Scorpio love tarot | Here’s how this avoidant person really feels about you | September 2026

Hello, Scorpio, and welcome to my channel, Tarot by Gabrielle. This is going to be a general reading for sun, moon rising, and Venus placements, looking at your connection between you and the person that you are dealing with and are needing to learn the most from right now. We'll be pulling for all three sides of the connection, so we'll look at your energy toward it, their energy toward it, and the energy in between it. The concept being that there are three sides to every story, so we'll be looking at your version of the truth, their version of the truth, and this higher level unbiased truth in the middle. This middle section, we'll be looking at what is the deeper purpose of the connection and the best way for you to move forward in order to align further with your higher self. Friendly reminder that these are general readings and they are not here to resonate fully for everyone and they won't resonate fully for everyone, so do please remember to take what does resonate and helps your personal situation and to leave what does not. On that note, and especially if you are a cross-watcher, just know this whole reading can be reversed. If that is the case for you, that is totally fine and totally normal. Again, the point is to take what helps and to leave what doesn't. Last thing is that any information on the extended reading or on booking a personal reading or coaching session with me can be found in the description box below. All right, Scorpio, we're going to jump on in looking at overall energy for your side of the connection, their side of it, and the energy in between the connection with Oracle Cards first, and then we'll dive deeper into the reading with Tarot as we progress, but let's first start here. Scorpio, with your energy towards the person you are dealing with and are needing to learn the most from right now. Scorpio's side of this connection, rough waters, so conflict, obstacles, adversity with trust, opening up, taking risks, and courage. I feel like there is, okay, the bottom here you have date night, so casual dating, socializing, quality time. I feel like there is this part of you that really wants this connection to work out with this person, but there is also a part of you that is struggling to trust. I feel like there's this energy that you're carrying of being conflicted, not necessarily being conflicted about how you feel about this person or what you want, but more conflicted about whether or not you can trust them, because I feel like there's something about this that has you kind of doubting, or I feel like a lot of it might stem from their behavior. The way that you are perceiving their behavior has you doubting how they feel about you, which is maybe where you're starting to experience some conflict, some inner conflict surrounding this connection. All right, let's look at this person's energy toward you. Gorgeous, beauty, attraction, confidence, fun, people-pleasing, people-pleaser, codependent validation. I want one more, because there's obviously an attraction that this person has toward you and toward this connection, but they might struggle, the word that I'm drawn to really here is codependent, they might struggle with codependency, which, okay, hang on, because then, poison apple, red flags, toxicity, lesson. This person does have some patterns here, some unhealthy patterns of behavior and how they show up, because I feel like it's like the desire is there, but the behavior is misaligned, which I feel like is what you're picking up on. It's like you're reading into this behavior, and it's like, oh, this person doesn't care, or, I don't know, we'll have to see, because I don't know what this poison apple card is referring to, so we'll see as we break it down, because I feel like it's like they might be saying all the right things, but then it's like the way that they show up, their actual behavior doesn't align. Truth of the connection here between Scorpio and this person, garden, emotional healing, growth, single, light, avoidant, ghosting, escapism. What I'm getting at, or what I'm getting through this, because then there's future, long-term planning, goals, it's like you want to grow and build a connection with this person. You see a future, and you're wanting, like I said, to build to this, but it feels as if, and they might say that they want that, too, but their behavior might be very avoidant, and that might keep the connection from being able to fully expand, and that avoidance might actually be the thing that's blocking the connection from fully expanding here, because I feel, yeah, there's this commitment card, like I feel like you're wanting more commitment, you're wanting kind of a deeper connection with this person, and it feels like, it's like they might say that they want that, too, but then their behavior, something about behavior, I'm interested, I'm intrigued, let's see what this breaks down as. All right, let's look at Scorpio's side of the connection here, trust, rough waters. Nine of wands with a seven of cups, so when it comes to this connection, I feel like you're feeling very