Charli D'Amelio Talks "If You Ask Me To" and the Sad Songs That Inspired It | SiriusXM

Charli D'Amelio
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Jack Wright sits down with Charli D'Amelio to discuss her involvement on 'Dancing With The Stars,' what the intentions were behind Charli's new song "If You Asked Me To," her love for Lewis Capaldi, James Arthur, Billie Eilish and much more.
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AI GeneratedJack Wright interviews Charlie D'Amelio on TikTok Radio IRL (Sirius XM). They discuss Charlie's transition into music, the inspiration behind her new song \"if you ask me to,\" her musical idols, and her experience balancing music with \"Dancing with the Stars.\" The conversation concludes with a rapid-fire Q&A covering personal habits and tattoos.
Hey, what's up, it's Jack right we're here on tik-tok radio IRL on Sirius XM. I'm joined here by Charlie D'Amelio
Pretty good
You're amazing. You're like a star. I did watched your dance for the stars your recent episode and oh
my gosh
Insane like I mean, I feel like we we both grew up dancing and like
It's always been like very technical and like weird like I mean like
She's amazing. I don't know. It's just it's so so good Charlie, and I'm so proud of you like how far you've come
Yeah, you're a star
so I I
Heard recently that you have a new song out, right?
I
I was listening to it in the car, and it was really really good like really good
So what what made you write this song and like like how how did you start writing yeah, I mean I
think
Music and dance go hand in hand. I love music that makes you feel something so I
Was like I want to make a song I just I feel like I feel like it would be so much fun
I want to do it definitely so I got in the studio and started writing and I
decided that I didn't want to write this about a
Real life story, you know I kind of
took little bits and pieces of things that I've been through things that
The other writers that I was with had been through and kind of just like all
Put our brains together and created this story about this this poor girl that cannot get this guy no matter how hard you try
and
We just had the most fun time and overall it was like
So many great things after another where it was just fun
It was just fun and and
on our time and got to be exactly how I wanted it to be and I just was so excited to be able to
Just be creative and tell a story
That's awesome, and I think I think when you're having fun with it, and it's on your own time
That's when you can be the most creative
Your story you know and like I could definitely tell in like the lyrics and
The song name like
And it just definitely reminded me of you like your story. I just I know it's awesome
Can you tell me a little like about like what the song name means and like how does it mean to you?
Yeah, is it a secret
No, I mean the song is called if you ask me to and I feel like there's so many
Ways that different people can take up for me. I feel like I always like to you know
I'm a people pleaser at heart, and you know I I like to
Try to make people happy. That's what I that's what I do, and you know if you
at the line
And the name of it from was I'll come running if you ask me to
It's like just asking and I'll be there that could be a great thing and that can be a thing
You know holds you back, and I feel like a lot of people are like that about different things whether it's work
They're friends or relationships or anything, and I just there was something about that. That was just so special to me
You know if you asked me to if you asked me to do something. I would do you know oh my gosh. I didn't like
Especially like just being in LA and like everything I've been through you you've always been
But like I didn't even have to ask you
You've been there you know
for me and
That's I just love you so much as a person because you you care so much about everyone
You know and about everyone's feelings, which?
Yeah, I just I love it about you and
Yeah, perfect song
To like describe
So Charlie
What are some of your favorite
musical artists or your
your idols I
Would say you know Billy Eilish
James Arthur you know I love a good sad song like I listen to that type of music
24-7 I don't have to be sad, but I feel like that type of music with those powerful voices
There's one song that I
was really inspired by and it's we have it all by Pinstones and
he is just
between the voice and
You know the kind of a rise of the music and there's even one point where it's silent
And it's like I listen to that song and I feel something every single time I listen to it
I get goosebumps every single time I listen to it and
all of that was just these
Incredibly intricate lyrics. I just I mean I admire that about him so much, and I mean Billy Eilish
he's been a huge fan of her for so long and
She has an incredible voice as well
You know I just kind of look at all of these things that I love about these people's music and what exactly
See how I can take
something like that and
Do it in my own way and figure out how I can make it mean
How I can relate it to a story or in any way, but like definitely looking at them
I love the way that you do that, and I want to see
How I would do that as myself you know and I think one of the biggest things on social media is
Just like I
guess feeling like you're not alone and like having
Especially like a song when you talk about that just having something to relate to is so so special
It's so awesome. I also love
Sad music it just yeah, it makes you feel something like cigarettes after sex
It's just like yeah, and it makes you even like when I'm not sad makes you feel so yeah
I like I listen to it 24-7, and I'm like I'm normally not sad
Like my sister will come into my room, and she's like are you okay?
