In this enlightening episode of The Modern Day Naturopath, host Dr. Susan Cucchiara sits down with Dr. Doni Wilson, a naturopathic doctor, midwife, clinical nutritionist, and best-selling author of Master Your Stress Reset Your Health. Together, they dive into the all-too-common epidemic of burnout, especially in women, exploring its signs, symptoms, and how it deeply impacts health—from digestion and immunity to hormones and sleep. Dr. Doni explains how stress and burnout can weaken the body’s defenses, leading to susceptibility to infections like HPV and other viruses, and how this plays a role in abnormal pap smears and long-term health risks.
Dr. Doni shares her Stress Recovery Protocol, a powerful method she's used to help countless patients recover from the physical and emotional toll of stress. They discuss essential strategies for healing from burnout, including adrenal and cortisol testing, emotional healing, and the potential role of psychedelics in stress recovery. Tune in for a transformative conversation on reclaiming health and resilience in today’s fast-paced world.
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Hi, welcome back. This is the Modern Day Naturopath podcast. This is Dr. Sue.
Today we're going to be talking about the topic of burnout.
Since it's so prevalent in our society, so many people are plagued by it.
So I invited a very dear and special guest, Dr. Donnie Wilson, who is an expert in burnout,
recovery, stress, and also HPV and women's health.
So Dr. Donnie Wilson, she's actually a licensed naturopathic doctor.
She is based out of New York. She's the author to the Stress Remedy,
among some other books she will share with you guys later.
And I'm so happy to have you here, Dr. Donnie. Thank you so much for joining me.
Oh my gosh, thank you. Susan, it's like so much fun to get to talk with you about burnout.
I know. We were just talking before how we met because I had to do some clinical hours
while I was in naturopathic medical school. And I wanted to make sure that I shadowed doctors
that not only were in New York, because I did want to practice in New York, because I feel like
talking to patients in New York is sometimes a different, it's different than the rest of,
right? They're in a very fast-paced society. And I thought it was perfect because Dr. Donnie,
she specializes in stress and she sees people in New York.
So it was a really wonderful experience for me. We were always joking because I used to be like
typing like a crazy lady, all of the notes that I would be learning from you and learning so much
from the patients. So thank you for that opportunity. It helped me so much. And I want to ask
you, can you tell us a little bit before we kind of dive in to burnout, can you tell us a little
bit more about your day-to-day? What are you doing every day with patients? I know you have programs
you're working on. So can you share a little bit more about that? I know. I remember those days
in Manhattan in the office and, you know, like just soaking in, you know, exactly how to do
everything. So you're probably like, well, what is Dr. Donnie doing now? I'm like, same thing I was.
That was a bunch of years ago. I'm so proud of you for everything you've done and so many people
and for launching this podcast as well. So congratulations.
Thank you so much. Thank you so much. I still see patients as is now. I'm 24 years
in practice as a naturopathic doctor. I'm also a professional midwife and certified
nutrition specialist. And that's how I practice in New York. But I really now,
I help patients from around the world. So my practice is really virtual and I help people
by phone and video. Yes, I still go into Manhattan. I love it too, because it's like,
you know, especially having come to the pandemic, right? We all were like so much working from home
and in Manhattan really closed down during the pandemic. So I'm finding that finally now
people are wanting to like come into the office and wanting to interact in person. And so
more and more I am seeing patients in Manhattan. And as you mentioned it, it's Manhattan and New
York in general is tricky for as a naturopathic doctor, because the profession is still not
licensed here to the degree that we're trained. So we're trained to be primary care practitioners.
And and the thing is, is that I found along the way that even though I'm trained as a primary
care provider, meaning someone could come to me for, you know, annual blood work and physical exam
and pap smear and we're trained, we could do that in Connecticut and in Arizona and in California,
we can do that. So it's like, okay, but at the same time, what I saw early in practice,
and especially helping patients in New York is that people needed help that they weren't getting
from primary care. You know, it's, it's easy to go find someone who can do a physical exam and
a pap smear under your insurance. But it's not easy to find someone who can help you recover
from stress and help you if like, let's say you're having trouble conceiving a pregnancy and you want
to try to do it naturally, or you want to heal from an abnormal pap smear and try to avoid a
surgery, you know, like, these are the areas that women don't have so much access to. And so over
those years, I really found, hey, I want to specialize in helping people who are not getting
help. I want to help people to be able to prevent health issues, right? If we're under constant
stress, we have trauma from our past, we have, we're experiencing burnout, as you mentioned,
that there's increasing numbers of burnout of all ages of humans, not only women, men,
and children and teenagers around the world. So that's who needs my help. And so that's why,
as you mentioned, I've, I've written actually now five books on recovery. Oh my god, five.
I thought it was three. I thought it was three. I know the other one that we recent, I thought was
Master Your Stress, Reset Your Life. And those of you who are listening on or watching on video,
you'll see Master Your Stress, Reset Your Health, which is yes, available like on Amazon and where
you will find books. And it's because I've just spent so much time researching this. And of course,
it comes back to Dr. Su, my own history of stress, right? Like it's what we go through
ourselves that, and what we learn as practitioners attempting to heal ourselves,
that we then can learn from and help others with. And so that really is what I do. I look at some,
you know, when to answer your question, what is it that I do is I like say, I take what I learned
from my own health journey and bring that to the people who are looking for the same, people who
are, who are wanting to be able to understand, to have awareness for what we're experiencing as
humans in terms of stress, burnout, trauma, to instead of just bury that, right? Like the tendency
is, oh, we're just going to keep pushing ourselves harder. We're going to, anything we've been
through that was difficult, we're going to shove it under the rug and we're going to just take
some more caffeine or Adderall and, or sleep medications. And we're going to try to get
through the next day, you know? And that's so common. So many people are existing in that
reality, even college students, even of all ages, right? And it's, and, and it becomes the reality.
