How To Be Mysterious and Confident (7 EASY STEPS)

How to be mysterious and confident? Well, in this video, I'm about to give you seven easy steps to do so. And with that said, let's get started. Master the power of body language. They say that action speaks louder than words and the way that you carry yourself makes a huge impression before you even open your mouth. So remember these body language hacks. Maintain eye contact because if you're someone that stares through someone's souls, they will remember you and you will come across as this mysterious individual because you haven't said anything yet, but they will still remember you because of your gaze. The second thing is confident posture, because if you're someone that wants to be mysterious and confident, you need to showcase that you're not afraid to be that. And to do so, you need to have a confident posture. Make sure your shoulders are relaxed and downwards and stand like you are meant to be there. And the third thing is a mysterious smile. If you're someone that has a little smirk on your face whilst nothing has happened, everyone will be wondering and will be curious as to why you are smiling, what's going on in your mind. And this makes you come across as mysterious. Number two, polish your verbal charisma. The way you're going to use words is the way to come across as a mysterious and confident individual because using the right words at the right time within the right way allows you to come across as a mysterious and confident person. So speak slowly and clearly. There's no rush. You're this very mysterious, confident individual that doesn't feel like you need to prove anything to anyone. And by speaking slowly and calmly, you're almost saying that you already know that everyone is going to listen to you anyways. You don't need to prove yourself. And this makes you come across as very important. The second thing is to embrace pauses. So in between sentences and in between words, embrace pauses as this anticipates the listener, they'll be hooked as to what you're going to say next. They'll be hooked and waiting for the next word to come out of your mouth. And this makes you come across as a mysterious and confident person. And the third thing is to tell intriguing stories. So don't be someone that is going to speak as much as you can only open your mouth if you have something intriguing to tell, because now your words have value. Every time you open your mouth, everyone is intrigued as to what the next thing is that you're going to say. And not only gets you respect, but people will also see as a more important individual, which in return will make you come across as a mysterious and confident person. Number three, dress with intrigue. Your attire is your silent introduction. So choose it wisely. If you're someone that wants to come across as a mysterious and confident person, dress like one. Make sure you choose a signature accessory. One that only you have. One that's somewhat unique and sparks conversations. And if you are someone that wants to be seen as a mysterious and confident individual, dress to impress, have subtle upgrades when it comes to your attire, because you need to look your best. Because if you're someone that doesn't dress that nicely, no one will pay attention to you. And you can try to be this mysterious and confident individual. But if you don't look like one, you simply won't get the attention that you deserve. So make sure you experiment with textures and layers because everyone is different. Something that will make me come across as more of a mysterious and confident person won't make you look as a confident and mysterious person. So it all depends on how you can portray yourself. So experiment with different attires, different outfits, and see what works for you. Number four, cultivate varied interests. Being a man of mystery involves having different passions. And to be able to create this mysterious aura, you need to upgrade your lifestyle. Explore uncommon hobbies. Because for example, here in the UK and in Europe, football is extremely popular and everybody plays football. But try something out of the ordinary. Try something new because this will spark confidence. Because if someone's talking about sports, you can say, yeah, well, I don't play football. I do something else. And then they'll be like, what do you exactly play? And then you can say something like, well, the thing that I do isn't really playing because I fight for my life. And now there'll be even more intrigued. And then there'll be like, what is that exactly? And then you can say boxing because that's something that I like to do. And what I've just done is to drop clues without exactly saying what I do. And I want you to do the same. Don't instantly blur out what you do. Just tease people a little bit, try to intrigue them a little bit, because this will make them invest in the conversation. And once you tell them what you do, they will value it way more. Another thing is to embrace the unknown. If you're someone that wants to be a mysterious and confident person, you need to live like one and a mysterious and confident person is open to new experiences. And that's what I want you to do as well. Be open to new experiences, try different things out because you never know what will be something that will pique your curiosity. Number five, practice active listening. So mystery doesn't only talk about on how you portray yourself, but it also depends on how you engage with other individuals. As a mysterious person in general, you don't want to speak a lot by yourself anyways, because you're this