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Tarot for Today's Love
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Nov 24, 2025
Hello my loves, welcome to a new Pick A Card reading. Today we're going to go in deep on
the truth of how they really feel about you. So within that we're going to look at their thoughts
and feelings. We're also going to look at is there any action they wish to take towards you in this
next immediate future. And stay with me till the end because we will also be getting guidance from
Spirit. So if you're new to this channel, welcome. I'm Dr. V. I wanted to give a beautiful big
virtual hug to all of the new subscribers as well as to everyone who's already part of this
incredible family. You know how much I adore you all. Thank you so much for being here. You know
that it's my absolute passion and purpose to be doing these readings for you. And thank you so
much for your support, your messages, your emails, and your comments. So as always, I always have
three groups for you to choose from. You can choose from group number one, number two, number
three, or you can take them all and take the messages that resonate. Or you can also choose
by zodiac sign. So you can choose your zodiac sign, your person's zodiac sign, and combine those
readings as well. There is no right or wrong answer here. Be gentle with yourself. Take what
resonates and leave the rest. So I will be showing you each of the images on the cards, as well as
the crystals, as well as the zodiac signs. But if you're at that place where you'd like to have
specific guidance on what is going on in the connection between you and your person, then I
highly recommend that you do the live reading experience with me. I love to see you on video
call. I feel that live readings are definitely the most healing, transformational, and powerful
because Spirit can answer all of your questions right there in real time. I also offer video
recorded readings so you can choose what works best for you. So if you go to livetarot.com
you can see my entire menu right there. And for those of you who like to pull oracle cards at
home, I've created two decks. The Twin Flame Oracle, which is my love deck, and the Divine
Feminine Entrepreneur, which is my business, money, and career deck. These are on big sale
at Amazon FBA with free shipping, and all of the links are in the box below. Okay, so let's take a
breath and see which of these you feel most guided towards. So for group number one, we have this
image and this crystal right here. For group number two, we have this image and this crystal right here.
And for group number three, we have this image and this crystal right here. Okay, let's go ahead
and assign zodiac signs. Okay, so for group number one, we have Leo, we have Gemini,
we have Sagittarius, and we have Aquarius. For group number two, we have Taurus, Cancer,
Capricorn, and Aries. And for group number three, we have Libra, Scorpio.
These are very slippery. Pisces, and Virgo. Okay, go ahead and make your choice, and we will get
started with group number one. My beautiful group one that chose this image right here, as well as
this crystal and Leo, Gemini,
Sagittarius, Aquarius. Let's see, what is the truth of how they really feel about you?
We're going to start with oracle cards, and then we will do your tarot.
And stay with me till the end, because we'll also be getting
what actions do they wish to take towards you, if any, in this near future, and advice from spirit.
Okay, so what is the truth of how they really feel about group one? We have man holding a coin.
Willingness. You are able to compromise if the end result is love. Self-reflection.
Breaking point. Limit. Final straw. Overwhelmed. Wow. Okay, this is very powerful, group one.
I'm feeling a very, very powerful energy. For those of you who feel that this relationship,
or this connection, has been very, very stuck, okay? Very, very paused or stuck, where the issue
is not how much you love each other. I feel like for many of you, what's going on between the two
of you is very much affected by your person being stuck in some sort of an identity crisis,
some sort of situation that they have invested a lot of money in, or invested a lot of time,
whether it's a business, whether it's family stuff, contract stuff. There's something that
this person is incredibly stuck in that they built some sort of identity around. For some
of you, it could even be a marriage, a relationship, another commitment, a living situation.
Like I said, it could involve, but it could be more financially based. It could be
some sort of a situation or partnership that is more about money than anything else, and that's
why I get the energy that for many of you, the issue here or the challenge that you might be
facing with this person or together is not love. The love is very clear. It's not,
does this person love me? Do they really care? Do I really want them? Do they want me? It's like,
no, we really love each other. When we're together, we are great. Our issue is something external.