The reality is this state of burnout and just trying to stimulate ourselves enough to get through
the day and do what we need to do and then knock ourselves out at night. Even some people are
drinking alcohol or taking meds as it means it, right? To just knock yourself out so we can try
to get some sleep. And you have to, right? Cause then you're like, I tried to talk to probably two
patients this week who they're so hypervigilant at nighttime, but they're like, yeah, I work
seven days a week, right? He's a business owner. And then I'm scrolling on my phone at this hour
because I'm anxious. And do you think the nightmares I'm having and my, you know, these
really intense dreams have to do with my stress. And it's like, yeah, it has to do with your stress,
right? It's like, sometimes there's just simple things. Like we literally just talked about,
I talked to this patient yesterday. I said, okay, well, when can you put your phone away? And what
time can you go to bed a little earlier? And sometimes it could be simple things. And that's
why I love working with, you know, shadowing you was, it doesn't always have to be, people think,
especially New Yorkers, you know, that you have to do something really complex to move the needle,
but sometimes it's just really small changes, maybe getting to bed an hour earlier or,
Hey, do I really need to mindlessly scroll for 30 minutes before bed? You know, creating that
thin effect on our melatonin because I have blue light getting, you know, in my eyes before bed.
So I love when you said, you know, because patients ask all the time, they say, Oh, well,
could you be a primary care? And so even though in the state of New York, right, we see patients
all over the country, think that we can help people other places, but in New York, we, you
know, we can't access technically their primary care, but it's easy to go to a, you know, to go
to their doctor and get a physical exam and have them do heart, lung, the thyroid check. That's
easy. Right. But we're, there's not enough of these naturopaths who are helping you actually
work through your stress. And I, I also love how you said, it's not just adults because of course
we have the adults. And I remember like, again, shadowing you and even with my patients, it talks
to an attorney last night, working really crazy hours. It's not just them. It's now children,
adolescents, now kids going through trauma. So there's, I'm just really happy that you're
working so diligently in this field, because I think that people are not really correlating
the level of stress and then the physiological changes that are happening, which we'll talk
about, you know, but thank you for mentioning that. And also guys, I want you to just press
pause and follow Dr. Donnie on Instagram. She has great tips. She talks all about women's health,
burnout, recovery, stress, HPV. Her handle is Dr. D-R Donnie, D-O-N-I, Wilson, W-I-L-S-O-N.
And I want to talk a little bit about the difference between someone saying I'm tired
and I'm burnt out. Because my experience, they're very different between being tired and being
burnt out. So where would you say if you had to maybe give a picture of a patient, whether you're
thinking of one in your mind or putting one together, what would you say that patient looks
like? And maybe also distinguish between I'm just tired versus I'm chronically burnt out. What would
you say? It's a great question. And certainly fatigue is a possible symptom of burnout. You
know, burnout can look different for each of us. In fact, in my recent book, The Master of Stress
Reset Your Health book, I identified five different stress types. I call them stress types,
which are really our burnout types, you know, which is to say that there's five different ways
that burnout can show up. And even then there's many more possible symptoms for each of those
types. So while, yes, a person might feel tired or fatigued or exhausted, it may or may not,
that doesn't really tell us exactly what's going on inside your system. In fact, when someone's
more tired than they think they should be, first of all, we even have to look at like,
are you getting enough sleep? As you mentioned, sleep is so important. We need to look at their
anemia, iron deficiency, because that's a really common cause of fatigue. Is there low thyroid
function, right? Another really common cause of fatigue. And then we look as a naturopathic doctor,
we would look at the adrenal function. Most practitioners stop maybe after anemia and
thyroid, and they aren't looking at the adrenal function because it doesn't show on standard
blood work. We have to do different testing. We want to know like, where's the cortisol levels
and adrenaline levels. Cortisol and adrenaline are our two main stress hormones, and they're
made by the adrenal glands. And the adrenal glands are above the kidneys, so like in your low back.
And they have a really important job. I think of them as our bodyguards.
You know, when we're under stress and we're navigating our stressful day, let alone if,
you know, like a hurricane comes along or a pandemic, and then we've got a whole other level
of stress happening, the adrenal glands are going to help us, you know, try to protect us from
whatever that stress is that's coming in. And again, it could be, sometimes it's daily stresses
of work and deadlines. Sometimes it's being in a toxic relationship or going through a divorce or
death in the family. You know, stress shows up in many different ways as humans. It's not like we
can just wish that we could eliminate all the stress. It's not going to happen. It's just not
going to happen. So it's not about, oh, so I'm never going to say, oh, we're trying to be stress-free.
No, there isn't. In fact, if we're stress-free, we're no longer here on this planet.
Like, I don't even know if that exists. Like, what does that actually look like?
