How To Learn French To A Native-Like Level (Don't Go To University)

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Jul 27, 2026
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AI GeneratedLeila shares her journey to achieving native-like fluency in French, driven by a passion for Rousseau. Her path evolved from struggling in university courses to immersive experiences in Switzerland and working at a French preschool. She emphasizes that persistence, abandoning the fear of making mistakes, and total immersion are the keys to overcoming academic plateaus and reaching high-level proficiency.
All right guys, so today we have an interview with a successful language learner, Leila,
who studied and learned French up to a pretty like native-like level.
The goal of today's interview is really to get people to, you know, the people listening to
sort of get some inspiration on, you know, how she did this and hopefully achieve this in French or
any other language that you're learning, apply the same technique. So Leila, could you introduce
yourself and also talk about what led you to learning French? Yeah, of course. Well, my name
is Leila and I love learning languages. I started learning French in 2015 and I'm also studying
Serbian, Croatian, Bosnian at the moment as well. What is my background with French? Well,
I didn't know what I wanted to do with my life when I started university, so I could philosophy.
I wanted to ask a lot of questions and kind of discover that side of life and I hated it. We had
to start with the ancient philosophers all the way up to the 80s and more contemporary studies
and it was very difficult for the first semester. I wasn't connecting with any of the texts and it
was very boring to me, but then in February of 2016, we had to read The Social Contract by Rousseau
and my life changed. For the first time in my academic career, I was highlighting, I was
annotating, I wanted to ask questions about what this man thought, but what stood out to me most
was his pity towards animals and the suffering that they undergo and he was the first author who
had really discussed suffering throughout our studies and I thought, I have to learn more about
this man. So, I went to my professor and he referred me to a Rousseau specialist actually,
who happens to be at our university and just as a backdrop, I was studying in Canada,
but I was in the Anglophone part. I was in Halifax, Nova Scotia, so no French around me.
And she turned around, I had given her my questions and she answered some of them for me and I said,
what can I do? How do I learn more about him? And she handed me Julie ou La Nouvelle Héloïse,
a 630-page book and she said, read this and then come back to see me. So, I thought, all right,
let me do this. I started reading it and I fell in love yet again and I thought, okay, I need to
my major. I need to study French. I need to read this in French one day. Whatever I have to do,
I'll do that. And so, my first French classes started that next academic year, which was the
end of 2016 and then would you like me to maybe talk about how I studied it or what that journey
looked like? Well, so I have a question first. So, you changed your major to French, but I mean,
I know a lot of people who, you know, for any language really, they went to university,
took classes, majored in that language, but they end up, you know, speaking the language,
but not to the level of sort of native likeness that you achieve. So, surely you have done
something else, you know, apart from university to reach that sort of native likeness. So,
could you talk about, yeah, this whole sort of overall, how did you learn French? Yes.
So, I did learn in the classic, you know, go to a French 101 where the whole class is taught in
English and you do French exercises. So, that was my first year of French. I was obviously a good
student because it was all in English and I was doing all of the assignments that I needed to do,
but it all changed when I started my second year of French studies and all of my classes were
taught in French, 100% in French. And I didn't know what to do with myself. That first class,
I didn't know that the professor was asking us to open the textbook to a specific page. I didn't
know what she was asking of us at all. And so, I cried and I went to her office after class and I
said, I don't think I can do this. I have no idea what you're saying. Everyone in class seems to
understand. They're all Canadian. They have the basics of French. What's going on? So, she said,
you have to figure it out. Basically, you know, use Google Translate, do something. So, I actually
had to type in on Google Translate all of my instructions in my textbook, all of the exercises
I was doing. It was horrible. It was laborious. It was monotonous, but I wouldn't change that for the
world because I had to catch up to my colleagues around me. And that was my motivation. I had to
be as good, if not better, than the people around me. And, you know, I cried almost every single
night. It was annoying. I highlighted so many words in all of my textbooks. I was translating
so many things. I would reread sentences and my head was going crazy. But that really, really
helped. So, I continued taking those classes. I was struggling still every single day. But I think
what helped was the fact that because I was kind of the worst in class, since I had no French
background, unlike all the Canadians around me, I'm from California, was that for every hour that we
had of class, I had to spend two or three at home doing that translation. So, I got to my third year
of French and my professor said, you know, you're doing really well. I can tell that you're motivated.