That's why the first card we got here is man holding a coin. This is why I feel like for some
of you, this is a financial issue, and even if you're in a third party situation and you see it
more like, oh, this is like a triangle or a romantic rival, this person doesn't see it that way.
The truth of how they really feel about you is you are the center of their emotional life,
but if they're in some sort of a third party, the reason is money. The reason is shared finances,
some sort of entanglement that has nothing to do with love. It's like a compartmentalization.
They've placed the other person in terms of finances and they've placed you in terms of
their true heart, their true love. Again, it doesn't even have to be romantic. For some of
So please do take it as it resonates for your situation. So this is why whatever this pressure
is, is bringing this person to a breaking point. See, limit, final straw, overwhelmed.
There's a decision that needs to be made here, okay? And this person feels like they have been
pulled, pulled. One side is their love for you, the other side is the pull of whatever this
financial obligation is, and it's like a tug of war, okay? And they feel so much pressure,
and the pressure has just gotten worse over time, that they are reaching a breaking point.
And they realize that they are going to have to make a decision. They can't live in both worlds,
whatever these two worlds are. Even if the other one is financial, there's still something
about it that is blocking them from being fully with you, right? So there's a pressure that has
been building. It is reaching its absolute final straw. Your person is feeling overwhelmed with
their love for you, but also overwhelmed with whatever duty, obligation, responsibility they
have, and that tension, that confrontation is making them look at themselves in the mirror.
Because I feel like this is not, again, a question of love. The love is strong. The love is powerful.
It's a question of identity crisis. How does this person need to look at themselves in the mirror
and redefine who they are? Because what's keeping them stuck, if you feel that this person loves
but they're stuck, they're not coming towards you, it's because there's something in their
identity that needs to collapse, as in they need to admit or accept that what they were doing before
is not working anymore, that it's an illusion, that it's holding them back from you, and you
are their real emotional place. So this person right now, they're struggling with their own
willingness to look at themselves in the mirror, to take that hard look. Like, okay, you know what?
If I don't look at myself in the mirror, if I don't adjust my identity, if I don't let go of
old things that I'm holding on to because I feel like I've built my identity around it,
whether it's a person or a situation or a family or a job, whatever it is, it's keeping them from
looking in the mirror. They've been afraid of their own reflection. They've been afraid of
looking, taking that long, hard look, but now they're coming to a place where it is absolutely
necessary. They have to be willing to do that. They have to be willing to do that,
because it's coming to a point of reckoning, right? Either they look at themselves, they fix this,
and they come towards you, or they look at themselves, they're not strong enough,
they're too weak, they stay put where they are, they make excuses, and they will lose you.
That is what this person is thinking at this time. Okay, let's go deeper. What else?
Chariot, Page of Materials, Eight of Voices. I like what I'm seeing because look at this
beautiful central energy of the Chariot. This is the card we want to see, especially because
this row right here was all about the energy of being stuck and needing to have the willingness
to look at themselves in the mirror and move forward, right? So even though the first card
is the Hermit, this actually is a good place to start. So if you have been silent, if this person
has been silent, maybe you've given each other space to think, maybe you have given each other
some time to reflect. Again, that's why we're getting that look at yourself in the mirror
reflection. This is a good thing because sometimes that is the space and the gap that you need
to figure out how willing you are to actually fight for something, to fight for love,
to fight for the life that you want. So I feel like your person, the truth of how they really
feel about you, you guys may be giving each other some space to figure out what it is that you truly
wish to fight for. And look at this beautiful bridge energy from the Hermit to the Chariot,
from the Hermit, which is lack of action, more reflection, looking for a solution, right? The
Hermit usually carries that light. You see that light right here and here too. The Lantern. I
usually, in regular Tarot, I love seeing the Hermit with the Lantern because to me, it's so
beautiful because it's really about, oh look, I am looking for the light. I'm looking for my answers.
Here you see it more just like kind of like a sun's energy. And look at this. This Muse of
Voices is the King of Swords, okay? So this tells us that yes, there is a definite energy of
being in their head, but that head space energy is also tied to that self-reflection because this
is the moment. This is the opportunity where your person needs to get their head on straight.