overwhelmed and almost in a place of feeling a little bit powerless, because I feel like there is so much that you see as possible and so much that you want in this, but I also feel like you feel as if, and I said this in another reading, I don't remember what sign it was, but you feel as if the ball is in their court, meaning that you are showing up to try to make things work, but it feels like you're not being met at that same level of effort, consistency, commitment in some way, and I feel because of that, there's this energy of not really knowing what to do, because yes, you see that potential, but you also don't know how to bring that potential to fruition, and I also feel that there's this part of you, the word that's really coming through is confusion, and I feel like you're feeling really confused about where this person stands and how they really feel, specifically because I think that they say one thing and do another, and that has you holding out this hope that eventually they're going to start to align their actions with their words, but then I also feel that you sit in a lot of disappointment around how they do show up, certain behaviors that they do carry, especially if there is avoidance, that was crazy, an airplane just flew obviously where the sun was, so that's what that was about, and I think that there's this part of you that doesn't really know how to handle this or what to do, and might even be kind of fighting with your desire a little bit, because it's like you do desire this connection, but there is, I don't want to, maybe it is, I guess the word could be frustration, but just like powerlessness, Scorpio side of this connection. King of Cups in Reverse with the Nine of Swords. The King of Cups in Reverse, it's like this, and this is what I was kind of going back to, it's like they say all the things that you want to hear to make you feel good about the connection, but then their actions spark a lot of this, like with the Nine of Swords, a lot of anxiety, a lot of overthinking, say one thing, do another. What else for Scorpio side of the connection here? Yeah, there's the Page of Pentacles. Wanting this opportunity, it's like here you are kind of looking at this, and looking at how good it could be, and how much potential there is, but then with the Three of Pentacles in Reverse as the underlying, it's like, but they're not showing up for it, so it's like something that has consistently felt really out of reach in this connection. It's like you can see it, it's there, you see the vision, but it's really out of reach, kind of like this flight card. It's like you see this future, this path that you're wanting, but it's like, oh, that's so interesting, because we just, that's crazy. There's an airplane right here, and then the moon, and we just dealt with the airplane and the sun. That's kind of crazy. Anyway, okay, let's keep going. I think that's crazy. All right, Scorpio side of this connection. Yeah, I mean, there it is, Temperance in Reverse, feeling really frustrated, because, okay, with the Ace of Wands, because I feel like your feelings are still really strong. The desire is still really there, right? So it's like, it's kind of like feeling like you're having this, like what you want kind of dangled in front of you, but you can't quite get it, can't quite get there. So yeah, anyone in your shoe would feel really over, anyone in your shoes would feel really overwhelmed here. Okay, Knight of Cups in Reverse, and this is, I feel like, kind of triggering some things in you, some fears, some anxiety, specifically around being able to have what you deserve and desire and love, especially because they do feel like you see so much potential. And like, if this is the most potential that you've ever really seen or felt is possible, then there might be a part of you that's like, if this doesn't happen, or if I don't get to this place with this person, then I may never have anything better, right? So that, again, might even be why you're feeling really powerless, because there's this part of you that's like, it's up to this person whether or not I can have the love I deserve and desire. Beer really wants you to know that that's not the case. Like you, the love that you deserve and desire does not exist in another person. There is not one person that holds the key to what it is you deserve and desire. If you, even if you believe you're dealing with a twin flame or a soulmate or whatever, no one person on this earth holds the key for you to receive the love you deserve and desire, but you. You know, our relationships are mirrors and they're reflecting back to us our relationship with ourself. And our relationship with ourself is going, it has to always be what we're addressing. So if we're not experiencing the commitment that we deserve and desire, sometimes we're, you know, kind of being asked to examine how we aren't committing to ourself, maybe with boundaries or authenticity or honesty or, you know, whatever it is that we're asking to take a look at. We might be asked to kind of examine that from a different perspective. But let's dive into this some more. Let's look at this person's energy toward you. Poison