Happiness is The Purpose of Your Life! Want to Know Why? - Teal Swan

Happiness in life
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AI GeneratedThis lecture examines the efficacy of psychotherapy and the science of happiness. It explores why therapy works, the role of genetics in emotional well-being, and the \"hedonic treadmill\" that limits the lasting impact of external achievements. The discussion concludes with an analysis of how humans perceive satisfaction through relative status and the \"peak-end rule\" of memory.
This lecture will be some slightly shorter lecture than
usual. What I first want to do is
finish off the discussion of clinical psychology from last
lecture and then have a little brief discussion about some very
interesting research on happiness.
We talked, we ended last lecture with a
discussion of some early, some of the history of treating
mental illness. And we saw that it was rather
gruesome, unsuccessful, and arbitrary.
For the most part, we do better now.
And Dr. Nolan Huxema reviewed some of the therapies with focus
on therapies for depression. The textbook talks in detail
about therapies for different disorders including
schizophrenia, anxiety disorders,
and so on. The question which everyone is
interested in is, does therapy work?
And this proves to be surprisingly difficult to tell.
Part of the problem is if you ask people who go into therapy,
did you get better after therapy,
for the most part they'll tell you that they did.
But the problem is this could be a statistical byproduct of
what's called regression to the mean.
So, the idea looks like this. This line plots how you feel
from great through okay to awful. And it goes up and down.
And in fact, in everyday life you're going
to, some days are going to be average,
some days will be better at average,
some days worse than average. You could plot your semester.
You could do a plot every morning, wake up,
or every night before you go to bed.
You could put yourself on a graph and it'll come out to some
sort of wiggly thing. Statistically,
if something is above average or below average,
it's going to trend towards average just because that's a
statistical inevitability. When do people go to therapy?
Well, they go to therapy when they're feeling really crappy.
They go to therapy when they're feeling unusually bad.
Even if therapy then has no effect at all,
if it's true that people's moods tend to go up and down,
after you feel really bad you'll probably improve rather than
get worse. And so, this could happen to
normal flow, could happen just even if
therapy has no effect at all. And so, simply getting better
after therapy doesn't tell you anything.
On the worst day of your life you could do naked jumping jacks
on the roof of your college for ten minutes.
I guarantee you your next day would probably be better.
That doesn't mean naked jumping jacks are helping you.
Rather, it just means that the day after the worst day of your
life usually is not as bad as the worst day of your life.
It can get worse but usually it just trends to average.
What you've got to do then is you have to take people at the
same point who would get treatment and compare them to
people who do not get treatment or what we call a control group.
And this is an example of this. So, this is for people who are
depressed. This is statistically equal.
They start off pre-therapy. They all go for therapy.
But because in this example there's a limited number of
therapists, some of them are put on a waiting list and others
get a therapist. It's arbitrary.
It's random, which is which, making it a very good
experiment. And in this example you could
see those who received cognitive training were better off.
They had lower depression scores than those that received no
therapy at all. In general, in fact,
we can make some general conclusions about therapy.
Therapy by and large works. People in treatment do better
than those who are not in treatment.
And that's not merely because they choose to go into
treatment. Rather, it's people who are in
desperate straits who seek out help.
Those who get help are likely to be better off than those that
don't get help. Therapy, for the most part,
works. We can't cure a lot of things
but we can often make them better.
Different sorts of therapy works best for different
problems. And again, depression proves to
be an illustrative example. If you have everyday unipolar
depression, that is you feel very sad and you show other
symptoms associated with depression,
an excellent treatment for you is some combination of
cognitive behavioral therapy and possibly antidepressant
medications like SSRIs. If you have bipolar depression,
the cognitive behavioral therapy is useless but medication is
your best bet. And so on for all the other
disorders. Each disorder has some sort of
optimal mode of treatment. If you suffer from an anxiety
disorder, cognitive behavioral therapy can be of help.