They need to think through this, work through this, and get to a place where they are ready
for that forward movement with the Chariot, see? And this part just kind of reiterates to us
that Page of Materials, Eight of Voices, which is Eight of Swords, is also them feeling really bad
about needing to hold off because of something that is financial, okay? So this to me is another
confirmation that they've been holding themselves back mentally, you know, from coming towards you,
making an offer, coming towards the relationship in a full way. They may be coming towards you
in a partial way, but it doesn't feel complete, right? So this person, your person, is very much
thinking that they have been holding themselves back against their own will. They don't want to.
Eight of Voices is a very heavy energy. It's like an energy of like, why do I have to hold
myself back? I know I'm self-sabotaging. I know I'm ruining this. I shouldn't be doing this.
What's wrong with me? It's that kind of energy, right? So I feel like they are feeling deep
regret over that, and they know, Page of Materials, that it is something financial, something about
their external world and their material life. But there is, again, a deep sense of, I've reached a
breaking point. Eight of Voices, I've held myself back too much because of money, finances, or
whatever it is I'm holding on to, and I need to break free and move on with the Chariot's energy,
or else I will lose this love. So I'm really happy to see that breaking point card because
sometimes that is the only way in which some people will move out of being stuck.
And it's sad to see because there are many people who stay stuck in their mind, again,
King of Swords, who stay stuck in their mind for almost sometimes years at a time, right? They're
not able to break free those mental bonds. So in this immediate future, is there any action this
person wishes to take towards Group 1? And again, I want to confirm that this has nothing to do with
their feelings for you. This energy is literally about how they can solve the problems of their
life so they don't lose you. See? How can they solve the problems of their life? Rise above.
Drama, obstacles, pettiness, find the strength to rise. There it is. There's the clearest indication
that this has nothing to do with their feelings for you. This is about their need to rise above
the BS, you know? Compromise, mutual understanding, flexibility, give and take brings rewards.
Fall, changes in the air. Wow, I love that. Balance, yin and yang, darkness and light,
stay centered in your higher self. See? So this person is definitely in a place, anytime you have
the Eight of Swords, you know that there is a place that is mentally imbalanced. When you are
in the Eight of Swords energy, you're not in a good place, you're not in a balanced energy. So you
need to regain that balance. This is so beautiful. I feel like your person is trying so hard to rise
above their circumstances, to rise above whatever is holding them back because they do not wish to
lose you. And even if it comes to some sort of compromise that they have to make. See, I feel
like your person is coming to a place where they're realizing that the only way to be free to
be with you and whatever they need to be freed from, take that as it resonates. Like I said,
it could be a person, it could be a situation, it could be a family, it could be a legal contract,
it could be a job, it could be a geographical region, whatever it is. They may come to a place
where they are not willing, and I feel like this is coming very soon, they're on the verge of this,
they are not willing to compromise their love for you or compromise having you in their life.
So what they'll do is they'll take the hit elsewhere. It's been hard, yes, they've resisted
it because it might require losing money, losing status, losing their place, something. But they're
coming to a place where the pressure of losing you and the pain of it is outweighing the benefit
of staying in whatever situation they're stuck in. So they may take the hit by compromising there,
but not compromising with you. They may figure out a way that is still painful, it is still
a compromise, they'll still lose something, but they would rather lose that than to lose you.
And that is why there is change in the air, there's transformation, we're getting the turning
of the leaves. And if it is fall where you're at, even better, because this is more of an
immediate future, this is something that is going to happen soon. I'm not sensing some long
trajectory here. This person is going to figure it out, compromise where they need to, come back
into balance, because they feel like they're at a breaking point where they're going to lose you.
So I don't see any long delay in this at all. This is something that's going to happen
with a quicker turnaround, because I feel like both of you are reaching your breaking point.
