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Where would I be if I had no limits? If
I could snap my fingers today and say,
"This is where I'd like to be. What
would that look like?" Decide what that
is and start working back to what that
would look like. This shouldn't be like
a 2-year goal. This should be like where
do you want to be when you're 45? And
then we work that backwards to today and
then we start working forwards towards
that.
>> Fear doesn't keep you safe. It keeps you
trapped. Whatever you fear establishes
the boundaries of your freedom. So if
you're afraid of heights, you stay low.
If you're afraid of people, you stay
alone.
It's okay to be alone for a while.
No.
And it's so important because being
alone,
going through an a stage of isolation is
vital to your personal development. I I
firmly believe that if you want to be
the best version of yourself, you have
to go through a stage of isolation of
being alone for a bit.
And that can be extremely uncomfortable.
But the problem is a lot of people
soothe that discomfort through
distraction.
And what's that doing? Absolutely
nothing. In fact, it's leading to your
long-term detriment.
the external environment all these
impacts they have created you or you
create yourself because there is
something that you tell to yourself this
is my guide this is my codeex this is
how I want to live this life and then
all these external circumstances they do
not impact you so much anymore
>> consistency is the most reliable trait
that all of the successful people that
I've been around have got. Like no one
is successful who isn't consistent.
Consistency won't guarantee success, but
not being consistent will guarantee that
you won't be successful.
>> The most driven individuals, they live a
life for many years without balance. You
can't be the best at something and try
to balance everything else around your
life. There's going to be times where
things are going to be out of balance in
justice.
Only risktakers win. By definition,
if you are the same as everybody else,
if you're not taking a risk over and
above what everybody else is taking, by
definition, you can't win.
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The ways of a person, the thoughts, the
deeds, the actions, it's all based
around his heart. For what is a man? A
man is his heart. A lying, cheating
heart means a lying, cheating man. A
loving, merciful heart means a loving,
merciful man. A living heart means a
living man. A dead heart means a dead
man. Regardless to man's title,
regardless to man's wealth, rank or
position, if the heart is not great,
then he cannot be great. But if the
heart is great, that man remains great
under all circumstances.
There is nothing that causes you to be
more motivated than a feeling that
you're growing every day toward becoming
more and more of what you're capable of
becoming. Study after study shows that
if you're not growing, you're
stagnating. is that people who are
negative and depressed and have low
self-esteem are people who have sort of
plateaued out in life.
The deeper I've go,
the less choice I have,
the freer I feel.
The more an ego I was, the more choice I
thought I had, the more limited I was.
What I have found through my experience
is when we surrender,
things may not go according to plan, but
it will often
be beyond your plan. And when you
surrender, what I have found is you will
always end up always. This is a promise.
You talk about promise. You will always
end up in the right place at the right
time with the right people doing the
right thing. Even though the path that
you take may not be the one that you
most expect,
>> I guarantee you if you learn this, every
single good thing you are looking for
will come chasing you. The law of mental
transformation.
If you are looking for money, stop
looking. If you are chasing success,
stop chasing. If every other day you
have a new idea on how to generate
success, you are on the fool's journey.
As you evolve and grow, you align
yourself with the qualities that
naturally draw success towards you.
Transformation is magnetic. Refine your
character, expand your skills, enhance
your mind, reject fear. The more you
become a magnify the opportunities and
achievements you seek, the more success
will find you. It's about evolving from
within. Allow your growth to create the
conditions for success to come to you.
>> Stop lying to yourself. You know what
needs to be done, but you keep making
excuses, pretending you're helpless?
That's self-destruction. Second, you're
wasting time, and you know exactly how.
You can't stick to anything because your
mind is constantly distracted. Look at
the people you spend the most time with.
Are they pushing you forward or keeping
you stuck? Surrounding yourself with
people who lack ambition will inevitably
pull you in the same direction. If
they're not helping you grow, why are
you hanging around them? You either
decide to finally realize that you need
to make these changes or you decide
you're happy with the outcome you know
will meet you in the future if you don't
take action right now.
