Work with Pluto in Astrology: The GOOD, the BAD, and the UGLY

I think it was over a year ago, over two years ago, I made this good and bad Saturn video, and I realize I do this all the time. I think about both sides of every planet, especially when I'm talking about the malefic planets, and I consider Neptune and Pluto and Uranus, all the modern planets to be, even though, yes, they're not traditional planets, so they don't have those classical designations of being malefic or benefic, they do tend to bring more difficult things to our lives, and I find that when we have a broad perspective of what those planets are and what they do, well, we don't just have the positive side of them or just the negative side. We have a way better chance of integrating their positive qualities and their useful qualities. So that's why we're starting with this series. So today we're gonna be talking about the good sides of Pluto and the bad sides of Pluto. We're gonna be talking about how it is that you identify within your chart whether you are a Plutonic person. We'll also talk about what you could do when you're dealing with Pluto energies, and lastly, we'll look at maybe some positive Pluto icons that can help us get an idea of what it is that we should be shooting for. So that is what I think is very useful to do with our planets when we're dealing with them. If we don't know what a good example might look like, then how could we aim at it, right? So that's what I'm gonna be trying to do in this series is helping you identify what patterns and what planets are those patterns tied to that are causing you just like trouble in your life or causing you to repeat the same thing over and over again because it was a really useful exercise for me that was pointed out by a great friend of mine named Serene. So Serene was really useful in my discovery of one harmful pattern that I kept repeating and repeating and repeating in my life. And honestly, if nobody would have told me like, hey, like this is a thing, you gotta bless up to Virgos, right? Had to be a Virgo to tell me that. So I'm gonna try to be your best Virgo bestie with this series to try to point out the things gently, right, I wanna be a gentle Virgo in your life to point out the things that might be causing you some trouble. Okay, but first, how do you know if you are a Pluto person? So you are a Pluto person, you are Plutonic if you have Pluto in the first house, Pluto in the seventh house, Pluto in the fourth house, alternatively also, maybe even Pluto in the 10th house. All of those houses, that is known as the cross of matter. Those are the houses in the chart that are going to indicate things that you'll see outside in the world, that you'll see in your real life. These are not internal places. So if you have Pluto in any of those houses, then you are a Pluto person. And more so, even more strongly felt if that Pluto is close to the actual angles. So I will put all of these things in the description so you could read it and see if it's you. Also, if you have Pluto interacting with your sun, moon, Venus, Mars, or even your Mercury, then that'll give you some Plutonic flavor to you. You can also experience these Plutonic themes if you're going through a transit of Pluto. And also, if you have a lot of planets in the eighth house or if you have a lot of personal planets in Scorpio, then you would also be Plutonic because even though I use traditional rulership so I wouldn't say that Pluto rules Scorpio, however, Pluto and Scorpio do resonate a lot. They have a lot of similar themes. So this video might still pertain to you if you have a lot of Scorpio in your chart. The more repetition that you have, so let's just say you have eighth house energy and you have a Scorpio planet, let's just say you have Pluto interactions with your personal planets and you have a Scorpio planet, then this video is absolutely gonna pertain to you. So first, let's talk about what Pluto represents. So you can think of Pluto as like your inner monster. It is a sleeping inner beast that usually society tries to discourage us from displaying and because of that, we tend to repress that energy but that energy is still there. And usually what happens is that when we repress something, it's kind of like you're fermenting it. It's like you're putting a lid on it and it's still in there, it's still bubbling and brewing. It is still, if anything, you open it up and put more stuff in there and then just close it back up, right? That's what happens when you don't express an energy. And so in today's video, we're gonna talk about how can you express that, right? So this sleeping monster is a side of you that has a very strong need for control, for protection, especially control over yourself, over your life. And sometimes that could come about through you trying to dominate other people because really what you want is control over yourself. And in order to control yourself, you feel the need to control the people around you because that way they're not gonna mess with you and then the beast is not gonna come out, right? So that is one way of seeing the reason why people