So what does Spirit want you to know? Golden Mac, when you align your desires with Spirit's plan,
you are truly blessed. I fulfill my true purpose. See? So I feel like for both of you,
you are both coming to alignment with Spirit's plan. That's why you have this golden map in
front of you. So that to me is also a blessing for this connection. This connection is blessed,
it is going to come to fruition. Oh, I love it. That makes me very happy for you guys.
So if you'd like to have a personal reading with me, you could do the live or the video recording.
You can also order any of the Oracle decks that I've created and used in this reading,
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Thank you so much for being here and I'll see you all on the next one.
My beautiful group two that chose this image right here, as well as this crystal and
Taurus Cancer, Capricorn and Aries. Let's see. What is the truth of how they really feel
about you? We're going to start with your Oracle cards and then we'll do your tarot.
And then we'll also be looking at what action, if any, do they wish to take towards you?
And we will end with advice from spirit. So we have community, we have forgiveness,
we have attraction, we have conflicted decisions, hot and cold, multiple choices.
So I feel like this person right now is going through some sort of
a kind of mentally despairing time where there's been some sort of a clash between how they feel
about you, what they want with you, and what their physical circumstances can maintain.
The fact that we got this community card is there's like a strong energy coming from it.
This person may be surrounded by people who have some sort of motives, okay? It could be
members, it could be an ex-partner, ex-spouse, somebody that they still have some financial
tie to, like they still have to pay this person or they share children with this person, therefore
this person is never out of their life, right? They always have to maintain some contact with
whoever these people are. But there seems to be a bit like, right now spirit is giving me this image
and it's coming through very clearly in my mind of this like dark cloud. It's like gray clouds,
you know like an impending storm, but like this ominous kind of like heavy cloud-like
feeling, okay? It feels like this person, while they feel so much connection with you,
so much attraction for you, because see we are getting this attraction card, but at the same
time like look at this person, there is also something very daunting in the way this person
is sitting there looking out towards the universe. But it's not a very like, I don't know,
the feeling, the energy that I get from the card itself, it doesn't feel like a free
and clear and beautiful attraction. It feels like a heavy kind of like, what do I do about this?
It feels daunting, it feels big, it feels universal. So it's like something about a clash between
the huge level of attraction, magnetic attraction and desire that this person feels for you
is it feels heavy on them instead of feeling light. You know how love should feel
beautiful and light and positive and like it should give you the sense of like wonder,
but that's not the energy I get from this person. I feel like the way that love should feel
light-hearted and beautiful to them, it's the opposite, not because you did anything wrong,
it has anything to do with you, but because there seems to be some deep conflict where it's very
hard for this person to navigate their feelings for you with whatever environment or whatever
obligations or responsibilities they have to other people or other things in their environment. And
that is why they're coming up with this very deeply conflicted energy. And that is why maybe
some of you have decided to pull away from this person because they come in hot and cold.
Decisions need to be made, but they are conflicted. There is something here that
this person needs to decide. Okay. And you, again, there might have been some
kind of feeling of instability between the two of you. You may have felt that you're not being
prioritized, that your needs, your desires don't matter, or this person can't make them matter.
They cannot be with you in a way that makes you feel that you are important, that the relationship
is important, that they can meet this relationship a hundred percent. So you may have always felt like
you're the last priority. And for that, this person, in the truth of how they really feel
about you, they genuinely want your forgiveness around that. They feel genuinely very bad about it.
They know that they have dropped the ball. They know that they haven't given you what you deserve.
They know that they haven't been able to show up for you the way that you deserve. They know that
they are conflicted. That is why when they come in, they come in very hot. But then when this
other pressure is around them, they also tend to pull away. This is the kind of person who also,
when these obligations or these third parties, again, it could be anything, it could be career,
it could be family, it could be exes, it could be a current situation. It doesn't matter what it is.
This person has the kind of energy that when that happens, when that rears its ugly head,
they don't lean into you more. They don't come to you more. They withdraw from you.
They withdraw from you. So that is why this attraction feels heavy instead of light to them.
