What’s Really Blocking Your Love Life (Deep Reading) | PICK - A - CARD

Hello beautiful souls, welcome to your pick a card reading. My name is Keri, I'm an intuitive channel and I'm really excited to be doing this love reading for you. Now typically my love readings are a little bit different than some. I like to take a very empowered approach to be able to open up, attract and manifest the love of your life and have a relationship that is thriving, healthy and really where you feel loved and cherished. So that's the way I tend to roll with my readings. So what we're going to be looking at today is what is blocking you currently from either ending up with someone that you really adore and that adores you or where are you possibly holding on to a relationship that may not be for your highest good. So we're going to be moving in that direction. So I want you to just spend a moment and tune in to which pile you feel the most drawn to. This would be considered pile one, this is two and this is three. I'm going to go ahead while you're doing that and clear the space with a little bit of copal incense and we're going to get started. I'm just calling in spirit, my guides and guardians, our higher selves and also your guides and guardians and just really giving you the highest good, the most clarity and the most authentic information for you to get to your manifestation of experiencing a loving thriving relationship. So let's get started. Pile number one, let's just get started with this for you. We're going to be looking again is if there are any blocks to love at the moment for you being able to open up and to attract the type of loving relationship you're looking at. So I'm just going to tune in and connect with spirit first. The thing that I'm feeling right away is I'm getting a sense of the chamber of your heart and as we know the heart is a muscle right but it is also an intelligence and so when we look at it we think about having an open thriving heart right and I feel like your heart how one feels bruised and a bit battered that can happen to many of us and I can see that here because what it says right here is healing is happening. You're not broken. Trust the process. It's safe to soften. That's what I was feeling actually because I'm getting a sense here that you have been working on wanting to manifest and to be in a healthy relationship. I feel like that's part of the reason why your heart feels a little bruised and broken. It's because you are looking at the pain from your past. You're looking at things that haven't worked out. You're looking at disappointments. I also feel like even though this is difficult for you the sense I'm getting is some of you have either recently broken up with someone or split apart from someone that you really thought could have been the one or could have been someone who had a lot of potential but some things within that relationship just didn't seem to come together or work out for you and we're going to look a little bit more so right away this makes so much sense the cards we're getting are the the number three first of all the number three always means growth and it means change but you can see this here because we have the three of wands and the three of swords the three of swords means past pain pain from our past it could be connected to the relationship but could also be connected to things from your from your youth or your childhood but there's a part of you that really believes in this and having this loving relationship a part of you really believes that you can have what you want you want to take a chance on that and so you're willing to make room in your heart and in your life for something that's a better fit for you I'm really getting I'm also hearing something about taking the stage so I'm just going to feel into what that means exactly take the stage there's a part of you it feels like that you literally are possibly a little more introverted shy and you feel things really deeply and so some of the things that you want in a relationship you're even having a hard time articulating because it almost feels like because of that sensitivity you're having to look at yourself from and bring your heart outside of you in order to put out to the universe or spirit what it is you want and somehow that feels frightening to you and I think that's because you have felt guarded for a long time so we're getting wow okay we're getting really this is part of this came up really quick so this is the king of wands which is a really strong masculine fire passionate energy with the ace of pentacles so let me kind of zoom in on what I believe this could be coming in so I believe that part of you intuitively feels like the kind of person you want to be with the kind of partner you want to attract the person that you imagine yourself with energetically feels very expansive feels like something different than you've had before part of that makes you feel pressure pressure as though you won't live up to the expectations this person has for a partner and there's a belief somehow that you think that you're not going to measure up compared to this person and I'm just hearing by the way from your guides they're saying that's nonsense that's the first thing I also feel like there is just to let you know there is like a I there's a spirit here who feels very familiar to you probably like a grandfather possibly a parent who really is your best your biggest fan and understands that you're a little bit introverted but also feels like you're the type of person who's so special you should be able to have what exactly what you want so let's talk about this partner this possibility it does really feel like part of you knowing the kind of person you do want to end up with