Don't stress in the face of adversity.
Make adversity something you desire for
an opportunity to grow. Here's to the
crazy ones,
the misfits,
the rebels,
the troublemakers,
the round pegs in the square holes,
the ones who see things differently.
They're not fond of rules and they have
no respect for the status quo.
You can quote them, disagree with them,
glorify or vilify them
about the only thing you can't do is
ignore them because they change things.
They push the human race forward.
While some may see them as the crazy
ones,
we see genius.
Because the people who are crazy enough
to think they can change the world
are the ones who do.
>> Asin Taleb said they are born then put
in a box. They go home to live in a box.
They study by ticking boxes. They go to
what is called work in a box where they
sit in their cubicle box. They drive to
the grocery store in a box to buy food
in a box. They talk about thinking
outside the box. And when they die they
are put in a box. So think outside the
box. Break the norms. Trailblaze. Ask
questions. Remember when someone calls
you crazy, they are still stuck inside
the box.
>> That's what defines the greatest
performers from the people who haven't
quite made it yet. It's really their
ability to say, "Oh, if I should train
now, I will. Oh, if I should eat like
this, I will. Oh, if I should do this,
okay, then I will." It's collapsing that
knowing what you should do and actually
doing it and making that one. And that's
ultimately a choice.
>> Let me tell you a secret though. The
most successful people in the world are
also the world's biggest failures. Like
if you look at Walt Disney, he was fired
from his dream job as an animator
because he lacked creativity. When you
look at Michael Jordan, he was cut from
his high school basketball team because
he wasn't good enough and he became the
greatest basketball player ever. JK
Rowling who Harry Potter she was
rejected by 12 publishers and that book
went on to sell 500 million copies and
the creative Honda said that success is
99% failure. So when you think of
failure just remember it's not the
opposite of success it is actually a
pivotal part of success
or a fool when you start something new.
And so if you're not willing to be a
fool then you'll never start anything
new. And if you never start anything new
then you won't develop. And so the
willingness to be a fool is the
precursor to transformation. And that's
the same as humility. And so if you're
going to write your destiny, you can do
a bad first job. You're going to get
smarter as you move forward. That's the
thing is that so something beckons to
you. That's what happens here. Maybe the
star that you had a wish on was the
wrong damn star. But at least it was a
star. And so you say in your life, well
something grips you and and and fills
you with interest. And you think, well,
should I do that?
An answer is if not that then something
you know what life A is going to get
you. You've been doing it over and over
and over and getting the same results.
You want something different, you got to
do something different. It's that
simple. You want different, you got to
do different. You want better, you got
to be better. You want change, you got
to change.
The true horror of existence is not the
fear of death, but the fear of life.
It is the fear of waking up each day to
face the same struggles, the same
disappointments,
the same pain.
It is the fear that nothing will ever
change. That you are trapped in a cycle
of suffering that you cannot escape.
And in that fear there is a desperation,
a longing for something, anything to
break the monotony,
to bring meaning to the endless
repetition of days.
You listen to other people to their
opinions or their whiness. It'll beat
you up and you'll never be able to reach
the goals that you want to reach in
life. So the answer is to become
internally oriented to know what you
want to know what your goals are to know
what your desires are to know what makes
you unique and to put your focus on that
and not on other people's expectations
of you and remember before you do
something special
just do something.
People say to me I can't predict my
future. I'm in the unknown and I always
say the best way to predict your future
is to create it. Not from the known but
from the unknown. What thoughts do you
want to fire and wire in your brain?
What behaviors do you want to
demonstrate in one day? The act of
rehearsing them mentally, closing your
eyes and rehearsing the action.
Sometimes life is asking you to stop
being so worried about everything that's
going to go wrong when the reality is
you're the one manifesting the thing
that you don't want to happen because
you're choosing to believe that that's
what's going to happen. It's always
going to feel scary to your ego to do
something that it's never done before.
