How to Tell If She Likes You (Without Overthinking Every Signal)

One of the biggest mistakes I see men making is trying to work out in advance does she like me? Before they decide what to do. You know this is you if you're coming home from meeting a woman and you're thinking was she like looking at me? Was she smiling? Was that a moment we just had? Instead of spending time guessing how she feels you can identify how you feel. Are you attracted to her? Would you love to get to know her better? By focusing on what you would like to happen next this also gets you out of that cycle of really waiting on a crystal clear signal that sometimes never comes. Instead it's about giving yourself permission to take that next step forward with her. Did she just smile? Did she touch her hair? What does it mean? If you spend tons of time trying to figure out what every little gesture means you may find yourself getting seriously lost. Instead I want you to notice is she investing in building this relationship with you? Is she asking you questions back? Is she sharing more information about her life than she needs to? If you suggest walking out of class together does she walk with you? If you send her a message does she reply? And obviously the biggie if you ask her out on a date does she give you clear availability to make that happen? If you're not getting any investment from her it either means she simply doesn't like you or she does like you but there's something in her life that's stopping her moving forward with this as a relationship. If you're noticing she's not investing this isn't a bad thing. All it means is you need to take that energy and that focus that you were giving to her and redirect it to creating new opportunities in your dating life. Be willing to be the person who lays some of their cards down first by saying something like you know I've always really enjoyed talking to you. I'd love to talk more another time. Yes this creates a moment where she's going to go but that's good right because this is about creating romance and excitement. The irony is if you can get comfortable with being one step ahead and communicating intention to her this often helps her to feel more excited and more attracted to you. On the flip side if you wait for that crystal clear signal even if she is a bit interested because you're not moving this forward her attraction is going to start to dip and she'll slowly but surely see you as just a social acquaintance. So don't miss your moment. Be brave and get comfortable with being one step ahead in the process. If you've always kind of put dating on the back burner and you want to use this period of time in your life to really focus on developing yourself as a man and building your dating skills I'd highly recommend my seed coaching program as a great place to start. Seed coaching is free to all of my newsletter subscribers to gain access to this three-part program. All you need to do is click the link beneath this video and I will see you there.