you will have to open yourself up more to that and that doesn't mean you're changing yourself but it means that you're expecting you're expecting more from a you want more you want invest more and somehow with that you've confused it thinking that means you have to first of all live be something different than you are and it also puts pressure on you and the thing that I'm really getting is that you just it's a very much this thing that you have to deeply believe in yourself and who you are you've got to deeply believe in who you are okay so what I'm seeing here some of these cards are coming up here let me just explain this one says untrue stories that you tell yourself that's perfect you tell yourself bad things change your stories and see the good that okay you can tell yourself bad things but when you change your stories and you can see good things that can happen to people so part of that is you are telling yourself a story about yourself and about who you are and part of that is putting pressure on you therefore you think well how could I end up with someone like that if I'm always feeling like I have to be a certain type of person for them but that's not true the truth is you just have to get really comfortable with who you are and accept yourself and that will make you first of all much more open and also you're not going to try and be something you're not and the person that you will attract who is healthier and something much more close to what you desire will accept you for exactly as you are they're not going to want someone different that's what I'm getting so I am seeing that remember I said a little bit of the introvert in you this says unsocial you need to get out and mingle with the new people new people so you can meet someone so part of that is kind of getting out of your shell that's what I was saying because I think you kind of feel deeply and also you tend to absorb energy and part of the challenge of that comes from the fact that you have to be able to trust yourself trust yourself to know one you can take care of yourself in any situation and then trust yourself to know you are enough this is a big part of manifestation that's what I'm hearing so it's very important for you to really like yourself on a very deep level that's what spirit is mentioning okay I love this so we're getting this comment here which says fresh ideas stay open-minded inviting new perspectives to enrich your journey and spark creative solutions and I feel like that's all to do with you learning to open up and manifest the next thing I want to focus on is if you're doing this work on yourself meaning positive self-talk accepting yourself for who you are being more open really putting that in your awareness of the type of person you want to be with let's just kind of look at we'll do a loose forecast of what we can expect if that changes for you as far as timeline goes so there's a little bit of a stall here in that process and I that's not a bad thing whenever I'm looking at timelines I just want to say they're not fixed in stone they are they're not set in stone and they aren't rigid so if you change and you grow they can speed up but part of what needs to happen here we have the hangman and the empress so part of it what needs to be worked on first in order for you to be open to the type of person that you really desire and start a relationship the first thing I'm getting is about eight months and I don't think that's too long when it comes to someone that's more permanent so a little bit later in the year if things go forward in the way that you're working on yourself you're staying open and you're doing the self-reflection right then and also you're moving into your empress the empress is the ultimate receiving of energy she's the one who receives energy she's the one who attracts she doesn't chase she is the one who's creative she's got that loving grounded maternal energy and I feel like that's the reason it's happening the way it is it's happening the way it is so that you can learn to love yourself just the way you are and that you don't have to change anything about in order to fit in with someone that's just very important I'm getting right now so you want to definitely take a look at that so timeline wise I feel like I'm seeing like six to eight months for you to maybe be in contact with someone who would be much more suitable for what you're wanting let's pull a final card and see what we're getting here for you pow one trust the seasons that's perfect embracing the change cycles of life transitions and growth that just makes perfect sense with part of you in order to attract and allow in and accept the type of partner that you want changes will have to come within you to learn to soften open up trust yourself and really believe in yourself so trusting the process trusting the change you're on your way thank you so much pile one if you enjoyed this reading I would love to see you again if you could like and subscribe and follow I would love it pal to welcome to your reading I'm so excited you're here and I'm really excited and eager to get into your reading again just to go back to what we're going to be looking at today we're really looking at what is blocking love for you if you have a hidden block which might be pushing away or pushing off the type of loving relationship soulmate connection that you're hoping for so we're going to take a look and unpack this and see what we need to know and what you can be considering looking at possibly healing and exploring we have after the rain silver lining relief hope mercy it's over acceptance so I'm just going to sit with that for a minute I'm going to also tune into spirit and see what messages I'm getting I want to say pile two I