apple. It's gorgeous. Because again, it's obvious that this attraction is there. It's really noisy out there. It's the time that I'm doing these readings. Two of Pentacles in Reverse. Imbalanced priorities. Priorities unaligned. I want more of this person's energy towards Scorpio. I feel like we're looking for a really specific card here. Queen of Pentacles. Could be dealing with an Earth sign. Virgo towards Capricorn. I did see the Queen of Pentacles in this energy too. I didn't pull it. I think it was behind a card or maybe on the bottom. So I didn't say anything. But I feel like this person sees you as somebody who is very secure and someone that they can very much rely on. They definitely see the value that you bring, but they don't prioritize this. That's confusing. I want to know why. Two of Wands in Reverse again. This is another card of misalignment. Okay, so what is misaligned? What are we talking about here? Two of Wands in Reverse. Clarifying. Two of Wands in Reverse. Little Fortune in Reverse. Something karmic. A past karmic pattern. Six of Cups with the Wheel of Fortune in Reverse. A past karmic pattern. This is what's leading because this is the Seven of Cups. This is what's leading to your confusion. What is this karmic pattern? Ten of Cups with the Ace of Pentacles in Reverse. Okay, and then the Emperor in Reverse on the bottom. I mean, this is avoidance. This is avoidance at its core. It's so interesting how we can deal with people who can have so much desire for a relationship with us, who can see us in all the ways that we want them to. Because Queen of Pentacles, they see your value. Ten of Cups even. They see just as much potential in this as you do. But then this Ace of Pentacles in Reverse is like this energy of not doing what's necessary to bring some sort of opportunity to fruition. And I don't necessarily think this is something that they have awareness around doing. I feel like they are making decisions that are really rooted in protective patterns. So, you know, when we have been hurt in our past and we've experienced a history of, you know, betrayal or abandonment or heartache, there is a part of us that is going to always opt for trying to protect ourself from that experience, right? So this is typically where avoidance starts to stem from. And this is why it can be so confusing for people who are dealing with that type of connection. Because when you're dealing with somebody who is naturally very avoidant or carries avoidant protective patterns, they are at their core very much desiring of love, of connection, of intimacy. And a lot of times that desire can very much come through, right? You can feel it. You can know when somebody has feelings for you. You can know when they want to be with you, right? But the way in which they show up is going to directly reflect where they're at in their own emotional awareness. Because avoidant individuals aren't trying to hurt other people. That doesn't justify certain behaviors, okay? But they aren't aware of how the ways that they protect themselves hurt other people. And a lot of times they actually justify their avoidance, right? They have this tendency to come up with reasons to push another person away or to create distance or to not give something an opportunity, not because they don't want it, not because they don't see your worth or value, but because at their core, they don't feel, well, they are so deeply afraid of hurt and of being in a position where, you know, opening themselves up to get hurt in that way that they shut down the opportunity altogether, but the desire doesn't go away, right? So the desire is very there. And that's why you can get the mismatch of energy and actions or words and actions, or even, you know, this hot and cold energy where one day they're showing up promising to the world and the next they're completely distant from you. And I think that when we're dealing with these types of connections, the thing that happens is that avoidance, dealing with avoidance actually triggers certain things in us because it starts to make us wonder, why is this person not committed? Why are they not choosing me? Why are they not, you know, opening up to me in the ways that I want? Or when there's like a really quick or fast switch up, it starts to be, you know, we start to go, well, what did I do? Or why does this person think that I can't, um, you know, that I'm not worthy and deserving of their energy or attention or commitment or whatever, when in reality, avoidant protective patterns don't have anything to do with you. And a lot of times where we get ourselves caught is believing that it is our job or our role to try to change, fix, or save somebody, especially because people who carry avoidant protective patterns are pushing away their opportunity to be loved. So a lot of times we might try to take on this role of being like, well, maybe if I show them that love can be safe, or if I show them that I have good intentions, or if I show them that, you know, I want to, you know, be the person that they deserve or whatever the case might be, then they'll change. Um, people can change. Absolutely. I wholeheartedly believe that, but change