If you're schizophrenic, it's probably not going to be
of much help at all. And so, different disorders go
best with different sorts of therapies.
Finally, some therapists do better than others.
So, for reasons that nobody fully understands,
there are good therapists and there are better therapists and
there are bad therapists. And there's great individual
differences in the efficacy of an individual therapist.
Finally, putting aside then the difference in therapies and the
difference in therapists, does it make sense to say that
psychotherapy in general works? And the answer is yes.
And this is in large part because of what clinical
psychologists describe as nonspecific factors.
And what this just is, is a term meaning properties
that all therapies or virtually all therapies share.
And I've listed two of them here.
One of them is support. No matter what sort of therapy
you're getting involved in, be it a psychoanalyst or a
behavior therapist or a cognitive therapist or a
psychiatrist who prescribes you medication or someone who makes
you go through different exercises or keeps a journal,
you have some sense of support, some acceptance, empathy,
encouragement, guidance. You have a human touch.
You have somebody who, for at least some of the day,
really cares about you and wants you to be better.
And that can make a huge difference.
Also, you have hope. Typically, there's an
enthusiasm behind therapy. There's a sense that this
might really make me get better and that hope could be powerful.
Sometimes this is viewed under the rubric of a placebo effect
which is that maybe the benefits you get from therapy aren't due
to anything in particular the therapist does to you but rather
to the belief that things are going to get better.
Something is being done that will help you.
And this belief can be a self-fulfilling prophecy.
Placebo effect is often used sort of in a dismissive way.
Oh, it's just a placebo. But placebos can be powerful.
And even if it's useless from a real point, from a psychological
theory point of view, even if the therapist runs
around and dances while you – I have dancing on my mind now –
while you sit in a chair and watch him dance,
if you believe the dancing is going to make you better,
it may well help. Okay.
That's all I'm going to say about therapy.
Any questions about therapy? Yes.
Fair enough. The question is the assumption
of regression to the mean seems sort of arbitrary because it
depends what the mean is. Always after the fact you can
apply an average to it and say, look, this is the average but
how do you know beforehand? It's a good point.
When you talk about regression to the mean it adopts certain
assumptions. The assumption is there really
is an average throughout much of your life and things go up and
down within that average. And for the most part that's
true for things like mood. For most of us we have an
average mood and we have bad days and we have good days.
It's always possible that you have a bad day and then from
there on in it's just going to go down and down and down.
But statistically the best bet is if you have a bad day you're
going to go back up to the mean. It's – in some way you don't
even have to see it from a clinical point of view.
You could map it out yourself. Map out your moods and the days
where you're most depressed. Sooner or later you're likely to
go up. Similarly, on the happiest day of
your life odds are the next day you're going to go down.
And there's nothing magical about this.
This is just because under the assumption that there really is
an average built into one of each of us.
If human behavior was arbitrary it would be like a random walk
but it's not. We seem to have sort of set
points and aspects of us that we fall back to that make the idea
of a mean a psychologically plausible claim.
Yes. That's a good question.
Yes. In that study it's a perfectly
good hypothesis that the sort of anxiety of being told,
I see you've come here for help. We can't give it to you.
Congratulations. You're a control group,
causes anxiety. In other studies the control
group doesn't know they're the control group.
So, sometimes you can do an intervention where you say,
congratulations everybody in intro psych who did very low on
the depression inventory, which many of you filled out.
We're going to do something to you.
And then the rest of the people don't even know that they haven't
been chosen. So, you're right.
It's a perfectly good point. Knowing you're not chosen could
have a deleterious effect. And the way to respond to that is
you have other studies that don't use that same method.
Okay. I'll – I want to end with
happiness. And it's a strange thing to talk
about in psychology. Most of psychology focuses on
human misery, most of clinical psychology.
There is – the psychology we spoke about through most of the
semester on vision and language and social behavior.
But typically when people think about interventions what they
think about is people having problems and then we figure out
how to make them better. They're schizophrenic,
they're depressed, they're anxious,
they're just not making it in life.