do feel like you are hopeful and optimistic about love and I also am getting a lot of activity in my throat chakra which means I feel like you're expressing yourself more you're staying connected to your heart chakra your feelings I do feel like there's a lot of growth going on and for me I'm hearing you've been taking time for yourself so you have been looking within and deciding what kind of partner you want I also feel like you are not as drawn to the drama anymore you don't want to have to chase someone you feel as though almost like I'm hearing you've earned the right to have the kind of relationship you want which means you've done work on yourself which means that you have your own intuition your own spirituality your own growth that you've been diving into and part of that is it's your season now you're enjoying life part one thing I'm noticing about you pile two some of you I feel are enjoying being chased that's what I'm hearing and I feel like you're enjoying also maybe flirting a little bit and just not being too tied down just yet some of you but then there are some of you who are also ready to invest and maybe find the right person and finding the right person is key that is really important all right so I'm just going to pull some tarot again I'm just tuning in with spirit using my intuition and seeing what we get here okay so we have a couple of things happening here we have the knight of cups and the two of wands okay so these are all really good points but they so first of all the knight of cups is that is emotional relationship connection but also there's some still navigating and figuring out what is it that I want in a partner I'm not quite sure do I want someone that's really open do I want someone that's a little more reserved do I want to be with someone who's a good communicator already or figuring it out with me do I want to be with someone who has a good head on their shoulders or do I like being with someone who's spontaneous you're really navigating this and sorting it out and deciding what you want I'm really feeling a strong sense of clarity here as though you're using your intuition and your psychic abilities sort of reach out and do a forecast and decide okay what's this person what's their potential what are their values what am I interested in so you I don't feel like there's so much a block here for you pal to if anything I feel as though this is more about you surveying the landscape of what's out there potential partnership wise and really diving in and being curious about what potentials out there I think you have most of you have a pretty good sense of what a partner looks like for you and what a partner for you looks like is someone who is open to intimacy a partner who really will let things go I think that's important you don't like a partner who like gets pouty and holds grudges and is too emotional in that sense you want someone who is going to go with the flow more that is something I am really hearing and with that this feels exciting to you as though you've broken free from something some kind of a patterns types of people that you've been around before it seems like you've also some of you have been around people that held things in took things really personally and didn't always have a good sense of humor and I think part of that is something you really want you really want someone who's going to roll with it that's really what I'm hearing someone who's going to roll with it okay let me pull some more cards here so I don't see as much a block here in fact I feel like it's more about waiting and figuring out yeah see this is so positive here these are very strong life cards major arcana we have the chariot card which is a card of decision which is a yes card which is a balance card which is a positive masculine feminine energy card this is also a partnership type energy and we're going to do this together and move forward but we're also wanting the temperance card which is balanced and what I like to say is levity and there's a practical sense to you and I'm hearing from you not boring but someone who looks at things pretty rationally and so you don't get carried away with things in relationships that are not realistic now what do I mean by that I mean that you don't expect your partner to know your every single need you expect that you'll have to communicate things to them but you do expect them to I'm hearing hold the door open for you you expect someone to be a gentleman to be polite to have good sense of like I am hearing manners at least and to be a gentleman but you also don't expect them to be perfect so that is actually a very healthy sign that I'm seeing here and makes me feel like you've got just really the right frame of mind to stay open when it comes to creating the type of relationship you want this is so interesting okay so this is what I mean okay why I believe you've learned your lesson and here's what it says this one is this is from the past I believe this says too much you tell others too much about yourself all at once sit back and listen more so this is something I feel like a lesson you've learned already and then you have settling don't stay with someone who isn't right for you just because it's safe so here's what I'm getting I feel like in the past this is even like three four years ago possibly you have opened up more to people been a little more eager maybe put the cart before the horse in some relationships and because of that you ended up in situations that were not for your highest good I'm hearing and made you feel made it made it things more complicated is what I'm hearing and not what you wanted okay and because of that it feels like it put you in a place of not having as high as self-esteem about yourself