Right. It's adapting to that stress and supporting your body, right, and your adrenals to be able to
handle. And that's where you shine in the sense of you're wanting to give people the building blocks
to be able to handle the stress. You're not saying stress doesn't exist. And what really
kills me is when I see the doctors just doing like a total cortisol in blood or just a one,
you know, one cortisol reading, like morning cortisol. So can you talk more to, I know you
shared about the adrenals, where they are, but can you talk a little bit about the testing and how
looking at a graph throughout a day and looking at that kind of diurnal rhythm, circadian rhythm,
it's helpful in then knowing how we need to support that particular patient and how it
looks different for somebody else? Totally, yeah. And so that's exactly it, is that it's much better
to measure cortisol at different times of day. Optimally, it's not that we want zero cortisol
either. We don't want zero stress and we don't want zero cortisol. Those are not the goals. The
goal is, as you're saying, optimal. So we want optimal cortisol, which is a little bit higher
in the morning and gradually decreasing through the day. So it's lowest at night. So if we only
have a blood drawn in the morning, we're not going to see that, right? We can't. And so even
if you're, if a practitioner runs a morning cortisol test, it's not really giving you the
right answer. And if they do a 24 hour urine, it's not giving the right answer either because it's
all in one collection. So what we want to do, what I suggest is doing a, either a urine or saliva
collection, because you can, you can do it at home. First of all, you can spit in a tube at different
times of day. You could pee on the strip or in a cup at different times of day. So we can actually
see, oh, here's the cortisol at the time you wake up. Here's the cortisol in the middle of the day,
in the evening, in the bedtime. So we actually get to see what your adrenal glands are up to
all throughout the day. And the other thing I found in my research is that it's not enough to
just measure cortisol. We also should be measuring adrenaline because adrenaline can be measured in
urine as well, from home in a single urine sample. So now we have a much more comprehensive
picture of what's happening in the adrenals. And I look at it as, this is a snapshot of how your
body, body is both impacted by your past stress and how it's responding to your current stress. So
because a lot of people will say to me, oh, is it just because I have my stress exposure that day
that I did the collection? And actually, no, it's not. It's, look at it as like, this is a
cross-sectional view. This is a check-in point in saying, because our bodies learn our stress
response. Our stress response is based on our genetics, partially. Some of us are genetically
more likely to have a high cortisol and low cortisol. And our metabolic pathways, right,
all those methylation and COMT and MAO pathways, how our body metabolizes adrenaline for example,
as well as cortisol. And it's impacted by our stress from the past. Even stress from when we
were in utero, let alone childhood, impacts our cortisol and adrenaline today. So I think so. So
when we measure it, I look at it as, this is giving me like your fingerprints of your, how
stress has impacted you in your lifetime and how it's now responding under stress from this
moment forward. And so it gives me a real understanding and it's so unique to each
individual. And it's so essential to know that because the treatment's different. So even though
we talk about burnout or adrenal fatigue as if it's the same for everybody, it's not the same
for everybody. It's so unique. And so like example, like when you say so unique, for example,
you would do something different if someone had low cortisol mapped on their cortisol pattern
for the four, right, four different low versus if they were high throughout the whole day,
or if they had the opposite circadian rhythm, right, where they were low in the morning and
high at night. So you would do very different things for those patterns, right? So, and I'm, I
wanted to make sure that was understood by everyone that that's why, yes, everyone can do things that
will help their stress in general, right? The lifestyle, the self-care stuff, but everyone's
so unique and presenting so differently. How many times have you thought that someone had high
cortisol and then you see them and they have like barely any, right? I thought, wow, this person
seems like a high cortisol person, you know, based on their symptoms and they end up having low and
then if you do something for, right, well, let's just say, Dr. Donnie, right, no one had really low
cortisol throughout the day and you're giving something to them that's a glandular product or
licorice or things that can make cortisol high and they're already high. Yeah, and I see it all the time, Dr. Sue.
Giving adrenal products to patients, they don't even know what their adrenals are looking like. I see it all the time, patients come in and they're like, oh, I've been
someone, some practitioner said I had a burnout and they gave me this, yes, glandular, that's a
classic, like a glandular to support their cortisol, assuming that their cortisol was low.
I never tested it and never tested the adrenaline and then when I finally guide them to do the right
test and we get the results and it's like, actually, now your cortisol is way too high and it's a
completely wrong treatment at the wrong time of day and so it's very common, unfortunately.