That's what the fear actually is. So, it
just draws you back to going back to
thinking that I don't know if I should
do this. When the reality is there's an
internal part of you that knows it's
time for change. Just learn to trust it
because you will come into realization
after you make the decision that it was
the right decision. And you'll feel how
it actually helped you let go of that
identity that's beening dragging you
down into a reality that you've already
outgrown.
>> If your definition of success is win or
lose, giving everything you've got and
growing or learning along the way, then
you're setting yourself up for success.
I really think the biggest cheat code in
life is just going after it and not
being concerned of whether or not you
fail at one specific task. Instead,
understanding the big picture, what your
long-term goal is, and knowing if you
keep driving forward and nevering quit,
in the end, you will succeed.
Waldo Emerson once said, "To be yourself
in a world that is constantly trying to
make you something else is the greatest
accomplishment. So yes, staying true to
yourself is a powerful act of rebellion.
Your authenticity becomes your greatest
strength in an environment that
pressures you to fit in.
I'd prefer to be the kind of person who
steps up from facing the challenge than
the kind of person who stays below the
line and avoids challenge. What kind of
person do you want to be? What do you
want? How badly do you want it? How much
you weigh to suffer? Those three
questions our high performers face every
day.
Owning for happiness, aim for purpose.
Happiness is temporary. It comes and it
goes like the waves of the ocean. So
enjoy it as it comes and smile as it
fades away. Purpose touches your soul.
Now pursuing it doesn't always make you
happy and a lot of times it actually
makes you frustrated and confused. It
also sometimes brings you joy and
adventure, but it is complex like a
Renaissance pollen. There's ups and
there's downs. There's twists and turns,
stagnation and chaos. It is pure and
that is the journey in which you will be
fulfilled.
You only have one chance at this life.
You do know that, right? And if you are
always playing that supporting role, as
Edlet says, when the credits roll at the
end of your movie, at the end of your
life, it's just going to say supporting
actor number three and it'll have your
name. Don't you want to be the main
star? Don't you want to be the key
character in your life story? Don't you
want to make the best decisions?
Human beings have the ability, unlike
animals, because we have the ability to
create our reality. And my reality is as
I pursu it. You have the ability to
create your reality. What you see here
in your head is what you will see as
your exterior. It's always like that. I
walk into a party, I say, "I don't like
that guy." You know what? I'm right. You
walk in and say, "That's a wonderful
guy."
>> You're right, too. We're both right.
>> Starting is the hardest part. But you've
already done that.
>> Most people never even get to this
point. They let fear of failure,
rejection, or embarrassment hold them
back. But you're already ahead of the
game because you took action. Don't
waste time worrying about people who
doubt you. They're just projecting their
own insecurities. The ones who laugh at
you for starting are the ones who are
too afraid to start themselves. Keep
pushing. Real ones will recognize your
effort and the rest they don't matter.
So every time you show up and every time
you're on point, if you do that on the
regular, even if every day you're not
even making 1% improvements, you're
making 01% improvements over time those
will add up and those will add up
exponentially. So on a day-by-day basis,
I mean, you're not going to expect
anything crazy, but you can become
completely unrecognizable.
You do whatever the hell you want. Just
do it well. That's important. And don't
do any damn thing that you will be
ashamed of doing tomorrow. Isn't it?
What other people say it doesn't matter.
But you should not be ashamed of what
you have done. Isn't it? So
this much you must keep. This much pride
and freedom you must keep in your life.
It doesn't matter. The whole world says
you're wrong. But you are not ashamed of
what you have done. That much you must
always keep in your life. If that one
thing if you give up,
I'm telling you, you'll live a very poor
life. You may have everything, but
you'll have nothing.
>> The thing that holds us back is fear.
How do we overcome that fear?
So, am I fearless? No. Do I fear a lot
of things? No. I do think there's only
one thing that ultimately makes you
break free from fear, which is to find a
way and wake up from a dream. How to go
from average to fortune? There's five
simple steps. First one, get serious.