so you ended up subconsciously thinking okay well this person's nice enough they seem fine but you didn't until you walked away from some of these patterns and really dug in and said I'm not going to do that anymore I'm going to really listen to myself and I'm also not a there's a big thing about not getting people's approval not meeting people's approval any longer so this is really promising I feel like you're in a really good space in this regard okay I want to see we're going to look at a forecast of what's the likely time of when you might end up with someone that you're really aligned with who is much more of like a soulmate type of connection or someone that's really serious all right so for me I'm feeling like this is probably not going to be happening until the fall this year when you're a little more serious and part of that is I feel like you're still in a place of self-discovery with the moon card and the ace of swords you're not quite clear on what is you want in a partner and you really want to make sure it's a good fit and the other thing is you don't want things to be complicated so there's a really really deep sense that you're going to take your time so that's what I'm getting so if you decided to you could move forward and really whenever you feel ready but I don't feel like you're ready yet I honestly don't feel like the time is right all right pile two thanks again so much for being here for this reading I would love to see you again if you enjoyed it would you please do me a favor and like follow and share hello pile three welcome to your reading I'm so excited you're here again if you just to refresh you about what we're doing today we're really going to be looking at if they're already hidden blocks to you bringing love into your life a loving partner that you would consider to be like a soulmate or a really good companion and so we're going to be taking a look at this energy starting right here and if this resonates fantastic and if it's not a good fit feel free to just release it also sometimes because these are timeless this might resonate for you at a later time here we have held sureness of the soul unseen help support and community all right so what I'm going to do is I'm going to just tap into spirit and see what I'm getting as far as this energy goes and what you need to know so the first thing I'm seeing is an image of you climbing up this ladder and this is not the type of ladder that you see like at a work site this is the type of ladder it looks like an old ladder something that would be on the side of like a in a village somewhere on a cottage it would be climbing up and pile three I actually feel as though you're a very spiritual person or this collective I'm talking to feels very spiritual and very tuned in and even so I feel like you might have had some dreams or daydreams in your imagination where you feel like this soulmate comes around you this energy this spirit of this partner that you hope and long for and what the messages I'm getting from spirit here as I'm tuning in is the main thing you want to focus on with that is how do I feel when I'm in this connection do I and based on that do I feel light happy do I feel excited do I feel clear do I feel in love does it feel authentic do I feel like I can be myself and spirits really saying take a look at those things and the main thing is be very open because this is the seed of manifestation for you so what this means is that this is how you draw in a loving relationship that's the partnership that you desire by feeling what it feels like to have it and being very open and pliable and flexible part of being flexible is that you're not fixed on the way it comes in when it comes in how it comes in but you have a sense of just being gracious and open so you're already on your way I'm hearing you're already on your way so I'm going to pull some cards I'm right away looking at the star card the star card is a sign of hope it's a sign of inspiration also I feel a lot of your loved ones and spirit around you pile three as when I was closing my eyes I was just getting this sense of being blanketed in your spirit guides and the souls that love you and on the other side so you're really protected I also have to say some of you I feel definitely have what I consider to be a grandmother on your mother's side or maybe could be mother or great-grandmother but a maternal figure on your mom's side who's coming in and just kind of like putting a blanket around your shoulders and tucking you in making sure you have something warm to drink and making sure that you know who you are and that you don't lose sight of that that seems to be very important pile three okay all right see what else we have okay this came up for pile one three of swords is coming up here for you what that looks like is that you are beginning to take a look at self love and maybe the way you speak to yourself how you limit yourself and you're also looking at or interested in looking at the root cause of things so you're really trying to understand yourself on a very deep level because your understanding is that if I understand myself then I'm going to be able to much more understand when I when the right partner comes in and I can attract what it is I want in a partner so it's not an unconscious I need someone outside of me to make me feel better it's that I open up and attract someone who reflects the love I have within me there's a couple of I'm not sure if you have an air sign placement in your chart but we're getting a lot of that air sign headiness in here so this is also a progression which is good we have the ten of swords but then the queen of swords so I feel like possibly in the past when it comes to being able to have a partner