Can We Survive Our First Empty Nest Road Trip?

Van and RV Trip Across Canada
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Epic Family Road Trip S6•EP 18 ///
You did it! You did it!
Welcome to another episode of...
The Epic Family Road Trip!
I don't know if that's going to work.
The Empty Nest Edition.
So as you know,
we dropped off the kids at the
ferry terminal.
Because they have a really exciting couple of
months ahead of them.
He's like, what's going on?
Have fun guys. You going to be able to carry your bag?
We're here and headed down to Montana
to be with Clay and Rochelle
and the awesome team
at X Overland.
Everybody knows who X Overland is,
but if you don't, go check them out. They are legendary
in the overland field.
And they've done some incredible expeditions.
And so the kids
feel extremely privileged and honored
to be able to go down there and work with them.
It's a bit of an internship
and learn from the pros.
They're down there now
doing that. And once we dropped them off,
we headed across the island
back to the ocean
to spend some quality days together.
Getting used to this whole thing of
being alone.
It's been a blast.
We spent some time walking on the beach, holding hands
like we just got married or something.
Hey, you having fun?
We have a beautiful sunset
to end a perfect day.
Carol and I have been
working on our camera skills.
So if this is overexposed,
that's because we're just learning how to use
all the big cameras.
So we realized how much
work the kids have been doing.
Most of the camera work, Caroline and
the boys are doing all the droning
and all that stuff. And the next one
is editing.
Caroline's given me some tutorials
on basic editing.
But, you know, we don't expect
our first video to be in the same quality
as what you're used to, but we'll do our very best.
And to begin with,
we'll just bring this gorgeous scene
from the West Coast.
Very peaceful, beautiful
and overexposed.
As much fun as we're having,
we're also, of course,
missing the kids.
And that's where FaceTime comes in.
We've had the opportunity to really have
some fun times
catching up. They are so pumped.
We can just sit there for an hour
based on listening to everything they're learning
and how excited they are.
Seeing just another perspective
of overlanding
and editing.
Playing as a team, they are very, very
organized and professional.
And, yeah, the kids are
mind-blown
and they've only been there for a week.
We're super excited.
We're having fun. So what we're going to do in this episode
is take the two jeeps,
combine them into one,
and head out together.
Sometimes I'll be driving, sometimes
Carol will be driving, while I'm
maybe trying to fly the drone.
We're just going to have a lot of fun and we're going to bring the adventure
to you. We're on a mission
to find the biggest
trees that some of the local
folks have told us about. The biggest trees in
Canada
that are old growth.
Some of the stuff we've looked at,
people have told us are second growth.
And even that's big enough, but these are
first growth trees, so we can't wait
to find them their way out somewhere in the
wilderness. But first we did some
shopping, and that was interesting.
I went out of the
store holding two grocery bags.
It was kind of unreal.
Normally our cart is just
bag after bag after bag, so
this is going to be fun, like trying
to figure out how to cook for two now.
And it'll be interesting for me because
I know Manny.
I could cook with my eyes closed. I know where
everything is. And then this one is a
whole different configuration.
And so I think the next few trips
we'll be figuring out. We'll be telling you
what we need and what we don't need.
That kind of thing. So it'll be
fun.
I'm just going to find
a quiet spot to pull over
and set up camp.
Hopefully by a creek or a river.
But so far so good.
Very quiet back here.
And Lando finally got a chance to
stretch his legs.
Alright, so we went in.
There's a lot of these washed out gullies.
There might have been bridges before but the bridges
have been pulled. And they're definitely doable
but because we're alone
we came up against one that was really deep
and we thought, you know what,
we'll come back with the kids and finish that trail.
So we turned around. This is going to look
familiar. We're going under a tree.
This time we're not going to have to notch it out or anything.
Our tires are
still aired down. We should be alright
to get under it. We came this way
so it should be okay going back.
Except for remembering that the tall side was on the opposite.
So now the tall is going to be on the short.
So you're going to have to rub
against that tree.
Okay.
Yeah.
That was close.
Scraping.
All the way but now let's go find camp.
I'm getting hungry.
Yeah.
Well this little tiny little collection
has been heating up.
We're at 478 feet so
we don't really get snow.
Hopefully
below a thousand feet
because we haven't seen any.
So I think this will do, no?
It's kind of small.
It is small. It's very small.
I'd imagine you could park right on the road
because this is a deep mission road.
Yeah let's get out and see if it's
it looks like some standing water
but it might be alright.
Muddy.
Well, I don't know, we're
going to figure out if this spot will do.
It is, I mean
nice surroundings. I think
we could just pull up here.
We're not going to have an issue on the road.
At least like, if we put the tent
here, the jeep's here, and then we have
that. Awesome.
It doesn't look like anyone's been down this road
in a while. No.
Didn't really
see any other spots coming in.
Not unless it was actual
clearing.
Oh yeah.
I guess that's ok if it's just one night.
We'll get up early, make coffee, make
some breakfast and head out
to where we're supposed to go.
Alright. Sounds like a plan to me.