And psychologists try to figure out how to make things improve.
And in fact, a lot of the information I
gave you at the beginning of lecture last class where I
reviewed all of the disorders is in this wonderful book called
DSM-IV, the Diagnostics and Statistical Manual of Mental
Disorders. If you ever really want to get –
if you really want to diagnose people and come to have a belief
in your own mental instability, browsing through that book is a
treat. Everything that can go wrong in
mental life, from Asperger's Syndrome to
fetishes to paranoid schizophrenia is all in that
wonderful book. And – but a lot of
psychologists have been disturbed by the focus of our
field on taking bad people, people who are broken,
people who are sad, and bringing them up to
normal. And they've started to ask,
can psychology give us any insight into human flourishing,
how to take people who are – how to study people who are
psychological successes, how to take people who are
psychologically okay and make them better.
And this is the movement known as positive psychology.
And it has its own handbook now, the Handbook of Positive
Psychology, listing psychological strengths,
listing virtues, ways – what psychology
tells us about how we can be at our best.
Some of this work in positive psychology is,
in my mind, real crap.
A lot of it is some combination of new age banalities
by people who are striving to get more grant funds and end up
on Time Magazine. On the other hand – and so some
of it is really bad. You could imagine this attracts
every self-help huckster you could imagine.
On the other hand, a lot of this work is quite
neat, quite interesting and quite promising.
And what I want to do is tell you what I think is the most
interesting research from this movement concerning happiness.
Now, there are a lot of good books on this and I'm going to
recommend books, which I haven't been doing much in this class.
Marty Seligman is the pioneer of positive psychology
and he's written an excellent book called Authentic Happiness.
Jonathan Haidt is a brilliant young scholar
who's also done a lot of work on disgust and morality.
He did the Sex with Dead Chicken study we discussed earlier.
This is one of my favorite books by happiness,
by Nettle, because it's smart, it's beautifully written and
it's extremely short. And Dan Gilbert's book,
Stumbling on Happiness, is a very, very funny book
and very smart book and is now in a New York Times bestseller
list. So, there's no shortage of books
on happiness. So, the starting point is – and
a lot of research on happiness starts with a basic question.
How happy are you? And we're psychologists so tell
us on a scale of one to ten where five is average,
ten is super-duper. The most common answers,
interestingly enough, are high. They're seven or eight.
How many people in this room would give themselves a seven or
an eight? How many a nine or a ten?
All right. How many a ten?
Good, good. Maxed out on happiness.
It turns out that most people think that they're pretty happy.
There's a Lake Wobegon effect with happiness.
Most people think they're very happy.
In fact, most people think they're happier than most
people, which shouldn't really happen.
This question, how happy are you from one to
ten, has been asked all over the world.
So, and it turns out there are slight differences depending on
how old you are. There are slight differences
depending on your place within a country,
California versus New York. There are slight,
subtle differences between men and women at different points.
Somewhat paradoxically, although women are more
vulnerable to depression than men, still, on average,
women are slightly happier than men.
The country by country data is quite interesting.
In one study, they looked at forty-two
countries. The happiest, well,
let me see. The happiest people on earth.
Well, first, no country believed they were
unhappy. The people in no country of
these forty-two countries. I mean, you're thinking there
are some really bad countries to live in and I don't know if
they were tested. But of these forty-two,
everybody even said they were above average.
The happiest people on earth? The Swiss.
They think, they're just like, they're just,
they're just so happy. I was talking to people about
this last night and they suggested chocolate.
The saddest people on this, on the sample?
The sad Bulgarians. You are wondering,
what about Americans? Americans are actually pretty
happy. Seven point seven when we are a
happy country, full of happy people.
Now, I'm going to talk about a lot of research that's based on
the data you get when you ask people how happy they are,
from a scale of one to ten. But I'm going to be honest and
tell you there are reasons to be cautious about these numbers.