who are heavily Pluto have this tendency to be very specific about the people that they surround themselves with. That's why they have such a tight circle. I mean, this has its positives and negatives, obviously, but this is one of the reasons why the more unhealthy Pluto people can be very isolated. And even though Pluto is an internal source of power, Pluto also works from the inside to the outside. And this is something that people often forget. Pluto also has a lot to do with your influence out there in the world. You could think about it as just like this invisible force that you have that makes you able to get things done, to move things along. And I like to think of it, I'm reminded by this phrase that my mom used to use when I was growing up. My mom is a big Pluto person. She used to talk about things, moving mountains. You can move mountains. That is essentially like, think about, figuratively, moving a mountain. It would take the strength of Pluto to move a mountain. That, or Taurus. Taurus would be the mountain. Pluto would be the mover of that mountain. Pluto can also be seen as this relentless source of obsession. You can become obsessed with things. And it's because it's such a concentrated force of passion that you have inside of yourself. Anything that is connected to Pluto is going to be very obsessive and passionate in its nature. And even though Pluto is an ultimate strength that we all have and could reach into and grab and bring out into the world, if Pluto is left unchecked because of this very strong need for control of the environment and of being powerful, Pluto can lead to paranoia, and as I already said earlier, isolation. Because if you feel that there's nobody that you could trust around you, then you're gonna separate yourself from the world. And it is this paranoia that I would think that could really use some of the things we're gonna talk about in today's video. So let's talk about some familiar Pluto life patterns that might have emerged if you're a heavily Pluto person. So usually it plays out in relationships. As I said, if you have been in relationships where there's a very strong power imbalance within the relationship, then you're probably Plutonic in nature. You look for situations where either you're, it depends what Pluto is doing in your chart and how specifically it's working. We're gonna get into that in a second. But either you want to be the powerful person in the relationship where you have maybe the upper hand because you have maybe sexual control over the other person. And what I mean by that is the other person really, really wants you. And that makes you the powerful Pluto person in the relationship. Or you can be in situations where it's flipped. It's the other way around where the other person has this Pluto stronghold on your sexuality. It could work one way or the other. It doesn't have to be just one way. But it's this very obsessive, powerful connection that you have with somebody that lets you know that this is a Pluto connection. If you feel a very, very strong sexual attraction with somebody and it's created some type of power dynamic in the relationship, the odds are that it's probably a Pluto situation. This is not just, Venus and Mars attraction is very strong. And you can have that with somebody else in synastry. But that is something else. It's a different flavor than a Pluto situation with somebody because Pluto has more, Neptune can also cause like obsession and daydreaming and this addictive feeling. But Pluto is more intense. And you'll know when you experience it. You'll know if this relates to you. If you haven't seen my video on Plutonic relationships and this pertains to you, then you might wanna watch that. Another really familiar Pluto life pattern is having controlling relationships. Situations where, again, as I mentioned earlier, because of trust issues and paranoia, then you could put yourself in a situation where either you wanna control your partner because you're just terrified that they're going to hurt you, that they're going to leave you because you feel so close to them and you are just terrified that they're gonna leave you. Or conversely, you could be just completely isolated because maybe you already had a bad situation or maybe you just are just too afraid. You're too afraid to trust somebody because you're terrified that you're gonna fall in love, you're gonna open up, and then that person's gonna leave you or hurt you. And instead of doing that, you just become very paranoid and isolated and shut off. It could be one or the other. You're either in the situation and you've been hurt, so you close off, or it's just all too much for you and you just never got there. So these are all some of the patterns that we see whenever a person has strong Pluto themes in their chart. Pluto can feel like this very obsessive need for closeness, but at the same time, closeness and intimacy can terrify you, but it's like you want it. You're repelled by it, but you want it really badly, but you're scared. The Scorpio Paradox, I made a video about that already a long time ago. I don't know if you wanna