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Nothing great is going to come without
you having to deal with what I call
adversity and pain tolerance.
Real
self-worth comes from doing hard things.
You must be able to deal with that. And
the
more understanding you have of what's
causing you the pain and how you've
dealt with it is going to determine how
successful you will be in whatever you
choose in life. That your
mind is designed to help you get what
you want. You just have to be willing to
believe it's possible. The reality is is
that most people never do what they
really want to do in life because they
are afraid of what other people are
going to say. You take what they say and
you use it. Losing is not an option with
me. Not being successful is not an
option. When you make not being
successful, it it's not an option for
you. That's when your life is going to
change.
Where you are now is just a reflection
of your past thoughts, your past
thinking. So if you want to change your
future, you got to change your thoughts
now. See, adversity is like the gem for
your soul. It hurts. It's heavy, but it
builds you up. Every time you wanted to
quit, every time life tried to break
you, you chose to stand tall. That's
what makes you
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great. It's about the grind, the
sleepless nights, the
sacrifices, the prayers you whispered
when nobody was watching. It's all about
those moments when you could have folded
but you didn't. You see, the underdog
story is the realest story there is.
I can probably guarantee
99.9% of the times you're going to
you're going to say, "Oh yeah, wish I
started doing that sooner right here."
And you're never going to regret
something you really went after cuz at
least you went after it. You know, if
you never try, that's the things that
people look back on and they say, "Oh
man, nothing I can do now, right? The
time is absolutely gone. There's no
turning back." talking about self love.
We keep talking about loving yourself,
believing in
yourself. That happens naturally when
you go through something difficult. The
point is we've all done hard things and
self-worth and self value comes from
recognizing the hardship you've been
through and the growth that you made
during that time.
Champions aren't found on the podium
with their hand up. Well, champions are
found in lab studies. The thousands of
hours of hard work when no one's
watching. That's what makes the will
unstoppable. When you're in here and no
one else is and you're pushing yourself
harder than anybody with no one around.
That right there, guys, is a spark that
catches
flames, burns every fear down, guys.
Some fear people use and and it enables
them. Fear does, you know, it's a block
to them. They're scared from it. They
run from it. Fear, you know, shuts them
down. For others, fear is a
motivation. I feel fear now and I tackle
it so I never have to fear feel it
again.
Here's the thing. Once something's
important to you, it never leaves your
mind. If you always dreamt about being a
singer songwriter and you never did it,
you will be haunted by that at the age
of 70 because it's still right here
stored in the back of your mind. It's
something that's meant for you that's
trying to call to you. You see your
dreams, you either pursue them or
theying haunt
you. If I was around you for 24 hours,
what would your actions say? Would it
really say you're serious about growing
what you're
growing? I wouldn't say you're just
interested in it. Success doesn't always
depend on world class talent. It's a
small piece of it. You can learn how to
be talented. I promise
you. But it does
depend on world class
consistency. You need to recognize that
driven people always feel behind.
They're always going to have doubt.
They're always going to have chips on
their shoulder. That's what makes using
great at what we do. It's not the
affirmations. It's theing dark. It's the
people that told us we were losers. It's
the people that told us we were pieces
of and anybody who tells you different,
they haven't achieved anything. Look at
what they've achieved. It's probably a
bunch of smoke and mirrors. Real mother
remember all the dark [ __ ] They take
the dark and they put it into productive
action to build the life that they want.
Try, bro. Try. Why don't you try? Go
harder, bro. work. Work. There's not
even really no pressure on a dream. It's
a dream. There's pressure to feed feed
your kids. There's pressure to pay rent.
There's pressure to make sure that you
don't get fired from your job. But a
dream though, all all a dream is is is
fake reality that you can make a real
reality. That's all a dream
is. So work
it. Cuz when you come from nothing, you
appreciate everything. You hustle
different, you love different, and you
lead different. So today, I want you to
do three things. Stay
humble, never forget where you came
from, stay hungry, keep that fire in
your soul, and stay true. Always be real
with yourself and the world because the
world don't need no more copies. It need
originals. And trust me, ain't nobody
else who can do what you do like you
do. You didn't fight through all of that
just to stay silent. Someone out there
needs what you've lived. The lessons
you've bled for. The wisdom you've
earned the hard way. You're not too
broken. You're proof that it's possible.