You're one of the best students in class, but you can't talk. You need to do something about that.
You should probably go do a study abroad program. And that's when I started taking classes online.
I started italki classes and then I decided, oh wait, Rousseau, Geneva, Switzerland. I'm going to
find a way to go to Switzerland and do a little like pilgrimage to follow the traces of Rousseau,
basically. So, to jumpstart myself to that, I started taking classes on italki and that was
incredible. I had been taking, you know, three years of university style French classes. I couldn't speak.
I could barely talk about what I did in the day. And so, having all of those classes really made
a difference. And so, I ended up going to Geneva. Well, I actually stayed in Neuchâtel, which is
a few hours from Geneva. They had a French summer program there. And, you know, as I'm,
obviously, you know, when you're speaking in a second language and you're first learning it,
you feel stupid. You can't express yourself really well. You can't make jokes, you know,
so it's really hard to feel comfortable. So, I would always resort to English. But I was taking
this summer program with fellow, you know, non-Swiss people from, you know, Brazil, other
countries. And one of my friends said, hey, Leila, we're here to learn French. I know that you really
want this, but you've got to speak in French. You know, stop being so nervous. And that was really,
I really needed to hear that. And so, I said, okay, I'm not going to speak any, can I cuss on this or
no? Yeah, sure. Okay, I'm not going to speak any goddamn English for this whole program. So,
I resorted to French. I felt stupid. I felt not funny, all of those things. And after,
I would say, a month spending time there and having four-hour classes every single day,
I called my really good friend from college. She's Québécoise. And we had a conversation.
And at the end, she said, do you realize we just had our first conversation in French, right?
And it hadn't clicked for me before. So, just being surrounded by all of those native speakers,
by forcing myself to speak it, by pretty much wanting to cry every day again, that's what
really got me to speaking it. And then I came back to finish my degree, but that was during COVID.
I had applied to become an au pair and go to France and study and go there. And that was
an amazing thing that was so important to me, but I couldn't go because of COVID.
So, at that time, I was also learning Serbian and I stayed in Serbia for three months. That's
a whole other story. But once I came back from Serbia, I got a message on Indeed, the job site
online from someone looking for an assistant teacher at a French school, at a French kindergarten.
I had never worked with kids. I had never worked in a French environment,
but I had French on my resume. And I thought, all right, let's just see how it goes. I'm going to
go to the interview and we'll see what it's like. And that was the best thing I could have ever done
in my French studies after coming back. I was the only, no, I think there were maybe
three other people who were American or Brazilian at that school. So, I was surrounded by French
people and I was surrounded by French children. I was learning so many new words every single day.
I had a tiny journal in my pocket and I would write down new words as I'd listen to the teacher
talking to these five-year-olds, you know, because you don't learn that in school.
This is in France or is this in the U.S.?
This is in California. I was back home. Yes. So, I came back from Serbia right after 2020.
I started this job at a French school in California. I was there for almost two years
and I switched to a different French school after that. So, that was pretty much two or
two and a half years of just working as an assistant teacher at a preschool in a kindergarten.
And that is now I'm where I am now. Nice. And so, you gave us sort of the picture here,
but in terms of the timeline of your level in French, just, you know, so that people can,
you know, set some expectations. So, you started in university and could you sort of walk us through,
you know, at what point did you feel, I guess, fluent? I mean, this is more of a,
I guess, a lot of people would never call themselves fluent, but in your case, you clearly
are. But could you give us an idea of, you know, at this point, I was at this level and so on?
Let me think. So, in 2016, if I started French then and I did, I would say two to three school
years of French and I did not arrive at speaking, that would probably put me only at A2. Honestly,
it was not impressive, you know, from the college level courses. After three years.
So, it took at least three years before I went to Switzerland in 2019
and that's when I felt very comfortable. So, I'd say three years. After Switzerland.
Yes, because I was there for three months and I was in, you know, the French speaking part of it
and I was forcing myself to only speak French. Well, I guess it's a good thing to go to Switzerland,
you know, compared to Canada, I guess, because the accent, I mean, in my experience, I studied
in Switzerland. I went to college there in Lausanne. And so, I felt like the accent is
not very strong for the most part, you know, compared to like standard French.