And you must get serious about two very
important things. Setting your goals and
where you want to go. The second point
is get smart. You just must keep up the
steady process of learning. Never cease
your quest for knowledge. Number three,
you've got to get going. All of the
things that you've learned will not do
you that much good if you don't put it
into an action plan. Here's number four.
You must get excited. It's pretty
exciting to know that any day you wish,
you can change your life. Number five is
get away. You must learn to get away and
be alone. Learn to get away and reflect.
Learn how to live as well as how to
earn. You must balance your life. Get
serious. Get smart. Get going. Get
excited and get away.
You're never going to get anywhere
looking for the easy way to do hard
things. After all this time, you are
still looking for someone to come and
hand you some magic formula that makes
everything simple, that makes everything
easy, some secret method that helps you
skip the boring and difficult parts and
skips right to the result.
If you give up a little bit today, like
you can't get it back.
Like if you skip a workout today, you
can't you there's no possible way to get
that back. When you let something go,
it's gone. And Rome wasn't built in a
day, but Rome didn't fall apart on a day
either. It didn't fall out fall apart
because of one thing. It falls apart
just a little bit at a time.
What if the pain you carry is not an
ending, but the beginning of something
sacred? Transformation rarely feels
gentle. It is a tearing, a breaking. The
loss of everything you thought was
solid. But in that breaking, space is
made. The self you clung to begins to
fall away. And something truer.
Something eternal begins to rise. It is
not always clean. It is raw, uncertain,
and often lonely. But growth never comes
without cost.
To rise, something must fall. To be
healed, something must be surrendered.
To live again, something within you must
die. Trust the breaking. It is the soil
where rebirth begins.
If you have big goals, they motivate
you, they stimulate you, they excite
you, they enthuse you. If you have no
goals at all, you just go around in
circles. What we have found is that
goals are the fuel in the furnace of
achievement. You have big goals and the
more you work on the goals and the more
you feel yourself progressing toward
them, the better you feel, the more
positive you feel, the more momentum you
develop and the more you feel yourself
to be unstoppable.
You're not going to fix everything at
one time.
Okay? Pick the battle that you can win
today.
that you can win. You pick the battle
that you can win today.
I'm saying deal with one thing at a time
as you're ready and able to deal with
it. All right? Just pick one battle.
[Music]
When you win that battle,
pick another battle.
But that's just the way how it is. I
have learned along this way.
The more you shine,
the more shadows you cast.
It just goes hand in hand. That's the
price for all of this.
[Music]
You've lived a life dominated by doubt
and fear. How do you step into bravery?
Step
that. That's how you step into bravery.
Step, take the step.
Step aggressively
towards your fear.
And that
that step towards your fear is the step
into bravery.
And that your being is limited and and
flawed and and fragile. Um you're like
the genie which is genius in the little
tiny in the little tiny uh lamp you know
this immense potential but constrained
in this tiny little living space.
But the fact that you have limitations
means that the plot of your life is the
overcoming of those limitations. And
that if you didn't have limitations well
there wouldn't be a plot and maybe there
would be no life. And so that's part of
the reason why perhaps you have to
accept the fact that you're flawed and
insufficient and and live with it and
consider it a precondition for being.
You either committed to mediocrity or
you committed to greatness. You either
committed to being productive or you
committed to being nonproductive. You're
committed to being happy or you
committed to being unhappy.
or the average lifespan is 72 or 82,
whatever it is that you're expected to
live, you're going to work 65 of it in
order to enjoy 10, 12 years. You've done
that wrong. It's the wrong focus.
That you are here, that life exists and
identity,
that the powerful play goes on and you
may contribute a verse.
If the powerful play goes on and you may
contribute a verse
[Music]
people who found their purpose are
better partners, better parents, better
professionals, better people. And so if
everyone in the world was deeply aligned
and connected to their purpose, the
world would be a beautiful place. And I
think any pain we see in the world comes
from a disconnect with purpose.
The people who need the most love often
ask for it in the most unloving ways. So
we confuse love
with power. We confuse love with
control. We confuse love with validation
and being liked. And to me, love comes
from living our purpose. Self love and
true love with other people.
