Why Silence Makes Your Ex Come Back?

Hello guys and welcome to Love Advice TV. My name is Alex Camond. I'm your relationship expert. In today's video, I want to talk about the silence, the no contact rule. Why does it make your ex come back to you? Before to share with you my secrets and my tools, I want to make sure that you will smash the like button and you will subscribe to this amazing YouTube channel. Yes, because you can receive some tips from Coach Edwin, Coach Natalie, Coach Abby and myself. We just dedicated our life to be able to help you. So let me explain to you exactly why the silence is so powerful. After a breakup, we all want to talk to our ex. We all want to show our love, our attention. We just want to make sure that we can communicate together. The problem is simple. When you do that, you're just showing to your ex that you're becoming needy. Rule number one, the silence is so powerful because you will be able to ignore your ex and this is what human beings hate the most. We don't like to be ignored. We are here because we want to receive attention. Even negative attention is better than ignorance. So if you ask yourself, why is it so strong? It's because it's based on human sciences. And if you want to go forward, just make sure that you will read everything about the power of not talking to someone. This is even a manipulative action. But for us, after the breakup, we have to do it. It's not manipulation. It's just helping you, not doing mistakes, helping you rebuilding yourself, helping you planting a seed in your ex mind. Tip number two, the reason why the silence is so good is because your ex is always thinking that you will beg him or beg her, that you will be needy, that you will chase him or chase her. So if your ex partner is thinking that you will chase and you're not doing anything, then you let his or her imagination comes up. It's even the case for you. I know that you're scared to lose your ex forever. You're scared because your ex is stubborn and then you think that you will lose him or lose her. This is all coming from your imagination. And we can do the same with your ex. We can reverse the situation by not doing anything. I know it sounds crazy because most of the time we think that we need to act, we need to do actions in order to make sure that your ex will come back. It's not true. Tips number three, and this is the most important one. If you want to understand why the silence will make your ex come back, why the no contact is so powerful, it's only because when you take your time, the emotion will go down. After a breakup, we are mad, we are sad, we are angry, we want to talk to our ex and they don't want to talk to us. So we are fighting. When you take your time, the emotion, you will be able to control your emotion, your ex will be able to release the bad emotion. So we will be able to talk. And this is why you're watching this video. You're watching this video because I have coached personally more than 50,000 people from all over the world. And I can guarantee you that when you do a good no contact, you will be able, you will be able to make sure that your relationship and your ex come back to you. Because first of all, the emotion will go down. Then your ex will imagine, oh, what would be your life now that you're becoming the best version of yourself? I don't want someone else to use you. I want to be with you. This is exactly what your ex will think. Guys, it's possible to get back with the one you love. It's possible to use the silence and making sure that they will just be sad. They will regret their decision. This is exactly what we want to do here. But in order to do that, you need to understand that this is part of the human nature. It's part of the human nature that you want to talk to your ex and it's not a good idea. So I'm here to help you. You can leave a comment just right below. Make sure that you hit the like button and that you subscribe to this YouTube channel. We are here for you because we know how difficult it is to leave a breakup. But if you want to understand today how to react, how to talk, what to do, there is some specific coaching that we are providing to you. Just come on our website withmyexagain.com. You have coach Abby, coach Adrian, coach Natalie, and even myself. We are here to give you the tools and the solution. Because you can do a no contact, you can use the silence and nothing will happen. And you can use the silence and your ex will come back, will beg you, will ask for forgiveness. The key difference here is to making sure that you're doing the right no contact, that you're using the silence in the best way to make your ex react. And this is based on neuroscience and human behavior, everything that we can teach. So please come on withmyexagain.com. Make sure that you subscribe also to this YouTube channel and I will see you soon to share with you my best tips. Just use the silence for yourself, to rebuild yourself, to make sure that your life would be different, to let the emotion goes down. And then let's launch the reattraction process. This is my philosophy. I will see you soon for a new video. If you need help, come on withmyexagain.com. I will see you soon. Take care guys.