And the reasons come from a couple of experiments.
In one experiment, they asked people inside a
psychology department where there was a photocopy machine.
They went up to people, the people going up to the
photocopy machine to make copies and when they were done making
copies, they asked them, how happy are you with your
entire life? There were two groups.
Group A, they put a dime on top of the photocopy machine.
So, people walked around, I'm going to have to do more
for you. Oh, a dime.
Other group, no dime. It turned out that when asked
how good is your whole life, group A reported greater life
satisfaction overall in their entire lives.
Another study asked people how happy you are with your whole
life on sunny days like today. And people said they were
happier on sunny days than rainy days.
What's interesting is you can make this effect go away if you
ask immediately before, how's the weather?
These were done by phone interviews.
And logically, what seems to go on is that
if you're asked how's the weather, oh, it's really sunny
outside. And then when people are asked
how happy are you with your whole life, people then say,
oh, okay, I'm going to take into account the sunniness when I
give my answer. Okay.
So, what is happiness? What are people rating when
they're answering these sort of questions?
And this is an extraordinarily difficult question and one could
devote a seminar to discussing it.
But one simple answer from an evolutionary point of view is
that happiness – forget about what is happiness.
Ask what's happiness for, just like we've asked what
language is for or what laughter is for or what hunger or lust is
for. What's happiness for?
And one answer is happiness is a goal state that we've evolved
to pursue. It's a signal that our needs
have been satisfied. Happiness is the carrot we're
running towards that makes us take care of our lives.
We want to be happy. An example of this is food.
You're not very happy if you're starving.
You want to be satiated. You want to be satisfied.
So, you seek out food to fill your belly.
Once you've done it, you're happy.
Steven Pinker summarizes the keys to happiness in a nicely
evocative passage. We are happier when we are
healthy, well-fed, comfortable,
safe, prosperous, knowledgeable,
respected, non-celibate and loved.
How many people here got all of those right now?
Oh, come on. Some people.
Oddly enough, the person who said he was a
ten didn't – did not raise his hand.
Okay. So, this is – and this makes
out – you get all your needs satisfied.
You know, your belly is full, people love you,
you're getting sex regularly, you're smart,
you're rich, you're happy.
But as Pinker points out, it's not that simple.
Here's the problem. You, Americans in this century,
you are now healthier, better fed and so on than just
about anyone in history. But you're not happier.
That's the puzzle. In particular,
these studies asking about happiness have been around
for a long time. People in 1950s did not make
as much money, did not eat as well,
did not live as long, suffered from more diseases,
were more vulnerable in a hundred different ways,
yet they are as happy as you are now.
You are as happy as your parents were and they were as
happy as your grandparents. Moreover, in poor countries
people don't have the shelter, the knowledge,
the protection, the safety.
Yet, for the most part, there's not a huge effect
on how rich a country is and on how happy the people are.
Furthermore, there are great individual
differences in happiness among people whose basic needs
are met. For the most part, everybody in this room
is fed and sheltered and safe. Some of you are prosperous,
some of you are knowledgeable, a couple non-celibate.
But even among that group, you vary in your happiness
and that's kind of a puzzle. And to explain the puzzle,
we need to talk about a few surprising facts about happiness
and I'll present three of them.
The first is happiness doesn't change as much as you think.
In particular, happiness is not as sensitive
to what happens – your happiness is not as sensitive
to what happens in your environment
as you might think it is.
Part of the reason for this is that there appears to be
a strong heritable basis for happiness.
So, just as we talked in the domains of personality
and intelligence, there's some genetic
determination, not entirely, but some,
in how happy you are. And some people talk in terms
of a genetically determined set point.
So, you have a sort of natural happiness level,
maybe a range. To put it in extreme form,
some people are genetically predisposed to be pretty sour,
others to be pretty cheerful. Well, that can't be it.
Identical twins are very similar in their happiness
but, as with everything else we've discussed,
they're not identical. What about life events?