And so, could you sort of describe, I guess, I mean, you said that you were crying almost every
day, but could you describe sort of a bad, like the typical sort of bad week that you had,
you know, at this point? Sure. Well, I mean, I guess it depends. Do you mean a bad week when
I was first learning or a bad week when I was immersed in the language in Switzerland? Because
those would be different bad weeks. I guess let's do both. Okay. So, when it came to university,
a bad week would simply be doing my homework and doing nothing on top of that.
I was very lucky that since it was my major, I had at least three classes a week. So, I had
technically, if I didn't do any homework, at least three hours of some sort of input, even if I
didn't want to do anything at home. So, I'd say that was a bad week because I wouldn't do anything
more than that. I would just be exhausted or I'd be procrastinating, honestly. Right.
Because otherwise, for a good week, you know, I would, if we were learning the conditional,
for example, I would go to, I had written down, oh yes, tolearnfrench.com. It's a very,
very old-fashioned website. It looks like it's from the nineties. I would use tolearnfrench.com
or lepointdufleu.com and I would just Google, you know, I would search conditional exercises
and I would work on those until I felt comfortable. But for a bad week when I was in
Switzerland, I'm very curious to know from other speakers that you've had or your experience as
well if when you're in an immersion, an immersive environment and when you're hearing that other
language, obviously your brain is soaking it up and you do get better at the end. But I feel like
at the beginning, at least for me, sometimes I couldn't even pronounce, I felt as though I
couldn't even say a sentence in French. Some days I felt so overwhelmed that I couldn't, I could
barely arrive at speaking in English. Has that ever happened to you or anyone else you know?
Yeah. So in my case, I mean, it's definitely happened, especially at the, you know, at the
start where you're kind of thrown into it. So nowadays when I study languages, I try to, you
know, get some preparation, you know, speaking preparation beforehand. So I don't have to be in
those types of stressful situations, but you know, it does work. I mean, you can get thrown into it
and just like you benefit a lot from it. And so it sounds like in your case, when you went to
Switzerland, you were kind of, you know, you started having conversations and it was embarrassing,
I guess. Super embarrassing. And I'm sure you've heard of the comedian. I think his name is Paul
Taylor. He's an Englishman who's learning French. Right. I'm not aware of Paul Taylor. Oh, he's,
he has a very good accent in French and he's married to a French woman. And he jokes that
the problem with having a good accent when you speak a second language is that people will just
think you're a dumbass if you make a mistake because they might think that you're French,
but just that you're stupid. So I would basically, I had to get rid of all my shame and I would
pretty much start my conversations unless I was just ordering a coffee by saying, Hey,
I'm learning French. Please forgive me for any mistakes, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah.
Because I was there on a mission. You know, I had to, I still had this Rousseau image in my mind.
I went to some different places where he had been. I went to the Rousseau Museum.
I think it's in Moitié. It's a tiny village in Switzerland where he had been for a while.
And so, yes, I just had to recognize that I had a goal in mind. I was only in Switzerland for so
many months and if it meant sounding stupid, I didn't care. I was there for a goal and I was
just very aware of the fact that I wouldn't feel very comfortable, but that's what you have to do
to start to feel comfortable, right? Sure. Yeah. I mean, definitely it's been my experience.
You know, you start speaking at the start, you know, your first language is you feel embarrassed,
but at some point it's just like, okay, I sounded stupid. I can understand. Next, you know,
it's just more repetitions. Exactly. So if you had to estimate, I guess it's kind of hard because
you had, you know, multiple steps in your learning sort of process. How many hours in total did you
put into learning French? I would say if I had four years of university classes,
because since I changed my major, I had to do an extra year. So I technically did five years
of university. So I had four university years, which would, I would say be 120 weeks of classes.
So I want to guess that that's, I don't know, 1,400, 1,200 hours just from school itself from
university. But then from COVID up until now, I took various pauses. Like I had some different
plateaus. I got busy with work. I have a different job now. So I didn't always take one hour of
French class per week, but that I want to say maybe 250, 300 hours of just one-on-one classes
through italki. Right. So whatever those two added together would be. Okay. So that gives us an idea
of what you had plus some additional exposure, of course, from, you know, your jobs and so on. And
also, I guess in these hours, there are hours, I mean, there are things that you
did that ended up producing not much. Could you tell us what these activities are that
people should avoid? I mean, my university experience, I mean, that sounds horrible,
but starting, you know, learning French 101 and having it taught in English, I think is a crime.
