WHY NOT YOU? - Best Motivational Speeches To Rebuild Your Life

Anything can be learned. I can start playing golf like Tiger Woods. The only thing that separates me to Tiger Woods is desire and repetition. Look me in the eye. It's okay if you're scared. So am I. But we're scared for different reasons. I'm scared of what I won't become. And you're scared of what I could become. Man, I've trained 99% of my life alone. No one pat me on the back. I did all of the work alone over and over and over. So when you bugger off to the pub or you sit and watch your favorite TV program, I study charts. I go over the trading day. Just like Tiger Woods, he created a new wave of sincerity about golf. When everyone else hit the clubhouse, he went and worked out. And there's no shortcuts. You can't buy a book. You can't attend a course. You can't listen to anyone. You see, you can't be taught anything. I cannot teach you anything. You have to desire to teach yourself. I can guide you. But ultimately, you in any endeavor in life, you have to want it yourself. And that's what separate 99% with the 1%, the ones that truly dream and dare and go for their goals and their vision. I won't let myself end where I started. I won't let myself finish where I began. I know what is within me, even if you can't see it yet. Look me in the eyes. I have something more important than [Music] courage. I have patience. I will become what I know I am. We don't rise to the standards we have when others are watching. We fall to the standards we have when no one is watching. The only work that really matters is the work that no one sees. It shows you who you really are rather than who you say you are. I ran today. I went to the gym today. I did this and this today. I studied today. I have about 8 hours off. And those eight hours are glorious to me. And every day you go back out and you start earning that. And every day you wake up, it sucks. And when it's over, you feel better. It sucks, you feel better. And as you get going, as every step you take in that journey, as you're like, but every step I take, I'm like, "All right, mother, you beating the demon again." Two key words, delayed gratification. I want to be I want to be huge. I want to being big. I want to look diceed for any endeavor at all. You got to be kind of content with doing the exact same thing basically day after day after day and making reasonable progress. The more impatient somebody is, this isn't rocket science, the less likely it is that they're going to stick to something for a long time. And like 99% of any cool that anybody does ever usually takes a lot of preparation and practice and just repetitive action to get good at. I don't know what to do. So, what should I do? Well, nothing. I'll wait around until I figure out what to do. It's like, no, you should put together a bad plan and you should implement it because even if you fail in the implementation, you'll gather information and then you can rectify the plan. Staying in that malaise until you know what to do makes you get older and more miserable and you gather no information along the way. A bad plan is a good idea. Yes, it's going to take years. Yes, it's going to be really hard. But what the were you planning on doing instead? Because here's the thing. You already know it's going to take years. You already know it's going to be hard, uncomfortable, and slow. That's not the problem. The problem is that deep down part of you is still hoping there's a shortcut. But there isn't. There is just the work, the repetition, the silence, the part where no one claps and nothing happens for a while. And the truth is most people can't handle that part. So they quit or they stall or they start over again and again just to avoid sitting in it. The time is going to pass either way. So what were you planning on doing instead? Scroll. Tweak the plan for the 15th time. Keep talking about your potential without actually doing anything with it. This is the trade. You either suffer now through the process or suffer later with regret. That's it. Those are your options. One hurts, the other haunts. So know it won't be fast and know it won't be easy but it will be worth it if you're willing to pay for it in advance. All those failures they were great for me to examine where I wasing up at along the way. Selft talk without real work is just a lie. If you didn't study for your big exam and you go into it saying I'm going to pass it. Y no you're not. So my self-t talk is me reminiscing back on the struggle to get to this moment. So basically, you have to put yourself in the moment a million times. Here's how to achieve anything you want in life. A clear vision, daily learning, daily building, persistence, and iteration. Those need to be the highest priority in your life. But most people don't know what they want because they haven't reflected on what they don't want for multiple years. And most people don't learn because true learning is very painful. It's not about memorization or grades. Most people don't build. They dabble. They try things over and over again only to get that small spurt of dopamine when they make initial progress. But when that flatlines, they quit. And last, most people don't improve when they fail. They get discouraged and lose the internal mental battle between their lower self and their higher self. Don't be most people. Do you run away from something? Do you run towards something? Failure is a a compelling protagonist towards achieving your goals. So use failure. Be scared. Be very scared of failure and you will succeed. The most successful minds in the world, they are profoundly scared of going bust and they work double hard. If there's there is no magic pill, the only way you do that is through sheer grit and determination. If there's one message I want you to walk away with today, it's this. Your purpose does not have to be your job. Your purpose does not have to be big. Your purpose does not have to make you money. Your purpose does not have to make you famous. Your purpose can be something you do on the weekends. Your purpose can be something you do in the evenings. Your purpose is something no one can take away from you. So find something you care about. Find something that breaks your heart open a little and then get involved. You don't need a million dollars. You don't need a title. Use your passion in the service of others and it will become your purpose. The most important conversation you'll ever have is the one you have with yourself. You wake up with it. You walk around with it. Eventually, you'll act on it. You can't do nothing. sitting around and thinking about what you want to do is not going to get anything done. Despite the fact you don't have this big mission that you want to pursue, that doesn't mean there's not things that you need to get good at. We need to be preparing for when that opportunity arises. We need to be preparing and positioning ourselves for when the mission shows up. You don't get to choose when that inspiration shows up, when that idea shows up, when that problem that inspires you to create a solution shows up. You don't get to choose any of that. But what you can choose is how prepared you are and the skill set that you have to be able to climb that mountain. Life is is is continued work. It's it's constant learning. I don't even you know we should constantly be working. Maybe not physically working, but we could be spiritually, emotionally working toward bettering ourselves and bettering the lives of others around us. So, I'm, you know, I I get really afraid of those little comfort, you know, those those things that make us feel like, you know, we did something great because I've done nothing. I've done nothing. Me and other me holding the whip behind me to see how much I can take. But with each lash of the whip that I take, learning that I can take it. As long as you keep going, you bear witness to yourself of what you are capable of. And I find that incredibly satisfying in the trenches of misery when you have to go through it. But everything is your fault. Everything is your fault. Comes back to like you are the CEO of your life. If a business succeeds, whose fault is it? The person who orchestrated I was like the CEO. He said, "If a business fails, whose fault is it?" And it's the CEO. He said, "Rob, if you get to the end of your life and it's not what you wanted it to be and you didn't create the life that you wanted to, make the money that you wanted to, have the success, the love, the happiness, travel to places that you wanted to, whose fault would it be?" And I said, "It'd be my fault." And he said, "If you did create the life that you wanted to, you had the love, the happiness, the abundance, everything that you wanted, whose fault would that be?" And I said, "It would be my fault." And he said, "The problem with you is you're treating this treating this life as if you're the victim. And what you need to realize that everything that happens to you is your fault. and that your life won't change until you decide that you want to be the CEO of your life.