Perfection isn't what reaches people.
Honesty does. Someone is waiting. Not
for the polished version of you, but for
the real one. Say it. Show it. Let them
know that they're not alone. You didn't
come this far just to keep it to
yourself. People who don't have a sense
of purpose, a mission, and don't have a
consistent routine end up digging holes
in their life. Gambling, overdrinking,
too much television, things that slowly
chip away at humanity. things that you
people use to escape and you're like,
"Whoa, where did this come from?" It was
the absence of purpose and it was
absence of routine. We need it otherwise
humans dig their the holes in their
lives, too. No different than a German
Shepherd would. The most important
thing, it's the consistence. If you have
consistency, you're going to be good in
the future or you're going to be better
than other ones in the future. I think
it's part of the life. It's like that.
who told you the opposites they are not
part of this world in my opinion if you
want to achieve successful it's the only
way so you're never going to be you're
never going to be in high level so many
years if you are not consistent more
than other ones if you don't do it at
something more than other ones you're
never going to be number one like
me I just beat me this ain't about
nobody else I don't give about nobody
else I just beat me if I can keep doing
that then that means that I'm in a
battle with the only person that makes
sense. I'm in a battle with the only
person that I really want to be and
that's
me. I don't I don't care about anybody
else. I have no worry or gripe about the
next man or woman's journey. If I can
continue to outdo me from the day
before, then I'm then I'm ahead.
Wake up, bro. It's halftime. That
contract you signed at the beginning of
the year is waiting to be completed. And
here you are about to start the third
quarter. You just dropped a stinker in
the first half. These the championship
rounds, bro. This is where all that
counts. And either you going to show up
and get that ring, get that trophy, get
that dream that you've always wanted, or
somebody else that signed that same
contract is going to get it before you.
You okay with letting that happen? You
okay with falling short again? Cuz I
ain't. You told yourself this year was
different. Stop talking, bro. Start
doing. Halftime's over. It's your turn
to win.
Look inside. You'll find something to
grapple
with. You have so much time to live.
It's your time. So your goal in life is
to realize that that is your treasure.
So let's say you're working at that job
and you have that horrible boss and
you're miserable. You could turn that
around and make those 8 hours a
lifetime. You tell yourself maybe I can
see that there are things that I can
learn even from the worst possible job.
So that's how you create a lifetime by
saying it's mine. I'm going to create
something worthwhile out of it. I'm not
going to give it away to others. This is
my time. I'm going to own
it. What I'm saying is don't settle.
Don't live lives of complacency because
there is so much out there for us. We
all have the right to live incredibly
fulfilled, incredibly passionate,
incredibly joyful lives where you are
psyched it's Monday morning, where you
are psyched that you're in quarantine
with your family, where you are psyched
that you get to do what you do every
single day. And if something doesn't
line up that way, don't put it off. This
is your life. No one is going to come
and change it for you. Why couldn't we
just be happy being who and what we are?
Why is it that we're punished if we
don't strive? Couldn't we just be
rewarded for who we are? I can
understand that, but I don't think that
it works. I don't think things function
like that. And I don't think probably in
the final analysis we really want them
to. I don't know if anyone enjoys
undeserved reward. It feels creepy,
doesn't it, to be rewarded for something
you didn't do? anyone else. The positive
emotion that we find sustaining is
experienced in relationship to an
unachieved
goal. Oh, if you want to begin to grow,
you've got to put something out here
that you can't reach easily, that has
got to make you stretch, got to make you
jump for it, got to make you get back a
little bit and dig in so that you can
take a leap for it. And maybe you jump
up there and you miss it and you extend
your knees and you come back again and
you bust your lip next time. But you
keep on and through that process, you
learn how to leap higher. You start
challenging yourself to dig deeper. And
then you discover some things about you
that you don't know right now. Some
talents that you have in you that you
didn't know that you can
do. Right? Most cats are somebody that
works hard. If the situation or the
circumstance is what they want it to be,
they going to come out and they going to
act accordingly and they going to give
you everything they got. but a hard
worker. Regardless of situation,
regardless of circumstance, regardless
of what happened, I'm going to show up
and I'm going to give everything I got
to it because I'm looking for something
that's totally different. Like the
question becomes this. Can you be
committed to the process of what you're
doing without being emotionally attached
to the results of what you're
doing? Nothing's ever going to be given
to you. Everything's going to be earned.