A little bit different without the boys.
All day I've been thinking, man, the kids
always help with the tent.
Caroline does a lot of things too.
But just with everything
we're doing, we have become
accustomed to having three really good
helpers with us.
Time to pull our weight.
That looks pretty soaked.
We'll get the heater going up there.
Yeah, I think you've got to do that.
This
sounds like it might be the kids.
Yeah.
All you need is some glasses.
One sec.
By yourself?
Question mark. That's awesome.
We are way back on the logging trail
somewhere in the middle of
nowhere, but it's really nice
and we're setting up camp now.
We use the Garmin inReach and there's an app
which is really handy. It's called Earthmate.
If you have one of these, just hook up
the Earthmate app and you
can just, basically it's like texting.
That's really cool.
There's no cell service anywhere near here, but we're
via satellite, we're communicating with the
kids down at the X-Hanger in Montana.
We were planning on
cooking a meal tonight, but
we got into camp really quite late
and I'm not that hungry.
Carol's hungry, but I think we have,
she's very smart, she had mixed up
from yesterday some tuna salad.
So some of that on lettuce wraps.
I think we're good. Just a quick
quick bite to eat and then
to bed. We're drying out the tent right now.
That's just the way of the world here
on Vancouver Island. It rains.
And it rains a lot.
We moved the stove over from,
or the cooktop from Vandy
and it slides perfectly into this goose gear
fridge and stove slide
up thing. So we're in good shape.
It's our first night, so
things are a little bit disorganized,
but we're figuring out the system
and by tomorrow, the weather's supposed to
improve and we'll cook the meal
that we had planned.
It's kind of quiet.
Silence.
We miss you guys so
I tell you what, you guys are awesome.
Sometimes
someone has to be away before you
really notice how much you
enjoy their company, but thankfully we've
I think enjoyed your company
all along and expressed that, but man
we miss you guys. Even though we
are having a great time
and man, you should be proud of your parents.
They're doing pretty good.
Talking about the kids, that would be a
satellite message.
Yep, that's a
Alright, well, goodnight guys.
We'll see you later.
Night everyone.
Nice pair of rain pants
on top of your pants is what you need out here
because
it's raining.
We just woke up this morning
and it's raining.
We're in this spot we found last night
basically just on the logging trail
and we saw that little
jut out there and
pulled in and set up
camp and Lando wants
to go running. I can hear him in the background
if I can let him out, but we slept
while it was quiet. Just the sound of
rain on the tent
and you can
hear water running all over the place
little creeks and waterfalls.
But today we're just going to carry on down the trail
and keep exploring.
It's going to be a good day, but first
time to get some coffee.
How do the kids get up there?
You know what
might help?
I think they stand on the back tire.
Even that's hard.
Okay.
There you go.
And get one
foot under the
hinge.
You have to do
a hop to switch feet.
Yep.
Good.
And then I get up here.
Apparently that's what they do.
I think you should stand on my shoulder.
Or
just start putting it up and go
half way.
We're just going to jump around and do the same thing.
Yeah. If only we had the straps
on the side of the tent that holds everything
together. I know. We lost those
probably the first month we were camping.
We've got to get those.
If we had those, we wouldn't have this issue.
You did it.
And that is how it's done.
Watch your fingers. Just gently put it back
on the tent and you're laughing.
So Carol ended up going up
the way
the boys and girls do.
She did it.
How did you get up there?
I just walked in there
and then up on the top.
Just on the back side of the hood and then up.
If we keep on doing this, we better
buy one of those racks on the front.
Yeah. For short people like we.
You did it.
We're all strapped up and ready to roll.
Took us a bit longer than
when it's the five of us but
we got her done.
One more sip of coffee
and we'll go looking for some new trails.
We'll warm up the fingers.
Well it's without
logging and this whole area
has been cleared off.
Looks like maybe even this year
and they'll probably start
replanting. So they have quite
an active logging industry
on the island here and they
clear cut sections and then replant
them so you'll see all different
years of growth.
Sorry, just checking my map.
Some will be
30 year old trees or 100 year old trees
or 10 year old trees
and then what we're looking for
what we're hoping to find
and take you guys to
is the old original growth
never been touched. Every once in a while
in these clearings you see
big old stumps and they must have been cleared
in the 1800s and they're still sitting
there. They're huge stumps
as big as this Jeep.
The remnants of those forests is what we're
after.
We were just talking about those big stumps and I can see one
or two in the distance there so we're gonna
end it up. We'll just walk out and
show you how big they are.
That'll give you a perspective
of how big the old originals were in this
area. But they've probably been
grown and cut down several times
since that era.
It'll be thrilling to find these guys standing.
It's only
looks like a couple hours drive from here
so let's go.
We're just gonna
drive in out of curiosity but the
West Coast Trail goes
right up the length of Vancouver
Island and it's one of the most remote and
wild wilderness trails you could ever
do and it's on our bucket list.
We're not supposed to do it this time of year because the storms
can be crazy but in the summer
I don't know how long it takes, probably
a couple of months of hiking.
It'll be fun.