I mean, I'm glad that practitioners are becoming more aware of cortisol and the importance to
address the adrenals but I think the next step is we have to actually do the testing to give
the patient the right treatment because otherwise, you could be making things worse, you could be
I can't do that test, there are things that we can do besides the lifestyle, you know, what
personally and I'd love to hear what you think, I will give adaptogens when I don't know, right,
like instead of, because if I'm giving, you know, glandular products and licorice to someone
with high cortisol and that to me can be dangerously, I mean, they can have severe
symptoms from the cortisol going even higher than it was, so with adaptogens, we think of things like
ashwagandha, holy basil, luthro, rhodiola, those, in my opinion, seem to be safer because they're
more adaptogenic in the sense of, if cortisol's high, it will help them go low, if cortisol's low,
you know, and vice versa but that's the most I'll usually do besides the basic, like, adrenal
support and the B's and the C's and stuff like that because you don't want to make someone worse,
so I'm really happy we're talking about that because I, even with thyroid, I see integrative
doctors giving thyroid glandulars and they don't even know when someone's thyroid and we're like,
okay, now we can create a hyper picture, right, so we're kind of seeing this, we want to help but
it's kind of missing the target a little bit and do you happen to use, I used the Dutch test,
do you use Dutch tests? Yeah, the precision analytical Dutch, which is a dry urine test,
I like it, I especially like the Dutch test for a measure because they can use it to test estrogen
and estrogen detoxification and it'll show cortisol levels so we can get it all in one,
like, I'm always like, okay, you can send your urine to this one place and we get a lot of
information and I also, no, they don't, they can show us the breakdown of adrenaline, they don't
show us the actual adrenaline levels, so if I want to know the actual norepinephrine, epinephrine,
adrenaline levels and I also like to measure neurotransmitter levels, so serotonin, GABA,
then I'll send that to a different lab that I prefer for measuring neurotransmitters because
here's the thing is, when we're under stress and we're depleted and we're in this burnout mode and
it affects our energy, mood, sleep, focus, that's what our neurotransmitters do, so very likely,
not only is the cortisol and adrenaline off track but the neurotransmitters are likely off track
and when you go to the standard, like, in our standard medical system, you would go to a
psychiatrist and they were going to prescribe a psychotropic medication but those medications
don't actually optimize our neurotransmitter levels, they just sort of like are treading
water and causing a lot of side effects, so much better is to measure the neurotransmitters and
then address those neurotransmitters with that precursor nutrients which are amino acids,
this is a whole other thing that I help with. Yeah, that's what I was just going to ask you,
do you like, is there a test that you, so when a patient comes to you, some of the main testing
that you would do is obviously this adrenal testing and then of course, if you want to
check their sex hormones, that could be done in the dutch and now I love that the dutch also has
those oxidative, those amino acids, right, so oxidative stress markers, some B vitamins,
they have dopamine, melatonin, but do you have a special test like your patients,
that you use for your patients for the neurotransmitters that they can get through you?
My preferred lab, and there are now several labs that offer neurotransmitter panels, but my
preferred one, you know what, I'm always like looking at all of them and looking at how the
reports come out and then I'm looking at how they're helping patients, you know, whenever I'm
working with any test, it has to meet certain criteria for me and the one that I use
most recently is called Synesco lab, but I was going to mention Susan because you made such a
good point that sometimes people are not, you know, able to invest in these tests and they're
like thinking, hey, what can I do in the meantime, do I really, and like you could do a cortisol
neurotransmitter panel for probably $500 or like a dutch panel for $400 or $500, so it's just so
people have a sense of pricing, but it's one thing I did is I went through and studied over
100 different results and I identified this breakdown of the stress types or burnout types
that I mentioned and then I created a quiz that people can take that helps them based on their
symptoms, identify their most likely scenario, whether they have high cortisol, low cortisol,
high adrenaline, low adrenaline and that quiz is both in the book, the Master Stress Reset Your
Health book, which also comes as an e-book and an audio book, but it's also right on my website
at drdonnie.com, so if you, if anyone wants to do that. You go through that, so if they don't have,
right, because, you know, unfortunately not everybody can go and invest in all these tests
right away and we don't want to say that you can't invest on these, you know, in these tests right
away, you know, we can't help you, but there's now a way to take a quiz. I even do that, Dr. Donnie,
with patients who, because they see a lot of Lyme patients because of my own history, I do that with
the Dr. Horowitz quiz, right, I can give his quiz to people and I say, hey, if you can't afford X
amount in Lyme testing, look, we think you might have Lyme, let's treat it, right, like there's no
harm in doing that, so it's the same thing to take advantage of her website, drdonnie.com,
yeah, you can go to, yeah, just, well, you can do either drdonnie.com or d-o-c-t-o-r-d-o-n-i.com
and you'll see it at the very top, it'll say stress type quiz and it takes like two minutes,
it's really fast, but it's, just know that it's, we've gone through and then what we did is we
have people take the quiz and then we have them do the actual cortisol adrenaline panel and we
can see that it correlates, so it says to me that the quiz is really good at predicting,
so this way, even as a practitioner, it helps you to know like, okay, you know, like you said,
we can use holy basil pretty safely because it's not going to push the cortisol too far one way or
the other, but if a person's still experiencing fatigue, anxiety, sleep issues, all these burnout
symptoms and then you're like, okay, well, at least this quiz will help you get a closer sense of like
which stress type are they or burnout type and what then are the next steps because I've then
created a three-phase protocol for recovery from that, right, this is the point is that
we don't have, our past doesn't have to determine our future, you know, just because we've had,
you know, traumas from the past or stressful relationships in the past or even our genetics,
right, I mean, that doesn't have to determine our health future or the way we experience our health
in the future, we can actually recover from these effects of stress, we can get our cortisol to
optimal and we can figure out which herbs to help us recover and nutrients and then how to maintain
it over time, so to me, that's really the goal is and I think everyone who's interested in longevity,
living longer, preventing any kind of health issues, not just fatigue but just like cancer,
dementia, weight gain, any of the things that we're trying to prevent, heart disease, diabetes,
anyone with those goals, you know, I want to live long and be healthier needs to know their
cortisol and adrenaline and get it to optimal because those hormones are literally
communicating throughout our body, right, our cortisol communicates with our digestion, how
well are we absorbing nutrients, do we have leaky gut, how's our microbiome, that's all
affected by our cortisol levels, same with our hormone, like you mentioned thyroid,
insulin function, ovary function, these are all affected by cortisol, also our immune system,
if our cortisol is too high or too low, we're more susceptible to infections, autoimmunity,
allergies, so it's like, hey, if we solve the cortisol, we can solve a lot of things.