watch it. Pluto can also feel like paranoia regarding other people's intentions because you're so clued in on what's going on in the world. You're like tapped into the darkness. So you are always kind of wondering who's up to no good. And because of that, you could be a little bit paranoid and a little bit isolated and antisocial a bit. There can also be this feeling of having like a hole in your chest because you feel like you're missing something. And until you have that closeness and intimacy with others, with one other person, you're not gonna feel complete as a Pluto person. And I'm not one of those people that, like I'm right in the middle. I'm not one of those heavily like, oh, you know, you can just be on your own and individualistic person. Like I got some Aries in my chart, don't get me wrong. Like do your thing. But I absolutely think that personal intimate relationships are very important. So yeah, like I get it, Scorpio. I understand. I get it, Pluto people. That feeling of having a person that you connect to on a very deep level is a very important thing for you. So that's another way that you can know that you're a Pluto person. If you have that need for that closeness, that intimacy, you're a Pluto person. And ultimately, of course, being a heavily Plutonic person can have you feeling like this sense of unfuckwithableness because essentially that is what happens when you learn your Pluto lessons and really learn to stand in your power in the world. You're absolutely unfuckwithable because no matter what happens around you, you know that you're gonna be like a pillar of strength, inner strength, and inner strength that, remember I said, it's the power that comes from inside and it influences things outside. It could move mountains. That's what I said. So Pluto, if you learn those lessons, if you master the power of Pluto within you, if you're a Pluto person and you do that and you do the work, then you're completely unshakable and unbreakable because essentially you have been broken so many times before and you just built it back up stronger, right? That is the ultimate goal of being a Pluto person. It's that transformation and that's what we're gonna try to get through in this video. Talk about some ideas of how we can go through that transformation. So let's talk about bad Pluto. We're gonna talk about bad Pluto first because these are the themes that we see most readily around us because most people who are going through these things are not gonna be, especially, it depends what kind of life you've been born into. You could be a Pluto person that has a lot of access to resources. Let's just be real. If you have a lot of money and you're a Pluto person, you might go to therapy and your psychoanalyst might help you figure these things out. But if you're a Pluto person and you're living a hard life without a lot of money, then you might not have the access to the resources to work on yourself and work on the things that cause you to be a bad Pluto or to exhibit bad Pluto behavior, right? So yeah, a lot of the bad Pluto things that we see, it's only because people have not had access to maybe healing the things that need to be healed. So I digress. I just, I'm like the Pluto apologist over here. But yeah, I just wanna say, like, I get it. Like, my life is, I've been blessed. I have been blessed and I can go to therapy. I can afford it. And I didn't used to be able to afford it. So that's why I'm just like, I'm not gonna shame people who can't afford therapy. Like, I get it. I've been there. Hopefully, one day, we could all turn around and we could all afford it. Okay, so bad Pluto. The first thing that you'll notice when you're in your bad Pluto energy is this very strong need to have the upper hand. And I want, when I say this, have the upper hand, I don't know if this is a wrestling thing, but I just think of a wrestling thing. I watch a lot of MMA. Martial arts is associated with Pluto. And I want you to think of yourself as a Pluto person. You need to kind of imagine yourself as kind of like a martial artist. You're like, you have this strength that is inside of you that if you know how to master it, you can use it when you're in a fight. It's something that you use in a battle. But the point is not to be fighting all the time. The point is to just have a sleeping giant inside of you ready to go when you need it. But you don't need it all the time. So you don't always have to be maneuvering yourself so that you have the upper hand. But that is one behavior that you absolutely have when you're in your bad Pluto vibes. So when like a fighter has the upper hand, they've positioned themselves in such a way that the opponent cannot get to their neck, cannot just choke them out, cannot kill them essentially, right? So when you're a Pluto person, you're always clued into these things. Like what little vulnerability can I have exposed to this person that they will use against me? And if you're thinking like that, don't get me wrong. I know it's a very useful skill to have to always know how people can mess with you. And as I said, like Pluto, me and Pluto like this, like