Abuse Erodes a Woman’s Mind, Identity, Self-Worth and Confidence - Karen DeArmond Gardner

Abusers know exactly how to manipulate and target their victims’ biggest weaknesses. They repeatedly erode your identity until there’s nothing left and until you’re too tired to fight back. But there is hope! Karen DeArmond Gardner, a pastoral trauma coach and author, discusses the scary reality of domestic abuse in the home, when a husband trashes his marriage and beats his wife down, physically or emotionally, to get his way. Karen recounts her personal, decades-long struggle surviving domestic abuse, how she escaped, and what she learned. She advises how to assess your situation and what kind of potential solutions might just make things worse. Don’t be afraid to get help - but make sure you’re getting it from the right people.


TAKEAWAYS

Couples counseling can be very dangerous for a woman who is in an abusive marriage

Marital counseling, in domestic abuse cases, doesn’t work because the issue isn’t marital; it’s abuse

Women are taught to be submissive to their husbands, which grooms them to turn the other cheek too often

Some abusers can change their behavior, but it is very rare, and abusers erode freedoms and identity bit by bit


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