If you don't go out there and put in the
work, you don't go out and put in the
effort. One, you're not going to get the
results. But two, more importantly, you
don't deserve it. You didn't earn
it. Do you remember who you were before
the world told you who you should be?
Right? Like courage. Do you remember who
you were before the world told you who
you should be? And so, anytime you got
to be courageous, let's look at it from
the standpoint of dreams, goals, and
aspirations. You got your dream, your
goal, and your aspiration. And then you
got
reality. And often times reality doesn't
reflect the goal, the dream, and the
aspiration. And so when you think
courage, like being courageous and
following your heart because it somehow
knows what you want to do anyway, like
it's almost like instinct, right? It's
almost like when you feel something that
you should do and for some strange
reason, like your mind or your spirit
tells you, "No, I don't want to do it."
because it takes you outside of your
comfort zone and it puts you in a space
and place that may be unknown or it puts
you in a space and place of uncharted
territory but you know you should do it.
You can feel it, right? And then you go
against it and all it does is make the
route a lot longer. That's all it
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does. Making promises to yourself that
you don't keep. It's saying I'm going to
do this and not doing it. Because then
what happens after that is the selft
talk. The selft talk that you create by
not upholding the obligations that you
make to yourself is ultimately the most
destructive thing that you could ever do
to
yourself. I'm going to start on Monday.
I'm going to start on Monday. I'm going
to start on Monday. I'm going to start
on Monday. I'm going to start on Monday.
I'm going to start I'm going to start
after the wedding. I'm going to start
after the after this trip. After summer
after this next holiday after after the
holidays I'm going to start. Sound
familiar? Yeah. That's why you feel like
because you know that you didn't do none
of that [ __ ] You told yourself you
should have done it.
I wasn't that
guy. I failed everything I did the first
time. I was coming back even harder
after I
failed. Success in a straight
line is a maze. And when you think you
figure that maze out, you hit a wall and
you got to [ __ ] around. Start
again. Stay hard.
Take ownership for your life. Nobody can
live your dream for you but you.
Nobody's going to take care of your
business like you. Stop coming up with
excuses. Don't give yourself permission
to continue to live a small life. You
can't fit a big dream into a small
life. Give yourself permission to go for
it, to test yourself, to challenge
yourself. Live full.
Everybody talking about how great they
want to be until adversity and
opposition hits. You judge the true
character and caliber of a person by
where they stand in times of challenge
and
opposition. Things that are robust, that
are strong, that are tough, that can
take just a lot of abuse before they
break, they are still ultimately defined
by their breaking point. Something that
is antifragile on the other hand is
something that the more you attack it,
the more it is pounded on, the stronger
it gets, will tied to something that is
truly antifragile. That the more
somebody comes after it, the more robust
it becomes. Being a learner is that
answer. Because when it got hard or when
it rained or when you got hungry,
whatever your boys wanted to go out to
the club or whatever it was, you did it
and you didn't stick through. That's it.
Our life success comes down to little
bitty tiny decisions that we make
consistently over and over and over
again. And if you're making consistent
decisions that break your momentum over
and over and over again, you're not
[ __ ] having it.
