebody that may be struggling with that. I want you to tell yourself every day, all day, write this down and look at it constantly until it's embedded in your mind body your heart your soul say I am not behind I'm rebuilding I had to tell myself something like this for a very long time I'm not behind I'm rebuilding I'm not behind I'm rebuilding it wasn't a setback it's a setup let's jump into setup number four Yvette Pena let me see Yvette says happy winning Wednesday setbacks don't land the same when you understand your direction most things were never on my level to begin with girl come on now come on warrior most things were never on my level to begin with it's not a setback no more when you understand your direction that's powerful i appreciate that warrior thank you thank you dang that was deep i love that i love that setup number four the financial struggles right this sets you up for ownership this is a big one for me this is a big one for me and a big one for a lot of y'all because that financial setback was so real I'm talking about oh my god oh my god I'm gonna share just two examples so as a child who grew up in a narcissistic family household the financial struggles were real for me it was real for me because I was the type who did not want to accept their help financially. I wanted to do it on my own because I've been trying to break away from them for years. So choosing to do it on my own meant that I went without for a long time. I went the hard way. I struggled. I struggled. Low income, housing, two, three jobs, and in college, that type of life, right? Driving around, doing DoorDash and all that, even with a nine to five. And then example number two, getting with a narcissistic man who stripped me naked financially, went from a 790-something credit score to 570 within two years messing with that monkey. That is drastic. That is crazy. And it took me a long time to build up to that credit score. Lost three cars within 12 months. How the hell? Three brand new cars. Three brand new amazing cars each car was at least a forty thousand dollar car lost three of them meaning repossession if you live in the united states you know about repos you know about repos if you know you know what type of hit that that does to your credit so saying all that to say the financial setbacks were so real but in the midst of all those financial setbacks going back to me prior to the marriage going through those hard times those difficult times those homelessness moments and and being without and working all these jobs I was building such a strong warrior mindset that one day I'm gonna own this I'm gonna own that I'm gonna be this businesswoman I'm gonna I was I was I was setting myself up for ownership even after that that failure of a marriage and I hate calling it a marriage because it was not a marriage I'm sorry I I signed I signed my life away because I was scammed I was hacked it was not a marriage it was a hack but even with that financial setback as I was rebuilding myself from that debt and climbing out of that I grew this warrior mindset that I would I would do better that I would I would I will I will establish myself I will ground myself I will position myself and set myself up for ownership like I said the abuse sets you up it gives you ammunition and fuel to be better like oh you think you destroyed me oh you you oh oh you you think you think destroying my credit ended me no no no I'm a warrior baby even if my credit score was 200 even if it was negative five I'm bouncing back I'm bouncing back because that's all I know to do that's my design I'm bouncing back and then forget a credit score because now you don't force me into learning things that's life-changing I don't even got to worry about personal credit now I know about business credit and all kind of other ---- that I didn't even know before so thank you for the setup goofy because that was little ---- that was small stuff that was little that that stuff don't even matter that was petty stuff that that was it you can have them little forty thousand dollar cars boo because one day you're gonna see me and you ain't gonna recognize me because i'm gonna be driving a car that you you could never even afford if you if you if you wanted to be driving a car they don't even sell in lots oh this this is this is custom made you know mercedes only made this for me because can't nobody afford it okay set me up for ownership and i'm not talking this is it's not just about material things but listen sweetheart i'm a child of God I should be living a beautiful life I shouldn't be struggling that's not what my God wants for me that's why in the end we win y'all we don't win small we win big I'm so sorry but it is what it is financial setbacks can be a setup for power because they teach you they teach you no one gets to hold your stability hostage again that was my lesson nobody would ever ever ever in this lifetime hold my stability hostage again you got me all the way bent I'm a whole thriver out here in these streets you doing that to me you just awoken a beast because one thing I know how to go get is money I ain't always been smart about it but honey God gave me a different type of brain a different type of gift you didn't you didn't break me you helped me build myself up like I'm supposed to you help me see what I deserve you help me see what I need to what I need to do what i need to put it in alignment oh my god setup number five nervous system chaos that was a setup for regulation it's so freeing to heal after narcissistic abuse and learn how to regulate your nervous system and heal your nervous system that feeling is so it's everything y'all it's everything when you went from being so hyper vigilant and easily stressed out and overthinking and always sensing danger to now being peaceful like you you just become so unbothered because you're at peace with yourself with your emotions with your your nervous system oh my god this is big because once your nervous system starts to regulate your choices gets cleaner now you're not impulsive you're not all over the place you're not bouncing all over the walls and all confused and moving chaotically that's a big win setup number six those love life wounds those love life wounds they set you up for boundaries and discernment those love setbacks became a setup when you learn the difference between chemistry and consistency hey god a lot of us fell into the narcissistic traps because all we saw was chemistry and then we got wounded and now the warriors that we are we ain't tolerating chemistry i don't give a damn how chemically compatible we seem to be you ain't consistent on on the levels that i'm looking at you ain't checking off on the list on i see one one one narcissistic era i'm xing you out that chemistry ain't gonna that i don't give a damn about that chemistry are you consistent or are you about to switch up on me in three months because