Yeah, and you know, it's funny that it's not just the patient who would benefit from that quiz but
also practitioners like myself, not only for our own personal health but for our patients,
if we just tell them go take that quiz, right, so that's really helpful for any practitioners
listening, doing that quiz can help us get more data to help our patients and just to what you
just said in terms of all of the downstream things that we don't necessarily think of,
they're like, oh yeah, I think I know my stress is affecting my gut or I think it might be but
I don't think people and you tell me if you're hearing this, it seems like almost I have to
convince my patients that their stress is a bigger deal than what they're, than they're making it
seem for them and to that point, I don't want this to be mistaken for, I go to the doctor
and my doctor says I have nothing wrong with me, it's just my stress because of stress and trauma,
there's then now all of these downward things that can happen, so we do have to work holistically
and work on the physical body too. I haven't had a patient that I've gotten to this day that said,
my doctor said it's all my stress and when I did blood work or extensive panels like we're talking
about, there's not one person in the past 9-10 years that hasn't come up with physical issues
too, so we're not saying it's in your head and it's just your stress and you don't have but
it's both, right, it's, we have to support that physical body while we're also supporting that
stress and so you did talk a little bit about digestion and leaky gut, do you happen to see
when you do stool analysis on patients, do you happen to see that the ones that have the most
stress end up with a lot of like leaky gut markers or what do you, what's the pattern that
you see the most when you do like a comprehensive stool analysis, I don't know if you use Genova,
GI map or what you use, I happen to use both of those, do you see patterns or do you see a lot of
deficiency patterns in like commensal, do you see a lot of overgrowth, do you see leaky gut,
I happen to be a low secretory IGA, which is that whole community a lot, but I'd love to talk more
on the digestion part because of the stress that affects people's gut and all of those psychosomatic
type sensations from getting stressed to then having stomach issues. No, I think it's such an important point
that we're, this is as naturopathic doctors, right, we see that we are interconnected humans even
though in the standard medical system it's like separate, oh you go to one practitioner for
something that's going on with your mind and you go to a different doctor for something for your gut
whereas you and I are looking at it as, oh these are all interconnected systems, we can't separate
it and definitely our, even our psycho-emotional stress is going to affect our gut, that's
what's called the gut-brain axis, in fact too what's going on in our gut is going to affect our
emotional state, both, goes both ways, so absolutely, I mean what we know from, even if we break it down
from, say you're going through a stressful time and your cortisol is either too high or too low
at different times a day, that's going to send signals to your digestion and we know that when
our gut gets stressed signals, it decreases our digestion, so we don't digest our food as well,
we don't absorb our nutrients as well, we're more likely to become nutrient deficient,
our intestinal cells are not recovering as well, so we're more likely to develop
leaky gut or what's known as intestinal permeability and it sounds like maybe you've
covered that a little bit already and it affects our gut microbiome, research shows that when
humans are under stress, let alone when we have to take antibiotics that kills our gut bacteria
or eating gluten that disrupts our gut bacteria, but stress alone disrupts our gut bacteria and
those gut bacteria really are another huge protective mechanism in our human existence,
we know now that if we have a good balance of gut bacteria, they're going to be able to help
not only signaling to our brain and our nervous system, but they're also signaling to our immune
system and so if they are off track, we're more likely to have, say if it's reactivated Lyme or
Epstein-Barr or I also see the connection because the research shows there's a connection between
the gut microbiome and the vaginal microbiome and that's not always talked about right, we hear this
gut-brain connection, but now there's also a gut-vaginal connection and women who've experienced
vaginal yeast or vaginal PV, you probably are already thinking oh is there some relationship
to my gut, but most people aren't necessarily realizing that except the research now is so clear
that once our gut bacteria get thrown off, it's likely going to disrupt the vaginal
microbiome as well and women become more susceptible to vaginal infections including
testing positive for high-risk HPV, we most all just like we're most all exposed to Epstein-Barr
virus right, that's like something that happens usually by age 20, we're exposed to Epstein-Barr
virus, with HPV most all of us are exposed by age 50, 80 percent of us, so it's not about with
HPV virus, high-risk HPV virus which is associated with cancer risk like cervical cancer, vaginal
cancer and other kinds of cancer like even rectal and oral cancers for women that we're most all
exposed to it, so a lot of times people think oh it's it's not going to happen to me, maybe I've
only had one or two sexual partners, well it happens to most all of us even with one or two
sexual partners and so it's not just about the exposure right, we know that with Epstein-Barr
too, it's not just about being exposed to Epstein-Barr, it's about the health of your environment and if
your bacteria, if your microbiome, your gut microbiome is depleted and you've got leaky gut,
Epstein-Barr is more active, more likely to reactivate right, you specialize in helping
people in this, well the same thing happens vaginally with HPV when our microbiome is
depleted and you know what, guess what, when we, when women go through perimenopause and our hormones
drop, so now this estrogen and progesterone drops, that also affects the vaginal microbiome, so now
they are not protecting women as much from HPV, so between the stress, perimenopause and
whatever else we're exposed to in terms of you know toxins and you know different exposures,
now this HPV has this opportunity to thrive and more and more women are testing positive
to high-risk HPV virus, it's actually, first of all doctors are testing for it more but also
the, just in the United States alone 11,000, over 11,000 women are diagnosed with cervical
cancer every year and it's even higher worldwide, it's over 600,000 women are diagnosed with
cervical cancer every year caused by high-risk HPV virus and the problem is just like you mentioned,
the doctor, in the doctor's office they might say this is caused by your stress or sometimes
they even tell women it's not caused by stress which is completely wrong because the research
is very clear that that HPV is related to stress exposure but women are sent out of their
gynecologist's office being told there's nothing you can do, that all you can do is come back,
if cancer develops then we can do a surgery or we can do chemotherapy but they don't give women