If you can just keep
believing when nothing in
you is working, when all your
external forces have given way, if you
can just manage to somehow keep
hoping, just hope, you ain't really got
to believe. All you got to do is
hope. Faith is the substance of things
hoped for and the evidence of things not
seen. You just got to hope. Sometimes
you ain't strong enough to believe, but
you can always be strong enough to just
hope. Man, I hope God come get me. I
hope I make
it. So, I just want to tell you, man,
that don't let those thoughts that are
trying to kill you kill you.
or those thoughts that tell you you're
not enough. Those thoughts that tell you
things won't get better. Those thoughts
that tell you that you are your
mistakes. Those thoughts that tell you
that you are your past. Those thoughts
that tell you that you're worthless.
Don't let those thoughts kill you.
They're lying to you. Because you're
more than that. You're more than a
conqueror. You're more than what you're
going through. You do have purpose. You
are awesome. You are talented. You are
beautiful. You are special
despite what you've been going through.
Most of us have been conditioned not to
take a risk. People ask me all the time,
what does it take to be happy? And I
always tell them, it's really simple.
One word,
progress. Progress equals happiness. If
you keep growing, you're going to feel
alive. And if you keep growing, you're
going to have more to give. And when
you're growing and giving is when life
is magnificent.
You can't be successful if you say one
thing and you do another thing. So, I'm
here to tell y'all for real, success
number one starts with you. Like, for
real. Real success is you say one thing
and if you do what you say 70% of the
time, you going to be average. If you do
what you say you're going to do 80% of
the time, you're going to be real good.
And if you do what you say you going to
do, 90% of the time, you're going to be
great. Because very few people do what
they say they're going to do. It sound
good coming off your lips. When I
finally discovered it's all
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risky. The minute you were born, it got
risky. If you think trying is risky,
wait till they hand you the bill for not
trying. As you go through the challenges
of
life and you look at it and embrace
whatever comes to you. Don't run from
it. Step toward it. Don't try and duck
it like most people
do. See, most people want it easy. team.
Easy come, easy what? Easy
go. But if you can remain
hopeful in spite of all
adversity, if you can just go to bed and
just wake up
tomorrow, every time you wake up, that's
a sign from God that he ain't through
with you yet.
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I don't know what your future is, but if
you're willing to take the harder way,
the more complicated one, the one with
more failures at first than successes,
the one that has ultimately proven to
have more meaning, more victory, more
glory, then you will not regret it.
Whatever you choose for a career path,
remember the struggles along the way are
only meant to shape you for your
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purpose. And don't let your mind control
you. Control your mind and
then you can set it free.
It's not helpful to you to to to be
envious. If you know what you want, then
you know when you're
failing. If you don't allow yourself to
know what you want, you can keep that
foggy. If you don't set out the
conditions for your success, then you
can avoid your responsibility because
again, that's not clear. And the problem
with wanting something is that in all
probability, you're going to have to
work for it. You're going to have to
make sacrifices. And it's certainly
possible that you want to avoid
that. Failing to make any of that clear
protects you right now, but it's really
hard on you over the medium to long
term. How can I wake up early in the
morning? Wake up
early. How can I out consistently every
day? Work out consistently every day.
You have control over your mind. You
just have to assert it. You have to
decide that you are going to be in
control. That you are going to do what
you want to
do. Laziness doesn't get a vote. Sadness
doesn't get a
vote. You go at what you're going to
deal with and you deal with the
difficult difficulties of it. When you
handle those hard things close at hand,
making those hard decisions right
now that you don't want to
make, learning those things that you
don't like to
do, but you know that in order for you
to get where you want to go, this is one
of the hoops that you have to flip
through. Like you know exactly exactly
what you want. You know exactly when you
want it. Listen to me. You know exactly
what it tastes like. You know what it
look like. You know what it smells like.
Like before you really blow up blow up
and you get success. Like you literally
have it in the palm of your hand without
having it. No, I'm not. I'm serious,
guys. You got to know what it looks
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like. Don't ask for security. Ask for
adventure.
If you fight with faith, you fight with
prayer, eventually you'll realize
everything that you went through had a
purpose. You have to learn what do you
want in your
life. And it's okay to sit in a room by
yourself in a chair and just think about
you.
