If You Were My Son, I'd Share 3 Brutal Truths About Women That You'd Need To Know!

Courtney Ryan
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AI GeneratedThe speaker uses a book metaphor to provide three \"brutal truths\" for men regarding dating and choosing the right partner. He emphasizes the importance of patience, character over physical appearance, and the influence of social circles to avoid heartbreak and wasted time.
If you were my son, I'd give you three brutal truths about women that would save you years
of heartbreak and wasted time. You see, women are just like books. Some are beautifully written,
some are shallow paperbacks, and some look incredible on the cover but fall apart the
second you start reading. You could admire their artwork, annotate their pages, even reread the
best lines, but the story underneath, it really never changes. So you see, the trick is learning
to recognize the story early before you sink months or even years into a book that leaves
you disappointed on the last page. So here are the three brutal truths about women that you need to
know so that you can choose the right book and never waste your life reading the wrong one.
Brutal truth. No, if you want to keep a woman truly hooked, slow and steady with intimacy
is the key. Pay attention to how slowly her interest deepens when you don't rush the physical.
With men, women have been taught to expect pressure, and if you move too fast,
you'll blend in with every other guy who treated intimacy like a finish line.
But if you take your time, you'll stand out immediately. Because for women, desire isn't a
switch that flips on like men. It's a dial that turns gradually. You see, intimacy that grows
slowly creates anticipation, curiosity, and it creates emotional depth. And no one walks away
from a story that keeps getting better and better page after page. Women are like books. When you
rush the pages, you feel nothing. You're not involved in the story. But turning the pages
slowly creates that nervous excitement that keeps you hooked. But before we move on to the next part
of the video, I would really, really appreciate it if you hit the like and the sub button. It
helps the channel grow. I make a video like this literally every single week. I do not miss a week,
and I haven't missed a week in almost a year now. So if you hit those two buttons, it would super,
super help me out. All right, now back to the video. Brutal truth number two. Your looks matter
way, way less than you think. And your attitude matters way, way more than you realize. Women are
not staring at you. They're not zooming in on your jawline or your biceps. They're watching
how you move through the world. Are you grounded or insecure? Are you kind? Do you take responsibility
or do you make excuses? Because for women, attraction is layered. It's confidence, humor,
direction, emotional control. It's how you make them feel when they're around you. A guy who isn't
a 10 physically can become incredibly attractive with ambition, presence, and stability. Women are
like books. The best chapters don't open for the man who looks the best while holding the book.
But to the man who reads slowly, carefully, and with intention.
Truth number three. Her friends say a lot about her. Don't ever overlook the people she surrounds
herself with. Pay attention to the women she trusts, listens to, and spends most of her time
with. Because a woman's friend group, it isn't random. It's a reflection of her values, her
habits, and the emotional world that she lives in. If her friends lie, cheat, or treat men like
television channels that they're just flipping through, she's either comfortable with those
patterns or she's quietly influenced by them. No one spends all their time around a certain
kind of energy without absorbing it themselves. So watch how her friends love, argue, dream,
and behave. It's not gossip. It's a glimpse into the climate she comes from and the direction
that she's heading. Women are like books. If you want to know the kind of story you're stepping into,
look at the library she keeps around her.
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step is to write an essay. The second step is to record it with a microphone. And then the
third step is basically I'm just filming clips over a voice recording. So all of me talking in
these edited clips and all that, I'm lip syncing. I came out the womb lip synced.
Getting these shots can be super, super challenging because I don't have a team or
basically sometimes I'm pushing my makeshift dolly, which is actually like two penny boards that I
prop up on a tripod. And I'm pulling that and I'm lip syncing to the audio that I'm playing
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