So they do know that the pressure is building and that in order to either reconcile with you
or have a union with you or to move forward honoring this relationship, they're going to
have to make a decision. And that's the decision that is weighing on their mind and heart very
heavily right now. So let's go deeper on what else is the truth of how they really feel.
The devil. See, not surprising. The devil rears his ugly head. Three of pentacles,
queen of wands, justice, knight of wands. So yeah, see, I feel like you are this
queen of wands energy, this beautiful central energy that is coming through. I feel like it is
you. I feel like even though they may be distracted by other things going on in their life, you are
the regulating force. There's something about your tenacity, your boldness, your courage,
your strength, the way you move in this world, group two, that is very inspiring to this person.
They see you. And again, this is part of the truth of how they really feel. I feel like
they love you very deeply. And at the same time, they feel very inadequate because they feel that
they don't show up in the world. They are not like you. You have more courage than them. You're
willing to go after what you want and what you desire. And they feel both inspired by that and
very inadequate around that because they don't feel that they can meet you quite yet at this level.
And they know the reason why is because they have some sort of toxic energy around them that
depletes them, that brings them down. But they also know that they haven't been able to
let go of whatever this is. And it's interesting because it's not that they're in denial. It's
not that they're not aware that their movement, their decisions, things are affected by people
or situations that should not be interfering in this person's life, but they're allowing it through
this devil's energy. There's something toxic here that they haven't said no to. They're allowing it.
They're allowing themselves to be chained, manipulated. They're allowing themselves to
stay stuck. And part of that reason may be because they care more for people's opinions,
three of pentacles. There's something here about their reputation where they don't want to be seen
a particular way. They're very sensitive about how other people see them, whether it's their
community, family, a third party, whatever it is. They seem to be wanting some sort of validation
from that role that they play, whatever that role is. They feel like they are playing a
different kind of role in their life. And whatever that role is, is not in alignment with being with
you. So now they are being pulled in opposite directions. The role that they are attached to
in this toxic energy is pulling them in one way, and then their connection to you is pulling them
in another way. And what is keeping them stuck in between is this idea of, I care how people
see me. I care about my reputation. I don't want these other obligations to think badly of me.
I can't let people down. Whoever it is that they feel like they would be letting down,
they're seeing it, unfortunately, as some issue around fairness or justice.
And this may also be a manipulation in the sense that it's their own mind that is trapped in that
category. It's not necessarily if people look from the outside, they may not see it as an issue
of justice or what's fair. And you also may see it as very clean cut, but they are stuck in that
devil's energy of like, I owe someone something. Whoever it is that they owe, that depends on your
journey with them. So take it as it resonates. But this person feels like they owe fairness
to someone or something. And that is why that sense of fairness or that sense of obligation,
whether it is true, whether it's an illusion, whether it's something they tell themselves,
is what is slowing down their progress towards you. Like night of wands, they still very much
want you. They want to be with you. They're very passionate about you. There's a lot of passion in
this relationship because we're getting a lot of wands energy. So it's not that they don't want
you. The question is not how deeply they desire you. It's that this issue is slowing them down.
It's slowing down the trajectory. It's slowing down the momentum of them truly building something
real with you. And that is what they are very guilty about as well. They know that they are
slow. They haven't been moving forward. They know that they're letting things hold them back.
And that is why you have this heavy attraction along with forgiveness. They know they're doing
wrong. They know that they seek forgiveness from you. So any actions, anything going on,
any movement in this immediate future? Sun's energy, mission, surrender, mirroring. Okay.
So I feel like this person, again, the feelings between you are exactly the same. Like you mirror
each other in many different ways. And I feel like that's probably why you've had a hard time
letting go of this person, even if you've wanted to, even if you've known that maybe that's the
right thing to do. Maybe there's been that sense of up and down within your heart as well,
where you're like, what do I do? I feel like we get along on so many levels. We have so much
compatibility. We mirror each other. Well, your person feels the same way. That's why it's been
very difficult for them to ever walk away from you either. They know that they have found their
match. You know that you have found your match. You guys recognize each other and you do very
much want to be together. They want to be with you. I feel like there is a beautiful energy here
of the sun's energy between the two of you. So there's this positive light that is growing. Okay.