Wouldn't life events change your happiness?
And here we're entering one of the great discoveries
of happiness research. Think for a moment,
what's the worst thing that could happen to you?
And then ask, how much would it change your happiness?
Now, think for a moment, what's the best thing
that could happen to you? And ask,
how much would it change your happiness?
And the research in happiness suggests that your gut feelings
are probably wrong. And here's a couple of case
studies. For many people,
a very bad thing that could happen to you is to be
paralyzed from the neck down in an accident.
It turns out, obviously, common sense,
that when this happens it makes people very unhappy.
It makes them depressed. They think their life is over.
They feel terribly sad. But not for that long.
After about a year, after being paralyzed from the
neck down, people's happiness comes back up pretty much to
where it was before, suggesting that there's a
temporary effect but not a permanent one.
Many people believe that winning many, many millions of dollars
in the lottery will make you happier.
And it does. When you open up that winning
ticket, you say, I won a hundred million dollars.
You say, woo-hoo. You are, honest to God,
very happy. You'd say, hell, I'm at 10.5.
I am very happy. A year later,
you are not as happy. In fact, lottery winning
may be a terrible case where people, where it goes the
reverse of what you expect. What happens when you win a lot
of money is it often wrenches you away from your family or
work and your friends and leads you to depression and sadness.
But even mundane events that would make you happy,
that you think would make you happy, don't seem to last.
In some research by Dan Gilbert and others,
they've asked young assistant professors who are coming up
for tenure and tenure in the university system is a good
thing to get because it gives you lifetime job security.
How happy would you feel if you got tenure?
How happy would you feel if you didn't get tenure?
Prior to the last election, they asked people,
how happy would you be if it was President Bush?
How happy would you be if it was President Kerry?
And it turns out, people radically overestimated
the effects of these things. Having your favorite
candidate win is not such a big deal.
Having your favorite candidate lose is not such a big deal
either. Getting tenure or not getting
tenure are really big when it happens.
Six months later and a year later, your happiness doesn't
seem to be affected. The purchase of consumer
goods, an Xbox 360, a nice flat screen TV,
those sorts of things, make you very happy when you
open up the package and set it up.
But this happiness fades almost immediately.
The moral of a lot of people are shaking their heads.
It's true. I mean, not for me.
But the moral of a lot of this work is we think these things
will have big, permanent, and profound effects.
But they need not and they often don't.
Why not? Why do we overestimate their
happiness? And a technical term for this,
by the way, is affective forecasting.
Again, this is Dan Gilbert's work and the idea is we are bad
at affective forecasting. That is, we are bad at
predicting how happy or sad we will be in the future based on
what's happening to us. Why?
Well, a couple of reasons. One thing is there's often a
failure to appreciate the day-to-day irrelevance of
certain events. So, prior to the election,
the election is happening tomorrow and I asked somebody
who's a diehard Democrat, how would you feel if Bush
won? And the person said,
I'll be miserable. It'll be a miserable four years
afterwards. But what often isn't
appreciated here is that whether or not Bush wins will make you
sad or happy after it happens. But for the most of your
day-to-day life, you aren't thinking about who
the President is. I'd be very happy if I won a
huge prize and I'd be, whoa, huge prize,
the Nobel Prize, a Guggenheim,
a MacArthur Genius Award. I'd get them all in the same
day. What a day.
I am really happy. But then, a month later,
I'm there and I still got my regular insomnia and there's
nothing on TV and a plumber is not coming and my kids don't
respect me. And I can't just say,
I can't. And the fact that,
yeah, I won the prize, it doesn't matter.
A lot of the things in life that'll make you really,
that you think will make you really happy,
don't have this day-to-day effect.
Also, there's a logic of the set point.
And this comes to a terrible word, we adapt.
Right now, I'm a guy without a Nobel Prize.
I'm kind of used to it. If I got a Nobel Prize,
I'd be a guy with a Nobel Prize. I'd be happy.
