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>> I had a question. Um, my husband and I
are finally able to live together after
being married for 3 years. And um, but I
own my house and he doesn't he he rents,
but because of our job, you know, his
house is the better option to live at.
I'm just not sure what to do with my
house. It's got that great interest
rate. It's, you know, I'm not I'm not
sure what to do.
>> What's it worth if you were to sell it
today?
>> Um, probably two over 200 220 row um
122,000.
>> Mhm.
>> Sell it today and put 100,000 down on a
new house. Both get out of his rent
house and you find yours. Who cares
about that stupid interest rate, man?
>> Yeah.
>> You don't want to be a longist landlord.
People are parking their whole lives on
a once in a millennium interest rate.
>> Yeah. Let's play this out a little bit.
>> Let's play it out cuz I I hear the doubt
and we love doubt. Doubt's not bad. Love
it. Let's put this to the test. Okay.
So, let's say you keep it at that
fabulous interest rate that you're in
love with. Uh what do you think you
would rent it for?
Any idea?
>> Uh
well, I think it depends on the runner.
My my my daughter, she's an adult. Um
she's actually interested in either
renting it herself or buying it.
>> Let's keep playing this out. Let's play
the renting thing out because you
presented us with I kind of emotionally
want to keep the house. Am I right?
>> Um no. I don't think I'm emotionally
tied to it.
>> You seem very confused by John's
suggestion. You don't want to give up
your This is the last attachment to your
former life.
>> Oh, is this true?
>> Oh,
>> and you may have gone through a divorce
or somebody passed away and you got up
and you dusted yourself off and you
worked your butt off and bought a home
and you've paid off half of it and by
moving in with this person, your
husband, by the way, this is the period
at the end of that former sentence,
right?
>> Yeah.
>> Well, I am just so nervous. I just hate
the thought of so much of that new house
payment going to so much interest. It
just makes me sick.
>> So much so that you're going to have a
$100,000 brick tied around your ankle
when you move in with your husband after
three years in a new state.
>> No, it's I mean I I move right now.
That's
>> all right. Let me let me go back to
where I was going.
>> Let me go back to where I was going.
Here's why you shouldn't keep the house.
Number one, you're going to be long
distance landlord. I don't care if it's
your daughter renting or someone else.
True or false?
>> Well, two hours away. Yeah. Yeah.
>> The answer is yes, Ken. Okay. Next.
Okay. All right. So,
>> and and let's add to that that issue.
I'm not I don't know home repairs.
>> I know you don't. I know. I'm getting
ready to make this situation worse. All
right. So, you're two hours away
>> and you don't know anything about home
repairs. You have to hire somebody. Now,
let's talk about how much actual money
you would make on renting this house.
Okay? What I was trying to get at, I
never got an answer from you, is is what
is the market-based rent for that house?
You don't have to tell me now because we
don't need to get bogged down. But
here's what I'm going to tell you. You
will be shocked if you run the numbers,
John, at what you can get in rent versus
your mortgage payment. Okay? And let's
just say you cleared three, four, 500
bucks a month. Is that a fair guess?
>> I could. Yeah. Okay, great. Let's say
500. Let's be aggressive in my example.
Okay.
>> Okay. 500 a month times 12 is $6,000 a
year. That's your gross that you're
going to get. Then you got home repairs,
somebody taking care of the house.
That's all on you. So, you aren't even
going to net $6,000 a year. All that
nuisance, all that worry for maybe
3,000, 3500, 4,000 a year. It's just not
worth it. That's why we were so quick to
say sell it and move on.
>> Yeah. Oh, yeah. That's uh that's when
you lay it all out like that, man. I
really was stuck on the interest rate.
Two 2.875.
>> I know. And I wanted to destroy the
emotion around that because guess what's
going to guess what? When you get a call
at 10:00 on a Saturday night and you've
just settled down with some ice cream to
watch a movie and the and the person
who's renting your house goes, "We had a
water pipe burst." And you're going to
go, "Ha,
>> man, that's a bummer." But 2.875%
I'm doing the happy dance.
