Why My Husband Doesn’t Wear His Wedding Ring 😳 + Surprise Ring Upgrade After 14 Years 💍 + A BIG Tip!

Girl, the dinging just makes me lose my turn to throw out every time. What? That's what I'm saying. Like it's the ring. It's not me talking. Remember that. It's not me. If I'm in the club, I got to leave something crazy so that the that they know I'm here. That's why I don't have ring on when people always asking why you don't got a ring. You want Oh god. I ch [Music] in Target and they trying to copyright your girl. But listen, it's a little day date for me and Big Pop. You know what I'm saying? And and this one, y'all can't even see cuz my camera won't turn. And this one. Say hi. Hi. Look at her face. She mad. She mad. Listen, when we came in here, she was doing a lot, doing the most. She did not want to get in this cart. So, she is not feeling it right now. But we're about to just shop a little bit and then also go out to eat and then get back home when the kiddos get home from school. So, yes. Yes. I know I'm not supposed to be in Target. I just seen as a deal and some sense and I just had to have it. I want chocolate. They didn't want chocolate. Did I have to walk around the whole entire Target to get to this spot? No, I didn't. [Music] I need a 3 oz. I'm looking helped him clean up. She's so helpful. Right, duding on. Okay, come on. What's the deal? That I showed you the deal with my phone. It said $2, but it was really one. She said that was the deal for your information. Okay. You guys YouTubers? Yes. I You What's your channel? The Bells Plus three. The Bells Plus three. All right. There's a lot of YouTubers. Yeah. Thank you. All right. So, what did you say we were eating? Cuz I'm hungry. What? Um, I don't know. Come on, D. Y'all know it's not a vlog if he didn't What? Take the damn keys. Like, I I just I can't get away from this now. Okay. Whether it's like put your seat belt on, girl, reminder dinging or it's key dinging. I'm totally done. Like totally done. I'm trying to see where I can put y'all. But he just ran into Old Navy real quick to see if he could uh find Milan some flip-flops and I'm out front. We're about to head to um the girl, the dingying just makes me lose my turn to throw every time. Like I can't even get it together right now. We are about to go to Walmart. I think I don't know if he wants to go to Marshalls or what, but we're just honestly just shopping around and then getting some food and then headed back. Um, I don't know what we're about to eat. I haven't figured that out. But I'm so excited because this new nail glue that I found on Amazon that I wanted to try came in the mail and I was waiting so that I could put them on my nails so I can get at least have my nails in. Like I wanted to I was trying to get myself together. Now, I know I said I was going to talk to y'all about like where have I been? What's been going on? Girl, but not right now. This dingy is not It's not appropriate. Okay, see y'all. We don't discriminate. See, look. Just like that. We in Walmart. We don't discriminate. Okay. So, I'm trying to find some sandals so far. got these on deck, but these are size 11 and she's size 10. So, I'm trying to see if there's like another flower [Music] one. Flower one. I want flower one. What? [Music] That's touching on the actual shoe. I say take them off. Girl, calm down. [Music] Not taking it. I'm trying to do you guys jellies are just made weird cuz I think another like another uh sandal like how you showed with the black sandal. I think if you got a 10 it might not be that much of a difference. Gold for spoons cups. Plastic, right? No, real. Why do you even want real? What do you mean? Our spoons have disappeared. Where the hell are our spoons? That's what I need. Real [ __ ] baby. Spoons. Yeah, spoons, forks, all of it. No, nothing is already filled up. Literally just bought a whole new thing of gold. Gold and they watching you do this [ __ ] That's the [ __ ] you do. This is the [ __ ] I deal with, y'all. I always wanted these for some reason, but I don't know why. I know. And then now I think about when we eat off of them, the metal coming off the crazy [ __ ] We eat tomorrow. We eat tomorrow. I got 30 inside of my body. [ __ ] I got 30 inside of my B. [Music] Hey, dudy. Come on. What? Ooh, pretty. Hello. Heat. Heat. [Music] [Music] fun. Good. Look at that. Look at that. [Music] [Music] [Music] Ya is tipping $50 and [ __ ] I had to tell somebody like what? They were really good though. They were really, really nice. The food was good. We were scared coming in here because we never been and we didn't know if it was going to be like, you know, I keep telling you that that's that's nothing, bro. If you was in if you was in the club, it was a $100 bill. If you was in the club and we bought two bottles and then they come back out to a,000, you would have gave that lady 15 bucks. 