I get it. So I always know who can get me where, right? And so I keep like a mental log. And I just want you to know that if you are thinking about that constantly, then that is a sign that if you're thinking about that constantly and it paralyzes you, then you know you're too much, too strongly in the bad Pluto side. So that's one way that you could know that you're in the bad Pluto side. Another way you can know that you're leaning toward the bad Pluto side is if you're constantly hiding vulnerabilities and it could get to the point that you're just hiding altogether. You just hide from the world because what vulnerabilities, baby? If you don't know what the hell I'm doing, how are you gonna mess with me? How are you gonna mess with me? That is essentially how you know that you've gone too far in the bad Pluto direction because you're so afraid of vulnerability, of people messing with you. Remember, as I said, it's this paranoia, right? There's a healthy amount of being careful in the world and then you could be paranoid. You can be so paranoid that you think that everyone is out to get you. That is how you know you've gone too far into the bad Pluto side. And we need you to come more towards the middle. Another characteristic of being in the bad Pluto side is that you are unhealthily attached to relationships or attachments where you feel like you're needed. You will put yourself in relationships, in situations where the other person needs you and what you don't realize sometimes, well, a lot of us do realize it, you put yourself in a situation where the other person needs you but the thing is that you need them too because that feeling of being needed, it feels so good. It feels a lot like love to a Pluto person. So you could put yourself in situations with people that maybe are very chaotic in your life or are causing trouble in your life but you stay there because you're just like, but that person needs me and that makes you feel strong, right? And if you think about it, that is a huge vulnerability. And lastly, you'll know that you're in the bad Pluto side if you have this compulsive need for personal power to the point where no one can just hint at you what to do. No one can even give you advice because anything that sounds like somebody else is controlling absolutely anything that you do is just too much for you. It's too much for you and you just cannot do it. It's this very strong need for personal power. If it is pathological to the point that you just cannot be helped, then that's how you know you're too much in the negative Pluto side. But remember, the point of this video is not to shame you for being careful, for taking care of yourself, for being a little bit paranoid. It's not to shame you. It is to talk about the reasons why, why you have to examine these things, right? So all of these Pluto behaviors that you take on, they come from somewhere. They are protecting you from something. That is how you feel. That's how your memory is just like, nope, I'm doing this because I remember this thing that happened when I was a child or I remember this thing that my grandpa used to tell me. I remember, there is a memory there that you are playing out that is helping keep you protected. That is how you feel, like you're doing, right? And so the thing is that you need to bring that out and examine it, bring it into the light and write it out, talk about it to somebody that you trust in. And I know that that's hard, but we're gonna talk about that in the next section, right? We're gonna talk about that in the how to deal with it section. And the point of talking about all of this is so that you get to a point where you bring out those things that have caused you pain, that have paralyzed you, that have made you paranoid and afraid of the world and analyze them and bring them out into the world so that they no longer cause you fear because the more you repress something and hide it, the more ashamed you become and shame is a very dangerous emotion. It can make us do things, and that's not me talking out of my ass. Like ask Brene Brown. I'll put some Brene Brown quote down here because shame is a very, very dangerous, dangerous emotion and it is just painful and it does not help you to feel shame. So as I said, the point is to bring those things out that have caused you pain, shame or trauma, anything that has really hurt you. And I'm not saying you need to make a Facebook post about it or you need to write a song and put it out. If you're a Leo and that's how you heal, do it. Do your thing, girl. But if you're not, if you're a very private and secretive person or that's just not your thing, you don't have to do it like that. Everybody's idea of expressing their pain is different. You have to do the thing that feels right and true to you, right? So I cannot prescribe something to you, I mean, unless you came and got a chart reading and we looked at your chart and we talked about it, right? But when I'm talking to all of you guys together, I don't really know what it is that's gonna do it for you, right? For some person, it could be just telling one person their truth. Like