It should be a legal crime because at the end of that, you know, as I said, when I got to second
year French, they started speaking French and I had no idea what was going on. I am such a huge
proponent now of speak to me using your language and I'm just going to nod. I'll figure it out.
I will use Google Translate. I'll do whatever it takes, but don't speak to me in English.
That's pretty much my anytime I have a tutor now, even in Serbian, I'm like a B1. I'm not that great
at it yet, but I tell them don't speak to me in English unless I ask, please, because I feel like
that is really what helps. So doing those grammatical exercises, going to classes,
that did not help me until I started those one-on-one speaking and listening classes
where it was an hour of pure contact. Right. So if you had to cut sort of this whole, you know,
not routine, but in like everything that you did, you just cut out half of it. What would you cut?
I would cut, I would cut those university years. I love my professors. I'm still in contact with
some of them. They have changed my life, but the way in which schooling, I think in general,
as structured for foreign languages is so unhelpful. I would absolutely cut those. I'd
get on a plane, I'd go to a Francophone country or whichever language someone is studying,
and I would just struggle through it. Right. Right. And in terms of deliberate sort of
learning activities, did you, I mean, obviously you got the whole, you know, university textbooks,
but did you have to learn vocabulary through lists or flashcards, stuff like that? Yes,
we had a lot of quizzes per week, which I think was amazing. I think that was very helpful,
actually. When it came to getting the basics of grammar, we did have at least a quiz per week
on whatever grammatical concept we were focusing on. And that really helped solidify the language
by being tested on it as often as possible. And also I just used Quizlet. I know it's kind of
boring, but I, that's how I supplemented my schooling at that point. I made flashcard decks
using Quizlet and I tried Anki out, but it wasn't, the learning curve, as I'm sure you've heard from
so many people was it was just not my cup of tea. Yeah. So I went for Quizlet. I did that. And then
I would always be listening to something in French. So if I was putting on my makeup, if I was,
honestly, even if I was showering, I bought a Bluetooth speaker that was waterproof.
I was crazy. I was going crazy, but I would listen to French podcasts while I showered and
I think I used Francais Authentique and Hugo Inner French. Those are the two that I used
because those are quite beginner level, intermediate level. And I would just always
have those playing in my ears. And I would try to maybe read the transcript if those were available
as well. And so I know about Inner French. I think I watched some of his videos. I mean,
not for learning French, but out of curiosity. And I think, I mean, it's pretty good. He talks,
you know, in a way that is pretty slow and pretty comprehensible. But at this point,
are you able to sort of go on YouTube or Netflix and watch something in French and have,
I'm guessing that you don't have too many issues understanding what's going on, right?
Yeah, I'd say now after my French program, it wasn't a full on, I didn't take DELF or DELF,
but at the end of it, we had to take a, we had to do a, an oral exam and a listening exam. And I got
C1, but that was, again, that was in 2019. So it's probably, I'm probably not as in tune with
it as I was back then with the academic vocabulary. But yes, I listened to native
content almost every day. My YouTube channel, my Instagram, most of the content is either
in French or Serbian. My computer's in French, my phone's in French.
Because since I live in a city where there aren't a lot of French people, almost at all,
I don't think I've ran into, I've heard French once, I think on the street here.
Really?
I have to just, yeah, which is very sad. I'm very disappointed about that. So I have to
create an immersive experience myself and in a way while having a full-time job.
Right. Which is not, not super easy. I mean, I guess you've seen all the videos on the internet
talking about, you know, you need to listen all the time. Yeah. But what if you're working,
you know? So there's that. I mean, you can use the other hours, but you know, people have
families, they have stuff to do. So I want to talk specifically about your,
your accent because you sound very natural. And, you know, for myself, being in Switzerland,
there were a lot of foreign students who were pretty fluent in French for the most part, but
in terms of accent, they were, you know, understandable, but sometimes it did take
some mental processing to sort of, you know, adapt to their accent. It's, it's not always
very easy to understand them. Not only are you, are you easy to understand, but you sound very,
you know, native-like and which is sort of weird because you went to university in Canada. So I
would assume that, you know, that's possibly the strongest French accent that there is,
pretty remote from the current, you know, quote unquote standard accent in France.