>> Commitment is major. See, when you
decide that you're going to do
something, when you commit yourself to
to live a life that's different than the
life that you live, you hold yourself to
a higher standard. You you are you're
seeking something. You pushing the
envelope. You are challenging yourself.
You you are willing to walk by faith and
not by sight.
And you know as a warrior
that there's a a dramatic difference
between being a warrior and being a
warrior. Anybody can worry.
That step towards your fear is the step
into bravery because we we are scared of
what we don't know. And there is only
one way
to learn and to know and that is to
confront that fear. You have to step.
You have to go. And this simple action,
this simple attitude,
it answers so many questions.
Why is it that people are frightened by
commitment? Because when you say the
word commitment, that intimidates a lot
of people. Why? Because it means you
have to deliver.
>> How do you get to the gym every day?
You step. You go. How do you How do you
change your diet?
You step. You go.
How do you overcome fear of failure or
fear of success or or fear of fear
itself?
Step
that when we put ourselves in a
situation where we say we're going to do
it, it it puts you in another zone
where the universe responds to you.
Would you have that kind of
consciousness? See, the universe
responds to the man or woman that
refuses to be denied.
Because that is your commitment. That
business that you want, that book you
want to write, that dream that you have
of controlling your destiny, that is
yours. That power to create that and to
manifest that, that is yours.
The first step you need to take is just
that
step.
I'd ask people what are their goals and
they're like, "Oh, I want to go to the
gym more." That's not a goal. That's a
habit. People like, "I want to get in
better shape." That's not specific. It's
got to be like a target, something you
can hit. And how you build that in your
mind, the vision, it's very, very
important as you bombard your
subconscious. And many of you are doing
mind movies or vision boards, things
like that. But to really ingrain this
into your being is going to be key. And
so I love this phrase. This is the
ultimate self-development formula that
you've all heard before. Be, do, have.
And so what you want to have, that's
your goals, but all that's supported by
your habits, your rituals, your
standards, your story, your state. It's
all the things that you're doing. And of
course, I know we've all heard this
before. We're not human doings. We're
human beings. And so it's all in the
context of who you be. Because two
people can do the same things, have the
same habits, have the same job, have the
same script, you know, have the same
goals, but one person will achieve it
and one person not based in the context
of who they be. And who you be is all
about what you value. People define
their values. And if someone asked you
what you value or anybody, they're like
success, love, uh happiness, uh wealth,
but they say that that's what they want
their values to be, but that's not what
their values are. are. So, you could ask
somebody what their values are by asking
them questions like, "If your house was
about to burn down and you could only
grab three things, what would you grab
and what do they mean to you? Where do
you spend your money? Where do you spend
your time? Who do you spend your time
with and what do they do for you?" Like
reverse engineer what people's values
are by looking at their actual habits
and the way they show up. And if they
sat in silence for an hour, you know,
unless you're a master meditator, our
minds are going to drift somewhere. And
so where does the mind go? It goes to
what you value. And a lot of times what
we want and what we value are in
conflict. People want to be successful,
but they actually value comfort and
laziness and significance and looking
good, looking like a success more than
actually being successful. So that takes
work. So habits versus goals because
those are the two things that you really
want to dial in here at the end of the
year. And always working on your values,
always working on your character
development because I love this phrase
from Mr. Ralph Waldo Emerson, he said,
"Who you are speak so loudly people
can't even hear what you say." So, as
you're practicing those scripts, as
you're sharing your goals, you got to
dial this in and you got to make sure
that it's in alignment. Cuz most people
have inongruency in their life. Their
words are here with their goals. They
say they're going to do something, their
words are here, but their actions are
here or their habits. Their mind's all
over the place, emotionally scattered.
