Men Are Having Too Much Fun Being Single… And Women Are Worried In 2026

Men quit dating in 2026, they chose subscription with zero drama, and they are living their best lives. And guess who is not happy about it? Kind of a karma if you ask me. All right, let's check out this video. And now we're finally going to realize that men are no longer afraid to be single. I mean, yes, they want you, but they don't need you because they would rather step back, build themselves up, and then decide if a woman is worth that. And that man is dangerous because he will see right through your pretty face, your manicured nails and hell yeah, you also got to love the man living his best life in the background. Yes, men are happy. Being single. They are. They're definitely enjoying it more than they used to before. And it's gotten harder to date. Lately, men are very, like, satisfied in their lives without women. They are, they're like, you know, working a lot, either working a lot. Or if they're not working, then you know, they will hang out with their friends, with their family, with their kids. Well, with their kids, it's a given. But yeah, they they're happy being if they're not married, they're happy being bachelors and having their own space and not having to like commit to anyone. So yeah, I this wasn't the case before. But this is what it is now. They just realized that they don't need women anymore, because life has provided them with everything else money can buy so much. And once they realize that the emotional connection and let's say love that they didn't really get in their life is not worth it, because it comes with so much baggages and so much drama. Unfortunately, these are the men who got burned multiple times and they realize that the game ain't worth it anymore. They chose peace. Men can't go out and have fun without women. Women can very happily go to a club or go on holiday. This is so wrong on so many levels. It's the other way around. I can tell you if a woman is in her 20s and looking today, she's single. She will find any way to go anywhere where there are men who are going to give her the attention because for her, it feels like the best time ever when she gets compliments and looks. So you sitting there and telling me that women are the ones who can have fun more without men's attention than men without a woman's attention. Like really, men can have fun just looking at a bottle. Okay, like explain that to me. I have like 50 plus proof that men have more fun than women parts. So I don't know what you're talking about, but I know what I'm talking about. Buy themselves, go on holiday, girls trip, buy themselves, have a great time. Men, if it's not somebody that they see in the club that they're interested in, or they don't have an ulterior motive with that person, it's not a good time. Like their motives for doing these trips and going to clubs is because they're looking. No, the other way around. They're looking for something. Guys, what was that? That was so creepy. She's like, I feel like she kind of started recollecting memories from creeps or whatever. And she's like, I remember that guy looking at me. How dare he? How dare he even look at me? What a creep. There's a moment most women never ever see coming. And that's when Mr. Nice guy just stopped being Mr. Nice guy. There's no warning, no speech, no big argument. One day he just woke up and started moving different. And that's the part that throws a lot of people off because he wasn't complaining before. He was just showing up, saying yes, adjusting, going out of his way to make sure everything ran smooth. So when the switch happened, it kind of feels random, but it's not. It's been building every time he ignored what bothered him. Every time he chose peace over honesty. Every time he gave more than he had and told himself it was just part of being Mr. Nice guy until one day something small happens, nothing too big, nothing dramatic. And he pauses and he thinks and something becomes clear to him. And for the first time, he doesn't override himself. That is so true. Women usually don't like to bottle up any emotions or keep anything in. They are the ones who are going to immediately find an opportunity to complain about something if something is not right. While men are the ones who keep it in, bottle it in. Until one day they can't anymore. They explode, they change. Or until one day they just don't have any emotional attachments toward that person anymore. They don't love that person anymore. They don't feel the same way and it shows. And by the way, a lot of women tend to actually push men into that. They love to like tease men and see how far they can go. Examine how far they can go before that man changes. And once that man changes, they're like, oh, how did that even happen? Sweetie, you asked for it. This is the result of all the things that you have been doing to that man. Now I'm just in this phase, I'm calling it slutty summer, where I'm just open to not even necessarily being a slut, but just having fun and meeting people. You just called it slutty summer and now you are trying to explain that it's not so slutty after all. Just me having fun. And announce it out there. Why don't you go on a podcast and let everyone know what kind of summer you're having. Can we just bring shame back? Open to not even necessarily being a slut, but just having fun and meeting people and not knowing exactly where it's going to lead. Then just don't call it slutty summer. Simple as that. Just say, choose to have fun this summer and that's it. Nobody needs to know your business and what you are going to be doing. People like, really, we don't need to share everything. The amount of men that are broke, don't want to be providers or spend their money to take a woman out to nice places. What do you want then? Do you even like men? Maybe you should be dating men. These types of guys are wondering what they're getting in return when they're getting her