But it may take a little bit of time for that light to grow and for it to grow more powerful
so that they get to the point where they want to let go of this devil's energy.
I feel like if you're, if you're right now in a state of silence or a pause,
and you feel like you're not quite talking, or you're a little bit separated from this person,
I feel like that is on its way out. Like it's winding down. It's not an immediate thing,
but it's winding its way down as this person finally surrenders and detaches from the devil's
energy. And I think that is the process that the two of you are going through right now. Like they
know what's right. They know what needs to be done. They know what they must do in order to
truly have you in their life. And I feel like they're trying their best to surrender all of
this toxicity that is within their life, whatever that is, whatever the devil represents in their
life, they're trying to detach from it. They're trying to surrender from it, but it is a detachment
process because you have this justice card right here. And anytime people feel obligated or they
feel like they have to do what's fair, they feel like, you know, they can't just take fast decisions,
that justice energy does slow down the result. Right? So I feel like this is for you guys,
this is all about, this is in progress. Okay. It's coming towards you, but it is definitely
slowing down because they need to work through these energies of what's fair and what's right.
And oh my gosh, I'm obligated and all of that stuff. Okay. So it's coming, but it's definitely
working its way through a particular surrender that needs to happen. Okay. It's like the last
domino needs to fall. So spirit says to you, energy flow, clear pathways in the body for
spirits, energy to transform. I release any blocks. Okay. So for you, it's all about releasing
the blocks that you have and keeping your energy free and clear as this resolves itself. Okay.
So if you'd like to have a personal reading with me, you could do the live or the video recorded.
You can also order any of the Oracle decks that I have created and used in this reading. These are
on like super sale right now at Amazon FBA with free shipping. All of the links are in the box
below. If you haven't already, please do hit that subscribe, give this video a like, you have no
idea how much it actually supports me in the channel. Thank you so much for being here and
I'll see you all on the next one. Beautiful group three that chose this image right here,
as well as this crystal and Libra Scorpio Pisces and Virgo. Let's see.
What is the truth of how they really feel about you? So we'll start here with your Oracle cards
and then we will do your tarot and then we'll look at, is there any action they wish to take
in this immediate future? And then at the end, stay with me because we will also be getting
advice from Spirit. Woman holding a coin. Self love. You realize that love of self is necessary
to love another. Extremes. Open heart, receptive, empathy, and vulnerable. So I feel like the truth
of how this person really feels about you is that you have opened their heart. I mean,
that I think is the most clear energy coming through here. Look at this. I feel like this
person may have a lot of ups and downs in their life. Like they're used to navigating extremes.
That's why we got this extremes card, which I'll show you in a second. But I feel like this person
for much of their life, they've had to deal with extremes in their situation, possibly some sort
of trauma from their childhood, where maybe they have gotten to a point where it's better just to
keep your heart closed, you know, because you dealt with so much nonsense. You've dealt with
so much instability. I feel like this person may have come from an environment that never
made them feel particularly safe. And it doesn't have to be physically safe. It could be emotionally
safe, mentally safe, right? They have literally struggled through and really had to focus on how
to heal themselves, even if they may not have used that word healing, right? But I feel like
one of the ways in which this person dealt with the extremes of their life was by shutting down
their heart, because they felt like that was safer than to trust people, let people in, you know,
allow themselves to love people. But I feel like the truth of what you have done to this person,
how you've impacted them is that you and your energy and your love has made them open their
heart in a way that they never have before. And I feel they are incredibly, incredibly
grateful to you for that, because look at this very heavy extremes card. I feel like this person
has tried very hard in their life to come to a place of stability where they're not living in
extremes. And I can predict, I just feel like you have seen this in this person in one way or the
other, because when somebody has lived like this, when they've gone through these kind of traumas,
I feel like even if they're trying their hardest to maintain a balanced life, which you might
notice about this person as well, is that they try very hard, they're committed to just trying to be
balanced. Whenever things get difficult, when things get stressful, you will see the extreme
come out, because it's very hard to completely get over that. You know, we're all human,
we all have our trigger points. So I'm sure you have noticed that when this person is emotionally
triggered, their reaction can come out in the extreme. And that's why I feel like maybe for
some of you, there's been a lot of friction with this person, because when they do get triggered,
there could be big arguments, big misunderstandings, big discussions, and then they might withdraw
in order to regulate those emotions. Because again, when somebody lives in extreme, they may
also have been living in fight or flight mode for much of their life. If you've lived in
constant situations where you have to either fight or flee, fight or flight, then your nervous system
is going to be difficult to regulate, difficult to balance, and things might tip you off.