But when your words, your thoughts, your
actions are all in alignment. You say
what you mean, you mean mean what you
say and your habits are in alignment
with your goals, that is key and things
start to show up for you and start to
open up for you. And so getting to the
gym more, that's a habit, but you want
to be specific even in that. It's
finding something like going to the gym
and then rating yourself. So if you had
a spreadsheet and you could say like
water intake or you know go to the gym
and you know 5 days a week or whatever
it is. you have this habit, but rating
yourself because sometimes you have
workouts. Sometimes you work um and you
do prospecting or you're on sales calls
and you did the habit. You did the
thing, but you did it at like a low
standard and really dialing in these
habits and tying that to your identity.
I love that Tony's got this thing called
strategy, story, state, but we also add
standard. And so there are strategies in
what you can do in your business and
your marketing and everything, but all
that's in the context of your story. And
you have a story consciously or
unconscious you tell about yourself, the
market, your past, about the future,
whatever. And then there's a state,
there's a habitual pattern of what you
focus on, the language that you use, the
meaning that you attach to things. And
then also how you ingrain all this in
your physiology to have physical mastery
over these concepts where it's in you as
you and you're just pushing these things
from a place of unlimited resources of
boundless energy that is something's
coming through you because you are in
alignment and that's when things really
begin to get juicy. So T is based upon
the foundation. So you see all these
buildings and you see all the success of
other people. You see what they've
created, but there's foundation. There's
things beneath the surface that you
can't even see. And that's the habits.
That's the ritual this is. And our, as
our main man, Tony, always says, you're
rewarded in public for what you practice
in private. And so you getting really
clear on what you want to practice, what
you want to commit to, and being honest
with yourself. And, you know, having
that integrity with yourself. And
integrity means wholeness. And I love
this concept of integrity because you
even hear this word like somebody says
you give your word and it used to be
like 100 couple hundred years ago if you
broke your word like you ruined your
family's name. Now people lie all the
time and it's not a big deal. So keeping
this integrity with yourself it's like
uh integrity is like wholeness and
complete and when you give somebody your
word it's like you're giving them
something. And then if you keep your
word you've put your you put something
out there like an intention like a goal.
You've kept your word. You put it out
there, then it comes back to you and now
it comes back to you stronger because
now your mind and you're bonded to that
person and you've kept a promise to them
and you you put it out there. You gave
them your word and then you kept it and
now when it comes back to you, you're
actually bonded to that person where now
energetically they're going to support
you. I think it's so important for us to
be in integrity with ourselves, what we
say that we're going to do, and making
sure that we look down at what we track
daily and weekly and monthly and yearly,
whatever it is, to have this big plan
for our lives to make sure that we're
living in alignment with our values so
that we can really show up powerfully,
not only for ourselves, but for our
families, for our companies, for
humanity. And life supports that what
supports life. And having a bigger
vision than just yourself is what's
going to connect you and really give you
the emotional fuel that you need to step
outside of yourself and be bigger than
any challenge that could ever happen to
you.
Ow it to yourself to take it all the
way. See how much you can get out of
life. See who you can become. See what
you can build.
What are the biggest goals and dreams
that you have that you've been avoiding
because you've been holding on to the
doubts and the ideas and the thoughts of
other people? You've allowed them to
infiltrate your mind and to become your
own. You need to build your vision and
chase your dreams every single day.
Maybe you need to hear this right now.
That scary thing you're afraid to do,
it's only scary because it's unfamiliar.
You don't need to attach a story to the
fear that means you're incapable, that
you're going to fail, or that people are
going to judge you. Sure, maybe those
things can happen, but nine times out of
10, your ego is just trying to keep you
safe by keeping you tethered to what you
know. So, just a little reminder, things
are way less scary once you decide to
take the leap.
>> You are too concerned with what was and
what will be. Here's a saying. Yesterday
is history. Tomorrow is a mystery, but
today is a gift.
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Forgive yourself
if you're holding on to things you've
done or thoughts you've had. If your
demons have won over in times that you
wish you knew better because the fact is
you didn't. And if you had, then
consider it a warning to get it
together. But if you can't yet, be
forgiving of that, too. This world can
twist and chain you with challenges. And
though that's no excuse, the leaves
can't help but change their colors. When
the space we consume gets colder, but
the trees don't die, they still grow
older. Their branches fall. They don't
do too far one way. Even if they do
crash over a home, or they let disease
invade from their seeds, they can start
again. And you can do the same. So
forgive yourself for the mistakes you've
made. Because the person you embodied
yesterday does not define your future.