my best friend is a very Pluto person and she hides a lot of things about her past and her childhood. And over the years, sometimes she'll just say a little story and I'll just be like, oh damn, okay, I didn't know that. And she's like, I've never said that to anyone. And I'm just like, cool, like I'm a safe person. So maybe you just need to say it to one safe person and that's enough for you. Maybe you need to write a fricking book about it and publish it and talk ---- about your entire family because they harmed you. Maybe that's your style. Do your thing, girl or guy. But you need to find the thing that works for you. That's why I'm having this little speech right now. And once you do that, once you let it out, it can no longer hurt you. It can no longer be a source of like inner pain and paranoia and then you'll have a better chance of integrating all of those things and you'll no longer be afraid of the monster that's inside of you because you'll know that your monster's a friendly monster. It's not gonna mess with you. It's not gonna mess with anybody. But if you need to go into battle, you'll be fine. You'll have a sword. You're gonna be all right. Okay, so now let's talk about the good side of Pluto. What does Pluto look like when it's being good? And I want you to picture this with me. So imagine the ocean. It's really dark and it is really, it's huge, it's powerful. It can drown you. But imagine that ocean being completely still and beautiful and dark and deep. That is Pluto when it is not acting a fool. It is not moving. It is not being chaotic. It is not sucking you under. It is not drowning people. It's not drowning babies, right? It's just sitting there. And that is what a healthy Pluto should look like. It should look like something to be respected, something to be respected to, you know, you need to look at it from a distance and keep your distance and respect it and just be like, yep, that is a force of nature to be reckoned with. It's beautiful, right? But it's not doing anything. It's just sitting there. And that is the ultimate goal of being a Pluto person, to have the stillness of the ocean inside of you and the power of that same ocean ready to go at the drop of a hat if it's necessary. You're not looking to use that power, but you know, sometimes if you need to use it, if there's somebody else being chaotic or somebody else injuring somebody else and you need to use that power, then you're gonna use it. But you don't need to bring it out every day. A good Pluto also looks like a very strong trust in your own intuition because you get to a point where you're, it's like a little antenna that you have. Whereas before, it was too sensitive and it was picking up everything. It was super, super sensitive to the point that it wasn't useful, you were just paranoid. You'll just dial that in. You'll get the settings just right and then you'll be so, so intuitive and you'll learn to trust that intuition because you're gonna do these little checks every now and again to see like, how was my intuition about that thing? Oh, it was good? Okay, good, right? You're gonna take little steps and do little tests for yourself to know whether you've opened up enough, right? You'll no longer be afraid of other people. You have really strong trust in yourself, right, in your intuition, but also in your ability to deal with anything that other people might bring into your life. Whether people like you, whether they don't like you. Remember, as I said, you're gonna tweak that little antenna. It's gonna be way less sensitive, but it's gonna be very accurate. That's the whole thing, remember? Tests can be either sensitive or, what is it? It's sensitive, sensitivity, and I don't remember. Another sign of going towards the good Pluto side is that you're no longer bottling things up. You're not spewing things all over the place, but you're not bottling things up. When people are hurting you, you can tell them in a gentle way. You can tell them in a gentle way without bottling it up, or you can talk about things of the past without it being a source of huge pain and shame in your life. You'll no longer be hiding who you are. You'll no longer be hiding your past or the things that scare you about your past or scare you when you think about, what would people think about me if they knew this? Would they think that I'm worthless? Would they think that I'm not good enough if they knew these things? Good enough is a Saturn word, but still, there's some connection with Pluto because remember that Pluto also has that social kind of influence. So once you are healing and you have healed those things within yourself, you're no longer going to feel those feelings of having to hide things about yourself. You'll be expressing yourself. You will have integrated the monster inside of you, and then you'll have that influence and that strength in the world that, as I said, can help you to move mountains. You'll feel like with your inner power, you will be able to move mountains socially in the world because it comes from inside of you, but it radiates out. That is the quality of Pluto and Neptune, the