How To Act Cold (7 EASY STEPS)

so you might be asking how can I act CT to get the respect I want to get over those individuals that have hurt you in the past and prevent other individuals to hurt you in the future and on top of that help you to achieve your long-term goals while if any of those things interest you this is the right video for you because in this video I'm going to go over how to act cold and Achieve those objectives if you're someone that is new to this Channel and you really appreciate content like this please consider hit the Subscribe button and help your brother out anyways with that said let's jump into video number one act expressionless so what do I mean by this because I'm not telling you to be completely emotionless but all I'm saying is that if you're going to show emotions be sure that you don't show too much of them reduce the amount of emotions that you show to other individuals so instead of smiling try to smoke because a cold person is someone that likes to reserve thems for themsel rather than showcase them for the rest of the world so if you want to be a cold person try to reserve your emotions and if you decide to show your emotions try to minimize it number two the Cod look so what do I mean by the Cod look because let's be honest what is even a cord look well in my book The Cod look is someone that can Master the communication of their eyes and this cold look is implemented by having that cold eye look and I'm sure you guys would love to see an example and therefore why not show it on the screen myself now so therefore as I'm close to the screen right now you can see my eyes and thus if I tweeze them a little bit this is more of the cold look because as you can see I look a bit more intimidating and at the same time give across those cold Vibes and when it comes to this cold look you don't want to tweeze your eyes too much because that will get rid of the effect number three cold body language so I've just mentioned the eyes but what about the rest of your body because the truth is if you're someone that wants to come across as a cold person you need to portray it and you don't only do it with your eyes or your communication skills but you also do it with your own body language and the way you do it when it comes to your body language is that you're not afraid at all to show that you're someone that is a cold person and thus you stand up straight you take up enough space for yourself not to try to come across as someone that's extremely dominant but just to show that hey I respect my own time and I respect myself and that's I don't really care about your opinion and I'm going to take as much space for myself as I want but do you remember the actions speak louder than words and therefore don't be someone that's extremely silly and is going to take all of the room in this space available but try to actually take enough for your while still keeping enough for others and another thing about cold body language is that person that has cold body language doesn't necessarily move a lot because they know their value and don't necessarily feel intimidated just like a lot of other individuals because the truth about body language is that if some of you intimidated they start to shake a little bit start to move quite a lot and thus if you're someone that wants to come across as a cold person you don't do this number four don't talk too much about yourself so when it comes to you being a cold person you don't want to show too much about yourself because you don't really care whether other individuals know about you or not all you want is the straight facts so you get what you need to conquer your goals and move on and understand that in the law scenarios you do have to talk about yourself because otherwise the social interactions feels too forced which makes it a bit harder to get the information or generally the objective that you want to achieve in that particular scenario try to minimize how much you talk about yourself because this way you come across as a CAU person which leaves the other individual more interested in you number five don't ask too many questions so this is a general thing when it comes to love individuals but it is especially important if you want to be a cold person because the thing about us asking questions is that when you initially start in meet new individuals well basically means that we're constantly asking questions such as hey what's your name how old are you what's your job what are you doing today what are you going to do next and so forth but the thing about this is that a lot of individuals will find extremely boring and a lot of times it comes across as very forceful rather than a natural conversation so if you want to get something out of the other individual a lot of times it's better to actually make statements rather than asking questions so instead of asking a question such as what is your job you can make a statement for example you look like a police officer because of the intimidating look that you give to me and whether the statement is right or wrong doesn't really matter because at the end of the day the other individual will try to correct you and in the case that you actually are correct it's a ego boost number six avoid repeating yourself so when it comes to being a cold person it's very important that you know someone that's constantly repeating yourself be loud and clear and this way the other individual can understand you rather than being someone that's mumbling or trying to avoid other individuals to hear what you're saying because you're a cold person and you don't care about other individual's opinion and thus whether they hear what it's talking about or not doesn't really matter to you because another thing that a lot of individuals don't talk about is that when you're someone that's loud and clear and the other individual can hear you you can actually see how invested they are in you because if they're not fully paying attention and are saying wait what did you say can you repeat the question or the statement again this actually does give you a good indication as to how interested they are in the conversation number seven outwork others so when it comes to be a cold person you can't expect others to respect you if you're not someone that's willing to put in the work is trying to outwork others and are trying to conquer your goals because if you're someone that's being a cold person without trying to outwork others and trying to work really hard most of the times you will actually come across as someone that's very arrogant but the way we as individuals work is that we see that someone is working really hard they put in the work we feel like that it's more okay for them to act like a cold person and you will see that those individuals will start to respect you more because if all individuals feel like that you're better at them in a particular thing what they are interested in when it comes to your friendly relationship they will have an incentive to be around you because they look up to you and thus if you're someone that actually acts a bit more cold they will respect you and actually understand why you're being this way well on the other hand if they actually look down upon you in that particular field Unfortunately they will see you as a loser a rude person and generally don't want to hang around with you anymore so number seven is the most important step outwork others because if you're someone that's outw working other individuals you can do whatever you want and individuals will still respect you so please like the video for the YouTube algorithm and consider to the Subscribe button if you found this video informational anyways thank you so much for watching I hope you have a great day and I'll see you on my next video bye bye a [Music]