What will is what you carry forward. And
if not for you now, then for the little
one you once were. You had these hopes
and dreams to follow. Without a doubt,
you are the cure. To ease all of that
agony. Forgive yourself for letting it
persist. We don't get many chances. So
before you go and lose it,
>> please bro, don't spend another 6 months
doing the same thing. You must find
acceptance with the reality of this
world. Change is pain, but so is
comfort. Trying to learn is pain, but so
is staying ignorant. Working out is
pain, but so is being unhealthy. Time is
our greatest enemy, and it doesn't
consider how you feel or your decisions.
So waiting for next Monday to start off
right, is useless. Start now.
Self-improvement is not a goal, but a
lifestyle. It's something that you will
be in the constant pursuit of every day,
even when you're wiser, stronger, and
richer.
Life is like the changing seasons. You
cannot change the seasons, but you can
change yourself. And see, that's how
life gets better for you. Not by chance,
but by change.
I think if we could zoom out and see our
lives through the eyes of heaven and the
whole universe,
we would stop worrying so much and we
would probably start celebrating more.
We would probably start living.
That perspective, that zoom, that zoomed
out perspective is
so hard for us to find and see. And so
really, we're stuck with our
perspective, the zoomed in version, the
daily life.
And
sometimes hard to find hope within that
because we don't see what's coming and
we don't understand what's coming.
But I think that's what faith is. I
think that's what hope is. Is
hoping that maybe
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there's a different perspective
for all of this.
The decisions of your past do not make
you. The decisions in your past do not
break you. You are someone that can grow
from where you're at. You are someone
who has learned so much from what you've
been through. You are someone that's
armed with new knowledge on how to grow
in this life, on how to move in this
life, on how to serve in this life, on
how to love in this life. Go forward.
Trust yourself. And what the top regret
of dying people was that they didn't
have the courage to be themselves. And
the third top regret was that they
didn't have the courage to express their
emotions. They pretended to be happy
when they were not and so on. So the
question for the rest of us is do we
want to wait till some terminate illness
wakes us up or should we just confront
the fact that in so many ways we're
afraid to be authentic cuz we're so
afraid of being rejected and as children
we don't have much choice.
>> As adults can we develop that freedom to
be ourselves?
Most people spend their lives busy but
never actually move forward. So, are you
growing or are you fooling yourself? Ask
yourself these following questions. When
I look back, am I tackling challenges I
once avoided or just repeating the same
routines? Am I saying yes to things that
make me uncomfortable, things that could
redefine my future? Do I feel more
resilient, or am I just getting by and
calling it strength? Is my time going to
activities that build my future, or do I
just fill my days? If these questions
make you question your path, that's the
point. True progress is uncomfortable.
It requires breaking the cycle. So, next
time you doubt yourself, check if you're
moving forward or just moving in place.
Master patience. As this journey is long
and treacherous. As the chaotic world
moves around you, you must remain
grounded in your pursuit of legacy.
Distractions will come your way. Things
won't go as planned. You will experience
moments of doubt and uncertainty, but
you must remain patient, remain still,
disciplined, and focused. Because the
only thing that separates you from
everything that you've ever wanted is
time.
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You don't get to choose your best days.
They don't come by command. In fact,
your most crucial moments, they're
likely to show up when you feel like
giving nothing.
When every fiber in your body screams to
stay down, to avoid the fight, to sit it
out, life has a way of dropping
challenges right at your feet.
Every great opportunity, every crucial
moment that changes the course of your
life gives you one chance to get it
right. Life doesn't come with a rewind
button or a second take. Sure, sometimes
you get a second attempt, but I
guarantee you the impact of succeeding
the first time is a thousand times
stronger. The trajectory of your life
changes when you show up fully prepared.
the first time. You won't be surrounded
by failure. You won't be haunted by
whatifs or the stains of inadequacy.