But then, I kind of get used to that too.
If I got a second one, whoa, two.
But then I just get used to that too.
You get used to things. You get used to bad things.
Now, I don't want to overstate this.
There are some very interesting exceptions.
So, for instance,
we don't get used to noise.
A lot of research suggests that if your environment is noisy,
like you're doing construction around you,
you can't get used to it. Your happiness drops
and it doesn't come back up. Your system cannot
habituate to continued noise.
We adapt to good things.
Winning a lottery, winning a prize,
getting an A in a course. We adapt. We get used to it.
Also, with some surprising exceptions.
One of the other surprises from happiness research
is the effects of cosmetic surgery,
like breast enhancement and breast reduction.
One of the big surprises is it makes people happier
and then they stay happier.
And one explanation for this is how we look
is very important. It's very important for how
other people see us and how we see ourselves.
And you never get used to looking in a certain way.
So, if you look better, it just makes you happier
all the time. So, there are these exceptions.
But putting aside the exceptions,
the problem of adaptation is sometimes called
the hedonic treadmill. And the idea is hedonic
for happy. You keep on running, but no matter
how fast you run,
you stay where you are. You get used to it.
Habituation is like you step into a very hot
bath, but you get used to it. It's a cold bath.
You get used to it. A difficult environment,
an easy environment, you get used to it.
The story is often illustrated, it's often illustrated
in the spirit of a story from the Bible in Ecclesiastes
of a king. And this king had it all.
He had gardens, parks, vineyards,
castles, slaves, and concubines.
And they were both male and female concubines.
So, he had everything, right? But it didn't make him
happy. And here's what he says.
I hated life. All is vanity in a chasing
after wind. And there is nothing to be
gained under the sun. Now, in these books I
talked about at the beginning, these authors give advice
on how to deal with the hedonic treadmill.
How do you deal with the fact that everything you
aspire to, once you get it, you'll be used to it.
And it will lose its value. Well, one answer is that
possessions are not the key to happiness.
Possessions you very quickly get used to.
From there, there are two alternatives.
One is endless novelty. So, one guy, I forget his
name, wrote a book. And he says, look,
there's a hedonic treadmill. The trick is always do
something different. Next week, have sex with
somebody you've never had sex before.
Then, climb Mount Everest. You get bored with that,
become an accountant. Boring.
Scuba diving. Boring.
He had endless ideas. And that's the possibility.
You never, if you keep changing what you're doing,
you'll never get used to anything.
And you'll always be happy. At least he says that.
Then, there's the old guy alternative.
Step off the treadmill. Give up.
Give up chasing the whole happiness thing.
And then, seek out more substantial goods that might
actually not make you happy in the simple sense of a quick
fix of delight, but substantial goods like
friends and family and long-term projects.
So, the first moral of the science of happiness is that
your happiness is actually rather fixed.
It's fixed in part genetically and it's fixed in part because
what happens in your life, you'll get used to,
to a large extent. Are you raising your hands?
Oh, sorry. The second one is happiness is
relative. So, there's a lot of research
on money, power, and happiness.
And remember, I did say before that it
doesn't matter whether you come from a rich country or a poor
country. As long as your country,
as long as you're not starving to death, it kind of doesn't
matter how rich your country is for how happy you are.
But that's not the same as saying it doesn't matter how
much money you make. In fact, there's a set point
or a range but there's some effect on your salary and on
your job, on your happiness.
And if you're desperately poor, no matter where you are,
no matter who's around you, you're not going to be happy.
But beyond that, your happiness depends on
your relative circumstance. And this is an old insight.
H.L. Mencken wrote, a wealthy man is one who earns
$100 more than his wife's sister's husband.
The idea is what matters isn't how much you make.
What matters is how much you make relative to the people
around you. And they've asked people this.
What would you rather? Do you want to make $70,000
if everybody else in your office is making $65,000?
Or $75,000 if everybody else is making $80,000?