If you can see it here and you have the
courage enough to speak it, it will
happen. A lot of times people believe in
certain things but they keep to
themselves. They don't put it out there.
You truly believe in it. If you become
vocal with it, you are creating that law
of attraction and it will become
reality.
Because your dreams have to be bigger
than all your fears and all your
consequences. What makes people go back
is you dream too small. See, your
problem in life ain't if you aim too
high and you miss it. Your problem in
life is if you l aim too low and you hit
it. That's you messed up now. So when
you aim to the moon and you miss, you
still amongst the
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stars. You ask the what do you want,
man? I want to be down there. Tell me
something I don't know. Everybody wants
it. But the reality of it is everybody
don't get it. And the crazy thing is if
you want it, you can get it. It's not
like somebody is stopping you and
holding a gun to your head and telling
you you can't get it. It's a matter of
will. It's a matter of hard work. It's a
matter of sacrifice. It's a matter of
dedication. It's a matter of commitment.
And I'm not talking about the commitment
that says, "Yes, I'll show up." Not that
commitment. I'm talking about the
commitment I'm going stay true to what I
said I would do long after the mood that
I said it in has left.
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Look
guys, this pursuing success, becoming
someone who is abnormal, becoming
someone who sets the standard for
others, becoming someone who shows the
rest of the world what is possible is a
very difficult path. You are going to
have people shoot you. You are going to
have unexpected circumstances
arise. You are going to have all these
things that you nevering counted on come
and smack you in the face over and over
and over again. This is just part of
being on that
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path. Like what's the GPS that's on the
end of our decisions and our choices?
Like where is it really taking us?
Because at the end of the day in life,
it's only two things that matter. And
it's not about the biggest car. It's not
about the biggest house. It's not about
the bank account. It's only two things
that
matter. It's about who we become in
life. It's about what we give back to
life. Please don't be the people in this
world that become a public success, but
they're private failures.
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God has an incredible life for you. All
you got to do is ask him for it. Be
willing to put in the work. But now this
work part is hard. Success is hard. But
let me ask you a
question. Ain't not being successful
hard too. So now which hard you want?
You want the hard with some options and
some benefits. Or you want the hard with
ain't nothing going
on. That's true of your goals and dreams
as well. There's an inevitability to
success. It's not a matter of if, it's a
matter of when. When we adopt one more,
when we adopt compound pounding, do you
know the kind of confidence you begin to
have when you just accept in your life
that I am going to be relentless? I'm
always going to do extra. And you accept
the fact that all things break down over
time. All the barriers will go away. All
the obstacles will go away. Everything
in your way will go away if you keep
after it over an extended period of
time. Most people overestimate what they
can do in a year. They do. They set up
goals for a year and they overestimate
where they're going to get to and they
dramatically underestimate what they can
do in a decade.
You have the power within you as you
begin to develop your consciousness. As
you hold the vision of what it is that
you want to do, as you decide to answer
this small voice within you, because as
you respond to this voice that's telling
you you ought to do this, the way will
come. Ideas will come to you. You will
begin to attract things you need and
things that you don't even know that you
need right now. You will develop the
skills in the process.
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Every single one of you who is
struggling right now, you need to
understand this. What you're going
through right
now, it's necessary because what's
happening right now is you are forging
theing skills. You are forging the
determination. You are forging the grit.
You are forging the fortitude. You are
forging all theing things that nobody
else is gaining because they're sitting
on their hands and you're willing to
push
through. Efficient but not effective. I
did things right, but I never did the
right
thing. Efficient, not effective.
Hollow. Jelly bean. Hard on the outside,
soft on the inside, don't possess
nothing.
Most people go through life as volunteer
victims. They go through life
volunteering to be victims, giving
excuses on why they're not pursuing
their greatness, giving excuses on why
they're not doing the things that they
want to do, putting it off again and
again and again, wasting valuable time.
Life is very valuable, ladies and
gentlemen.
Time is very high and it's very fragile.