There will be no air heavy with the
stench of regret.
Every success you earn the first time
adds up, lifting you higher, pushing you
further. But you only get there if
you're relentless.
Even on your worst days, to be truly
unstoppable, you have to be prepared for
those days when everything goes wrong.
yet you still come out on top. That's
not luck. That's earned strength. That's
hard work. And it comes from making a
promise to yourself to train so hard
you're unbreakable.
It means doing the work even when
nobody's watching. You train for the
days when you feel like you're worth
nothing
because those days will come. You
prepare so that when it matters most,
you can look at yourself in the mirror
and know without a shadow of a doubt
that you have the strength to overcome,
even when every part of you wants to
stay down. You don't practice when you
feel like it. You don't train when it's
convenient. You do it because every rep,
every moment is a deposit in the bank of
resilience.
a reserve that you'll draw from on those
days when life demands more than you
think you have because that's what it
takes. You need a tribe that holds you
to the highest standard, especially on
the days you can barely hold yourself
up. There's no shortcut. There's no
secret. Transformation is about
embracing the grind. It's about
respecting the pain that shapes you, the
struggle that forges you. You have to
learn to fall in love with the process,
to find satisfaction in every moment
that tests you, every task that pushes
you to your limits.
The truth is, the process will break you
down before it builds you up. It will
force you to confront your weaknesses.
It will make you doubt yourself. And it
will strip away any illusions you have
about who you are. But that's the point.
Real strength isn't about comfort. It's
about stepping into the fire over and
over and coming out sharper every single
time. You need to be ready, not just
when it's easy, but when every single
part of you wants to run. And the only
way to do that is to commit to the
process day in and day out, no matter
how tired, no matter how defeated you
feel. Because it's the process that will
shape you into someone who can stand up,
fight, and conquer, even when every part
of you is screaming to quit.
You'll have a strength that's earned,
not given. a strength that comes from
choosing to be better every day, no
matter what life throws at you.
When you train harder, you don't just
raise your standards. You create an
entirely new level of resilience, a
level that few will ever reach because
they don't have the guts to push past
their own comfort. But if you want to be
good enough on your worst day, you have
to demand more from yourself on the days
you feel strong. Every moment counts.
Every decision to keep going counts.
And every time you train beyond what's
expected, you're creating a version of
yourself that won't back down no matter
what. Comfort is a lie. Comfort is the
enemy of greatness. And if you're
chasing comfort, you'll never reach your
full potential.
You'll never know what you're truly
capable of. But if you can choose
greatness over comfort,
if you can commit to doing what's hard,
even when it's the last thing you want
to do, you'll become unstoppable. Every
time you choose to push harder, to go
further, to demand more, you're choosing
greatness. You're telling yourself that
comfort isn't enough, that you refuse to
be mediocre, and that you're willing to
sacrifice convenience, to give up
excuses, to put in the work no matter
the cost. Because comfort doesn't make
champions. Comfort doesn't create
legend. And if you're serious about
winning, if you're committed to
conquering every obstacle in your path,
you'll need to abandon any attachment to
comfort. You'll need to choose strength,
resilience, and grit. And that choice
starts with every moment, every action,
and every single step you take. Even
when it's the hardest thing in the
world. So remember this. Life doesn't
wait for you to feel ready. It doesn't
wait for you to be at your best. When
the moment comes, you won't get to ask
for a better day, a better time, or a
second chance. The only way to guarantee
victory, even on your worst day, is to
become the person who is prepared to
win, regardless of the circumstances.
You must be that good. You have to build
yourself into someone who can step up
when everything else tells you to stay
down. You train, you push, you surround
yourself with people who refuse to let
you quit. You abandon comfort, you
choose greatness, and you commit to
being unbreakable. On the day you face
your greatest challenge when your
opponent is at his best, and you're at
your worst, you will know you are ready
because you've chosen to be stronger.
You've chosen to be prepared, and you've
chosen to be unstoppable.
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