So I'm always wearing headphones does anyone heard
But no, I just
And I love that about it as well and also yeah interpret it any way also like
Especially with the music you can relate to the lyrics to the rhythm would be especially as a dancer like
Like you're very familiar with like all that type of stuff
So it's like obviously you're gonna be a very talented singer any live performances
I do not have any
As of right now because I've been so busy with dancing with the stars
So you know it really has been taking up all of my time
And I've been having so much fun with it, but after it's over. You know hopefully I'll get some
Some free time to you know focus on what's next with music for me. I'd love to be able to perform
Even if it's just like small shows with just 30 of my closest fans
Like I don't know. I just something super intimate and
to kind of
Share it. You know I feel like that's that's what I'm looking forward to the most is really sharing
You know yeah, I just went to Landon's performance at the Roxy
And like it's amazing
I was like my wake my wake up time for the next day was like 630 in the morning
So I like you can miss my show on this your show. We're good
Doesn't even count we were both there, so I wish I wish I could have gone
But I saw the videos, and yeah, I mean something something like that or
A little nervous, just because I've kept it a secret for so long. It was like wrong to talk about you know
Would you ever think about
Yeah, we have we haven't talked about it
Good question I I did
My sister
Elena and I all like they they talk about music together
So that's like super fun to just watch and like every so often
I'm like oh my goodness
You should and you should and they're showing each other's songs, and they're like look at this song and look at this song
And I'm like oh
Look look at me. I'm like right on the outside. I'll be with you guys soon
Just just give me just give me a few weeks, and I'll be a part of the conversation as well
But it's so fun to hear them talk about it, and you know collaborations
They've both done collaborations with people and seeing how those went and you know
with Landon like a die in, California with
Dixie she's done a few collaborations that have you know been really amazing and
It was really fun to watch from like an outside perspective
But now to be able to be in it a little bit more, and you know see oh
I could do something like that. That's that's really cool. You know yeah, like why not you know it's like I
Feel like there was like probably like a mental block. It's best you just like social media. Yeah
Yeah, why not you know literally why not what you know and it just happens that it's an amazing song you know
It's so it's so funny
Yeah, I think like you don't know
Yeah
What are you
I don't know much about areas, but they're like fiery. Oh like mad are they
Okay, I think so I'm like an earth sign
Right so true, yeah
Do you think our areas and
Probably not
I would assume so I feel like we always got along
And maybe that's just us as people. I don't know
Yeah, I'll look it up
Yeah, what French it
You're right
Wait what is Landon? Let me check my co-star. He's a Libra and I'm a tourist
I'm an area
Yeah, something yeah, sorry to the astrology community if I get it wrong
I'm I'll look it up, but I'll figure it out. I'm gonna check my co-star after this
Charlie we're gonna do some fun slash rapid-fire interview questions. Are you ready? I'm ready
Rapid questions, I'm sorry, okay ready you ready, okay? What's the last text on your phone? Oh?
I
Allison texted me something
Something telling me something that I I don't remember it was but something that I needed to know Thanks Allison. You're the best
How many unread messages do you have on your phone
I'm terrible. I'm so bad about this
1451
It's good, it's not bad. No
Aren't the wires
Yeah, and I can only wear them
This is about never know what to expect in this one
Okay, we're gonna keep going quick. I have questions
Have you ever responded to someone sliding into your DMS?
I slid into Landon's damn, so maybe
And what was his response
Yeah, super so complex it was hey, hey
Who's your dream collab
I just visited him really we should go visit
What is your go-to karaoke song oh
Before he cheats carry on
Do you hear that they're doing like saddle ranch little karaoke nights really on Tuesdays
You should do your performance should I yeah
What's the craziest tattoo idea that you've had that didn't actually get
I have a few ideas that I
Want to get
For they're mostly for my feet, but I'm like I just really I go back and forth where I'm like I
Think I'm gonna get those what on the bottom of my feet left and right
You know my I'm all the foot tattoos are kind of silly anyways
Yeah, I look you want to get like dogs
Yeah, I have to be cute YOLO
So you have some tattoos
It's like where's Waldo
That's the fun part is like people will see me up close and like I'm a tattoo
Yeah, no one knows
And are they all tattoos or the stick-and-pokes?
No
You do
One of them's an anchor for my parents when in the military the name yeah
You're just thinking yeah, yeah
You do
Yeah, I ******* love your parents your parents are awesome
No one knew what it was they got the initials
When did you get it a
While ago, and I was like I got a tattoo and no one knew what it meant. I just didn't tell anyone
Yeah, so that was fun. It was like a secret little Easter eggs
We're I love it. That's so awesome. Yeah
Yeah
Well, I
Just want to say I love you Charlie and thank you so much for being on the show with Sirius XM
It was so fun
And every you be your host, I guess
We should definitely hang out soon, you know collab dream collab. Let's collab
Thank you guys so much for watching tick-tock radio IRL on Sirius XM
Thank you so much Charlie for being on the show. I did a lot of fun
Go watch the song now
It's really good. Really really good
Watch she said it
Yeah, I was as I said again I was
jamming out to it in the car and
It was so good, I think I I wanted to cry I might go listen to it again
Charlie thank you so much. I'm Jack right. This is Charlie D'Amelio. Thank you for having us. Thank you
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