Does it matter how much money you bring home or does it matter
how much money you make relative to other people?
Well, they're both factors. But relative salary.
And in this example, people prefer this.
They prefer to be making less if they're making more than the
people around them. It turns out that there's
research on British social servants and their happiness and
their health and the quality of their relationship and how they
love their lives doesn't depend on how much money they make.
It depends on where they are relative to everybody else.
We are very status conscious primates.
And your role in a hierarchy, your level in a hierarchy plays
as a significant effect on your level of happiness.
This is not really a secret. The opera star Maria Callas
and the English professor Stanley Fish had the same
negotiating strategy. When Fish got hired into his
department, according to urban legend at least, he said,
I don't want to talk salary. I don't have a particular
number in mind. I just want to get paid $100
more than whoever is the top person in his department.
And that's a guy who knows about happiness.
He walks in each day saying, I'm paid more than everybody
else. I don't care how much it is.
It's just more. And that's relevant to
happiness. We're now in a position to give
some advice to the king, summing up.
First, going back again to Dr. Nolten-Huxema's lecture,
I think the king is suffering from mild unipolar depression.
So, he should get some SSRIs and cognitive behavior therapy.
I think he needs to move his castle to a quiet part of
kingdom. The noise of a busy castle is
stressful. And he needs to give up on the
concubines. He needs to find a queen.
He needs to develop social relationships, join a club,
get involved in charities, maybe a hobby.
The final finding is a bit of a jump to a different topic.
But – sorry, you raised – yes.
The question is, would you become used to changes
in social interaction? An example is solitary
confinement or prison. People get used to a lot of
things. It could be that in those
examples there is a shift in status as well and social
relationships and how you think of yourself relative to others.
So, that may be difficult to recover from.
If you're popular at Yale and you go to prison,
you're not going to be very happy your first few days in
prison probably. But then suppose you get popular
in prison. People like you.
You're the head of the book club and everything.
And everything. My bet is you'd rather not be
in prison than in prison. But you'd probably be a
pretty – if you're a cheerful guy here,
you'd be a cheerful guy in prison.
The final case involves judgments of the pleasure and
pain of past events. And I mentioned the Nobel Prize
a little while ago as an example.
But the work I want to talk about is actually from the one
psychologist who's alive who's won the Nobel Prize – sorry,
one of the ones who's won the Nobel Prize,
Daniel Kahneman. And he became interested in
happiness. And you remember him from his
rationality research. And this is some work on
happiness. Here's an example.
Have you seen a movie, Marathon Man?
It involves a dental torture scene.
Imagine you're going to the dentist and he's torturing you.
Or it's like a cleaning but it's really painful.
And it's terrible. You're sweaty.
You're squeezing the thing. And it lasts for an hour.
And then when it's done, the dentist leans over and
says, we're done now. If you want, we could stop.
But if you want, as a favor to you,
I have five minutes. I could top you off with some
mild pain. This may seem like a very odd
thing to ask. Here's the alternatives.
What do you want? A dental procedure that's very
painful for an hour? Or a dental procedure that's
very painful for an hour? Sorry about the S there.
And then some additional mild pain.
Who votes for A? You've got to choose one.
Who votes for A? Who votes for B?
Okay. Here's the big finding.
The big finding is, yes, B involves more pain.
It's true. A is an hour of pain.
B is an hour of pain plus a few minutes of more pain.
Seems like a no-brainer. But when you have A or B and you
have to remember it later on, you'll have a much nicer memory
of B than A. Kahneman's insight is when you
think back on events, you don't just add up the
amount of pleasure or pain you experience.
Rather, your memory is highly skewed to peaks and then to
endings. And you could imagine this.
In the first case, A, you leave and say,
oh god, that was terrible. Oh.
B, you leave and say, oh, that was mildly painful.