>> And then you're going to call somebody.
They're going to say, "Cool. It's going
to be $6,500 to repair it. We'll get it
done on Saturday."
>> And then your then your tenants going to
say, "Whoa, whoa, whoa. In our lease,
you have to put me up in a hotel and I
have to actually have two rooms because
>> there sell the house."
>> But you know, no, no, no. Cuz what
you're going to do is you're going to
go, "Man, that's a bummer.
>> Just out of pocket 10 grand." But boy,
that interest rate is crazy.
>> I love that interest rate. No, no, no.
It doesn't sound so good anymore. So,
you would just sell it for anything I
could get for it and then just put
>> No, that's you being dramatic.
>> No, sell it for market value.
>> I'm like that's what I'm wondering. What
is the what you guys would recommend?
>> I would re I would get a I would get a
real estate pro in that area and do and
sell the house or I'm not opposed to you
cutting your daughter a deal. You got
$100,000 in equity
>> and maybe you say I'm going to knock off
25 grand for you because I love you or
50 grand. Who? I mean, you pick the
number. I'm going to sell it to you for
$1 150 grand. I'm going to take $50,000
into my um three-year-old marriage that
we're finally combining our households.
Honey, I'm not living in your gross rent
house cuz sick. We're getting a new
place and I got $50,000 to put down on
it.
>> Yeah. And then your your daughter's got
a great start. That's an I like that
option.
>> That's actually what I wanted to do. And
I talked about that with her, too. like
if that's what they decided to do with
her and a bunch like
>> I was going to say I was going to say as
a parent uh don't do any um sweetheart
deals just for the daughter. This needs
to be a big girl deal now. Cut her cut
her a break on the the the overall
total, but don't start getting tricky
with financing. She needs to be a big
girl and she goes and does it just like
everybody else
>> mortgage and buys the house from you.
We're not going to shake hands and you
just pay the mortgage.
>> That's my only concern. then you're
going to blow up every Christmas from
here the next year.
>> I told her, well, I told her flat out
like, I'm 42 years old. I can't start
out, you know what I mean? Like at a
full house payment, like I need to have
that chunk to put down to make sense
where I'm at in my life. I don't want to
start over. So, we gave you nothing.
>> We gave you two really good options, but
they're both sell the house and let's
let's move and let's And you said you
were ready to go today. I think this is
the last piece.
>> Yeah,
>> this is great. List it. Go listen. Go to
ramseolutions.com
and uh look up the real estate pros.
Interview two or three of them. Have
them come over and look at the house. Go
with the one that you like the most that
feels like they've educated you and let
a pro walk you through this process and
and to begin to exhale and get excited
about this new chapter.
>> Can I do can can you do one exercise for
me? I want everyone listening at home in
this similar situation to do this
exercise, but will you do this with me?
>> Can I do it as well?
>> You can. Can.
>> Okay.
>> All right. Are you ready?
>> All right. Lauren, close your eyes and I
want you to picture
>> that interest rate. What's the number?
2.75 3
>> 2.875
>> 2.875. I want you to see those numbers.
Okay, John.
>> Now,
>> I want you to um open your eyes real
quick. That's a little pallet cleanser.
Close them again. And I want you to
imagine you're looking at your laptop
>> at your checking account
that has $105,000,
which is what you've cleared. Oh, I like
it.
>> Which number do you like looking at
more?
>> That big one.
>> That's right. Bank account. Sell the
house.
>> Awesome.
>> And America, stop holding up your life
>> for a freaking interest rate.
>> If you got to move, if you got to change
jobs, go.
I loved that visualization because I was
envisioning her money in my account. I
don't know if that was supposed to be
what happened, but boy, that's where I
went. Create your free every dollar
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