sun. There's a lot of planets that have this quality to them. This is just something that I just feel. I'll talk about it more later, but Pluto is one of those planets that it works inside, but it also radiates. You know when you see a Pluto person. You've seen people with those eyes. You know what I'm talking about. You know exactly what I'm talking about. Okay, so now for the work. What is the work? What is it that you have to do in order to deal with these Pluto things? So the first thing is, baby, you gotta let it out. You gotta air it out, and as I said, probably in the other sections, you don't have to tell everybody. You don't have to make one of those dramatic posts on social media to talk about your past. You don't have to, but you can if you want to. You wanna write a play about your horrible child? Go ahead, write a play. Maybe you'll make a bunch of money from it. It doesn't matter what you choose to do. As I said, everybody's way of expressing themselves, everybody's method of healing is going to be different, but the thing that is important is that you have to let it out, and I thought about this a lot whenever I was doing yoga. You know how when you go to yoga and you're stretching, and you're right at that point where it starts to hurt, and the teacher's like, breathe into it, breathe into it, and it sounds crazy, but when you breathe into it, it stops hurting, and you can stretch further, and further, and further, and further until you're doing the splits, basically. So when you are a Pluto person, and you are somebody who has this painful, frozen thing inside of you, what you do when you breathe into it is, what you do when you air it out, when you let it out, is like you're breathing into it, because astrologically, remember that the air element represents ideas, communication, right? So as you're communicating, airing it out, you are breathing into that frozen pain that you have inside of you. So when you're breathing into it, it's kind of like that frozen ball that you have, it's melting, it's getting smaller, and smaller, and smaller until it's no longer there, and you're able to stretch more, right? So that is the idea of breathing into it, letting it out, right? So there are many ways to do that. Sometimes, and I've said this to a lot of Pluto people, you need to just, even if you just journal it, and I've had the same response, what are you guys gonna say? No, what if somebody reads it? Look, sometimes just doing it, writing it out, and then burning it, flushing it down the toilet, whatever you have to do, do whatever it is that you have to do to let it out. My personal favorite, this is my personal favorite, is you need to have a best friend. Do you not have a best friend? If you don't have a best friend, I have theories about that, if you don't have a best friend, it's because you haven't been the best friend in the past, or you're a terrible picker. Some people are terrible pickers. They will let just anyone enter their lives, and that is not a good idea. Maybe, do you want a video on that, how to find good friends? Because I have all of these ideas and theories about friendship, because my Venus is in the 11th house, friendship means a lot to me, and I'm very passionate about this topic, so if you want a video on that, please let me know, because I'll talk about it, I'll talk about it. The next thing you need to do while you're doing your Pluto work is test your little theories. So test your theory that everybody out there is out to get you. I'm not gonna say that you're wrong, maybe they are, maybe you're just surrounded by freaking assholes, maybe you are, but I wanna see if maybe there's one person, don't get me wrong, bro, when I was a child, I was surrounded by assholes. I don't understand why this happened to me, I don't understand, but it was true, so I get it, it can happen, but as I got older, as I got older, things got better and wonderful people were around me, and that's why I'm just like, your period of being surrounded by assholes, it's not gonna last forever, so I don't want you to close off, because imagine if I had stayed, if I had thought that my experience of my childhood was the entire world for eternity, I never would have met anybody, because I would have been like, oh my goodness, I'm just gonna stay home, I do stay home a lot, don't get me wrong, but I have a lot of friends, so, and I love people, I've found amazing, wonderful people, I'm so, so blessed, and the friend department, the relationship department, so, that's what I want for you, that's what I want for you, I want you to open up to the possibility of meeting wonderful people, because when you're a Pluto person, that intimacy, that closeness that you really want, you can have it, but you need to test those waters, right? So I want you to test your theory that everybody's out to get you. So, I know you, there are some people that you've been wondering if they're okay, so test it, test it out, and the way you test it out is, how do you do that? So, you give them a little bit, give them a little bit, you just tell them just a little personal thing, see how they