There was nothing terrible in the middle there but it ended
okay, mild pain. It turns out in general,
endings matter a lot. Kahneman did his research with
both in a laboratory where you could make, give people mild
pain by getting them to stick their hand in freezing cold
water and with people undergoing extremely painful
colonoscopy procedures. And it turns out that if you
want to give people a good memory or a less bad memory of a
horrible event, topping them off with some mild
pain will do the trick. In the end, endings matter.
Both of these examples, a party that's hugely fun for
90%, then the last 10%, somebody slaps you in the face
and pours dip on you or something.
So, 90% of good stuff, 10% bad stuff versus 90% people
are slapping you and pouring dip on you but then 10% whoa,
that was a really good. When you think back on it,
if you just added it up, A would be much better.
But B has this huge pull because of the power of how things end.
So, endings matter. So, I'm going to end things now.
I'm first going to do a few things.
Before saying anything more, I want to thank the teaching
fellows that are Sonny Bang, Eric Cherise, Jane Erickson,
Isaac Giroudi, Greg Lown, and Colleen McCrane.
I think they did a superb job.
We basically reviewed all the psychology.
Here's a promissory note we started with at the beginning
of this semester. I think you're now in a position
to answer or at least consider answers about these topics.
About topics such as dreams, testimony, disgust, memory,
depression, language, humor, and even a little bit about
good and evil. This is a broad intro survey
class and the field of psychology is broad and we've
just gotten started. If you're interested,
this is a great department. There are some amazing
scholars here and some amazing teachers and there are courses
that go into detail about just about every topic I talked about.
If you're interested in memory or social interaction or mental
illness, I could point you to some great courses.
I'm not taking any sophomore advisees next year because I'm
on leave in the fall but you should feel free to come talk to
me if you want any specific advice or suggestions.
Now, I know not all of you are going to end up majoring in
psychology. Some of you will choose
cognitive science instead. But on a more serious note,
I know for some of you this is the last, maybe the first,
but the last psychology class you'll ever take.
And so, I want to close this course by emphasizing two themes.
The first one is a bit of humility.
There are some very basic questions about the mind and I've
tried to be honest about this throughout the course.
There are some very basic questions about the mind that
nobody knows the answer to yet. We know the brain is the source
of mental life but we don't have any understanding at all about
exactly how this happens, about how a physical object,
a lump of meat, can give rise to conscious
experience. We know that about half of the
variance in personality, about half the differences
between people, are due to genetic factors but
we don't know how to explain where the other half happens.
It has to be experienced but we have no real good theories of
the sort of experience that makes one person adventurous and
another one timid, one bitter and one satisfied.
We know a lot about the social influences that can drive people
to do terrible things to one another but we don't know the
answer to the maybe harder question of why some of us,
some people, are immune to these influences,
why some people do good things, perhaps even heroic things,
regardless of the circumstances that they find themselves in.
So, there's an enormous amount left to do.
It's an exciting field just because there's just so much
more we need to understand. The second theme is more
optimistic and this is the idea that we're going to eventually
come to answer these questions and many more questions through
the sorts of methods we've been discussing this semester,
through constructing scientific theories, evolutionary,
neurological, developmental, computational,
and testing them through experimental and observational
methods. This is the idea that in the end
the most important and intimate aspects of ourselves,
our beliefs and emotions, our capacities to make
decisions, even our sense of right and wrong,
can be explained through constructing and testing
scientific hypotheses. Now, the reason why I'm
optimistic is I think there's been some success stories where
we really have learned some surprising and important things
about the mind and there's no reason to expect this way of
proceeding to fail us in the future.
In the very first class on the brain, I ended by talking about
people's worries here. And I'll be honest,
that some people find it a scary prospect.
Some people believe that a scientific approach to the mind
takes the specialness away from people, that it diminishes us
somehow. And I don't agree.
If there's anything I've tried to persuade you through the
course, it's that the more you look at the mind and how it
works from a serious scientific point of view,
the more you come to appreciate its complexities,
uniqueness, and its beauty. This has been a great course to
teach. Thank you for coming and good
luck on the final.