You got to decide to do what you can
right now and don't delay. Live your
living your life like a sense of
urgency. Everything I've ever been a
part of, everything I've ever been
connected to, and everything I've
aspiring to do, everything I've ever
wanted to accomplish, at a certain
point, I understood my perspective about
it had to be right. Because my
perspective will always affect my
performance. How I view what I do will
always affect how I do what I
do. When you're complaining, you know
what you're doing? You're focusing on
everything that's wrong in your life.
What you focus on you move towards and
also what you focus on you attract. When
you're complaining, you know what you're
doing? You're focusing all the in your
life. You're complaining. You can take
control of your life and be person
that's not a creature. So he's a
creator because sure life is tough but
it gets a lot easier when you're
laughing at it. So despite the suffering
in fact to spite the suffering to spite
the hardship to spite the challenges
laugh at them all. They can't stand it
when you
do. And they all get easier. Yes. Laugh
at them
all.
Laughter wins.
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Faith is the substance of things hoped
for and the evidence of things not seen.
Your
imagination is the evidence of things
not seen. You know why they say it's not
seen? Because your imagination, you are
the only one who can see it. So, you
know what that means? All that stuff
you've ever imagined is just been God
showing you a preview of a coming
attraction he has for you. The problem
with your imagination is you tell it to
the wrong
people. The people that are going to
change their lives, the people that are
going to recover their health, the
people that are going to build their
lives and start all over again from
scratch are people who believe it's
possible. The people who fail are the
people who suffer from possibility
blindness. They say the people that are
successful in any area of life, you must
be willing to do the things today others
won't do in order to have the things
tomorrow others won't have. I said
dominate. So, if you think you're going
to dominate in your industry, dominate
in this world, and be one of the best of
the best at what you do, when I say
dominate, I need you to make some noise
because I'm talking about you. So,
everything that you
do is habit
forming. And that
includes hitting the snooze
button. That includes sitting on the
couch. That includes eating donuts. It's
all habit
forming. You know what else is habit
forming?
Discipline. Setting the alarm and
getting up, going and working
out. That stuff is all habit forming,
too. I recommend you form some
discipline
habits. So, of course you feel lost. Of
course you feel confused. Of course, you
feel frustrated because you haven't been
developing any of the skills that are
necessary for you to live a true life
that you're proud
of. How about
this? How about you work on developing
your discipline this
year? And so, I want whatever dream you
have, I want you to expand it. I want
you to increase it. And I want to warn
you, don't ask yourself how you're going
to do it. How is none of your
business. Ger says that which does not
kill you will make you stronger.
The greatest gift that you can give
yourself is to find something that
you're naturally adept
at and figure out a way to make a living
at it. Because if you do that, every day
will be a play day. You're never
battling upstream. You love what you do.
And if you love what you do, if I if you
love what you do, why do you want to
stop doing it? and then go out and try
to find something that you like better.
It's all in your
mind. Whatever you hold in your mind
will tend to occur in your life. If you
continue to believe as you have always
believed, you will continue to act as
you have always acted. You will continue
to get what you have always gotten. If
you want different results in your life
or your work, all you have to do is
change your mind.
And in every family, there's a Neo.
There's a the one that eventually shows
up in a family and changes the whole
family forever. They rise up and they
change it
all. Training, Britney, Daddy, those
cats are on the side of the treadmill.
Can't let conditions dictate your
outcome. That train conditions they give
you cuz it's too nasty.
Don't do the same. Stay home. If you can
believe it, you can achieve
it. If you can believe it, you can
achieve it. This is something that you
hear a lot of and I get it. But guess
what? Belief by
itself doesn't get you
anything. You got to impose your will.
You got to be disciplined. And you got
to make things
happen. And don't worry about failing.
You're going to fail.
You're going to make some mistakes.
You're going to look
stupid. Wise call
life. Make it okay to fail. See, I found
that as the saying goes, most people
fail in life not because they aim too
high and
miss. Most people fail in life because
they aim too low and hit.