So how did you reach this? Was this always something that you've focused on or did you
just, you know, happen to sound like that? You know, I really wish I could tell you that I
worked hard on that, but it just came very naturally. I think some people maybe have an
ear for accents and I feel that way with the languages that I have learned. I do have a
scientific backing, but when my mom was pregnant with me, she was actually supposed to go to France
for a study abroad program, but she found out she was pregnant with me and she stayed,
she stayed home instead and decided to have me. Thank you, mom. But what she did was she said that
she put her headphones on her stomach and would play French tapes a lot. I have no idea if there's
anything related to that, but I haven't really had to work on my accent, luckily. Wow. Yeah.
That's, that sounds, well, it's worth, you know, a try, but then, well, yeah, I'd have to,
if you're pregnant or anything, try to, you know, immerse your baby in the language.
But I think you talked about plateaus. You took some breaks and so on. Could you talk about this?
Because I feel like a lot of people reach a plateau sort of at the intermediate stage,
probably where they're able to talk and so on, but maybe in more, you know, in group conversations
and stuff like that, they're a bit stuck. What did you do to overcome these plateaus? Yes. I'm
actually working on that right now because I started my current job about a year and a half
ago and I really kind of threw myself into this job. I didn't have a lot of time to take French
lessons or focus on French and I got quite lazy and I just listened to things that were in English.
I was comfortable. I listened to French music on Spotify. You know, I have language learning
playlists that I listened to, but I just really couldn't be bothered to study. And so now what
I'm doing to get out of that plateau is watching at least a podcast or watching, listening to a
once a week, discussing it with my tutor on italki. Shout out to Elizabeth. She's amazing.
And I use Clothesmaster for my flashcards. I do that every day. I think I'm on, I don't know,
only a 30 day streak. This is very new for me, but I love it so much and it has helped a lot.
Yeah. And with, so I want to talk about italki, but first let's talk about Clothesmaster. So with
Clothesmaster, I'm familiar with it, but I haven't used it too much. Is this, you know, you, well,
there are clothes sort of questions you have to fill in the blank type of thing. Does this help
you to produce French? I'd say it's kind of like Anki in that it's just, you know, for flashcards
mainly, you know, you see a sentence and you're trying to recall the word. There is an option to
do multiple choice out of, I think, four or five options where you can pick that, which is easy
mode. Then there is typing mode and then there is audio mode where you can speak the word. That one
has a few bugs and I have mentioned that. I've sent that in, you know, I'm sure as you know,
with the demonstrative pronouns in French, you know, they can sound very similar, so it doesn't
always pick it up. So I do typing and I do review of 60 words per day and I've been able to maintain
that so far for about a month and I have already felt a huge difference because I think when you
plateau, you know, for example, I feel very comfortable having these conversations. I can
talk about philosophy or the doctor's office, that sort of thing, but if I want to feel really
natural and use idiomatic phrases and different colloquialisms, that's something I'm really
working on now to feel more at home when I'm speaking French, if that makes any sense.
Right, right. Actually, I wanted to ask you about that. We'll talk about italki, but I feel like,
especially nowadays, you know, for me being in Tahiti, which is, you know, French Polynesia,
we're technically part of France. Whenever I go to France, which is not really often,
I'm always kind of surprised by, I would say, the dialect that, you know, the young people have
developed there. It sounds foreign to me and I can understand for the most part, but I'm just
wondering for a French learner, is that something you understand well or do you have any difficulties
with this? I would say that, so I'm not a fan of social media. I don't post on social media.
I'm not a producer of anything on social media, but I consume a lot of French and Serbian content
and what I love about Instagram specifically is that so many creators put subtitles. So,
when I do see young people talking, maybe I wouldn't know what they were saying if there
weren't subtitles on the video, but after having watched so many videos of young people talking and
using different slang terms, that does help a lot, but I don't honestly really focus on that
too much because I don't want to sound rude, but I don't really want to speak like that.
