Can We Ever Truly Forgive Someone, or Ourself?

How do I forgive someone, or myself? How do I stop holding on to resentment and pain? What is the true meaning of forgiveness? This touching short clip about forgiveness is not the answer you may expect.

Rupert explains that forgiveness is the recognition that ultimately there is nobody there to forgive. And nobody there to be forgiven. Look for the one who needs forgiveness — describe the 'I' who needs forgiveness. What happens to the need for forgiveness when we see the 'I' is not there?

This question is from a person attending the Livestream of one of Rupert's In-Person retreats at the Vedanta in June 2022.