a treatment and so women are in a place of like what am I supposed to do, I have this virus that
could cause cancer, what am I going to do, that is very scary so but the fact is like what you and
I are talking about, this is a perfect example of we can restore healthy microbiome right, we can,
we can restore the healthy vaginal microbiome, gut microbiome, we can re-optimize cortisol as
we talked about, we can get the immune system working again so that your body can clear these
viruses right, the body can clear HPV, it can clear EDV, it's possible. Yeah I think people are not
talking about what's possible because they don't do it in the conventional, excuse me, in the
conventional model they're not doing those things so I don't think people are realizing what's
possible and what Dr. Donnie too is talking about and a lot of people may not know what this word
means but we use the word terrain right, like that just means the environment, it means like
in other words our soil right, I know from my mentor Dr. Senseney we should we would talk about
this all the time, it's like he would even bring up this example where if a person would have cancer
they would go and cut out wherever the cancer is and he would say it's like a game of whack-a-mole
right, you cut out that and then it's going to grow somewhere else because that soil was not
changed. So I think the important thing to remember here is yes while there are things
you can do to support HPV virus, I think the most important thing that we need to do as naturopathic
doctors is get down to that root cause of what's going on with our cortisol, our neurotransmitters,
what's going on with our gut health, what's going on with our immune system first and then we could
say okay we can add in now these other things that are really good like I'm sure for example
we know that certain green tea extracts can be good for you know HPV or beta carotene or vitamin
A, these are lovely things we can use but I also want to make sure people know that while that's
great to use you want to get down to the root cause of why your environment is like that to
begin with. It's true we can use immune boosting you know yes like vitamin C, vitamin A, we can use
we can use mushroom extracts, we can use antiviral herbs, we can we can have a whole arsenal of
naturopathic antiviral things we can do and do I do help women to do that except that what I've
found over the years because I've been helping women for this for over 24 years is that that's
not always enough because as you're saying if the state of your of your in your body that's what
what you know in terms of the terrain it's like what is this what is the status when you really
and it it takes us being honest with ourselves doesn't it so it's like we have to be honest
enough and we're taught to like blame it on something external and distract ourselves and
it takes enough it takes enough time to just sit still and breathe and and realize first of all
I'm important my my health is important I'm a priority my health is a priority I deserve to
solve this to feel better right we kind of have to take in those mindset shifts first enough
to realize wow if I'm important and it's possible for me to heal then now what are the next steps
that I can take to gain awareness for what's my body really trying to tell me is my body been
trying to tell me that it needs attention that it needs me to take breaks during the day or go to
bed an hour earlier like you said before but sometimes we can't choose those things until we
realize our own self-worth and and start loving ourselves more
I was just gonna say it but then it's like that self-worth part which comes back to which we
always talk about the trauma component right like do I feel worthy enough or do I even feel safe
enough to feel my feelings and feel into if I'm living in a way that's not serving me do I feel
even like I can go there with myself and sometimes maybe it's not the right time maybe
you you know you're working 12 hours a day at work and maybe that's not the time to go into
something deep and dark that needs to be processed but those things need to be processed and I think
we talked about this me and Dr. Donnie uh we had you had a podcast I think we talked about this
subject I don't remember do you remember the name of it it's on youtube it's um if you look up my
podcast is how humans heal and you can just search Dr. Sukhachar and you're gonna see it and
it's about trauma recovery we did talk about this um that's a great point we can go find that that
conversation you and I had a few years ago yeah like if you know we get to that a certain point
sometimes where we realize a lot of times it's when someone really realizes that either they're
just not happy in their life and they're like I'm not okay with just suppressing this anymore
I'm I want something to change sometimes it's because a big health scare comes up
you know because maybe there's an abnormal pap smear and cancer is you know sort of on the edge
you know like I I'm not willing to get cervical cancer I'm willing to do if I can change my diet
if I have to take some herbs if I have to do some vaginal suppositories and if I have to face my
trauma I'm willing because I'm not willing to get cancer right sometimes it happens something
like that yeah yeah and it has to be sometimes it's unfortunately something like you said
something scary that comes up that pushes people right when they don't have symptoms
right that's almost like that silent I mean just like what's lingering in the background right
there's no symptoms and you're like oh I'm fine but it's like are you are you fine yeah are you
really are you really experiencing joy and passion in your purpose and and and sometimes
we do feel so we get stuck we get feeling like well I don't want I'm in a relationship and I
don't want to disrupt this relationship or I'm in a job and I'm afraid of losing my job right we get
afraid of the identity or the roles that we've kind of gotten ourselves into and yes sometimes
when we look a little closer we might realize actually I want to be doing something different
with my day I want to be doing I want to I and and maybe it doesn't match with that same job
or relationship that you're in and then and you go you're then going to go through a process of
self-discovery but it what I find is and when someone goes through that kind of
really I call it I call it a heroine's transformation because you become your
own hero or heroine to say hey I let everything else fall away that's that's keeping me stuck
because that's what's disrupting my terrain and making me susceptible to health issues I had to
learn this the hard way myself you know like I had you and I have this experience of migraines
I had migraines for for decades and I wasn't telling anyone I didn't I was probably having
migraines back when you and I were working together and I probably didn't say anything
because I know because it's like something you don't want to tell it's like almost feels like
I don't know if it feels like this to you but almost it feels like if I tell someone I have
migraines does that mean I don't know it's like almost like am I weak or am I it's it's almost
like badge of like shame I don't know what it is did you feel like that way too like
I shouldn't have these if I tell someone that yeah I did and I felt like I'm a naturopathic