I'd like to understand it, but I'm not interested in using, you know, phrases like that as much.
I hope that answers your question. Yeah, sure. I mean, it's really quite surprising because
on YouTube, there's a channel, I forgot what it's called, maybe
Y en a France or something like that, where they have clips of, you know, interviews of people,
you know, on the street, but from like 50 years ago or, you know, 60, 70 years ago. Oh yes, Y en a France.
Oh my god, I love those videos. I watch those all the time. Really? Yeah, well, I'm sure you've
noticed that even when they have, I think they had a video about, you know, it was young sort of
French people, 18, 20, and he asked them, like, what do you do on weekends and stuff like that?
And we're talking about, you know, going to bars and stuff like that. And I was really surprised by,
like, the vocabulary is pretty much the same, but the way of speaking just sounds so much more
like standard, I want to say, like what people imagine, you know, French people talk like.
And nowadays it's sort of moved away a little bit from that. But yeah, it's really amazing
how in just, you know, half a century, it just evolved so much. But I wanted to ask you,
so imagine this is kind of a challenge. I'm going to give you, you know, $10,000 as a, let's say
you're a complete beginner in whatever language, you know, not French, you already know this, but
and you have, let's say a year and a half to get to a, you know, the best level that you can
in that language. So if you reach a good level, then I'm going to give you the $10,000. If not,
then let's forget about it. So what would be your routine like, you know, from day one,
hour one, what would you start with? Well, I'm assuming in this thought exercise that
I wouldn't have a full-time job. Right. Your full-time job is just learning the language.
We know actually, you know what? It's not really realistic because most people have a full-time
job. So let's say that you have a full-time job, but you have to do this on the side.
Well, let's say that a job is remote so that you can travel, right? Right. Okay. I think that,
I think that is doable for a lot of people. I work remote, for example. First things first,
I'm buying a plane ticket to go to whichever country where they speak the language that I'm
trying to learn. I guess I'll use Serbian as an example since that's near and dear to me as well.
So I'm buying a one-way ticket to Belgrade and on the way over there, if I'm a complete beginner,
I'm taking the verbs to be, to have, to want, and I'm writing down, you know, I want, I have, I am.
And I try to memorize those on the plane because if it's an 11-hour flight, 10-hour flight,
I have time. On top of that, I'm going to learn, I'm sorry, I don't speak, blah, blah, blah,
or I'm sorry, I'm learning, blah, blah, blah. Speak slower, please. And can you repeat that?
That's what I'm learning on the plane. Once I land, I'm signing up for an intensive course.
Let's say two hours a day. If I'm working full-time, I can't do more than that,
but I'll do a two-hour class. And then I do my work. And then once I'm done with work,
as I cook dinner, I'll listen to something in that language. I'll listen to something in Serbian.
I'm not going to actively think because I'll have just done a Serbian class for two hours and then
full-time job and then cooking. So I'm just listening passively. And then I'll probably
open up my flashcard app before I go to sleep and use some of those programmed sentences.
Sometimes I can't be bothered to make my own flashcards, honestly. I do have different decks.
I have one of pre-made Serbian ones and ones from classes that I take on italki. So I would
go between those two. I'd go to sleep and then I'd start over. And that's what I would do.
Okay. And specifically, so you said two hours of classes every day. I guess if people are not
in the country, which is the case for most people, it's not ideal, but it is what it is.
They can take classes on italki. How would you try to structure these classes on italki? Because
you can instruct your tutor to do whatever you want.