The sinking of the SS Valencia
in 1906
and it broke up out here somewhere
over three days and
left 136 dead and
only 37 survivors
and had no way
to rescue them and there was no
way for them to get out of here, this was all
wilderness, so they
got prompted
to create what they call
the West Coast Trail that I was just talking about
and that's used if you, if a ship went
down somewhere on the coast, they'd use
that trail to get back to safety
of all the survivors anyway, so
it's kind of a neat little West Coast Trail.
It's this place
in the summer when things open back up.
We're not going into town, we're just
we just wanted to come up and at least
say we've been here but we have plenty of food
and fuel and water so we're just going to
turn around and head back into the wilderness but
this looks like an amazing
place to go whale watching.
In a few weeks actually the whales will be coming
back, the grey whales and humpbacks
and there's orcas.
It's kind of far away
but...
That's a dream come true.
Carol, that's your favorite animal.
I guess I know what you're going to be doing tonight.
Walking around with Lando
looking for antlers.
Pretty weird.
There's no more here on soft gravel.
Those babies, that's the
first I've seen the whole time we've been in B.C.
but I've heard about them and they take the entire
road.
Flora Lake Recreation Spot.
The recs,
what do they call them, recreation sites,
they're not quite parks but they are just
free dispersed camping and sometimes
they have picnic tables and
little things like this, fire pit.
But they almost always have a great
view.
And this one is no exception.
So there's five
sites along the lake, five camp
spots and
they're all absolutely beautiful.
We just marked the first
one but they're all just
down the same trail so you can't get lost.
They all have a good view of the lake
and there's some hiking trails all around here.
We are headed for the
big trees but we've got to keep moving
otherwise we've definitely camped here tonight.
It's a beautiful spot.
Alright, we've made it
to our camp spot. We went a long distance
today just pushing and pushing
through the log roads to
the provincial park.
This is kind of the end of the road
and we're going to camp here.
It looks beautiful. The big trees are here.
Somewhere in this forest there's
all kinds of backcountry camping here.
We're not going to do that this time but we're going to go hiking
in there tomorrow probably.
Tonight we're going to set up and make some food.
So I got the tent set up.
We're going to do almost everything
that without that
heater we'd be sleeping pretty damp.
So one of the first things
we do when we get to camp
is get the heater out there. Once the tent's open
get the heater on.
So I got
the tent set up.
Now let me go make dinner.
We didn't want to stop
to get our water
so we're going to chug a few gallons of it.
Isn't that the same water Daniel collected
on the river? Aww, Daniel.
Thanks, Daniel.
And kids,
we miss you guys so much.
So this valley here
from this point on is hiking
so depending on the weather tomorrow we're going to
venture on into the valley
and see if we can find those trees.
Do you think the rain is actually going to stop us?
Stop us? No.
Hey, we're having leftovers.
I think we had this
last night or yesterday afternoon.
But we had leftovers.
It's delicious.
We didn't feel like cooking. It's funny.
When the kids are here, Carol is making a meal
every night.
But just the two of us, I was saying,
hey, I'm not that hungry.
A couple of cucumbers with some dips.
It's fun. It's fancy.
Then we don't have to do a whole meal.
It's kind of rainy and cold. I'm happy.
Today is beautiful.
It's not rainy.
Yeah, take a look at it.
Let me show you something special.
See that color?
Hey guys, we're in
Parmena Provincial Park right here
on the map.
This is the west coast of the island
and farther down south.
You've seen us.
We spent time up in the Tofino area.
But now we've gone across.
We had to go all the way around through Port Alberni
and then just head into these back trails.
Unbelievable area here.
And very forested.
And then you've got some,
you can see the dark green, these protected areas.
First of all, all along the coast,
the Pacific Rim trail goes there.
And then we're now right here.
So in this
provincial park, there's some big, huge
old-growth cedar trees that we're going to go
try to find today, at least some of them.
And we're really excited
about finding those. If you're coming out here,
you've got to get yourself one of these maps.
The company is called Backroads Map Books.
They have all the back roads, all the trails,
all the parks, just so much information.
But this one is called
Parmena, so right up here.
And it is a
16,450 hectare
or 40,650 acre
wilderness park.
And it's famous for its old-growth
forest, so we're really excited
to be here, and we've got
ourselves a clear day.
It's not raining for the first time in many days,
so this is a perfect opportunity
to go hunt those big old giants.
And in the meantime,
we'll see you down the road.
Whew, had my first
lost drone incident.
I'm just not used
to the return to
home thing, but
it just started taking off on me.
And it landed, thankfully,
right in the road.
I had, uh,
the last scene I saw, it looked like it was hitting
some trees, and I thought, oh, we're never going to find it.
But there it is,
and it's filming us.
I turned on
find my drone,
so it starts beeping and flashing.
Hey, baby.
Glad to see you.
And most importantly, all the footage
that we filmed.
All right, now how do you turn it off?
Oh, wow, that's epic.
All right. Whew, that was a scary
moment, but
all's well that ends well.
And I'm learning.
Whew.