So you might notice that this person can get triggered and start an argument and then
completely hide. So I feel like this person doesn't want you to see that side. I think they
truly, deeply love you. You've opened up their heart in such a beautiful way that they want to
protect you from that side of themselves. They know that they need to heal. This self-love is
big one for them, because I feel like this person knows that if they loathe themselves,
if they don't feel good about themselves, if they're criticizing, if they have this inner critic,
if they always feel less than not good enough for you, if they don't have true self-love,
they're never going to be your real partner. They're always going to feel less than. So that
might be another thing that you notice about this person, group three, that they do have low
self-esteem. They do feel like they're not good enough because of the things that they've had to
fight. The battles that they've fought in their life still haunt them. It's a journey. They
haven't reached that level of complete healing. I don't think anybody ever does. But you and their
love for you brings out those touch points more. And so what they try to do is try to regulate or
maintain their emotions through focusing on things that are in their control. I think this
person has grown up again in situations where they felt like they have no control and they don't feel
safe. So this is the kind of person who might right now be very into their career, maybe very into work,
earning more money. This is a very heavily pentacles energy. So this is how they ground
themselves. So I feel like this person, when things go wrong with you, they double down on
work. They double down on finances. They might take an extra shift. They might work longer hours
because this is the only way they know how to regulate their emotions to ground themselves back
in what feels safe. So you might be noticing right now if you guys are in some sort of challenge or
separation or if you've had an argument and people are not talking, you might notice that
this person may be working more. Like they're just trying to just regulate themselves.
Let's go deeper. What else is the truth? What else is the truth of how they really feel?
The high priestess. The lovers. Wow. Beautiful. King of swords. Eight of wands. Three of wands.
Okay. So see, this actually is a confirmation of what we've already seen, which is
this person feels deep amount of love for you. They see you in a really beautiful and inspiring
way. Look at this with the high priestess. I feel like they are incredibly attuned to and connected
to and inspired by who you are because I feel like you bring the spiritual awareness to this
relationship because this person tends to heal or regulate through what is more earthy, you know?
So there's a complementing energy here. They seem to be much more like a pinnacle's energy,
trying to ground, trying to earth, trying to ground themselves, trying not to let their
emotions run away with them, trying not to become heated or triggered, trying not to get into
extremes versus this high priestess energy is the opposite of that. It's the energy of being,
you know, ethereal. It's about grounding, but grounding in a different way, but grounding by
going within. Okay. And I feel like this person in their true feelings for you, that is what inspires
them the most. They see that while they need things like work and, you know, and there's nothing wrong
with that. Everybody grounds in a different way. Like they need things that are more practical
to ground themselves. Well, where you go within to ground yourselves, like to ground yourself,
you have a more spiritual energy. You have a calmness that this person loves because I feel
like, again, with this person's extremes, they don't have that sense of calm. They don't have
that sense of like, you know, everything's going to be okay. And I think that's where
there's a complimenting energy here where they really love the fact that in your presence,
you are the source of peace and calmness to this person. You regulate them in that sense,
right? Whether you like it or not, whether it's a good thing or not, that's up to you,
but you bring the calmness. You soothe the extreme nature of this person simply through who you are
and the energy that you bring forth. And so that is something that they have deeply,
deeply fallen in love with. This person deeply loves you. They deeply want to be with you,
but they also realize that in order to be this person with you, they have to be more balanced.