250 bucks tip and [ __ ] That's what my friends when I'm out with them, that's what they do. $200. So you telling me they paying $1,200, right? And so that's what this is stupid. This why I stay in the house because I'm not about to do none of that. Like you're not catching me doing none of that. bottom of my partner's BJ. His tab was like 3,000 and something and the the tip was automatically in and in there and so she got already likeund and something and he gave her another $200 where at that's what I'm saying. Like that's why they say women be making because I just need to go ahead and get me a little night gig, a little night job. You know what I'm saying? I feel like I get all the tips. If that's all it take, that's what I need. I need to go ahead and certain certain places you don't got to you just got to get hired, right? They know that. Like some women literally go to certain establishments to just be hired because they know automatically their tables they're going to get money because the culture is [ __ ] up in people's mind. They feel like I got to look like money. So I got to be spending thousands of dollars. If I'm in the club, I got to leave something crazy so that the that they know I'm here like like and then also also told them you're you're just you always beeping. If it's not a seat belt, if it's not you taking the keys, it's all and then also it be men wanting to look good cuz he might have already been trying to talk to her. That play a role. And then black people, the reality is is black people, their mind messed up. So, you know, if you do got some money, they now they got to prove they got some money, right? And so, that's a factor of they're proving. Well, not this black person. Not this one either. Not this one over here because I don't give a damn what you can't say. I don't give a damn. Did y'all see where China just like literally exposed the words? What? 30% of the tip. No, that wasn't. That was 50% of the bill. That's 50% tip. Yeah. Whatever. That's half the bill. The bill is $100. That's not a normal tip. Right. You tried to lie. Like exactly. You gave him a a crazy tip for the bill price. He deserved it though. He was very nice man. Italian. His He had a whole accent and everything. And then he really like explained. He really explained the bill. I mean the bill the um the menu to us. Like Salt Bay. He did look like Salt Bay. like he looked like he was going to be like there was a tomahawk on the menu that was $100 and I thought it was going to be no but I thought it was like one that was going to be like gold or something but it was just by the weight the weight was 32 oz y'all that was a big ass stick. Anyways, I'll talk to y'all when I get home. I got to put my nails on so I can really get into my ring. Oh this is okay. One second. Dooer. I wonder if he'll bite my hand if I like He'll bite you. If I try to like hand it to him. Oh [ __ ] Yo, I'm pray for my husband. Because why are you feeding dogs right now? Just why? We're on the way home. But I had a wonderful day. Oh, it is. Y'all remember when I was talking about how I wanted a new ring and then I have been talking about like different types of rings that I wanted and like all that stuff. And my husband my husband really did the damn thing. Like I'm telling y'all, he listened to detail. We went to different stores. Y'all seen that we went to different stores. I was looking at different stuff and saying like what I liked, what I didn't like, and like all that stuff. He listened to me. See, the thing is, we've been married 14 years. Okay. As of December 20th. Okay. We've been married 14 years. And my rings that I got before were like I think I got them 10 years ago. No. No. 11 years ago. Some napkins out of there. There's no napkins. I think the last rings that I had got was like 10 I think they're like 10 years old. So we I can't wait to Yeah. You want to feed it? Oh god. He getting people to feed the ducks. So this is the glue that I got off of Amazon. This is the name beauty secrets nail glue. And I shaved down my nails. You can see with my nail foam and I'm about to glue them on. What you say? Hi. Oh my goodness. Hey, Lennon. Shout out to K baby. I have a dress pass. Thank you. Like why? Not even a brushing it though. Like Oh my god. [Applause] We just Oh my god. Stop. Rock out, Tony. Yeah. Yeah. A final, bro. Kyle, that's Chad. Stop messing with my [ __ ] It look so pink. It looks blonde on you. Like, [Music] I don't know what y'all saw because my phone died. Oh, my phone. My other Oh, was that what it was? And now it's open. Yeah. I was wondering why it was like rattling, wrestling like that. I was so annoyed. Jesus, I was so annoyed by that sound. Every time the air came up here for once and then, right, he'll never go up here. Anyways, we're home. I don't know what y'all saw on the other camera because I was recording. Me and Ry was sitting here talking and everything and it just like turned off. But I was telling y'all about my ring. What are we going to call her? Oh, blinded you. She's sassy, too. Okay, this ain't me talking. This the ring talking. Girl, get into her. Oh my goodness. I want to show y'all my old ring and my new one. I'm really excited because this one I'm going to I'm going to do right by her. This one I didn't I don't feel like I did right by her. I was young. This is 11 years ago. I'm going tell you how the whole setup was. Okay. So, we got married 14 years ago. 3 years after. So, third anniversary, 3 years in, I got an upgrade, right? That was 11 years ago. Yes. 11 years. Okay. I've been rocking her for 