Yes. I have a few mistakes that I've made with those classes that I think might be helpful to
share. The first thing is, I did mention this at the beginning of the call, but when you're
first learning a new language, you're not fully yourself, right? You can't be funny. You can't
say all the things you want to say, but understand that you're not there to necessarily make friends,
which I know sounds horrible. But I do have some, I actually have, when I stayed in Serbia,
I stayed with two of my tutors. I lived with one of my tutors for a month. It was a whole
experience. It's amazing. We're still in contact. I love her so much, but I don't take classes with
her anymore because we quickly switched to English and we just got along so well that
we kept talking. So stick to not sounding like yourself, stick to being uncomfortable with not
knowing how to express yourself and understand that you will be able to, but don't switch back
to your native language as much as you can. Be comfortable sounding like a two-year-old
because that's okay and you'll be able to sound like an eight-year-old after a few years. So
that's one thing with italki that I highly recommend. The other thing is, it really depends
on the language. So with French, for example, or Romance languages, I think just having conversation
and, you know, everybody learns differently. But when I first started doing classes on italki in
French, you know, we just kind of talked about daily routines. I would maybe try to have a
journal and say, this is what I did today. Let's practice the past tense, but just through
conversation, since you don't get that in classes, usually in school classes. But, oh my God, with
Serbian, you can't do that because there are seven grammatical cases. So you can't just start
talking because there are seven ways to say dog. They all have different endings. And then there
are three genders. So with something like Serbian, I always ask my tutors to let's spend half of it
working on this textbook that I have. And then let's spend the other 30 minutes talking and,
you know, please correct me when I speak and when we're talking about this. But it has to
be a lot more structured since it is a lot more difficult than French. Okay. Well, that's interesting.
I never really learned Serbian, so I didn't know it was that hard. But so you would be a, you are
a proponent of trying to, you know, speak early, even if you're making mistakes, it's fine. And
obviously with French, it worked pretty well for you and you still, you know, developed a pretty
native-like accent. I think a lot of people are worried about, you know, speaking early because
they're worried about, you know, sort of having these bad patterns form and fossilize.
So that's pretty good. And in terms of the flashcard application, you said, so
Clothesmaster is fairly recent, but you used Quizlet as well. Was that helpful?
It was, yes, because I believe at that point it was still doing spaced repetition. So it did still,
you know, save a word for me for three days later and then seven days later.
So that really helped ground me in my classes and my quizzes so that I could write.
Oh, another thing actually about my university experience, I had to write an undergraduate
mini-thesis in French, which was probably the hardest thing I've ever done. But man, was that
helpful. I think writing essays is wonderful for language learning and to have a tutor or
professor correct that is incredible because, you know, when you're speaking, you're trying to
develop thoughts on the spot. You don't have time to really reflect. But I think if you reflect and
you try your best, and I think even just having open book things like using Google Translator,
trying to copy a phrase that you hear on YouTube, it's still going to be incorrect because you're
still not fluent. Right. So having a tutor be able to correct that after you've spent time
putting that together, I think is really, really helpful. Right. And what do you think of using,
you know, AI like ChatGPT, Claw, Gemini for learning languages? I have mixed feelings.
I use it with French because I can pretty much tell if it sounds like ChatGPT when I hear it in
French, if it responds back to me, I think that sounds like AI that I don't know if that sounds
natural or why are you constructing this verb in this way. But I don't use it for Serbian because
I don't feel confident enough in Serbian to know if that sounds natural or not.
So for beginners who don't feel comfortable in that language, I could ask it, you know,
can you make me a list of or can you find a list of furniture, household items in Serbian so that
I can print it out and put it on my cabinets and on my sofa that I would feel comfortable.
But anything further than that, that kind of scares me because I don't want to use something
incorrect if that makes any sense. Yeah. Or say something that sounds ChatGPT, you know. Right.
So obviously, you know, you had, you have a lot of experience learning French and Serbian as well.
And what do you, what would you say, well, specifically for French, what is just luck
or circumstance, something that people listening right now, they could not realistically, you know,
copy or, you know, sort of emulate? Well, I was very lucky in that when I started learning,
I didn't have a full-time job. I was a student. I had the ability to do a study abroad program and
get funding for that. And I feel like that is a very, very lucky thing to have. I wouldn't have
had that experience had I started now. You know, if I could right now, I'd pack up my bags and go
straight to Belgrade, Novi Sad in Serbia, and I would spend some time there, but I can't.
So I feel like that was a very lucky time in my life to be able to dedicate that many hours per
day. That was basically my job to study French. Nice. Yeah, definitely a big advantage, but you
know, you did the work and you got where you're, you're, you are today and congratulations. So
Leila, thank you so much. This was really interesting. We'll do the French bit just
after that. So anyway, I think this interview was really interesting. If you have, you know,
comments, put them in the comments section. I think this was a lot of gold here. A lot of
people are going to have, you know, some good inspiration. So thank you so much.
Thank you so much, Luis. I appreciate it.