I'm helping people with their health so I'm not supposed to have an issue with my health
and sometimes even like recently like I caught a cold virus and you know and I was like having
to reschedule patients and it's like there's a joke the doctor is not supposed to get sick
but actually it's a reality we are still human I just saw a patient before we chatted today and
she was telling me a story about you know how she has to you know in crisis care take a medication
for something and it was for you know lack of sleep and I actually shared with her and it made
her feel so much better that look I'm human too this also happened to me and I think sometimes
sharing with them that we also experience like these literal human experiences helps them but
as naturopaths we almost feel like we have to be so perfect in our health that you know we don't
also have potentially stressful events that happen to us we all have you know throughout the years
I've shared a little bit more it's been very uncomfortable for me but shared more about my
own you know childhood trauma coming out and I'm still dealing with and healing from all of that
and all the stuff that's been shoved under the rug for so long right so it's like almost as a
naturopath we feel like oh my god we can't tell anybody because we're the naturopath and we have
to be this you know example for everybody but we're human just like everyone else and we may
realize that we have too much stress and you know they also say who used to say this and we went to
different naturopathic schools but there was this professor he used to say you know you teach what
you have to learn right so it's like okay I you know as talking to some of these patients okay
I have to look at myself and say well have I been to bed an hour earlier right they're like
almost like I don't know about you but it like checks me every time I talk to someone and I
I will share with them when indicated when there's a human experience that makes them they're like oh
I feel so much better and you can just kind of feel them take a breath and I absolutely I see
this too with patients and with myself and I found that once I started talking about my experience
with migraines and really sharing about it it really made a huge difference and now I don't get
those migraines anymore I mean I I also use it as a like I said earlier I learn from my own
experience how do I how do I get myself through a cold how do I prevent a migraine how do I keep
myself out of elders down low pain those things that I learned from my own health then I can use
for my patients it's a it's it's a source of wisdom and I and then I I'm also always willing
to try things on myself before I try them on patients because it's it's then I'm speaking from
real experience with myself and I and I then become the proof that it's working you know that
and you're right like you know to be able to write a book on insomnia I have one of my books is on
insomnia one of my and then on the stress books I had to apply this information to myself I had to
literally master my own stress um and master my own self-care in order to feel comfortable sharing
it with others and and I feel like that's really important that's something that I recommend people
look for in a practitioner is someone who's not just saying stuff because it's in the science or
but someone who's actually doing it themselves walking the talk learning from it themselves
going through the healing journey themselves we're all ultimately we're all humans and we're all on
a healing journey and if if then I can be a better guide on that healing journey then that's my goal
absolutely and connecting with your practitioner it you know I I shared recently you know there's
this there's a relationship between this right doctor and and patient in a sense of there should
be this like healing relationship it should feel therapeutic right it should feel you should feel
comfortable and you should feel like your practitioner is one that's not judging you
that's helping support you and also in those moments of weakness sharing things that may be
personal that we'd help them in their journey and a few things before we close that I thought
was important was people who say they're tired like Dr. Donnie said before right that's just one
way that burnout can show out that they're tired yeah generally most burned out patients say I'm
tired but beside if just let's say their iron and their thyroid is normal I personally see a lot of
these burned out patients usually having a significant mood component of it right like
lack of motivation do you see that a lot like there's like a lack of motivation inspiration
I see a lot of depression around that so when you see the these personality type where I used to be
really happy or I used to find joy in things and I'm not finding joy anymore I don't want to go to
work I wanted to just mention that because it's it's different than I just had a bad day it's
almost like this chronic low or more swings right up and down mood do you notice that too in your
I come back to these four areas I always and this is something that I could encourage everyone who's
listening to do a daily what I call a daily check-in you know it's basically saying how are
you but to yourself and it raises your awareness for your what's going on inside your own experience
and your terrain so it's it's it's actually five things one is and this relates back to the stress
type quiz by the way one is your energy level so you're mentioning fatigue or tiredness okay how is
my energy been lately or yesterday or today am I feeling tired am I feeling overstimulated how's my
energy um and the second is how was my sleep am I because a lot of times we are not even paying
attention am I getting seven and a half to nine hours of sleep is it broken sleep is it you know
was it restful sleep you know ask yourself how how am I sleeping how was my sleep last night um
how is my mood so this is exactly what you're touching on now you know are you feeling anxious
overwhelmed depressed unmotivated uh you know what is your mood because I think sometimes we
just go based you know someone says how are you and we say good but we're not really how really
am I you know like um and and you and I always want to know the real truth from our patients
how is your mood and how is your focus do you feel like you have brain fog or do you feel like you're
you have to you know take a stimulant in order to focus or do you feel like you can get tasks done
and and and take breaks when needed and then the fifth area is in your body what signals is your
body giving you are you having pain somewhere puffiness swelling redness rashes you know what
is your body showing you or telling you and from those five areas we can gather so much more
the the state of burnout the state of your state of health the state of your terrain all of these
things we're talking about so that we can at least now have an honest starting place this is your
point a and then what you and I do is help people get to point b which is feeling good and thriving
and and not just managing stress a lot of times people hear about managing stress to me I never
use that terminology I say master your stress because to me it's not just about like treading
water or partially drowning in our life experience it's how can we be surfing the waves right how can