You know, they have to kind of, you know, meet you at a place of stability, at a place of,
okay, I've got a handle on this. I've got this. I know I can create something good with you.
I know we can build something beautiful together. That's not just based on emotion,
but that's based on real world capability. You know, the capability to build a real relationship
is not the same as just loving someone passionately. We can love someone passionately,
but is it in us to build a good relationship with them? And I feel that's the question this person
very much in their head right now. They're asking themselves these questions. Okay. They're asking
themselves these questions right now. This person is very much in this. I need to figure this out.
I don't want to lose you. I don't want to become this extreme person that I know I am inside
sometimes because of my past, because of my history. You have opened up my heart so deeply.
I don't want to lose this and look at this. I just love this combination for you. Group three.
Look, the colors are so similar. There's this beautiful pink color that to me is just so
soothing in these two cards. Like you soothe this person. You soothe all the turmoil within them.
You bring peace and love to this person. And I love it. And they don't want to lose that.
They're trying to figure out how not to lose you because they know that sometimes their extreme
behavior or their extreme states of being can make you want to leave them.
So right now they're in this deep contemplation mode of how to make sure that you don't leave
their life. And they're kind of going back and forth between, look at this energy. These are
kind of opposing energy. See the extremes are coming here too. Eight of wands is fast, fast
movement. Three of wands is let's take our time. Isn't it interesting? Here are the two extremes
showing up again. So they're trying to figure out what is the best way for this relationship
to blossom. Is it through quick energy, eight of wands, fast movement, or is it through three of
Let's just relax, see it unfold. Let's not hurry, right? Like this is part of their fear of losing
you and trying to decide which one of these will win you better. This is so interesting. So then
let's see how does that translate into any action in this immediate future spirit?
Lessons, knowledge, understanding, look for the lesson in the situation,
crossroads, divergent paths, choices, confusion. See, this is where it's like they know it's time
to make a decision, fear, darkness, hesitation, insecurity, and appreciation. Yeah. So I feel like
this person is very much tackling their fear right now. And I feel like one of the greatest fears
they have is the fear of losing you. Okay. And I don't think necessarily that they have lost you
or that they think that they've lost you, but they have this fear that again, if they don't show up,
if they don't know how to really build something solid without letting their own trauma and their
own triggers defeated or destroy it over time, that's the fear that they have. They deeply so
appreciate you. And I think this goes back to that high priestess energy. There's a deep, deep
awareness of who you are to this person and how they feel about you and how much they appreciate
what you have brought to their life. And that is why they want to do this right. Okay. They've
learned their lessons. It's not that they're not aware they are this, the one advantage about this
person, even if right now their behavior can be extreme, even if right now they haven't been the
consistent person and maybe it's not even consistency in action, it might be consistency
in their emotional state, right? Like they may go up and down in their emotional state.
It's not that they're in denial about it. They're very aware of the lessons that they've learned.
And that to me is a huge blessing and a huge advantage to have because some people are really
buried in their own denial, right? And that doesn't lead to any real good progress. So this person is
not buried in denial. They know the lessons that they've learned and that's why they know that it's
time to make a decision about themselves, to not give in to fear and to make a concrete decision
on moving forward. And I feel like this person absolutely wants that with you. They just want
to make sure that they don't scare you away from some of their unhealed parts, right? They have to
tackle that fear. You know, they don't want to scare you away when the unhealed parts of themselves
surface. And that's what they're really, really trying to avoid with you. They want to be gentle.
They want to be kind. They want to, you know, honor you. And I think that's so beautiful. So what is
Spirit's advice? Steady effort. As you move forward, you find resources and rewards await you.
I take one step at a time. I think that's beautiful. I think that's kind of in alignment
with the Three of Wands energy that maybe for the two of you taking one step at a time and truly
just enjoying each other, maybe not rushing with this kind of very like rushed energy is probably
a really good option for the two of you. Okay, so if you'd like to have a personal reading with me,
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