starts with awareness. And if somebody isn't at a place in their life where they're aware of their own patterns or where they're still making excuses for them, then that change won't, you know, be able to happen. So I feel like sometimes, cause I get a lot of, of these questions, obviously when, you know, when I get personal readings or, um, I think a lot of times we have this tendency to watch tarot with this intention of mind, which is, um, how do they feel about me? Right? How does this person feel about me? And I think that that question can be very misleading when it comes to what the right answers are for you, because somebody can have all of the love in the world for you. Somebody can see you as valuable, as worthy, as deserving as everything that they've ever wanted and still make decisions that don't allow that connection to come to fruition. And it's not because of how they feel, obviously, right. It's because of their capacity, because everybody has a certain capacity to give and receive love in a healthy way. And that capacity is going to be directly dependent on their level of awareness, emotional intelligence and intentional healing and healing is getting clear on your protective patterns and overriding them with conscious decisions. And that is something that each individual has to make the decision to make, has to make the decision to do, um, which is, it's not fun. It's not fun to look at our protective patterns and get honest about what needs to change. Um, so I feel like, you know, the question, the answer to the question of how do they feel about me is they have very strong feelings for you. They see you as this tin of cups. They see you as this queen of pinnacles, somebody that has the potential to be very emotionally fulfilling, somebody that is very stable and secure. However, their miss, their actions are misaligned because of a pattern from their past due to a situation in their past that causes them to show up misaligned with what it is that they deserve and desire, right? You know, it's like somebody wanting, um, to find success in something. And the example I use often is like somebody wanting to run a marathon, but not doing the work and actually showing up with training and fueling and, you know, actually doing the work to run that marathon. They might show up a marathon day and they're gonna fail. They're not going to be able to, to run it successfully. Their, you know, injuries or whatever is going to come up in the same kind of thing is like somebody can want to love you. Somebody can want to be a part of your life, but have no idea how to do that well. But the flip side is, and I talked about this a little bit earlier on in the reading is that, okay. Yeah. Eight of swords. Um, the flip side is that our relationships are mirrors and our relationship with other people are often reflecting back our relationship with ourselves and avoidance carry avoidant tendency or people with avoidant protective patterns carry a very limited capacity to give and receive love. And if we are very used to that limited capacity, we might accept that while consciously trying to change it. But what we accept, we attract, right? So sometimes we have to look at our own patterns to make sure that we are showing up in alignment with what's best for us instead of waiting for somebody else to do so, because this person eight of swords, they're trapped in a reality of their own making in a prison of their own making. They're trapped in the product of the decisions that they make, right? They have desire. They make decisions that don't serve them. They don't get to achieve that desire because of the decisions that they make. And I think that it can be really challenging. Like I said, when dealing with these types of connections, because we can think that their actions, their behavior has anything to do with us. Now, the thing that we can really start to where we can really get ourselves in trouble is the attachment. When we attach our worth or our ability to have the love that we deserve and desire to their behavior. And we say, you know, the way in which I'm going to be able to have the love that I deserve and desire is if they change, if they see me as lovable, worthy, deserving, and they decide to change. But that typically is a reflection of our own pattern, which we would need to address so that we can actually start to attract the love that we do deserve and desire. But we're going to jump into that. And then some in this extended reading, you have flight with garden. I'm going to pull 12 more tarot messages, looking at the purpose of the connection and the best way for you to move forward in alignment with your higher self. And then I've got an advice card that'll pull from your spiritual team at the very end to close out that reading. Any information for that is in the description box below. Thank you so much, Scorpio, as always for your support of me as a reader. I obviously hope that this reading helped and resonated with you in a way that you were needing today. And as always, I wish you nothing but love and healing and all of the wonderful things that you deserve and desire on your journey moving forward. Bye Scorpio.