we be saying I can take on challenges I can face fears I can do things I've never done before and
I also then I'm not going to be crashing afterwards I can get through it and feel good and feel
inspired and feel you know like how can we actually enjoy our lives and not wear ourselves
out in the process so right you come from a piece of power right like that self-empowerment so
you're basically saying take inventory ask yourself these questions be honest with yourself and what
would you say the top three things that are free ways that people can support their burnout
recovery that they can do every day that doesn't really cost anything what would you say
well I break it down into using the word care as an acronym so it's actually would be I suppose
four things because care is a four letter word C is clean eating um so looking at how can I
clean up my diet even a little bit it's not like you have to go from you know from here to here
overnight but how can you either choose a little bit less inflammatory foods a little more nutrient
dense foods less pesticides you know like work your way toward cleaner eating more foods that
are serving your health and your physiology a is adequate sleep so look at okay if I'm not getting
seven and a half to nine hours of sleep what can I what are little steps I can take like you said
maybe stop the scroll or turn down the lights or put on a meditation or you know little steps until
you can say hey I'm actually getting better sleep r is recovery activities recovery activities are
a whole menu of possibilities from taking deep breaths to listening to calming music to spending
time in nature spending time with animals friends loved ones um journaling uh and and more there's
so many more and there's even recovery substances this is where I would say that um plant medicines
or psychedelic medicines can come into play as helping us as humans to recover from the stress
we've been through so those recovery activities or recovery substances that we can use to help
us recover from stress and then the Ian care is for exercise and movement how can you bring in
appropriate for your body exercise and movement you know not expecting yourself to run five miles
if you haven't been running but how can you start to bring movement into your day and one of my
favorites is dance and so I'm bringing more and more dance into my life and bringing that to
patients because it as an exercise and it's a stress recovery all in one I think I saw you
I think I saw you I think it's on Facebook or Instagram you were doing in the ballroom dancing
I remember texting um Dr. Jillian Finker which we're friends with and I was like oh my god did
you see Dr. Donnie she looks amazing she was like oh my god I can't believe how amazing she looks so
that's actually so funny because I literally just said the other day I think I want to start doing
like a hip-hop class for something I used to do that when I was younger just to get that that
energy out like moving your body can be fun it doesn't have to be doing some boring something
in the gym that you don't want to do so I love that you're doing the dancing and I love the
acronym because that makes it easy for people these are free things that you can do and lastly
Dr. Donnie tell us a little bit about your psychedelic training that you started I'm so
excited about that yeah as I mentioned I mean these these oftentimes what we consider other plant or
herbs really that have psychedelic properties what research is showing is things like
psilocybin for example from mushrooms or other psychedelic substances even ketamine ayahuasca
these are substances that have existed back in time and other civilizations have used for healing
and recovery from stress but since the 70s they've been on the schedule one not allowed in the United
States and many other countries and yet now researchers really starting to catch up and say
actually these substances really help humans now most of the research right now has been related to
anxiety depression like some of these symptoms we talked about with burnout anxiety depression
also end of life care when someone's really facing what is my purpose in life and am I facing end of
life that's where a lot of the research is but more and more research is coming out with how
beneficial these substances can be the thing is is that of course with any substance even like you
and I talked about with herbs that help cortisol we need to make sure they're being used correctly
and safely so the training that I'm completing is with a institute called integrative psychiatry
institute and it's a certification in for practitioners on how to help patients to
access and benefit from psychedelic assisted therapy and it's to me it's good it's the future
it's the future coming quickly to help us as humans recover from stress so yeah anyone who's
wanting to know more you're welcome to reach out and also anyone who has got an abnormal pap smear
and feeling like what am I going to do I'm facing this HPV virus and abnormal pap smear and I'm
scared to death you can just go to clearhpvnow.com and find out all these resources because
these things that can really paralyze us with fear whether it's an abnormal pap smear or or
having these moments in life where like what am I doing it there's ways to help you navigate it so
I really want anyone listening wherever you are what happened what's happening for you find that
belief even borrow the belief from Dr. Su and I that there's ways to support you through this
it's not that that's not the end of the road there are other options even if you're not hearing
about it from your other practitioner's office there are other very successful approaches
and and we can always help put you in touch with someone who can help guide you.
Thank you for giving everyone hope and sharing your brilliance you are so good at all things
stress recovery I'm so excited to have had you here to chat with you about how you've helped
so many people and Dr. Stani like I said before she can be found on Instagram at Dr. Stani D-O-N-I
Wilson you can go to clearhpvnow check out her books she has more than I thought she had
but her newest one is master your stress reset your health correct I'm so happy I have to get
I don't think I think I have your other your other two but I don't think I have that one so I have
yes oh my god I'm so excited thank you so much Dr. Dhani I so appreciate you coming and I would
love to have you back to talk about Ehlers-Danlos and hypermobility because that last thing I have
to say I remember five years ago Dr. Dhani said to me oh I think you have Ehlers-Danlos and I said
I don't even know what that is because I don't think you learned about it in medical school
I don't know what she's talking about and I'm too stressed to even think about it
and then I actually got diagnosed with that so thank you to you because that was so validating
and I wanted to even say this today that I'm so grateful that you even said that because it
put so many pieces together for me so I'd love to talk about how that presents in patients the next
time if you'd come back because I have so many people now that I can now recognize that I never
recognized before so thank you so much it was thank you so much I look forward to it I can't
wait to talk more soon bye thanks so much for listening to modern day naturopath podcast with
Dr. Sue