react. If they are keen on whatever it is that you're talking about, if they're into it, if they pay attention to you, then that's how you know, like, oh, this person potentially could be a safe person, and you don't just let out the whole cat out of the bag, right, you just give them a little bit, you just give them a little bit, and then, over time, you're able to see if that person can maybe be in your inner circle, and then you're gonna have an inner circle, and then you could let things out, right? That is the whole point. Well, again, I want you to think back. Do you think that there's just one person? Is there one person that has shown kindness to you? So, you know, if you test that theory, if there's maybe one person that has been kind to you, maybe there are two, maybe there are three, maybe there are more people out there in the world who will be kind to you, but you need to be open enough to receive that kindness. So, again, I don't want you guys to be closed off, it's not a good way to be, because ultimately, with Pluto, our goal is to have a strong sense of inner power that radiates outward, and is able to help us to move those mountains in the world, and have that influence that we wanna have to help ourselves, but ultimately also to help other people when we need to. Ultimately, when we have a Pluto that is functioning at its highest potential, we will have a strong inner sense of intuition, wisdom, and personal power that will not only make us feel good, but it'll be able to radiate out into the world, and allow us to have influence in the lives of other people, because Pluto, Pluto got some magical powers, there are tentacles that are emanating from Pluto, right? And we want to have those powerful forces at our disposal. And now for the examples, I tried to find real people examples of good Pluto behavior, and maybe you guys can give me better ones, because I find that because Pluto is such a secretive force, it is more difficult to find it. So all that I got for you, and this is a terrible example, because I'm gonna tell you right now, I've never seen Star Wars, I'm probably gonna watch it after this, because this is embarrassing, but the only example I could find is Jedis. Jedis are, the reason why I say Jedis is because, you know how people always say, oh, they're doing Jedi mind tricks, and I always had that in the back of my mind, I was like, Jedi mind tricks, huh? Jedi mind tricks. So I Googled, what is a Jedi? And I was like, that sounds like Pluto, it sounds like a Pluto skill, because apparently these Jedis have this force that they use in order to keep the governments of all of these planets in check, so that they don't do evil things. And that is a healthy Pluto if I've ever seen one. And also apparently, Jedis are very strong and powerful, like, they're not violent most of the time, unless they really need to be. And I was like, yes, we love a Pluto king that is non-violent. And I don't mean literally violent, because violence is, don't get me wrong, I am comfortable with violence, I think sometimes we do need to be violent and fight. Absolutely, all of the planets are valid. But what I'm saying is that Pluto is not necessarily a physical sort of energy, even though it can be. It has a lot of psychological and psychic energy to it, more so than physical, but it is physical. There is a physical dimension to Pluto, I believe. So remember, my Pluto friends, that emotional intimacy is actually a strength, and it is something that you really want to experience within an intimate, close relationship, bond that you have with another person, and you won't get there if you're entirely closed off. And so I want you to flex your muscles and really try to put yourself out there in a way that allows you to connect with people on that level that you want to have, because vulnerability can be a strength when you are in the right place. I'm not saying that you should be vulnerable and exposed everywhere. I would never say that to you. My Midheaven is in Scorpio. You think I would say that? No, absolutely not. You need to protect yourself. But in the right place and the right time, it can feel really good to know when to yield, when you can open up with somebody else. And it is when you have that experience of having true, safe intimacy with somebody. Guys, remember intimacy isn't necessarily sex. People just hear the word intimacy, and they're just like, oh, it doesn't have to be that. Intimacy doesn't have to be that. Intimacy is sharing of something that is private, right? And so as a Pluto person, as a Scorpio, as an eighth house person, having that experience of true intimacy and closeness with somebody else is gonna give you something that you've never had. And once you experience that, then you really will have that feeling of emotional wholeness that you've wanted. And then you'll have more strength to operate out in the world and do all those things you wanna do and be able to move all those mountains that I keep mentioning. So guys, I hope you liked the video. If you did, make sure you give me a thumbs up. 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