11 years. So, faithful right here. But my style changed, you know, like things changed. Years have changed. Obviously, decade has went by and I like new things, different things. I just felt like this was very much the times. Like she twisted, bent to the side. Girl, she like a old weave. Like you just had to throw her away, honey. But your is going to take her in, get her maintenance. Gary shined up. Gary, I just wear my rings so frequently, every day, 24/7, that I never went and did the maintenance and things that like if if a stone fell out, I didn't go get it seen about nothing. But this one I'm definitely going to be doing my mom with me. But I'm so excited about her. This is the ring talking. It's not me. The ring making like what? Oh, okay. [Laughter] What' you say? Oh, let you say something. Oh, look. Y'all, it's so cute. This so cute. I said I've been hinting talking about things I like and stuff. I told y'all before, but Mimi said that that if it was her, she would be offended talking about your I should be offended because I wanted to change my rings. But all y'all out there know that as a wife, we like to switch things up. No. when you've been married for a very very very very very very long time. Okay, you earn it. You earn upgrades, things change, your styles change, stuff like that. So, yeah, I'm excited and I love it. So, that was the most popular ring back then. When I get out, I'm It's going to be I'm going to refinish it. It's everything going to be refinished. Stones, all that. Tell them now. Go ahead, London. L wants to show y'all something. What? This is Milan. Huh? I drew I drew my You drew Milan. Okay. And then Daddy Daddy. Oh, Daddy Drew Mimi. Oh Lord. Saying London. E. That's all I ever hear. London. Why your lips are saying London like that? Why is this on the back on the floor? That cost too much money. Oh my god. All right, y'all. This end of the vlog. I just wanted to say hello one more time. Told y so if any other vlogs you see me doing all this, you know why. Okay, cuz it's going to be a lot of that. Um, tomorrow I'm going to go do some shopping and things with my friend. Uh, we were supposed to have today, but he ended up canceling, so we had to reschedule. So, that'll be later on this week. And then my sisters are coming this weekend. So, we have a lot of things and stuff and plans and stuff for y'all to see. So, we'll see y'all in the next Oh, they want to see my ring. Is that Did somebody say that back there? It was you. You You said it. I didn't even know she said that. Girl, I didn't even hear you. You must just had said that. What he had said what he said. We was leaving. You said it. Okay. Cuz he heard it. I didn't hear you. But he heard what you had said as we're waiting on him. Yeah. Y'all like I this is just this is just everything to me. It just be the little simple not the little Hold on. It don't be the little things sometimes. Sometimes it be the big ring takes. Okay. But um No, but like I literally came upstairs, did my nails as y'all can see. finish my nails just so that I can take pictures, just so that I can talk to y'all with my hands. Just so that you know what's good, what's going on. You feel what I'm saying? Like it's the ring. It's not me talking. Remember that. It's not me. What were you saying? Now mine look clos. Yeah, that's his room, y'all. That matches my shirt. My mind's autistic doing the most. So now because I don't wear mine anyway, but there's a reason. So anybody ever asks the reason why I don't wear a ring fairly frequently because of history. History played a role in that. And so when in the army, most husbands don't wear rings. There's a reason. Basically, I have deployed to Afghanistan and you're not allowed to wear a ring or you shouldn't be wearing a ring because it shows a sign of weakness. They if you ever get captured as a prisoner of war, they will use your family as a tool to whatever. So over time in the army for many years, I never wore a ring for that reason. And so now it just doesn't feel natural to me to wear a ring. That's why I don't have ring on. When people always ask you why you don't got a ring, where is ring at? That's why. But if anybody had ever wanted to know that that there you go. And it just don't feel right. And I don't really care at the end of places like today. I put a ring on. Get out. Huh? What? What? Chicken butt. We're testing the same testing. No. Why do you have the diamond test? Listen, I'm going I'll see y'all later. Let me see. Talk to you later on cuz we're not about to do this. We're not about to It's time for them to get out. Who? It's time for them. The bells. No, it's not. She talking about the cutting stuff. Why did I get out? What are you doing? Right. We're not about to say do this. Touch on. I've been trying to let them go for the longest. They They tired. They worked shifts. Are you online? They want to lay down. They got to go make dinner for their kids. You Oh god. Here we go. This on here. Stop. Why keep on slipping? Probably cuz I put lotion. I don't even see the thingy. And this is not going in my vlog. Why? Why am I testing my rings? That's what I'm saying. What the [ __ ] People will think it's fake. Let's see the haters. Oh my god. [Music]