Douche vs Simp *the truth*

hey guys janae from manyfluency hope you look good feel good and are ready to prosper because in this video i'd like to compare douche with sim so this isn't some clickbaity video i'm actually gonna provide real value here and if you stick with me till the end you're actually gonna get some real deep dive knowledge and understand the real fundamentals when it comes to these two extremes so if you want me to make more content like this please let me know in the comments down below and give me some suggestions as to what kind of videos you'd like to see next and if you're someone that stumbled upon this channel and like to see more videos like this please consider to the subscribe button and i'll be brother out because i'm trying to aim for 10k subscribers and therefore by you subscribing you really help the channel out anyways with that said let's jump into the video so when it comes to the douche and sim personality those are two extremes and therefore i would like to focus on chord person versus nice guy first so if you look on the screen right now i've connected chord person and nice guy by using a line so when it comes to most individuals we tend to be in between chord person and nice guy but our personality as individuals isn't stagnant it fluctuates quite a lot when it comes to a personality and thus sometimes you'll be more on the cold person's side while in other scenarios you'll be more on the nice guy side and this fluctuation can be caused by several factors such as the way you're currently feeling because our feelings tend to have a huge impact when it comes to the way you react to other individuals thus it will have a great impact on your personality another component is your mood your state of mind if you're in a quite relaxed state of mind you'll most likely be much calmer and nicer to other individuals while if you're in a quite intense environment you may be more of a cold person and the same applies to our energy levels because the energy levels tend to have an impact on our emotions and on our mood for example music can have an impact on emotions and our mood because of their energy levels if music has low energy level we might feel a bit more down well if music has high energy levels we might feel more hyped up another factor that may have some impact on your energy level thus on your personality is time because in the morning when after you just wake up you're a bit more rejuvenated and regenerated and hence you have more energy while in the evening after having a long day you might have low energy levels and archery might feel a little bit more tired and you can't be asked to spend time with other individuals and you might just want to have time for yourself so in that particular instance you might be more of a court person instead of a nice guy and the same goes for location because if you're in school university or work most likely you'll be more nicer to other individuals than if you're walking on the street and some strangers trying to sell you something and thus these are the main components that have an impact on the fluctuation of a personality and i understand that you might be a little bit confused and once you understand how this actually affects you and how it can help you but please stick with me till the end because all of these components will come together and will allow you to understand personalities much better because when it comes to these personalities for some individuals your personality might only lean more towards one end and thus say for example you're extremely nice guy and you might have a cold person's side your cold person's side might still be a nice person's side for most other individuals while other individuals might have high fluctuation so they can have extremes so they might be extremely nice sometimes but at the same time they can be a really cold person too and when it comes to high fluctuation you can also drive it into two subcategories one being livestock components and the other one being time and what i mean by livestock components is that some individuals might be a bit more of a cold person when it comes to some components in their life well when it comes to other components they're more of a nice guy and let's take me for example when it comes to me i value my time quite a lot and therefore when it comes to my time i might be more of a cold person but when it comes to other individuals and i having a deep conversation with them i might be more of a nice guy and the second derivative of high fluctuation can be sub-categorized into short and long so when it comes to a long period of time think about people fluctuating when it comes to their personality due to all the components that i mentioned earlier so think about the way some individual's personality has changed due to all of the emotions the time and the location just for time if you're someone that used to have a lot of time on hand you might have been more of a nice guy but now since you have a lot of things to do you're extremely stressed you might be more of a cold person because you simply don't have time for it because once again our personality tends to be affected by emotions our mood our energy level our time and our location and thus if one of those components is constantly changing or maybe some of those components are constantly changing it might really fluctuate your personality another reason of fluctuation of personality in a short period of time might simply be because some individuals are bipolar obviously the line that you're seeing on the screen right now are two very extreme ends because if you're 100 on the one side you might be extremely cold person well if you're on the other side you might be extremely nice guy but unfortunately that's not where it ends because this line can be drawn a little bit longer and if you look on the screen right now you can see two even more extreme ends and these are two ends that are luckily most individuals aren't in but those individuals that actually are in one of these two ends really reduce their social opportunities because if you're a douche no one will like you and no one wants to be around you because you're very toxic well if you're a cold person although some people might not like you most individuals might still have respect for you and the same goes for a nice guy and simp so if you're someone that is a sim you're way too much and you're actually trying way too hard well if you're someone that's generally a nice guy people actually really appreciate you and even though some individuals might find you a bit too much but most individuals won't and thus when it comes to being a douche and a simp they should be out of the equation the thing i want you to focus on is between chord person and nice guy and i don't necessarily want you to have one of these extreme ends i want you to have some sort of fluctuation it doesn't have to be extreme fluctuation because even a little bit of fluctuation can go a long way because if you're someone that's trying to be 100 cold person or 100 of a nice guy it won't help you out in life because most individuals will find you boring well on the other side if you're someone that's a little bit unpredictable and sometimes you're more of a cold person while in other instances you're more of a nice guy you'll be very unpredictable and therefore you'll be so much more interesting to talk to because when it comes to love individuals that are trying to better themselves i always constantly see that they choose one of the two extremes why it shouldn't be that way because your personality is meant to fluctuate and the other day i was talking to one individual right and he told me that he used to be an extremely nice guy but now he wants to be more of a court person and unfortunately when society tells you that if you're gonna be a nice guy you get your dream girl you get your dream car you get your dream house you tend to actually become an extreme nice guy and thus every lifestyle component of yours will lead towards being a nice guy well if you want to be someone that's a very interesting individual you shouldn't do that at all you need to actually have some sort of fluctuation and that's why i gave my livestock components as an example because obviously you don't have to follow my livestock components but you need to have some sort of fluctuation in your lifestyle components and i hope you appreciate this social breakdown because when i initially started to better myself i found it very confusing and quite difficult to understand everything because we as guys do not tend to have high emotional intelligence relative to girls and therefore it was quite difficult for me to understand this so literally after putting everything into practice in the last six to seven years because i used to be 14 when i initially started to better myself and now i'm 20 and thus by reading a lot of books doing a lot of research and then applying it into practice i really started to understand social dynamics so much better and also i hope you really appreciate it and if you do feel free to share this with other individuals and you might actually help other brothers out and that pretty much sums it up for this video so if you really appreciate this video please leave a thumbs up and let me know what kind of videos you'd like to see next because this way i can help you out the best way possible and if you're someone that's new to this channel please consider hitting the subscribe button and help your brother out because i'm trying to aim for 10k subscribers so if you really found this video useful and valuable please consider to do that because that really helps this channel out anyways thank you so much for watching i hope you have a great day and i'll see you on my next video bye bye [Music] you