mysterious and confident person. And that's why it's extremely important to be a good active listener. Because now if you're someone that can actively listen to other individuals, you've got the power to talk about their passions, to talk about them. And this will pique more curiosity about you because they'll be like, wait, I've talked so much about myself. I know that you know so much about me, but I barely know anything about you. And this will automatically make it come across as more of a mysterious and confident person. So give them the undivided attention. Be completely selfless. The world does not revolve around you. Your focus is on them. Everything they say, you actively listen to because people will notice this. And whilst you're listening to them, ask thoughtful questions. Ask questions about the topic that they're speaking about. Ask follow up questions. Ask questions as why did you do that? How did you end up in a situation like this? Because this way you allow them to speak more and invest more in the conversation with you. And automatically, not only will you come across as a sincere person that they want to be around anyways, but now you can get to know them better whilst they still don't know anything about you and leave them wanting more. Even when you are speaking, don't tell anything about yourself. Don't reveal too much about yourself. Just do it slowly bit by bit. Tease them a little bit. Say, I'll tell you another time. Or even if they're going to ask someone, leave some gaps in the conversation. So this way they have to ask follow up questions because now you've come across as an intriguing, mysterious and confident person. Number six, harness the power of silence. Silence isn't awkward unless you're not a confident person because it's a powerful tool. Use pauses deliberately because you can showcase to all individuals that you actually are a confident individual because when people feel awkward in a conversation, that means that they're not comfortable and confident in that conversation. Whilst if you're someone that pauses deliberately and you don't feel faced at all, you will come across as a confident person. Another part about being a confident person is to respond. You don't react because reacting is with emotions whilst responding is a careful, thoughtful process. So before you even blur out something out of your mouth, take a few seconds to choose your words wisely because this does not only showcase that you are an emotional, reactive person, but it also showcased that you are very thoughtful, responsive person and fostering comfortable silence because if you're someone that can just foster and you're completely not faced by these silences, you will come across as a magnetic person whilst everyone is stressing out, everyone is feeling the tension, they feel super awkward. You're the stone among the fire, you're the only person that's not faced by it and by default you become this mysterious and confident person that completely stands out. Number seven, embrace your self-assured mystery. Confidence is the cornerstone of mystery. Know your worth, understand your strengths and value them because if you're someone that wants to be seen as a mysterious and confident person, you need to know your worth. You need to know that you are capable and worthy of being this individual because if you don't think you're worthy of this individual, other people won't see you like this as well. And I'm not telling you to be perfect because part of it is to accept imperfections. No one is perfect, no one is expecting you to be perfect and by embracing your quirks and even sometimes joking about it, it shows that you're super comfortable in your own skin, which automatically adds to your mystique and makes you come across as a confident person. And believe in yourself because nothing happens if you're not willing to believe in yourself. If you're not willing to believe that you are capable of becoming a mysterious and confident person, then if you don't believe in yourself, you won't be able to become that person. And that's why it's extremely important to believe in yourself because then you can hone in your skills. Then you can work on your craft and become this person and persona that you're seeking. But there's more to the story. If you are someone that wants to turn heads everywhere you go, I would highly recommend you to check out my free Globe Secrets book. It's in the description and this way I will help you to improve your mindset, give you the confidence that you're looking for to turn heads everywhere you go. This book is completely free and I will have it linked down below. And while you're at it, if you're someone that wants to get his face rated, if you're someone that wants to get his Instagram rated or if you're someone that simply wants to get his fashion sense rated, I would highly recommend you to check out my face rating system in the description. And this way you can know where you are when it comes to your journey and what steps you have to take to reach the next level. And that's pretty much the end of the video. So these were seven easy steps on how to be a mysterious and a confident person. And if you have any sort of questions, definitely let me know in the comment section down below. And if you're someone like, hey, I love this video and I would love to see more videos like this in the future, please consider to subscribe button and leave a thumbs up for the YouTube algorithm. Anyways, thank you so much for watching. I really appreciate your time and hope to see you on my next video. Bye bye. Transcribed by https://otter.ai