you're a narcissist are you a man and a woman of your word or are you a narcissist and you just performing are you love bombing me to get what you want or are you consistent and you gonna love me the same no matter what for forever because that is real everybody is not a narcissist and healing teaches you that too your spirit learns and your standards update upgrade you upgrade your standards because those love wounds you don't want to keep going through that you don't want to keep going through that you don't want to keep experiencing that because you you learn that you love better so you you upgrade your standards you're like oh that person is not consistent they already switched up that's why a lot of y'all after one narcissist you get into the dating world and you start realizing how many narcissists is out here you start dating you dating you like oh damn at first it was nice it was cute it was sweet then you got your educational lenses on you start to peep out the narcissist in that person within weeks within months for y'all for y'all thrivers out there it don't even last with narcissists now after you after you awakened from the from the major one that you healed in from now when you're out there you're so alert and aware of what these people are like I said you smell them from a mile away you become so in tune that man man you are set up to discern and to have boundaries and I love it for us guys i love it for you i'm proud of y'all i'm proud of y'all because y'all are examples of the victim to thriver blueprint what does thriver actually mean guys it means what is what is not is i'm not healed 100 i never feel triggered that's that's not what thriver means what it means is i recover faster now i choose myself now i build systems i listen to my body that's what thriver means i just had to throw that out there because somebody asked me one of these days and i couldn't i was like look i'm gonna bring it up in live for you because i ain't got time to talk about it right now so hopefully that person watches but um before we go i want you to drop something in the chat for me type one word right if i ask you what are you becoming is it safe are you becoming clear are you becoming chosen are you becoming steady are you becoming powerful are you becoming free give me one word what are you becoming are you becoming drop it in the chat i just want to see it from you guys let me go down and read it let me see what are you becoming are you becoming free ah by smooth jazz says a champion kissway says myself chosen by god said unstoppable brother hype man says secured chosen by god said dangerous to darkness come on now these words are transformational you are becoming all of these because you're transforming empowered i see oh my god oh my god this is beautiful this is beautiful guys this is beautiful oh this is beautiful i just i just had to come in and share this with you guys because it's like it was supposed to be a setback there was there were so many setbacks but being that we're warriors what was supposed to be a setback for life has actually become setups and a lot of y'all have surprised yourself at what what a setup has you know taken place in your life as you have healed from this or as you are healing from this I see y'all in the chat somebody said protected somebody said safe somebody said strong unbreakable I mean come on come on now I encourage you guys to just keep going keep going keep keep being your beautiful amazing self and celebrate celebrate the warrior that you are knowing that those setbacks set you up to now be this thriving warrior that you are this is why they lose y'all every single setback is now a major setup in your life so major that nobody saw it coming even you i i i'm still amazed at what god is doing everything i ever thought was a setback or felt was a setback i'm looking at it like nah this was a setup even even when it still feels like a potential setback it's like nope the warrior inside of me finds a way to transmute it into a setup no you cannot break me no i am not broken I'm becoming I'm becoming what I was born to be which is a warrior a force to be reckoned with I saw somebody drop that in there I I'm awoken to who I am I am God's child born to win designed to win you can't set me back no setting back over here it's always gonna be a setup because what's intended to be bad for me God found a way and will always find a way to make it my good shout out to my demon slayers and my warriors man it was a it was a pleasure joining y'all tonight y'all know i love my winning wednesdays i'm trying to throw tuesdays in there but life be life in and i'm so sorry sometimes you'll see me tuesdays but most weeks we are jumping on here on wednesday nights i cannot let my winning warrior wednesdays go so y'all gonna see me for sure next wednesday join me back at the same time 9 p.m i will be here ready to see y'all ready to talk to y'all ready to engage ready to piss them off again absolutely right Deshaun Target god has his hands on me she says absolutely by Snoop Jazz saying god is using what they tried to do tried to destroy us just built us straight up yes yes ah happy winning warrior wednesday it's been a pleasure i appreciate y'all thank y'all for the love thank y'all for the laughs thank y'all for the the patience you know in spite of the cutoff y'all came back and and reconnected with your girl if you missed the live catch the replay but we appreciate you guys us warriors we appreciate all y'all me and my subscribers we appreciate all the new people that joined us tonight all of y'all that are subbing to the channel welcome in you are loved you are amazing you are warrior welcome to the warriors network i love you so much love you chosen by god thank you for being here tonight Naturally Rose let me see this is the last comment she said continue dodging these roaches for those who are in the dating pool and watch out for red flags we are thrivers don't sign up as a boo-boo the fool with a narc come on now come on now we appreciate you so much i enjoyed you guys tonight i look forward to seeing you stay tuned and stay blessed have a wonderful night morning afternoon wherever you are but i'll see you guys on live next week okay take care of yourself until next time y'all keep thriving love you so much kings and queens thank you naturally Rose appreciate you dominic morris god bless you warrior i appreciate you so much thank you all for the super chats and and the the engagements in the chat all of that i love you so much jazz stay winning queen i love you i love you i love you y'all take care good night and um see you later all right bye warriors take care of yourself keep pissing them off with the thrive because they mad they mad but let them die mad hey don't let me start what i started last week hey hey hey Don't forget, go get your Thrivers cup and t-shirt. 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