presence. Women can afford their own dinner. They don't need to be there and they don't understand. There can only be one princess. There is no way this was real. This was rage bait. You have like, this is either an AI woman or just a rage bait. How can you say stuff like that with a straight face? A man's life is just simple. It's women who make it complicated. That's what's up. Why are they shirtless? Is it that hot? You know what the funniest thing about so many men is nowadays? So many men are no longer scared of being single. They're now scared of being in a soul-sucking, detrimental relationship that's only going to waste their time, waste their energy, waste their effort, and waste their money. They would rather be single than be in a bad relationship. So it's not that men are complaining because they're single. Men are complaining because they've just seen everything as such a waste of time for them lately. Right, listen ladies, the lies are getting more and more and more flamboyant and dramatic. Why am I telling you this? Because you need to be alert. Open your eyes and realize that most men are just out here lying to you. See, majority of men on dating apps are either in relationships, married, or have some dysfunction. Okay, mentally, spiritually, emotionally, whatever you want to call it. That guy has something wrong with him. Okay, this is why, sorry to say ladies, dating apps are trash. You're never going to find a high value man on a dating app. Never. I don't know if that is true or not. I just know that there are so many more men on than women. Does that mean that all the men are trash on dating apps? No. It might be that the higher percentage of coming to a trash, should we like call people trash? I actually don't like to say it, but it's a higher percentage to not find someone you are attracted to or someone that is on your level. Because there are so many more men and there are so many men who are desperate and it's the easiest way for them to just go on those dating apps, try to find someone. I am against dating apps. I made so many videos about it and I will continue to make because I have a feeling that Gen Z is waking up and realizing that dating apps are just a waste of their time, even though they don't really waste that much time. It is still mentally exhausting, not only physically and time-wise. I think we need to bring more society activities, more hobbies, outdoor, more art exhibitions, yoga classes, running, hiking, whatever, where people can actually meet out there. Or if anything, maybe speed dating. One-on-one speed dating IRL is way better than those dating apps. As a wife to a husband who doesn't have hobbies outside of his wife and his children, men with hobbies are gross. What? What do you mean your husband spent all Saturday golfing? Your husband's in bowling league and he was gone all Monday evening? After work, he'd rather go to the bar with his... Wow! How dare he socialize outside of the family environment? How dare he has friends and live a normal healthy life? How dare he do some sport out there so he can live longer and be a part of your family for longer? How dare he be happy without you? So wrong on so many levels. You guys, if you have a woman who is actually shaming you for having hobbies that don't include her or the children, that's a toxic person. That's a narcissistic manipulative toxic person and you don't need that in your life. If she loves you, she would actually give you a balanced life. She will let you do your thing and she also would do her thing because what are you trying to tell me that you don't have hobbies by yourself? That all your hobbies include destroying your man's life? Seriously, get a hobby. Men really be lame as hell. Like they really be showing you the lame ass video, crying real tears like oh my god. Why are we wearing the shirt like that? And that should be the lamest ---- you ever even watched. Like who picked your sense of humor? Like the ---- that they be sending you that is supposed to be funny. It's like who are they funny to? Do you even know my sense of humor? Nigga, I ain't laughing at one time. Niggas just be laughing at ---- that don't even be funny. Then it's maybe not for you and you don't find it funny. But why are we shaming what men find funny? And by the way, men humor and what they find funny is hilarious. If you don't get it, it's fine. It's fine. Just move away. Move on. We don't need you. We don't care. Because when I walked in, it was packed. And what do you think I saw? What do you think I saw? What did you see? Exactly what I thought I was gonna see. What? 80 women sitting alone. No men in sight. I saw so many black women try to solve a problem in dating by starting to host events in person, trying to create third spaces to facilitate dating like offline. And you know what would happen every single time? The men were not signing up. They would be selling tickets to always because they weren't buying any. Just the other day, a big account that I follow for black creatives did like this cute cupid thing where they were like, Hey, send us a profile about yourself. And we would love to post it and like play matchmaker. Sounds like a cute idea, right? Not one single man sent their profile in. Alright, so probably the solution would be not to charge people for potential dating. Like what do you mean they need a ticket to go and meet women when they can do it for free? What what is what is the whole idea? I understand an event host needs to like host events, sell tickets, maybe in order to like pay for whatever. But how about make them go there and for free. And if they want to pay for something, they pay for the drink they are having or the food or the snacks they're having. And that way you get your money back. But they also pay for something that they get food from, which people love. So I am up for that. But don't make them pay for something when they see no outcome. They would rather go and be on