You have to be willing to grin it up.
You have to be willing to push through
discomfort. Nothing that you're about to
try or do or achieve that is worthwhile
is going to be comfortable for you
during the process of creating
it. So stop with thising hope. Stop with
this I wish when it comes to your own
life and start replacing those terms
with I willing do no matter what.
Life is a fight for
territory. And once you stop fighting
for what you want, what you don't want
will automatically take
over. You got to outthink and outwork
the competition.
You can have, you can be, and you can do
whatever you want to do. But you cannot
do it if you're not willing to make the
sacrifice. And for those of you who are
willing to make the sacrifice, I'm
willing to make the
sacrifice that life is short and every
second is precious. So, put your
freaking head down and keep getting
after it.
The reason most people fail is because
they give up what they want most for
what they want now.
I don't know who needed to hear this,
but I got to tell you, you must be some
kind of amazing if you think about all
the things that have come up against
you, and you're still here. All the
things that tried to stop you from
getting to where you are now to stop you
from trying to have confidence and
self-esteem, and yet you made it.
Question: Who are you? Or at least who
could you be? Answer: Part of the
eternal force that constantly confronts
the terrible unknown
voluntarily. And part of the eternal
force that faces chaos and turns it into
productive order. And all of this being
very difficult to understand
consciously, but vital to our survival
is transmitted in the form of the
stories that we cannot help but attend
to. And it is in this manner that we
come to apprehend what is of value, what
we should aim at, and what we could
be. When you're stretching out, when
you're taking life by the collar, you're
going to get thrown to the ground again
and again and again. But when you have
determination and you know that what
you're doing is right, it gives you your
life. It gives a special meaning and
power to you. You will discover some
things about yourself that will begin to
electrify your personality. You'll begin
to discover some things about you that
you don't know you've
got. One of the greatest steps toward
success is
self-confidence. And the greatest
builder of self-confidence is
self-esteem.
doing the things you know you should do
so that at the end of the day you have
this great satisfaction. The old prophet
said, "The sleep of a laboring man is
sleep." Not the sleep of a goof off
man. Not the sleep of a joker. No, the
sleep of one who labors. That's the
sleep that's sweet.
[Music]
Don't allow anybody to make you
feel that you are
nobody. Always feel that you
count. Always feel that you have
worth and always feel that your
life has ultimate significance.
In order to have what you want in life,
you must stop staring at the top of that
mountain. You must stop creating excuses
for why you can't or don't feel like it.
And you must put your head down and look
at the first step in front of you. And
then you must take the action and start
walking toward what you want. I don't
believe everybody can be the biggest and
the fastest and the strongest and the
smartest. But I believe you are number
one when you get up in the morning and
say, "Today, I'm going to give it my
best shot." I believe you're number one
when at the end of the day, you can
honestly look in that mirror and say,
"Today, I gave it my best
shot." Winning is in all of us.
We all want to win, but the path people
take to get to winning, everybody wants
the end result, and they want to feel
the sugar and the the the the confetti
and all that other stuff. But what you
have to endure to win, no one wants to
talk
about. Your reasons have
power. Your reasons will drive you. When
you have doubt, when your faith becomes
weak, your reasons will fortify your
faith. When you have an inner
conversation, say, "No, don't do that.
Your reasons will become your rod and
your staff to comfort you, to take you
through those challenging
moments." So, boy, don't you stop now.
Don't you set out on the steps cuz you
find this kind of hard. But I still
going, boy. I still climb and life for
me ain't been no crystal stair. Well,
life for none of us has been a crystal
stair. But we must keep moving. We must
keep
going. You have to lose your fear of
failure. Failure is part of the process.
People who never fail never try. You
have to fail. You got to get it wrong to
get it right.
Moments away from beginning your journey
through life. Moments away from starting
to change the world for the better. It
will not be easy. Start each day with a
task completed. Find someone to help you
through life. Respect everyone. Know
that life is not fair and that you will
fail often. But if you take some risks,
step up when the times are the toughest,