Tinder and do it the easy way because they already have to go out and do the hard part. So also like charging them for it kind of is not nice. But all the men from my previous post saying that they have found peace by being alone and they're not trying to date because they just want peace. Are you trying to say that we don't bring peace to your life? I have to disagree. I do not think that if a woman that you so desired was available to you, you would choose peace over commitment, sex, good meals with conversation and things like that. So I'm going to call your bluff because I don't think that's true. This, by the way, is not police lights. This is some kind of flashing light in a parking lot. I'm not quite why are you even explaining it? I'm not sure what it is. But anyway, again, calling your bluff. Okay. Oh, my God. The way she speaks already sounds like a crazy Karen. The eyes and her explaining that the police officer is not behind you trying to like put her in jail already is a red flag. She's like already telling you, hey, I'm not a problem. It might seem like it, but I'm not one. Promise. It's just some random lie there. Just happened. I think that light should have been red. I love how she says a conversation while eating. Let the man eat in peace. The last thing he needs is a conversation, she added. And such things. When you say such things, what things? Can we like elaborate even further? I would love to hear more. You know what I find interesting? When I hear women talk about the men they used to date, how they spend all this money on them. That's what they're used to. They tell men this. That's what they expect. My thinking is, why aren't you still with these guys? These men spend all this money on you, because they know you high value, but you're not within any of them. Either you left them, or they left you. Maybe your strategy isn't working. And a man is going to think, well, all these guys spend money on you. Now you're gone. I'm going to spend all this money on you, and you're going to be gone. Just to tell the next guy how much money I spent on you. Why would anybody want to sign up for that? Maybe I'm seeing it wrong. What do you guys think? Which idiot would do it? Like exactly. So they spent all that money on you, and you just left them, and you're completely fine, and you still have all that stuff, but he's not there. Oh, yeah. That sounds like a really safe haven. So interesting. I'm going to do the same thing. If a man would do something like that again, after he sees that huge red flag, then whatever comes next is on him. He's the idiot. Because why would you fall for that? Unpopular opinion. A lot of women have absolutely no idea what peace looks like to their man. If your man is sitting somewhere by himself in silence with a little smile on his face, and he is doing absolutely nothing. He's not ******* with nobody. He ain't bothering nobody. Let that man sit in peace. You do not need to roll up on him and ask him no goofy ass question like, what are you thinking about? Or why are you so happy? Because now he got to make the decision to look at you and actually tell you nothing, or lie to you and be like, you're what I'm thinking about. And the whole time that man was sitting there probably thinking about absolutely nothing, just sitting in peace. So let him sit in peace when you see him sitting in peace. I challenge every woman who sees this video to go and ask your man what peace looks like to them. And when he gives you an answer, honor that and let him have whatever level of peace. He told you it looks that is so true because peace for us doesn't look the same. Like peace for men, women and men are different. We're different. And that is completely normal. So when you see a man enjoying his time doing something that you personally don't think is enjoyable, don't go and interrupt him and be like, but why? Why do you think that's enjoyable? How is that enjoyable? Just let him do his thing. All right? Like he is not questioning you watching Bridgerton. So don't question him doing whatever he's doing. Let's just talk about the lonely man epidemic that my sister kind of talked about the other day. And basically it's that so many men are lonely because a lot of women are not willing to take them because, one, women are getting better paying jobs. They're getting better careers and they're getting better paying jobs and better careers. Okay. Let's see. She's cooking. More educated in the sense that these women who are just getting hotter and smarter and making more money don't want just a regular mediocre man. And the thing is with guys that do have pretty well-paying jobs and multiple degrees and are self-sufficing in pretty good ways, they are arrogant. There's not a lot of people that are very humble, but also have a lot of things in their life. So in that point, there's something called the lonely man epidemic because a lot of women are not willing to date just regular men. They want to have a really good provider, a really good quality man, but there's not a lot of them out there these days. Even if they do exist, a lot of them are taken. So it's like you're not going to crash someone else's wedding or their relationship. So that's why women just prefer to be single these days. I can't. This BS is beyond. She is actually sitting there and calling men arrogant, but mentioning educated women with high careers not wanting mediocre men and being all on high horses and being the one who is actually arrogant. Come on, guys. What is happening in here? And she ended up saying women prefer to be single. I mean, if that is the case, why are we even talking about men lonely, lonely epidemic? Why do you even care if men don't choose you and don't want you anymore? Just stick to your arrogant career, arrogant views on life, arrogant everything, high horse and move on. So where are those single 30 to 40 year old men at? A lot of them are just doing their own thing. They go to work, they go home, enjoy their hobbies. Some might be online dating for the most part. Many of them have given up on dating. Unfortunately, the risks just outweigh the benefits at this point. They don't feel appreciated for their efforts. They feel like everything they do is bare minimum. They're tired of all the unreasonable expectation. I'm 35 years old, single income, no kids. I'm at LaGuardia Airport after a beautiful weekend in Brooklyn, New York. I am listening to the new Drake album specifically make them pay. I am flying first class on Delta. We're about to go hang out in the skyline. I am vibing so hard right now. Life is good, man. Yeah, that's like it makes me happy to see men choosing themselves first, but also it kind of makes me sad because being single and taking care of yourself is great. There is nothing wrong with that. That's amazing. But it does come with a bit of selfishness. It does come with the lack of family and sharing that good life with someone else, especially raising your own kids who would like to see a cool dad like that. And that is the thing because if you want to be a father, you do need to be a husband. And if you want to be a husband, you do need to date out there. And if you want to date out there, you got to go through it. And that's that's the thing. And that's what I wish for everyone who I see that they have the means and the potential for a great life. I always think about them sharing that life with others because at the end of the day, that's what truly matters, sharing life with others. TikTok video of that girl being interviewed in Miami who said she's like funded by her parents, but she wants a man who makes like 150 million a year. The interviewer was like, what about a guy who has 50 million? And she's like, no, not enough. Dude, honestly, so real, because there are literally guys out there with stupid wealth, guys, and you're out here settling for the guy who makes 100k a year. 100k is now below the poverty level, guys. And if you're getting offended by this, just find you a girl who's okay with that. Girls who have high expectations and high standards are going to get what they want. I'm poor. We're poor, guys. We, you, whoever is watching, I am sure at least 99% of you, we are poor. 100k a year is poverty level right now. Holy, I didn't know. Okay, we're poor. We're poor together. You're not a loser because you make $50,000 a year before taxes. You're a loser because despite all of the effort women have put in the last five years on this app trying to explain to you what they want in a partner, you still go on the internet finding other losers that you would rather listen to about what women want. We have created maps, diagrams, graphs to help the horse get to the ******* water. But because you would rather value what other men say what women want you're lonely. Oh, she's crazy. She's really mad. She's mad that they chose themselves. She's mad that men do listen to other men and other men's experience, which is completely normal. By the way, women listen to other women and men listen to other men. It is really rare when a woman listens to a man and a man listens to a woman. And I love that. I love that about my channel because the majority of you are men and I am always open to listen and hear what you have to say because we do need that space. We do need to understand each other more. And that's why we need to invite opinions from different sexes and genders. So I am up for it. But of course, a man will listen more to a man and a woman would understand a woman more and it's easier. And we have this menosphere where so many men are listening to other men because they have been burned multiple and multiple of times. And because whenever they did go to a woman, they got denied and they got the hate and they got this. Calling a man a horse, saying that we made diagrams and whatnot to teach them how to go to the water. Like, sweetie, all you did care about is you and yourself. You never actually tried to help a man out there. So don't ask me what I am trying to do is I'm trying to help men out there. But I hope it's working. If it does, then make sure to leave a like. And if it doesn't, let me know what I'm doing wrong because I'm up for the conversation and do this. They could have like the most amazing weekend. I mean, they can meet the president of the United States. They can get a brand new car. They can be on their dream vacation. And then you go to their Instagram and it's like one picture of him and his dog. Like what? Are you hiding something or you just don't want people to know what you're doing? No, it's because when men have fun and when they are pleased with their life, they don't have the necessity or the tendency to go out there and say it out loud and share it with the whole world. Happy men keep to themselves and people in a happy relationship a lot of times do keep to themselves. I have noticed multiple times whenever I am on social medias and there's a happy couple sharing their life, they end up in divorce, betrayal or whatever. So it is all false. It's not true. If you are happy, you don't have the necessity to actually shout it out. Sometimes you do to help other people out and inspire and motivate other people, which is completely all right. But to just like flaunt it out there into people's faces, ah, it sounds like you are insecure and you are trying to sell us a lie. But that is it, guys. That is what I think. Let me know in the comments down below if you agree or disagree with me. And if you enjoyed this video, make sure to leave a like and subscribe for more. It helps out this channel tremendously. And hint hint, my merch is almost there. The website is almost live and I cannot wait to share with you what I have been working on for the last year. So I will keep you updated whenever it goes live here on this channel, in a post and also on my social medias, on my Instagram. I hope you enjoyed this video. See you next time. Bye.